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Help /biz/. How do I make myself enjoy sex with prostitutes? Every time I've gotten an escort, the whole encounter has always been really awkward and I always have trouble keeping an erection. Even with premium priced escorts that are like 8's or 9's, I just can't enjoy it. Fapping to porn unironically feels better than fucking these women. What am I doing wrong?

>> No.13552300

>>13552299
cringe and sage

>> No.13552338

Try not fapping for a week or maybe two before going to one?

>> No.13552345

>>13552299
Happened to me as well that first time I did it.

There's no solution to it but to relax, you're over thinking the encounter, that why your peepee is not working.

>> No.13552352

>>13552299
>can’t enjoy real 8,9’s
>faps to porn
>can’t realize fapping to porn is the problem
You sir, are braindead.

>> No.13552357

side note: next time i go to amsterdam, which site should i use?

>> No.13552362

>>13552338
I usually refrain from fapping for like 3 days before.

>> No.13552372

>>13552299
Tell more about your escorts.
How much do you pay, how long do they stay, their age, race, etc etc.
Need more info to help you.

>> No.13552377

>>13552299
Performance anxiety. Don't worry about it, you're PAYING them.

>> No.13552381

>>13552352
The escorts I pay for look as good as the girls in the porn I fap to. Also, I can only afford to get an escort like 2 or 3 times a year, so what am I going to do the rest of the time?

>> No.13552390

Stopped fapping since start of year with express intent of going to prostitutes. Shit doesn't work as intended till this day, but progress is being made.

>> No.13552393

What kind of porn are you fapping to?
If you're fapping to midget trannies being gangbanged by BBCs in every hole, then maybe that's your problem.

>> No.13552401

I am the fucking opposite, I can only get hard to prostitutes

>> No.13552407

>>13552381
Not be a beta and touch yourself? Maybe get on tinder if you have to. The longer you go without fapping, the more ambitious you become for some pussy. I imagine you also have a death grip when you’re choking your chicken. Self-inflicted embarrassment.

>> No.13552411

>>13552372
Only whites and asians 25 and under. They usually cost $500/hr and up since I live in an expensive city and I only pay them for an hour, because what's even the point of going longer than that?

>> No.13552419

your brain knows that you're cheating. the woman you're with isn't giving off any of the typical signals that she's interested in having sex with you, and you subconsciously realize it.

go fuck an ugly woman who will actually want your embrace.

>> No.13552428

>>13552407
I'm too ugly and old for tinder (early 30s). I tried it when I was younger but I never got any matches.

>> No.13552436

>>13552393
No, I don't watch any kind of degenerate shit.

>> No.13552472

>I always have trouble keeping an erection
Viagra or similar. to accommodate yourself to fucking normally.
Jelquing - shit works well for erection endurance.

>> No.13552477

>>13552472
I thought viagra was for when you physically couldn't get hard. I have no problem with that, it's purely psychological for me.

>> No.13552622

>>13552299
Same thing has happened for me.

I can't enjoy it with good looking hookers.
However it's nice when you go to 50 + y/o women, really chubby women and even Shemales.

Ugly younger women can be OK too.

>> No.13552634

>>13552299
Find a woman who actually wants your dick and stop sleeping with degenerate prostitutes.

>> No.13552649

>>13552634
>Find a woman who actually wants your dick
There's no such thing, because I'm too ugly and autistic. The only way I've ever had sex is by paying for it.

>> No.13552652

>>13552428
Hahahhaa to old get the fuck out of here, than you must be really spastic or ugly because tinder is infested with 30 y o boomers like me

>> No.13552664

>>13552477
Psychology is biology as far as boners are concerned.

>> No.13552667

>>13552652
I doubt there are many under 25yo girls with their tinder set to even see guys over 30.

>> No.13552700

>>13552667
You are incorrect.

>> No.13552716

>>13552700
In that case they're probably looking for rich guys, which I'm not.

>> No.13552734

>>13552299
The awkwardness is the best part. You are paying for it so since its an obvious up front transaction, you dont have to give a fuck because you are guaranteed sex. Embrace the awkwardness and get laid anyway.

>> No.13552800

>>13552716
You are correct.

