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I feel like I've pissed away my 20s lads. I've done FUCKING NOTHING except sit in front of this damn computer making money. Social life died at the end of HS (not that I had much of one)

I'm rich as fuck. How do I relive my 20s properly? I don't feel old and I look younger than my years (I look mid 20s max). Is it possible?

I'm also a KHV so where do I start?

>> No.7346490

ill come suck you off for o' couple eth mate

>> No.7346507

do steroids, ur probably an ethiopia
/fit/ is that way>>

>> No.7346564
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7346564

>>7346443
get some hobbies. Get over yourself and approach women in real life. Uninstall 4chan from your desktop and mobile. Spend some $ and go on a trip. Keep in touch with people and initiate times to hand out with people,
Its not too late anon, you can still land a 18yr old qt.

>> No.7346576

>>7346443
>I'm rich as fuck. How do I relive my 20s properly

You can't. And if you try you will just be that pathetic old guy.

>> No.7346637

>>7346443
Columbian sex resorts

>> No.7346658
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>>7346443
Fucking travel, fuck many grils, have fun, etc... BUT MOST IMPORTANT: BURN YOUR FUCKING COMPUTER.

Get the shitiest chromebook for email only, and get a dumbphone.

>> No.7346724

I've wasted my 20s working my goddamn ass off in a stressful job and saving as much as I could, but that amounted to peanuts compared to what some people here have and it's miles away from retirement money.
Also, I live in a shithole.
I'd say you're doing well.

>> No.7346731

>>7346443
bro just go traveling across europe and asia, Dick down girls and have a good time. How'd you make your money, bitcoin in 2011?

>> No.7346759

>>7346443
when i turned 30 i quit my high paying stressful job and spent 6 months traveling. get a paid tinder subscription so you can change your location and match up with tons of hot asian bitches before you get there. very easy to get laid and very inexpensive in asia

>> No.7346764

maybe stop spending time on the internet
maybe stop saving/ posting/ looking at girls who turned 18, 4 months ago

>> No.7346773

>>7346443
Same except I'm 25 and still fucking poor.
>I'm rich as fuck. How do I relive my 20s properly?
Got to college and party hard.

>> No.7346786

>>7346564
Lol, bitch got left on read while James become Chad. Absolutely BTFO

>> No.7346860

shit im 22 almost. been telling myself to change asap or id be 30 with no money, gf, skills, degree, job nothing

>> No.7346951

>>7346576
be 30
bit of a manlet pass from anywhere between 20-25
Go on nights out with the younger girls from work
Nobody gives a fuck cos I dont look like the old guy
Been living as a 21 year old for the last 9 years of my life
The only thing thats keeping me sane.

>> No.7347032

>>7346443
Just do wtf you want to do
fuck age if you dont make a thing of it in your own head then nobody will even know or ask
Like that other faggot said go travelling, alone, its the most liberating thing ever.

>> No.7347099

>>7346860
get off this site lad...
t. 26 and was thinking the same as you at 22. have done nothing. thought crypto was my big break.

>> No.7347105

>>7346860
same wtf.

>> No.7347116

>>7346443
I had a gorgeous 19 year old girlfriend at 31. Never had that in my twenties, just a couple fat bar pigs. Also poor as fuck

>> No.7347122

>>7346564
Tell me this is real

>> No.7347133

>DO ROIDS
>HIT THE GYM
>GET NICE CLOTHES
>HIT BARS/NIGHTCLUBS EVERY WEEKEND
>DANCE/TALK TO RANDOM PEOPLE
DONE

>> No.7347155

>>7346443
>I feel like I've pissed away my 20s lads
your social fate is usually already made by the time you reach 10 or 14 years old. if you were the kids that was popular you will remain popular and end up being in the "in" crowd.
if you were one of those study kids you already have graduated in med school or law by now and have a long time girlfriend and already moving up in the company because your life game was to follow guidelines and do them well.
if you were the delinquent kids you may have had some times with other kids but in the end you have come out with a dui or two misdemeanors and have a job in construction, warehouse or restaurant service, you frequent the lotto as much as you do in your 30s. you may punch out a kid or two but youll recieve financial help from family or the state althrough your spending habits remain the same.

if you are a chump, you are the stay at home person looking for ways out. in the end you are the chump. your 30s will be a waste because you are still blind over the next big thing. you wont see it coming or maybe you do but you ignore it. you cannot move up from this social set.

