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Since I'm single, all I need in life is a one bedroom apartment with a decent kitchen.

This runs me $800 USD in my city
Groceries are $400 per month, car expenses are $400, other shit is $400

I can survive and be comfortable on 24k net, which is approximately 35k gross. I gross 110k a year and work 35 hours a week as a programmer with all the time in the world for my relatively cheap hobbies.

Explain to me why I should ever get married or have children. To me, it just seems like a massive massive scam that doesn't benefit me in any way.

>> No.12069446

Why don’t you focus on turning 21.

>> No.12069458

a life without challenge is boring as hell unless you're a beta

>> No.12069479

>>12069446
>hurr durr you don't want kids so you must be underage
Not an argument

>>12069458
>the only way to challenge yourself is by wifing up a roastie
My job is challenging and engaging enough.

>> No.12069492

>>12069424
Unless you truly love a woman and think she wouldn't leave you for some petty reason I would say don't get married especially the way the courts are stacked towards women with custody and alimony. Most women don't have loyalty like they used to, they are raised that it is ok to leave men when they are unhappy and not raised to work on relationships. You could find a unicorn and make it work but the relationship between the sexes is pretty fucked atm in the US.

>> No.12069499

Donald Trump got divorced twice, still became a billionaire and President.

Arnold Schwarzenegger knocked up his maid, his divorce hardly seems to have scratched him, and he gets along well with his illegitimate son.

It seems to me like divorce only seriously ruins beta males.

>> No.12069512

Roastbeefs are begging for your cheddar

>> No.12069526

>>12069479
The fact that you don’t think it’s a good argument definitely demonstrates that you are underaged. Some parts of the human experience are unquantifiable by a dollar value or a measurement of time.

There is literally only two choices, either you are underaged b& or a fully grown adult who suffers from legitimate autism and doesn’t understand anything that isn’t defined by measurable increments

>> No.12069537

>>12069526
>t. gramps, the other extreme

>> No.12069540

>>12069526
>hurr some parts of le human experience are unquantifiable by a dollar value
Fuck off normalshit, go back to facebook.

>> No.12069550

Do you want sex? Kids? Someone who knows you really well and has for years?

If yes, you need a woman. Whether you sign the marriage contract is up to you.

>> No.12069563

>>12069540
lol at people taking pride in their mental disorders

>> No.12069617

>>12069540
>shut up this secret club is for AUTISTICS ONLY

ok faggot

>> No.12069643

>>12069617
Leave. You don't belong here and you never will.

>> No.12069671

>>12069643
lol "belonging" says the assfuck begging for life direction

>> No.12069684

>>12069671
I'm not begging for life direction. I'm looking to see if there's any compelling actual arguments from the pro-marriage crowd.

So far, it looks like there are none!

>> No.12069695

>>12069424
me me me

Get over yourself cunt. Typical zoomer attitude, evolutionary dead-end.

>> No.12069714

>>12069492
>Unless you truly love a woman and think she wouldn't leave you
Making any guy think what she chooses is any female's primary objective in life. In fact, they're experts at that. No female has any problem making you think she'll stay with you forever and then monkey branching as soon as it fits her interests. Her female instincts and the opinion of the sluts around her are stronger than her love.

>> No.12069726

>>12069424
there is absolutely 0 reason to get married. As a man you can only lose from this deal, AT BEST it will be neutral financially. Having a kid or a few though makes sense when you have a fortune and want to pass it to someone you care about. Unless you feel like spending it all before you die that's ok too.
Never get married tho, roasties are financial parasites who think their vaginas are a compensation for everything as if sex was a 1 sided pleasure or something. Fuck them, never marry

>> No.12069737

>>12069526
I've been divorced twice. So, I have experience with the marriage arrangement. I would say that, in my parents day and age, marriage was viable as adultery and thottery were shamed publicly. Today, however, we live in a society that celebrates the lowest forms of degeneracy and any woman you find will be some form of a used up thot. She will be independent and insist upon independence, she will be a provider, she will have demands and she doesn't need you, except to impregnate her so that she can play house along with all her thot friends.

>> No.12069741

>>12069726
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GfBvZo-3ydo&t

>> No.12069767

If you marry a woman who is not a virgin, you are marrying a used condom.

>> No.12069803

>>12069643
You’re a child cunt I have been here since 2004. You are a product of the habbo raids we never should’ve done, and which you don’t even know anything about.

>> No.12069821

>>12069803
>pretending to be an oldfag by mentioning the habbo raids you read about on ED
pathetic

>> No.12069861

>>12069424
Marriage isn't for everyone. Most men wouldn't even benefit from it.

First, if you don't want kids, forget about it. Marriage is the legal framework for which you build a family. Don't marry a "career" woman, marry a woman who wants a family and understands the importance in division of labor. The ideal state is that your wife takes care of your estate while you are out expanding it. You could argue that all of a wifes services could be outsourced and that is true, however that is orders of magnitude more expensive.

>> No.12069884

>>12069424
Procreation is the whole goal of your existence even if you might not like it. Marriage is a legal construct originally intended to help you raise said offspring. The most obvious benefit left is taxes if you don't earn equally well.

The modern problem is that the possibility to scam the man got increasingly more fostered by legislation. Furthermore our media&culture fosters this behavior also far stronger nowadays.

The real scammer however isn't the women. It's the system that wishes to exploit you for your labor force while forcing you into avoiding your sole biological purpose and then replace you with some immigration you pay to educate with your labor over taxes. Essentially the system learned to perfect fleecing you.

>> No.12069887

>>12069684
Yes, there are tax benefits. I am married to a very smart and successful girl that I love very much who supports me emotionally and is unironically my best friend. Combining our income, we’ve purchased a nice home that she has made a hobby of decorating and such. There are many benefits to being married and I am much happier married than I was when I was a lonely, misanthropic 19 year old faggot like you. So, again, I’ll say, focus on turning 21. Believe it or not, your worldview will change dramatically by the time you’re 30 and you eventually stop thinking you know everything and realize you were an ignorant, arrogant faggot with no sense of how to live a fulfilling life.

>> No.12069893

>>12069861
>Don't marry a "career" woman, marry a woman who wants a family and understands the importance in division of labor.
Marry a unicorn. Great solution.

>> No.12069915

>>12069893
You guys need to get out more. I met my wife at a gas station. You never know where you are going to meet someone that is surprisingly special that doesn’t fall into your fatalistic view of women.