>> No.13552812

>>13552716
From what I heard, the men that are successful with Tinder are the Daddies Money faggots squandering their wealth on things considered cool

>> No.13552836

Just kill yourself, nobody would care

>> No.13552855

>>13552411
You live in nyc don't you.

>> No.13552874

>>13552855
Yeah. It's the same prices in pretty much every major american city though.

>> No.13552917

>>13552874
>It's the same prices in pretty much every major american city though.
lol you know nothing jon snow. 500$ KEK. You're aware that high end escorts are the same that advertise for much cheaper?
Nobody in his right mind would pay 500$ lol, there are far cheaper options even in NYC.

>> No.13552919

>>13552436
That's your problem. You need some degenerate fetishes otherwise you might as well just date a girl.

>> No.13552921

>>13552874
How many different ones have you seen? Do you end up seeing the same one over and over?

What is your experience getting past screening. Most of them want to see ID, work confirmation, etc

>> No.13552949

>>13552917
Where are they advertising cheaper? The only thing you can find cheaper in NYC is massage parlors where you have to pay extra for every additional service, and it still ends up costing almost the same thing as an all inclusive escort.

>> No.13553042
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13553042

>>13552299
is eros.com a honeypot/scam?

>> No.13553068

Get the ultimate sex drug; ghb. This will get you so horny you will want to fuck a fridge if thats the closest thing thats avaiable.

Shocked at anons saying you dont have a chance being older than 30 on Tinder. Its maybe because im a eurofag but here things get way easier past 30's

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>>13553068
Im 32 and only match with 35-45+ women. Are you getting younger matches? I just get milfs but Im happy with it, just not sure if thats the norm for fellow boomers.

>> No.13553087

>>13553042
I've used it a couple of times, been lucky so far. It helped that the ad I answered was a stripper who I had gotten a handjob from at her club. The other one was her tranny roommate.

>> No.13553110
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>>13552874
in germany you can have 19yo cuties 9/10 from eastern europe for under 100€ per hour. one bj + 20min fuck is like 30€. what went wrong in the land of the free?

>> No.13553139

>>13552949
Man there are a lot of poor people in New York. Poverty = cheap hookers. Just do you research. There are a lot of brothels in ny.
also
eccie.net
preferred411
ter is closed but you still have the forum:
https://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/new-york-2

>> No.13553168

>>13552949
forgot adultsearch.com but never tried it

>> No.13553182

>>13553139
Poor people in new york are all either aids infested niggers or fat disgusting puerto rican spics. If you want attractive white or asian women, you have to pay a lot more. Asians can be cheaper, but the ones that don't have alien faces from all the plastic surgery they do are going to be expensive too. And like I said the "brothels" are massage parlors where it's cheap to get int but then you have to pay extra for blowjobs, sex, etc.

>> No.13553186

Im not gonna lie, youre probably to ugly and your brain knows it, *she would never be with me if i wernt paying*

>> No.13553190

>>13553186
You're probably right, but how do I stop thinking that way?

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>>13552419

>> No.13553194

>>13553110
this, germany is top tier for fuck prostitute

>> No.13553215

>>13553182
You can bareback a Mexican teenager for 150 bucks in New York parlors. Asians are 175. Plenty of skinny and cute ones.

Personally I'd rather save my money and enjoy a sex vacation to another part of the world than risk my security clearance on paid poon. Still the option is there.

One of the most beautiful vietnamese women I've ever seen in my life worked at a parlor in New York she could have been a model but was taking loads from fat old men for barely anything day after day. Bless her soul.

>> No.13553218

>>13553190
You cant, stop being ugly, or at least fuck girls on your range, is a genetic thing

>> No.13553238

>>13553215
>bareback with a hooker
Absolutely disgusting.

And anyone who would provide full service for only $150 is probably butt ugly. The market price for attractive women is $500 and up in new york, so it doesn't make sense that anybody would sell for less than that.

>> No.13553274

>>13553190
dude wtf is this beta shit. go to the fuckin gym, lose some kilos of your belly you fuckin retard and ask UGLIEST girl in the bar/location for the number. Not the fuckin "eee can i get your number"
>approach
>hi im derp, you look really cute (EVEN IF SHES NOT CUTE), and i decided to come and say hi

You fuckin idiot, you know why you dick ain't working ?