>> No.7347165

>>7347099
Once you're here, you're here forever

You don't have to be beta though

>> No.7347231

Time to give half of your wealth to me and then go party with me for the next 3-5 years.

>> No.7347272

>>7346786
>>7347122
It's fake

>> No.7347290
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>I look young for my age

>> No.7347300

>>7346951
but anyone who gets to know you will realize the truth of your life.

>> No.7347302

>>7346860
>>7347099
>>7347105
how it really is going to be
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2HXOU4uIwAI

>> No.7347346

>>7347155
False, nigger

I was 100% in the "in" crowd up until the end of hs, when I went off to college and being not a richfag able to not worry about finances and join a frat, I lost nearly all my friends but for when we all come home in the summers

>> No.7347362

>>7346443
if you got rich off of bitcoin and are now just entering your thirties you now have about 5 years to turn yourself into a renaissance man. Start lifting weights. Go on test. Pick up hobbies. Start socializing with women. Don't date them. Buy a house. Learn how to be a provider and father figure. Find a conservative woman who wants to settle down and have babies and get to fuckin.

>> No.7347472

>>7346443
Hey anon, you're not the only one. What you're experienced happened to me at 28 as well, and yes you can. You have the means to do it.

>>7346564
Listen to this anon. Travelling is key, def not a meme. Talk to people, talk to european and south american lone women in the 21-24 age range. Never lie about your age. Talk to men all ages, at all times. Make friends.

Go outside and do it.

>> No.7347509

Is it even possible to develop a social life if you've never had one? I'm in my early 20s.

>> No.7347573

>>7347509
I'm sorry, not in your case. You just suck at life.

>> No.7347587

>>7347573
Do you mean people like me, or just me personally?

>> No.7347629

>rich as fuck
how many millions? thats really your key to success right there

>> No.7347650

>>7347587
Both

>I've never had a social life
This is your problem, you've set yourself for failure.

>> No.7347669

>>7346443
Not to make you feel bad OP but the marriages which have the lowest rates of divorce by far are of those that are wed between 25 and 33

>> No.7347728

>>7347346
youre still part of the in crowd but my intuition sounds like you grew up in a small town or smallish population in comparison to a state college. frats are made up of a higher ranking than what you are used to, almost all the popular kids dont go to frats because there not the caliber of people to join. the ones that do are the valedictorians combined with the football team stats, "those" people. perhaps you had one or two in your graduating class maybe not. theyre rare or rareish. and they are the type of people who follow orders to the dot and perform high ranking, they are easy to break too considering why they are initiated into fraternities. most importantly these people usually end up in religious universities as a priority rather than join state schools until their profession is chosen. law, sports, and business make up a majority of the frats you hear that rave and party, they are also above the "in" crowd by miles due to their concern of staying within the lines or to be expelled.

>> No.7347751

>>7347300
I already know the truth of my life, the damage can not get any worse than that.

>> No.7347825

>>7347650
What do you mean? I've had friends, I just never actively pursued them because Aspergers and I really didn't care.

>> No.7347843

>>7346860
Ah fuck me this is too real

>> No.7347961

>>7346860
Leave now and never look back.

I have been using this site since 16 and told myself I'd never turn out that way and had so much time... turning 28 in April still kissless virgin.

>> No.7348009

Whatever.
Grass is always greener etc..
I was poor and traveled a lot throughout my early twenties. Now I'm 29, in final year of uni, still poor and feel like I wish I put more time into making money when I was younger. Money will start coming this year, but it feels like I fucked up hard.

>> No.7348054

>>7347825
Nevermind. To answer your question, I guess it's possible -- but if you didn't care for it at some point, do you care now? I guess if you did, you'd be developing one instead of pondering on it.

>> No.7348107

>>7346443
College in a normie major full of chicks - economics or finance with psych minor. You're welcome

>> No.7348163

>i've done nothing but get rich as fuck
did better then most of us then

you think 4chan is the place to come to for social advice?