>> No.12069920

>>12069887
You are a fucking normie. You wife will begin to feel trapped in that house will her friends are out adventuring and riding exotic cock. Then she will resent you for trapping her, then she will gtfo and leave you high and dry. It's always great the first few years. Lovey dovey 'we're not like all those other couples who fight and get divorced' then it starts to fall apart because you will never be able to give her what she has been programmed to believe she deserves.

>> No.12069930

>>12069887
>all these assumptions
I'm 28 dude, stop projecting your 19-year-old self onto me.

>> No.12069934

>>12069915
>accuses us of being fatalistic
>half of marriages end in divorce
50/50 crap shoot, roulette wheel spin that maybe she'll stat with me through thick and thin. Fuck that shit.

>> No.12069935

>>12069887

>it worked out for me lol
could've saved yourself writing a textwall with no argument beyond that

>> No.12069938

>>12069424
Congrats, you are a very well programmed NPC.

>> No.12069955

>>12069684
No OP, there aren't.

Look at the fucking statistics 75% of marriages end in divorce. If I told you I kill 3 out of 4 patients I doubt you'd lie down at the surgery table for an operation.

Because that's what happens in marriage... you're gonna lose half or all your shit.

Don't mind that woman are responsible for 80% of all divorces. 80 fucking percent. Your decision will weigh almost nothing and you'll be at her mercy every night you go to bed fearing that she might wake up with her horns up and her head upside down and ruin your life just to brag to her friends or because that's what she feels like doing that particular day.

Plus, remember females are most attractive starting at 16 and steadily depreciating until their value tanks in their thirties with sire feet, back pain and sagging boobs, treating you like trash till that point and parasitically clinging to you as a beta provider after she realizes she's no longer worth what she once was...

while YOU, on the other hand, start in the gutter and have to work your way up rising in value till your fourties where your status, stability and resources at that point attracts the most females you will ever be able to in your life.

In short:

Smart people are not married and married people are not smart.

>> No.12069961

You all are unironically never going to makeit. Jesus fucking Christ.

>> No.12069965

>>12069938
>signs jew, government document
>becomes married
>good goy
accuses non-married person of being an npc

>> No.12069972

>>12069424
vk

>> No.12069979

>>12069965
I am bringing life into this world. You are contributing to the extinction of your race.

>> No.12069988

Here’s another reason for you faggots: you can marry a lot more money in five minutes than you can make in a lifetime. You don’t have to marry a broke, useless piece of shit that offers you nothing but a fuck hole.

>> No.12069989

>>12069979
>I am bringing life into this world
fuck this world, it's not worth a squirt of piss.

>> No.12069991

>>12069424

In ancient times marriage was considered a way to let your carnal urges out in a safe-sure way, since they all knew love just was possible towards god and the relationship with him, in Paul letters you can see that he recommends to marriage if you can't control yourself, but don't get into marriage if you can handle it. Also it was a way to let women be safe in their future by creating a relationship with a stable male

Nowadays it's totally perverted from the original meaning, so marriage is effectively a way to scam yourself, for god it's better to do good deeds than to just have children, if you want children make sure to find a good woman and that's hard as fuck

>> No.12069994

>>12069499
You're talking about 2 guys that have more money than they could ever spend you faggot. Half of fuck you money is still a lot of money. If you're an average guy making $150k/yr and you lose half now you're living as a poorfag in perpetuity. Marriage is for cucks. If you want to have a kid go for it you don't need to be married. Woman have careers now, you don't need to sign a contract with the government giving them half your shit like a retard.

>> No.12069998

>>12069955
There are ways arround your problems desu.
If you want a beautifull wife in old age just check her mother, if she's a milf you're save.
If you want to marry and keep your money there are financial constructs to hide your cash. Personally i don't give a shit about marriage but getting officially married if you find a valuable women that cares about it while keeping your cash save ain't such a bad idea.

>> No.12070000

>>12069988
you will never satisfy her, you will always be looked at as a leech and a bum by her and her family. you will look like a gold digger. Trust me, this comes from experience.

>> No.12070005

>>12069989

Based and redpilled

>> No.12070011

i wanted to marry my oneitis i talked to online for 5 years, but i found out she had a penis. i wish i was larping

>> No.12070018

>>12070000
Nice projection

>> No.12070034

>>12070018
tell me how I'm wrong, generally speaking. present to me a situation in which a wealthy woman and a poor man get together and the man doesn't look like a leech. And don't reference a movie.

>> No.12070047

>>12069424
Biggest scam of marriage is nature
The only thing compelling you ever to be with a woman is your penis nagging you 24 7. So after sex/jerking off women arent needed. Just have a couple girls you dump your cum in and do whatever you want.

>> No.12070048

Take the colonizer-pill. Travel around the world and knock up ethnic women with white babies.

>> No.12070049

>>12069955
>Don't mind that woman are responsible for 80% of all divorces.

Ok compelling argument if you can provide a good source for this stat.

>> No.12070050

>>12069979
>I am bringing life into this world
NPC tier thinking

>> No.12070067

I've seen both sides of it. I know friends who got married and saw it totally fall apart with each one. One dude has been married twice, has got kids via both ex's and is on girl no 3 now. He's only 35. To be fair all of them jumped into it way to quick at first. All were married by age 23.

Me, I saw what my friends went through; said fuck that. I took my time, didn't really consider the whole marriage deal till I hit 30. By the time I hit 32 I finally got with this girl who I got to know well. We dated for a few yrs. Finally married last year. Been swell ever since. I let her move in about a year before we got married. So the actual marriage ceremony was no big thing. I'm 35 now. We both agreed on things before we married. Talking is big. Couples who don't talk are half doomed already.

>> No.12070072

>>12070047
sounds good, youngin. only problem is, lonely becomes a real factor as you get older. pump and dumps don't take care of loneliness. I'm single, 46, divorced twice. I'm happily single, for the most part. Finally clawed my way back from financial destitution after the last wife wiped me out. I'm good looking, smart, funny, blah blah blah, fuck bitches, whatever. But having an empty house to come home to every night is no prize, I'll tell you that.