Because having sex with a girl who's into you, which you are cuddling, talking, kissing before is the way to go. That's why you dick ain't up.

Stop looking at some 10/10 girls porn and get a grip holy shit.

>t. 2or3/10 anon who isn't a fuckin idiot
>t.i got head bigger than a kitchen drawer

If You want any fuckin help to stop being autistic i am online for next 3 hours. Ask how to to deal with women and get a notepad you fuckin retard.

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13553282

>every high end escort requires 2 references
>have to fuck two 3/10's just to get with an 8/10

What the fuck bros? How do I get screened and skip the bullshit of needing references?

Amerifat btw

>> No.13553309

>>13553238
You are wrong and stupid and a pussy. I lived in nyc for five years 2012-2017 and visited parlors dozens of times. Only ever used condoms the first time with a new girl, and I only ever picked attractive and skinny women, and the occasional cute chubby latina since I like that. Most I ever paid for bareback from a parlor girl was $200. Avg price was 150-175. On top of the entry fee ofc.

>> No.13553332

>>13553309
>fucking dozens of hookers without a condom
Yikes nigger, enjoy your super aids.

>> No.13553436

>>13553332
i agree he's a retard for not using condoms but he tells you there are attractive girls in those brothels so just do your research.

>> No.13553439

>>13553085

Bizar, what country?

Matches are anything from around 24 to 40+ Age really doesnt mather here. Im 32 as well.

Head full of hair, old worn down boomer face. ZERO effort into putting on instagramish shots.

No brag/display of wealth whatsoever
(not that i have any besides a few shitcoin bags).

>> No.13553503

>>13553439
>ZERO effort into putting on instagramish shots
What kind of pics are you putting up then?

>> No.13553530

>>13552299
No porn for 3 months, no fap for 1 week, also live out your fetishes on her if you have any.

>> No.13553545

>>13552299
Maybe you don't like hookers

>> No.13553574

>>13552299
>I always have trouble keeping an erection
>Not dropping some viagra before so you are a fucking god to her

Not doin it right son.

>> No.13553636

>>13553215
>>13553309
Yeah I'm gonna need to know where to find these parlors

>> No.13553709

>>13552299
You have to practice with as close to the encounter you will have. Don't use you palm, but use a fleshlight to train your brain. Also do it in different positions like on your knees on the bed. Also do noporn.

>> No.13553724

>>13552477
Don't uses drugs just get a c@ck ring. Not metal, but rubber.

>> No.13553730

>>13553503

A clear facial shot, low effort selfie. Nothing wannabe modelish like the instagram kids. A party pic (some kindoff festival) to bump out the alcohol haters (boomers like strong beer) and a picture of something weird to block out the icecold bitches without a sense of humor.

>> No.13553765

>>13552667
There are heaps bro - I was knocking out 19-23 yo reasonably regularly until my Tinder age hit 40. That was definitely the falling off a cliff moment.
I still get the occasional match with under 30 - but now it is mainly 30+ It is terrible!

>> No.13553786

>>13552299
It's usually more about the thrill than the act. Maybe you should focus on a fetish for your sexual encounters. Besides good looking people in general are a bad lay. They are aesthetically pleasing enough that most people they have sex do all the work for them. Maybe your escorts aren't putting an effort or you're not asserting something you want. t. professional degenerate that profits from this

>> No.13554048

>>13553085
put 27 in age field on facebook. That might help

>> No.13554157

Just lmao at guys who pay for whores

It's like missing the whole point of sex completely

It's like injecting yourself with synthol instead of lifting and being healthy

Honestly how do guys live with it? I'd rather be a virgin or fap to hentai, at least you keep your soul pure

>> No.13554170

>>13552411
travel you fucken idiot. your $500 will get you top ten whores 10 at a time for two hours. you're a hopeless retard that doesn't deserve pussy even if it cost you your life.

>> No.13554531

>>13554157
Without hookers I would never be able to have sex. I don't have any other option faggot.

>> No.13554616

>>13553085
I'm 29 and don't match with anyone older than 29. Most of them 19-25 range. My upper age limit is 80 or some shit kek

>> No.13554730

>>13554157
Cut the sanctimonious bullshit. You're on the asshole of the Internet with the rest of us degens. Get fucked.
>>13554531
Pay that retard no mind.