>> No.7348189

>>7348054
>I guess if you did, you'd be developing one instead of pondering on it

literally all I do nowadays is ponder like this. It makes me think deep down I don't care about anything. I probably don't.

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>tfw 25 this summer
Is there truly still time?

>> No.7348221

Your looks and height decide your life. It is destiny. Just think of ways to get back at the people that wronged you

>> No.7348238

>>7346860
Relax brah, you will do it at your own pace. I was in the same situation when I was 22. Now I'm 26 and I have a bit of money, gf, degree and a good job.
Still, I'm unhappier now than I was in my younger careless years.

>> No.7348257

>>7346443
Go on trips to other countries, one month at a time. Rent an apartment or stay in a houseshare, join a language class, rent a bicycle and enjoy the local attractions. You'll have a good time.

>> No.7348258

>>7346860
GTFO now. I pissed away my twenties, failed out of university and literally my only hope was crypto and I struggled to get some in this shithole country. /biz/ doesn't even allow begging. I am fucked beyond repair, I can't get a job because nobody wants a late twenties failure. I don't have money to start a business and my parents are dead after leaving me 30k which I pissed away shitposting all day and partying because: "lol almost have my degree I can take things slow and just enjoy life", guess what never studying and being here sucks you in and you wake up one day hopeless about your future.

>> No.7348375

>>7348221
This would be a great answer if OP's question was "how to be a resentful overly-dramatic faggot". Everything matters a bit. Nothing matters too much.

>> No.7348442

>>7347728
I grew up in Columbus Ohio mate,
I'm saying it's hard in America (likely other 1st world places too) to make friends
Society is untethered and unbound from eachother
Our cities are not walkable so you need a shitty car and to live in a box away from others
When you do go out, the only real meeting places where people want to meet people are bars and the like, wherein everyone is moving about, both physically and mentally, no one stays in one place and thus can't form a bond with other people
As my friend who when into rotc said, the only way to make good true friends is to do or work toward something together for a long enough time
Sure there's work, and sure there are clubs (both kinds) but those often only last until it's time to move on somewhere else, either do to work or otherwise

>> No.7348546

>>7348189
It sounds you need to get moving. You sound a bit depressed -- in the literal sense, low amounts of seratonine, etc.. Irregular sleep maybe? Too much tinkering?

Too much pondering leads to pondering on pondering -- you want to stop the cycle, turn off the computer for a full day, start walking, visiting places, whatever, activating the almonds -- again, literally.

Stop analising the whys (xxx b/c I never cared for it, yyy b/c I've aspergers) and start acting just on the whats (xxx and yyy, do I want it or do I want them changed?).

Just act, don't offer explanations.
>Why no friends?
DON'T: b/c aspergers, b/c I didn't care.
DO: No matter why anymore. Do I want them? OK I'll get them. I don't want them? OK I'll search for what I want.

Act.

>> No.7348757

>>7346443
your problem is that you unironically believe in the fiction called "social life" when it's really just normies jostling for control over each other in dumb, petty games

if you made money then enjoy it. all you need to impress these hoes is money anyway

>> No.7348758

>>7348546
This.

>> No.7348808

>>7346443
imagine your situation without the money part and just being poor lel.

>> No.7348861

>>7348808
many of us don't even have to imagine

>> No.7348991

>>7347116
Where did you meet?

>> No.7349482

>>7348991
Also curious

>> No.7349880

>>7346443
i'm in somewhat similar shoes, minus feeling the need to 'relive' my 20s. i'm just fine w/ being rich 30s.

maybe we could share ideas on our options or smth?

bizbiz2@outlook.com

>> No.7349881

>>7348107

can confirm. almost 30 and just started going back to college. all upper division classes, so no annoying kids. maybe 1/4 of the girls think i'm old but the other 3/4 act quite favorably. the guys are either cool or intimidated, and the girls are either trying to get my attention or blatantly nervous/smitten

if i were trying to slay i would be. im holding back just like I am with the housing market. roastie bubble is popping too. gonna wait for the worthy to reveal herself

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>>7349881
>roastie bubble is popping too.
sure thing buddy