>> No.12070089

>>12070049
It's common knowledge, brainlet. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-new-resilience/201508/women-initiate-divorce-much-more-men-heres-why

"The study, based on a survey of over 2000 heterosexual couples, found that women initiated nearly 70% of all divorces. "

>> No.12070099

>>12070072
she took you to the cleaners?

damn

>> No.12070104

>>12070067
>married for a year
>thinks he's different
>presents his marriage as an example of one that's worked
>a year
fuck off

>> No.12070106

>>12070089
No it isn’t, and your source is extremely questionable, but I am willing to explore this with more research of my own

>> No.12070107

>>12070072
get a dog

>> No.12070127

>>12070104
>that reading comprehension
kys

>> No.12070129

>>12070099
Child support and lawyers plus court costs will eat you alive. Plus normally the wife get's half of whatever you earn or buy during the marriage. The key word is "during". Shit you had before the marriage is off limits which if your young at the time ain't much.

>> No.12070135

>>12070072
You're a fucking loser, jesus christ. Stop being dependent on some chick that will eventually divorce you for your money (which has happened to you twice) and doesn't even like you for you to feel comfortable just being you in the present moment. Holy shit

>> No.12070144

>>12070099
Fuckin a right she did. My first divorce happened when I was 27. I didn't have anything for her to take. My second marriage we accrued a lot of assets, assets I earned. Like a house(which I made all the payments on,) cars(which I paid for,) investment portfolio and cash in bank. It was a hotly contested divorce. I would go into more details but not going to. It was fucking ugly. It made the local newspaper here.

>> No.12070145

>>12069424
Without allowing a woman to destroy your life, it's impossible to be a real man. Man up and have some kids for the state to brainwash and for the woman to use against you before and after the divorce.

Besides, I need beta providers to take financial care of my breeding vessels. Come on, be a real man.

>> No.12070156

>>12070129
damn. i don't know if that happens here in Europe or not. probably.
what if you had money on crypto that your wife doesn't know?

>> No.12070158

>>12070106
wtf. everyone knows that women initiate the bulk of divorces. have you been living under a rock for the past 40 years? probably just your moms basement.

>> No.12070172

>>12070072

If lonely you mean you miss the family life, you will still miss if you have a marriage with children and wife, there is nothing that can make you get the feeling of having your mother and father in house when you are young, it's gone unless you go to the religion route

If lonely you mean you miss a girl, then buy hookers and calm your flesh, but you will still feel the desire just a few hours after, you just can't fulfill desire by giving into desire, it's like fighting an addiction, the mind will seek any kind of bullshit to make you give in and the only thing that you can do to avoid falling in is having faith and shutting your mind off

>> No.12070173

>>12070107
I have a dog and a cat. They do keep me company. But they can't laugh with me when I'm watching a funny movie or cook dinner with me or tell me they love me.

>> No.12070177

>>12070144
>It made the local newspaper here.
oh shit

>> No.12070178

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KE5GGMhmo-M

>> No.12070194
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>>12070144
>Like a house(which I made all the payments on,) cars(which I paid for,) investment portfolio and cash in bank.
glad you survived
you should write a book

>> No.12070199

>>12070127
You were married last year. You said it yourself. What do I need to comprehend? That you met her 4 years ago? That's irrelevant. Of course everything is great before marriage. And things will be great for the first 2-3 years of marriage. Then she realizes it's not so fun anymore, it's actually work and she doesn't want to do work, it's not supposed to be work. It's supposed to be a fairy tale cuz that's what the tv shows tell her and she deserves to be happy every minute of everyday. And if she's not happy, it's because of you and because you're not right for her. You naive, stupid, married motherfucker.

>> No.12070203

>>12070104
So far it's working but you know the saying "hope for the best but plan for the worst?" Well I planned shit out in case of divorce. I love my wife, I didn't just marry her after 6 months or whatever and pull some quickie marriage thing. But before we married I took steps. Half my net worth is hidden away. No paper trail leads to it. This is legal; during the divorce any assets you both earn/buy while your married is fair game. Anything you had before you married is not. Plus there is no paper trail for any lawyer to find. So unless I tell my wife about the hidden nest egg it'll remain hidden just in case.

>> No.12070212

>>12070199
you got the wrong dude

>> No.12070220

>>12070135
Easy there. I never said I wanted to be married. I simply said that loneliness becomes a factor as you get older. And I assure you, it does. A dog doesn't fix that, regardless of what your mgtow forum tells you.

>> No.12070223

>>12070203
>Half my net worth is hidden away. No paper trail leads to it.
how? they must have your name in that...
unless..

>> No.12070244

>>12070220
I felt as though I conquered those feelings after my early 20s. Perhaps living on my own for all my 20s is a factor here? If so, sounds like doing so is as early as possible, while painful at first....pays off in the long-run?

>> No.12070251

>>12070172
Nah, you don't get it. Likely because you're much younger than me. I'm talking about the loneliness that comes from not having anyone to share life with, share experiences with. That new movie that you love, that album that's been on rotation for 2 weeks, that epiphany you had while taking a walk, a hard day at work and someone to give you a hug. All those little things that you feel, think and experience...but no one to share them with. That's what loneliness is, to me.

>> No.12070255

>>12070223
Trust me it's hidden. No bank statements of any kind. But it's all legal; I don't cheat the IRS. That'd only cause more headache than I need.

>> No.12070257

>>12070212
hopefully he read it

>> No.12070261

>>12070178
kek

>>12070251
>He says on 4chan
We not good enough for you, fucker?

>> No.12070267

>>12070255
I call it my "Emergency Fund" Cute, right?

>> No.12070271

>>12070251
Yeah...your friends can be all that for you dude lmao

>> No.12070274

>>12070255
listen here buddy, unless you paid in cash for some assets (house, boat, casino, whatever).
now i got curious how you do it. did you pay in bitcoins/monero to make it untraceable or something?

the only way to be truly untraceable is pay in cash (in a local with no cameras)

>> No.12070280

>>12070261
>We not good enough for you, fucker?
you are

>> No.12070286

>>12069979
>human population exploding at an unsustainable rate
>planet will be an unliveable hell hole in the near future
>"I made more humans. I am a hero!"
If you want to contribute to the future of the human race the best thing you can do is kys

>> No.12070296

>>12070286
>kys
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Voluntary_Human_Extinction_Movement

>> No.12070297

>>12070251

Unironically read the gospel of john and take the leap of faith

>> No.12070301

>>12070271
my friends? here's my friends; a sad sack bank teller divorced father of 3, another sad sack electrician divorced father of 3, and a bi-polar father of 2 who's wife calls me once a month to come talk him down from hanging himself. I love my friends, but they got their own shit going on.