>> No.13554761

>>13552299
>>13552362
You just need to try abstaining for a longer period of time. Try two weeks.

>> No.13554787

Porn is literally a viable substitute for you then. Don't waste your money. The thing you're lacking is companionship and love and that's obviously not coming from a hooker.

>> No.13554814 [DELETED] 

Who must you be to pay to damn fucking whores. Yikes.

>> No.13554877

>>13553765
>>13553068
>>13552812
>>13552667
>>13552652
>>13552428
>>13552407
How come Tinder is even a thing? I was under the impression that females are averse to casual sex and never seek it intentionally.

>> No.13554903

>>13554877
You thought wrong partner.

>> No.13554954

>>13554877
What...?
Females have TONS of casual sex, EVEN MORE than guys do.

They just all flock to 2% of the guys (the chads).
Even the uggo females get tons of casual sex, they just settle for 6-7s instead of 8-10s.
Whereas non-chad guys just stay as incel virgins.

Almost all girls are secretly sluts.

>> No.13555236

>>13552299
you get anxiety because you realize you're fucking completely out of your league
lower your standards

>> No.13555369

You probably can’t get it up because deep down you know that you have no sexual value to women in the real world. This is exacerbated in these situations where these attractive women would NEVER have sex with you in the first place. The only reason they are is because they are mentally broken at that current moment and feel this is the only way to survive.

Deep down you know this. You know that they would never want you, but would do it for money. You probably deep down want something real with a woman. But here you are in these fake circumstances looking for affection because women never gave it to you. The answer of “what do I tell myself to make it better” is not going to happen. Decades of pent up self hatred and rejection cannot overcome by some piece of information on a Mongolian hentai board.

The truth is: you’re fucked. You can keep down this path, but you’re only deluding yourself. These broken women will never love you or enjoy having sex with you. You pick up on this, feel inferior, and can’t get it up. Your insecurity is killing your boner. Or you can accept your problems, and begin fixing them.

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>>13555369
>You probably deep down want something real with a woman

Look at this white knight simp beta bux captain save-a-ho' bullshit. There's nothing "real" with women. They paint their face because they won't show their real one. They fake their breasts with fillers, their ass with heels, their lifestyles with carefully chosen pictures.

A woman is just a hole with a name.

>> No.13555542

>>13552299
god i want to lick those fucking feet

>> No.13555565

>>13555413
>can't refute anything he says
>go into an over the top MGTOW rant instead
stupid frogposter

>> No.13555579

>>13555369
this is dumb. the only reason you have trouble staying hard is because you're too self conscious of the situation. why is it that when you masturabate you have no problem? because you concentrate only on pleasing yourself. that's the mindset you should have when fuck prostitute: use her for your pleasure, treat her like a disposable fleshlight (but be respectful)

>> No.13555638

>>13555579
Could be that he's used to intense, constant visual stimulation of porn. This doesn't happen in real sex - You don't get to choose the perfect scenes to watch in 3 different videos to slowly stroke yourself into a stupor.

>> No.13555689

>>13552362

>I usually refrain from fapping for like 3 days before.

Try six months, if you fap to porn regularly then your brain is fucked, and it will take longer than a week without masturbating before your brain chemistry can go back to normal.
And when I talk about quitting porn, I say to quit everything, no visiting porn sites just to watch, no saving photos of thots on your phone, you cut all that shit out, and use the extra time you would waste fapping for lifting or reading, or even watching movies, the point is to cut porn or tempting images completely for your life, four or six months later, you will go back to normal, your lust will go back to normal and your dick will be rock hard when fucking, be a prostitute or genuine gf.

Just not touching your dick for 3 days is never going to cut it, your brain needs a lot longer to recover.

>> No.13555761

>>13555413
Lmao look at this bitter incel faggot right here. Cope harder.

>>13555579
Apparently you lack reading comprehension

>> No.13555762

What does this have to do with business or finance?

>> No.13556475

>>13555689
im part nigger and its physically impossible for me to do this because muh dick

>> No.13556699

>>13555542
You can for $800.