>> No.12070303

>>12070286
The breeding ones are the shitholes who get pumped with help x charity money. Every welloff nation is below sustainable rate and will suicide as a culture.

>> No.12070310

>>12070297
a leap of faith into what? what are you suggesting fren?

>> No.12070312

>>12070301
why not adopt a kid or something?
have you thought of that?

>> No.12070319

this thread is pure gold
gonna save it for future use

>> No.12070322

>>12070303
>Every welloff nation is below sustainable rate and will suicide as a culture.
not if we keep importing shitskins. all we're doing right now is just funneling the wealth of the world up to the top 5% while the rest of the world's population goes into third world mode.

>> No.12070331

>>12070072
Ya im not a beta like u. I wont be lonely when im single or lonely anyway.

>> No.12070334

>>12070312
the thought has crossed my mind, but I have no desire to raise a shitskin baby or some deadbeat's kid.

>> No.12070347

>>12070048
Based. I did this in 2016.

>> No.12070349

>>12070310

a leap of faith that there is more going on than just feeling happy, that life is just a test against your soul to see if you can struggle without becoming a cold heart that hates everything and everyone

>> No.12070351

>>12070274
Online banking. Simple yet effective. I got 4 accounts.

Physical Bank (this is known);
Checking Account
Savings Account

Brokerage Account (Semi known)

Online Bank w/savings account (Hidden)

Once I linked the Online bank w/my Physical bank and transferred the dough I cut the link.
The only little thing I do is mark on my taxes each year any interest income I earn from the online bank account. Such a small little note; with all the other shit on the tax forms it's easy to overlook one little thing or two but it keeps the IRS happy.

>> No.12070362

>>12070331
oh, ok mr. impervious. nothing gets to you, you never get lonely because you've got it all figured out. you're such a fucking alpha. and a shit talking little prick.

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>>12070334
hmm
why don't you do like Ronaldo and get a surrogate mother (he paid a lot for that though because he's a millionaire) ?

this guy has 4 children already and no mother to be seen. he raises the children along with his mom.

>> No.12070373

>>12070322
It's still suicide as a culture. The immigrants don't adopt your values. You simply get replaced with a new culture as your own dies out.

>> No.12070374

>>12070351
this is good and all but nowadays to open any account you need to give your name, address, SSN, etc the whole shebang

unless you are given fake info

>> No.12070389

>>12070351
Keep in mind I did all this before I got married. So under the law I keep it all. My name is only one on the account.

>> No.12070394

>>12070349
I don't hate everyone and everything. I don't think I've given that impression either. I said earlier that I'm happily single, but that I do get lonely. I like my job, I like where I live, I like my friends and family. I'm not a complainer. I'm a realist. For a long time i've known that happiness is a scam. It's doesn't exist in perpetuity. It's a fleeting moment. By the way, I have faith.

>> No.12070404

>>12070374
Oh this bank already had my info; I have a credit card account via them.

>> No.12070417

>>12070404
so you're traceable, my friend.
you need to do more than that to go "off the grid"

>> No.12070418

>>12070404
But I don't use the card that much; it's for when major shit happens that needs fixing fast

>> No.12070422

>>12070373
I don't care. This world is fubar. I have no desire, nor have I ever had any desire to try to make the world better because I don't believe that's possible. I've been watching the shitskin hordes flood in for 30 years now, I've watched feminism take over and faggotry and degeneracy spread at an unbelievably rapid pace. Our trajectory is not a gradual one. We're heading down and fast.

>> No.12070439

>>12070389
>thinks he can hide his wealth from court appointed investigators and divorce attorneys
>thinks he won't be charged with contempt of court and perjury for not disclosing all of his assets
woo boy

>> No.12070443

>>12070417
How? My wife knows nothing about it. No bank statements of any kind come in. There is no online link to track. Unless I tell her how would anyone find out. No one would think to look cause no evidence exists of it

>> No.12070455

>>12070443
a simple credit check would reveal it

>> No.12070458

>>12069737
Maybe you were divorced twice cause you were a beta faggot

>> No.12070461

>>12070443
>Oh this bank already had my info; I have a credit card account via them
c'mon bro, are you serious?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z7M71wmwWRo

>> No.12070471

>>12070422
Personally i'm just waiting for the robot revolution. Labor is the only value most people have and once that's gone they can be removed. I'm doing even my part and went into machine learning to accelerate it.

>> No.12070473

>>12070301
Shit friends man, you can always get new ones. Don't aim for any that are sad/divorced or have mental problems, that'd be a good start. You're clearly surrounding yourself with people that have an incorrect way of handling life due to their utter sadness. This is a projection of yourself. Hence, change yourself....get new...better friends. Come on...

>> No.12070476

>>12070351
hmm, does the IRS know about these accounts? Yes. Is your SSN# attached to these accounts? Yes. Can a judge order full disclosure of all assets? Yes. Will your wife's attorneys file a motion to investigate your assets? Yes. And with a court order banks and brokerages have to disclose your assets.

>> No.12070484

>>12070473
>get friends at 40+ age
hmmm

you don't always get what you want

>> No.12070494

>>12070458
yeah, that's it. you've got it all figured out.

>> No.12070508

>>12070443
Anyhow I have this little nugget of legal shit as my trump card:

The word “commingling” is often synonymous with “lottery winnings” to one spouse; and “gambling losses” to the other. If you have an account that has funds in it that you either 1) owned prior to the marriage; or 2) received during the marriage as inheritance or a non-marital gift; and then mixed in your earnings from your pay, or joint funds from another bank account – then poof! The entire account becomes marital. Why? Because the courts consider money to be “fungible” meaning that once that marital dollar goes in, you can’t tell which dollar is coming back out. So Rule #1 – Keep your separate funds separate!

So since I did all this before I got married it stays mine.

>> No.12070513

>>12070473
dude, these are guys I've known since middle school. We've been through shit together. They're good guys. Yes, they are sort of pathetic, but to me, every human is pathetic, including me.

>> No.12070534

>>12070508
>So Rule #1 – Keep your separate funds separate!
It stopped being yours the moment you signed the government contract of marriage. Any monies earned during your marriage are marital assets, including interest on your "hidden" accounts. And if you stay married long enough(which I highly doubt) for her to file for alimony, it doesn't matter anyway. You will pay her. She will get your money. If you knock her up, you're fucked for life.

>> No.12070622

>>12070049
>if you can provide a good source for this stat.
C'mon anon, seriously. The National Center for Health Statistics has had those stats out for over a decade already (1990 - 2000: Monthly Viral Statistics Report Vol 43 No. 9). And the periodic studies by Stanford University and others (2009-2015: How Couples Meet and Stay Together) are just for continual reaffirmation of what everyone already knows.

Not only woman are responsible for almost all divorces, 90% of them have one or more college degrees.

Stop looking at marriage like a fantasy and look it as a business (like any woman worth her salt would) and you'll realize it's one of the most profutable businesses on earth...

BUT NOT FOR YOU.

>> No.12070905

>>12070303
Intelligent nations control their populations. When there's a lot of space and resources they have a lot of kids. Once resources start becoming scarce/expensive they have fewer. Shitskin nations aren't capable of thinking about the future so they just breed like rats despite the fact that they and their children will live in desperate poverty because of it.

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>>12069424
You're right OP. Jacking off, playing vidya and watching anime is truly a meaningful way to spend your time and won't lead to suicide. I am glad you won't Kys in the foreseeable future. Don't kill yourself OP. Don't. Kill yourself OP

>> No.12070957

>>12070365
Partially correct. Pretty sure one of his kids is with his gf and the others are surrogate.

>> No.12071020

>>12070373
You are correct, but trying to outbreed niggers, Mexicans, or Muslims is a lost cause. Every white couple would have to have like 10 kids each just to get to break even. Not happening. But here's the good news. You'll be dead in 50 years before they completely take over so who fucking cares. Your grandkids are completely fucked but that's your fault for creating them you sadistic asshole.

>> No.12071213

>>12069884
This. Well said, Anon.

>> No.12071254

>400 per month for car expenses
what a waste

>> No.12071335

>>12070000
Checked

>> No.12071395

>$400 a month in groceries for one fatass

>> No.12071615

>>12070099
no shit you are never going to win when family court is full of man hating feminist. The system is so corrupt that cops just kill their wives after she initiates a divorce because they understand very well the divorce system.

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>>12069737
Listen to this man.
Sucks that he had to get divorced twice to get redpilled, but he speaks the truth.

>> No.12071765

>>12070932
Good one anon, but here's a better option:

Instead of jacking off, playing games and watching anime he can do what he thinks is best for him without a woman reking the peacefulness in his life and redecorating his home from top to bottom, followed by redecorating him as well.

He can even make plans in his life without having to find the woman has something totally different in her mind and instead of ending up doing what he likes they'll have to do something that pleases neither of them.

OP can even go watch football without having to spend the whole match looking for where she lost her wallet.

Especially passing is not having a hoard of her relatives descending upon OP en masse, especially her over-inflated mother with a voice that shatters glass.

Not having a woman nagging him all the time for advice on meaningless shit that he replies concisely and then she goes out to do exactly the opposite of what he told her, is one of the best reasons...

Because then he won't have an army of her friends entering his house endlessly chatting and blabbing like maniacs demanding to know what the heck is wrong with HIM??!?

While you're busting your ass to try to tie the knot (most likely around your neck as you'll find out later), instead, OP will be leaving the toilet seat up, fucking all the hookers he wants and plenty of other shit.

>> No.12072404

>>12069424
You didn't mention friends anon, do you have any?

>> No.12072428

>take half your money

In most developed nations if you are in a relationship with someone for 2-3 years then you are a defacto couple and so the same ruling would apply if she was to leave you and take you to court over your “shared assets”, she would still get half your shit

Enjoy only ever being in 12 month long relationships for the rest of your life I’m sure that will be very fulfilling for you, at least you will protect your shekels when you’re dying alone and there’s nobody to help take care of you and love you

>> No.12072842

>>12069994
>average guy making $150k/yr and you lose half now you're living as a poorfag in perpetuity
Listen to what you are saying you spoiled faggot

Even if you had to give half your salary away you would still be living better as a code monkey than I do living in europe working in finance

>> No.12073808

>>12070011
Things you only hear on 4chan for $200 Alex

>> No.12073842

>>12069424
>Explain to me why I should ever get married or have children.
>it just seems like a massive massive scam
You're assuming your "wife" wouldn't have any income.

I'm splitting 50/50 on common expenses with my lower income gf of 6 years, and I paid more for a lower standard of living housing wise before than now. Being in the shared space heating wise is also great. We live in a 2150 square feet house with great heat isolation, a yard and only one neighbor that has no way of seeing into our property.
For my share of our expenses, I would only be able to afford a 645 square feet apartment, feeling boxed in and not having a proper space outside to sit with a cup of tea in the morning and watch the lake with complete privacy.

>> No.12075093

>>12070932
Look at how assmad the idea of not being a woman's slave makes some anons. That's how you know it's the correct choice

>> No.12075112

>so many mad roasties in this thread

>> No.12075142

>>12069424
Having a Child is important for your genes dumbass. If you did not already get that and ask that here your genes deserve to die with you, one less tard in the world, and it will get better. China is already doing it in laboratory.

>> No.12075150

>>12075142
>Having a Child is important for your genes dumbass.
When I die, I won't care about >muh genes. So what's your point?

>> No.12075155

>>12075150
Is it bait?

>> No.12075157

>>12069424
Imagine there was another you, your own clone who could hold a job, let you be in 2 places at once, and in general double your productivity. Now rather than your own clone, there are some minor differences, like they don’t mind doing this thing you dislike. Now imagine they have a vagina. That’s basically a wife. If you can find one, they’re great. If not, well, you sound pretty satisfied anyway.

>> No.12075158

>>12075155
Explain to me why I should care about >muh genes without resorting to >muh biological imperative tier arguments

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>>12075158
>What is life
Please do not reproduce.

>> No.12075174

>>12075168
>muh biological imperative
You failed at the one simple requirement I asked of you.

I don't care about that shit. So your arguments don't work on me

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>>12075174
>What is logic
I said indeed do not reproduce.

>> No.12075215

>>12075209
You can't provide one single argument for >muh genes that isn't based on the flawed concept of biological imperative. Very sad. I feel very sorry for any kids you may have, they'll inherit your low IQ

>> No.12075221

>>12069424
If you don't want to get married and have children then don't. There is no reason if you don't have the biological drive to do so faggot.

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>>12075215
I provided one which you excluded after, why not exclude it in your first post already then?

>> No.12075295

>>12075221
He is too low IQ too get it. But he thinks he is so smart he found the meaning of life and baits others in the Black Hole of ignorance he has in his ass.

>> No.12075315

>>12075278
>he still can't provide an argument for caring about the future of his genes beyond >muh biological imperative to reproduce
Really sad. You're only convincing me further of how retarded your position is.

>> No.12075375

>>12069424
Getting married is a shit idea in the US, as well as living with a woman for an extended period of time (common law marriages, what a fucking ridiculous concept)...

But having children means that you provide humanity with a new person who takes from your genes. Might be beneficial for humanity as a whole, depending on the quality of your DNA.

The only question is, do you care in the slightest about other people or are you purely egotistical ?

That's all there is.

If you're an egotistical moron, you will have children. If you're an altruistic smart man, you will also have children.

Altruistic morons/weaklings and egotistical smartasses don't.

The choice is yours. All that matters is your personal way of life. Make a decision according to it.

>> No.12075476

>>12075295
He reminds me of the average redditard. They think they are awakened by their intellectualism because they have figured the meaning of their lives has "evolved" past children and relationships. The smugness when they scream this to the world is funny to me, as all I see are the shouts of an ignorant. Children and family are ingrained in our biology, it is what made us so successful as a species. It's sad to see that even walnut size brained animals understand their role, yet these retards think they are above it all. Enjoy life, dont have children, enjoy hedonism and mindless entertainment, hell I encourage it. People like this are broken and beyond fixing. There is a reason their genetic code should be let to die out.

>> No.12075564

>>12075476
>Children and family are ingrained in our biology,
>muh biological imperative
Wow retard, you're repeating the same thing over and over again. Wouldn't be surprised if you're a samefag.

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Seems to me there are 3 camps in this debate:

>married cucks/potential to get married
These people are your typical NPC’s and have been completely programmed by the media to think anything besides a white picket fence and a wife and 2.5 kids is an utter failure. They will go to all ends to fulfill this fantasy including taking on hundreds of thoasands of dollars of debt to reach this “dream” to fit in with the other NPC’s. These guys aren’t bitter incels but haven’t played the field as much and think they have to settle with the first girl that will tolerate them. They almost always become slaves to their wives, turned into a work horse cleaning the gutters, mowing the lawn, repainting that spare room and paying for his wife’s vacation to the Bahamas with her girlfriends in exchange for the privilege to be able to build that man cave in the basement of the house he payed for to drink and watch sports ball games in. What a lucky guy!

>bitter incels who have never touched a woman
This group needs no explanation, sour grapes sums up their situation. Most would drop all the red pill shit they spew in a heartbeat and sign away their life for a whiff of pussy.

>”redpilled” men
I hate to use this term as it’s sort of become cringe at this point but this group has had success with woman, more so than most men and realize women’s true nature isn’t like the Disney/romance movies. In fact this group recognizes their manipulative and deceitful ways as well as lack of loyalty. It might have taken a divorce or two, age and witnessing of other failed relationships/marriages of friends etc but they realize what a risk marriage and women in general are. The question for this group becomes “how do I kill that biological need to need a companion/mate yet keep my individuality and assets?”

>> No.12075597

>>12070089
are there any requirements in order to write blogs on psychologytoday? just the other day i saw a post about slut-shaming being bad, since women have to discover some kind of sexual auras and should therefore try having intercourse with as many different people (or maybe also non-people = animals?) as possible, in as many different situations as possible. which is then somehow enlightening or something... i don't think it's a good source, anon.

>> No.12075609

>>12075585
And judging by your post, you fall under the second group.
>>12075564
This fucking idiot. Don't you fucking understand? That's all there is! If you don't see the value in that, then there is no mother fucking point on you doing it. Thats what I'm trying to tell you you fucking brainlett. There won't be any convincing you in the matter. You either have the biological drive, or you don't. You have a hard time with simple concepts don't you?

>> No.12075619

>>12075609
> Don't you fucking understand? That's all there is!
Yeah, if you're an NPC.

If the only value you see in life is reproducing life some mindless insect, you are an NPC.

>> No.12075638

>>12072428
>>12075375
fuck common law, complete bullshit that you can be together for a few years and then suddenly they're entitled to half of your shit when you haven't signed anything

I overheard some group of half a dozen 50yr old cackling hens at work spewing out some shit like how they like "engineers... but not software engineers, I don't like them" kek
They know the game, in their mind they think a blue collar is a brainlet that who will fix shit and won't realize what a shit deal it is. Anyone smart enough to look at what they get out of it knows it's a shit deal and won't get caught up in it, especially not for expired roasties lol so they don't even consider that as an option

>> No.12075645

>>12069526
>Some parts of the human experience are unquantifiable by a dollar value
get the fuck off my board

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Eventually everything will die out, what the point in spreading your fucking genes? Its fucking pointless. Heat death of the universe is inevitable. And in addition to that humans are fucking monkeys who would gladly kill each other if a chance will present itself. WW3 is a real risk, and nuclear weapons are no joke. Humanity will find a way to kill itself. So some way your genes will die out too, earlier in some war, or later when whole universe fucking dies out.

>> No.12075678

>>12075619
Ok bugman. You are so enlightened and your life is so much more meaningful than the npc's. You are deluded, it must be scary to you to consider the fact that your life really is meaningless. You consume endlessly to keep yourself distracted from this fact. You see, even the most wealthy families make it a priority to pass on their line, im assuming to you think of them as npc's. If you dont want to have children that's fine, just know the fact that you are broken and inferior to even starving africans if this is the case.

>> No.12075688

>>12075664
>what the point in spreading your fucking genes? Its fucking pointless.
Then what is the point in living at all? Push that reasoning to its natural ending and commit suicide immediately, you brainlet.

>> No.12075692

>>12075664
>muh everything is meaningless because muh universe heat death
wow, you so smart. Why even be alive then?

>> No.12075705

>>12075664
Wow, deep. I'm glad at least someone has the universe figured out. Who would have known it would be an edgy depressed teenager to do it though?

>> No.12075717

>>12069479
you wouldn't have mentioned having hobbies and working 35 hours a day if you were actually challenged at work. the whole notion of "hobbies" is completely alien to the male condition, especially when we know you're talking about video games and manga, and not sports or building things - you're literally inventing make-believe activities because you don't face enough adversity to fill your day

>> No.12075732

>>12075688
>>12075692
There is no point in living, but since im alive, id rather have fun and live an interesting life, instead of wasting 20 years of it on raising some creature that has a few % of my genes and fucking only one woman like some cuck, while being at risk of a woman taking 50% of my assets and forcing me to pay child support.
If you prefer to live a cuck life, i dont judge you though.

>> No.12075751

>>12075678
>reproducing is the entire purpose of life
And you call other people bugman? You think like an insect.

>> No.12075762

>>12075717
>sports or building things
I just remembered that I'm discussing things with a bunch of failed normalfags and facebook-tier boomers.

>> No.12075769

>>12075732
>Raising some creature thay has a few % of my Gene's
Be thankful your parents weren't as retarded as you. I see you are just a kid and your brain is yet to develop. I'll leave you this piece of advice, only a cuck gets cucked by his wife. If you are afraid of this happening, well can't help who you are then. Good luck on your quest.

>> No.12075770

>>12075609
The NPC strikes out at others whose viewpoints differ from his reality tunnel making him feel threatened like a caged animal, In reality that’s all he is. Notice the ad hominems he uses “virgin!, redditor!, incel!” Tell me do you ever reflect on your own thoughts and ever think that things aren’t black and white?

>> No.12075793

>>12069424
>To me, it just seems like a massive massive scam that doesn't benefit me in any way.
Remember this on your deathbed.

>> No.12075798

>>12075751
I'm not telling you what other people think. I'm telling you the reality of life. You can achieve a lot in your life, but the only reason you are alive and made the organism that you are, is to pass your genes. That is a fact whether you like it or not. If you decide you are past that that's on you.

>> No.12075823

Because Stacey is going to need a beta provider when she is done fucking Chad. You don't want to leave Stacey out on the streets now do you? Think of it as a public service you will be doing by housing, feeding, caring, and maintaining Stacey and in return you get the comfort of Stacey continuing to fuck Chad and no longer have to worry about the economic or social consequences.

>> No.12075827

>>12069492
the voice of reason

>> No.12075838

>>12075770
Projecting? Who is fearful here? I'm simply telling you what you are here on this earth to do. You are not anymore special than the chicken you had for dinner. You'll be forgotten just like the rest, but at least you lived your life the way you wanted to.

>> No.12075859

>>12075798
>I'm telling you the reality of life
As perceived by an NPC. The NPC is unable to consider that there may be a "reality of life" beyond what he is immediately able to feel and think of.

>> No.12075881

loneliness is the #1 killer

>> No.12075882

>>12075859
This, if you think the entire purpose of human existence is just to shit out more kids you are destined for a lifetime of serfdom and wave cuckoldry. Re-roll again in your next life and maybe you’ll find a purpose and mission.

>> No.12075912

>>12069934

>Half of mariages end in divorce

No shit because we have betas like >>12069737 racking up the numbers. A really big portion of those divorces come from second, third, fourth etc marriages.

>> No.12075927

>>12069915
a gas station KEK

>> No.12075929

>>12069930

>Is 28
>Acts and thinks like a 19yr old

Yeah I think he hit his point home, faggot.

>> No.12075944

>>12075717
>the whole notion of "hobbies" is completely alien to the male condition, especially when we know you're talking about video games and manga, and not sports or building things - you're literally inventing make-believe activities because you don't face enough adversity to fill your day
How miserable are you anon? Most people have things in life they enjoy. I like to cook. I like history. I like to look at maps, learn things about places and put markers on them. I like music. And yes, vidya, movies and books are also things that I like. Travel, who doesn't like that? The idea that all men should enjoy nothing and only work 24/7 is insane. If there actually is nothing you enjoy you actually really should kys

>> No.12075956

>>12075881
Actually #1 killer is being trapped in a life that you hate with no way out of it. Like say living with a wife you don't love anymore because you can't leave your child.

>> No.12075995

>>12075859
>>12075882
This is some good entertainment. I'll go back to my original point then. You ask: "I make all this money, why should I have children and a wife?". The answer? If you are asking this question, you shouldn't. Those with the biological drive to do so will have children and find a partner that will willingly nurture their seed for 9 months. If that answer is not satisfactory to you, then I'm sorry to disappoint. Tyrone is definitely not gonna miss out on his opportunity, he is a smarter than you bugs.

>> No.12075996

>>12075838
>You are not anymore special than the chicken you had for dinner.You'll be forgotten just like the rest.
No wonder you think marriage and family are the only things that will bring you purpose, you're a nihilistic loser otherwise!

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>>12069424
>Explain to me why I should ever get married or have children
you shouldnt youre on the right path. you'll only get cucked and become pic related

>> No.12076032

>>12075995
>>12075995
>Tyrone is definitely not gonna miss out on his opportunity,
Ah the truth comes out. You're not insisting I have children for my own benefit and happiness, you're insisting I have children for collectivist reasons such as race, you don't give a shit if it makes me personally miserable

>> No.12076034

>>12075995
>admits he only did it because his monkey brain made him do it
>still acts smug about it
LMAO. My monkey brain likes to gamble, but I've got a human brain on top of it that stops me from actually gambling because gambling is dumb

>> No.12076051

>get married and either end up living a miserable life with a nagging wife that you hate or end up getting divorced and lose everything
>b-but my genes that are irrelevant to your life and wont end up getting passed by your children either way with the rising degeneracy and tranny epidemic

is there something more cucked than getting married?

>> No.12076063

>>12076034
>>12076032
You are so fucking smart, you entirely missed my point! Good job geniuses! +100 upvotes to both of you

>> No.12076097

>>12076063
>autistic screeching because his poor reasoning and ulterior motives were called out

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OP is a kike and loves nigger cock

>> No.12076131

>>12075859

And the reality of life perceived by a member of superior masterrace is to masturbate to hentai in their man cave and achieve wizard powers by staying virgin until they are 30.

>> No.12076136

>>12076097
I don't care if you decide to neuter yourself. I told you the truth of the matter, you either accept it or not. It really is that simple.

>> No.12076148

>>12076136
>I don't care if you decide to neuter yourself.
And that's why you're still responding right?

>> No.12076152

>>12069695
Cuck

>> No.12076170

>still not realizing that we’re all just farm animals for the government and instead of milk its tax money

>> No.12076176

>>12075956

not what the data says

>> No.12076179

>>12076032

> you don't give a shit if it makes me personally miserable

Ah the truth just came out. You're assuming everyone who has kids is miserable and hates their life even though you are merely barking from the fence with absolutely 0 experience.

Didn't it occur to you that a lot of people enjoy having a family? If you don't enjoy it then you're free to live as you see fit.

inb4 "hurrr durrr they must be npc if they enjoy having a family"

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>>12069458
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nE-vb8tXVEg

>> No.12076200

>>12069424
So what will you do in your life? Buy stuff and smell your own farts while playing video games? Having children is your purpose on Earth. If you don’t, you fail at life.

>> No.12076233

>>12069526
>t. poorfag who tries to justify his decisions by telling others that "he is the real winner in the end"
get the fuck off this board

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>>12076148
>>12076115
Notice how the kike didn't respond as it would have been admission

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>>12076200
>Newton, Tesla, da Vinci, Pascal, Leibniz, Erdos, etc were all losers because they didn't reproduce!
is this what wagies really believe? Is this how they cope with their miserable existence? they tell themselves they are successes because they were able to fulfill basic biological function of shitting out a kid?

>> No.12076253

>>12076233
he is the winner. you're an ugly faggot who won't have children or leave anything to the world.

>> No.12076275

>>12076239
I didn't respond to your post because it was low value white noise that wasn't really that interesting, equivalent to dialogue from NPCs.

Now give me a quest or GTFO.

>> No.12076315

>>12076252
>muh Newton, Muh Tesla
They did do the world a service though. Many were able to keep on reproducing and living longer lives thanks to them. Even these incel's achievements revolved around the purpose of letting others reproduce and for humanity to continue their lineage. No reproduction, no incels that make it easier for humans to continue their task. Everything revolves around the continuation of the human species, including the work of these geniuses who spent a childless life of celibacy on their grand works. Thus humans have exponentially increased in numbers. They cucked their lives so that others may fuck and have children for ever on.

>> No.12076319

>>12075585
You forgot the hate against brownies and darkies because while we debate they procreate.

>> No.12076337

>>12076315
>that retard who thinks Newton invented penicillin

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>>12076253
Your post just screams butthurt

>> No.12076356

>>12076337
>wut is calculus and physics?
>wut is engineering and technological advancement based on these principles?
You are too fucking stupid to realize it

>> No.12076369

>>12076356
Calculus didn't lead to the invention of modern medicine you retard. How stupid are you?

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>>12076369
(you)

>> No.12076382

>>12076369
>Calculus didn't lead to the invention of modern medicine you retard.

HAHAHHAHHAHAHHAHHAHAHAHHAHA

WEW LAD!

>> No.12076399
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>>12076319
That group usually falls under the second grouping, they know they won’t reproduce so they LARP and try to convince others to despite if it will make them miserable or not. Pic related are actual 4channers at Charlottesville kek.

>> No.12076411

>>12069424
So that not only the low iq subhumans control the gene pool, traitor

>> No.12076434

>>12076411
See >>12076399

You don't give a fuck if marriage/kids will make me personally miserable or not, you are making an argument from collectivism.

So why should I listen to you seeing as how you clearly don't have my best interests in mind?

>> No.12076467
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>>12069424
have a gander, OP

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>>12076467
oops wrong image :D :D :D

>> No.12076484

>>12076434
Op if you don't want to get married and maybe have kids it's because you fail to grasp the concept of love and commitment. You probably have some mommy issues that need cleaning up before you're able to see beyond yourself.

>> No.12076495

>>12076434
Anon I can’t tell you what will make you happy, all I’m doing is laying out other viewpoints so you can paint the whole picture and come to a decision yourself. Personally I would love to find that unicorn of a woman to share my life with. My direct experience with women and the direction our culture is heading has made it seem like a pipe dream however.

>> No.12076512

Obviously if you need validation from 4chan and get THIS bootyblasted when most people here disagree with you, something is missing in your life

>> No.12076567

Cool wine aunt: the thread

>> No.12076592

>>12070534
But your wife has no right to any money that you earned prior to getting married, right?

>> No.12076710

>On this episode of /biz/letts say the darndest things:
>>12076369

>> No.12076747 [DELETED] 

imagine treating this game as an autistic competition instead of just enjoying farming and grinding

lmao fuckin no life nerds

hardcore players = incels

>> No.12076900

>>12070251
You sound like you have enough of a pussy for two.

>> No.12077522

>>12076434
my problem with your argument is that it rests on the axiom that you could never find a woman who can control her biological urges enough to be a good wife and give you children that enrich your life (the way you say travel or video games or whatever will) and also that you will always and forever be able to control and resist those urges, even if it's just regret late in life that you didn't attend them - maybe that happens or maybe it doesn't, but you're still taking a gamble.

No one here is saying you have to give up everything you like to have a wife and raise a family, in fact it's on you if you can't find a woman who wants you to have those things it's entirely on you. But you're too afraid of what you read has been done to women and 'society' on these boards to go out and even look for yourself. And you will never know the joy of that connection and that family that many, many people from all walks of life, through all modern history, have had. I'm not citing it for procreation or collectivism, I am citing the very real selfish joy that can only be had through family.

You are saying that you are more control of biology than billions of people who could potentially make your life better if they had that level of control. I don't buy it

I know it's a lot to digest so go ahead and pick one point you think you can argue against and completely ignore the rest, as I'm sure you will

>> No.12078573

>>12069424
if you dont see the benefit then maybe there is none for you

>> No.12078633

>>12069424
mine supports finacially 100% me and her. living, food, car, everything. since the last 2 years while i get good at trading and coding. she just liked me and its been all good. she pays for everything and tells me how awesome my art is. im short, too like under 5 10

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>>12069915
ive been going to the same gas station at my college every few days for 2 years, and have never once had the opportunity to ask out a girl there.

What the fuck are you on about?

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>Just find yourself a good woman and you won't get divorce raped
this is what beta males unironically believe

>> No.12078914

>>12078732
>ive only had sex with 11 other guys
jesus christ....

its stories like these that make me appreciate being single