/biz/ - Business & Finance

>>57575008
i am in the same boat i just turned 30 and kept my hair and figure and now the women are like 10x more interested in me that back in college. but the cruel irony i'm barely attracted to the women my age now and it's apparent that this trend will continue idk what to do

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>>57575008

I got a ton of attention working as a bouncer back in the day. Same thing with working in kitchens

Now I work in a small place so I don't see anyone. I go to the gym every day but I don't interact with people there because I'm there to lift heavy shit, punch/kick shit, and work out my demons in general.

I, like you, put in minimal effort. My dating profiles always fill to the brim with the standard 34-44yr old roastie rotation.

I am inherently antisocial so I do not have great advice for you here, as most of the attention I received from 16-30 was the misguided notion that being quiet/reserved = 'being mysterious'

>>57575252

I should add that I was in a couple relationships from 20 to 31 years old so my skillset is outdated for today's post-apocalyptic dating scene

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>>57575008
yeah this is a great question, and im sorry but you were scammed by society. there are 30 year old waiters going through 20 year old waitress girlfriends every month.

the women you can get will charge $200 for a coffee date if theyre attractive. and it will always feel like theyre pretending to like you. because they are. because youre aging and dont take care of yourself. they had their fun and now theyre in "work mode"...with you... hoping for betabux.

sorry but it could be much worse. you could be 40 in this situation. at that point its fucking OVER

>>57575270

basically you and this guy
>>57575204

are mega ultra cucked. there are deadbeat tattooed barely any networth chad-lite guys that are like 28-34 who fuck young 20s girls even teens all the time. go out IRL, often these guys arnt even looksmaxed either.

its 2 things, exposure and mindset. but if your some gigawagie that works all the time, just know you are getting ultra cucked by some deadbeat who barely works lol

>>57575346
meant OP and this guy
>>57575204

>>57575204
Same I am in better shap as I always worked out but I find most left over girls now are all used goods or hoes. I litterally went on 3 dates in a row that said they either had a sugar daddy profile or met one. I have nothing about or insinuating success on my profile
>>57575270
Well I could get girls the problem is I’m not around them, at university it was amazing we would go out all the time and they were everywhere, now all my friends won’t go out as they’re wifed. if you wake up at 5am, work all day in an office, go home late either gym or sleep, there’s no time for all this dating and shit

>others are married
I'm getting tired of your shill threads. 70% of 30yos are unmarried.

And the best age to date was 10 years ago when you were in college and tinder wasn't totally fucked, or 4 years ago when covid made sluts think they were gonna die so they were apocalypse fucking, you're a moron and now you deal with single moms or college zoomers thirsty for daddy dick.

>>57575204
>they're 10x more interested
>I'm 10x less
>btw I have a lot of money
Oh wow no one saw that coming. Reminds me when I was 28 this fat uggo who was in debt was trying to hop on my cock because her boyfriend was dumping her and I had money. Women are pathetic.

>>57575346
I have my own company, hardly a wagie or anything like that but I get the point and I made it in the original post. I think it is quite hard when u are so busy to waste time. I’ve dated a few girls that were hot but had issues like were part of a drug dealing family or had used seeking arrangement before. I kinda gave up and have a girl I’ve been seeing a while and desu she’s like wife material personality wise, the second time was with me but she’s 5ft and she’s realistically a 6/10 but I’m kinda on the fence about settling and kinda wanted to explore options but the options really aren’t there

>>57575424
The best time was when the Ukrainian refugees came to the UK. I still have them on my Insta, I didn’t have the heart to lead them on for a fuck as they were sharing videos of bombs and shit whilst I was chatting to them

>>57575375
>Well I could get girls the problem is I’m not around them
yes you and every other middle age guy

>>57575470
>she’s 5ft
yikes. mine needs a chin but good luck. i prefer someone i trust as a life partner

>>57575424
based

>>57575008
>focus on money don’t worry about women they will come.

Boomers really won with this bullshit advice

>>57575655
the boomers really won with this bullshit advice because it's basically a cheat code for life focus on money and the bitches will come naturally without having to do anything now that's a life hack if i've ever heard one

it's not like you have to worry about girls when you're just making money hand over fist right i mean come on focus on the real important things in life instead of wasting your time and energy on silly little women with bullshit problems

>>57575686
well it should be both, plus you can't exactly go outside and wave your money around

>>57575008
I don't know what the best age to date is.
The next best age is RIGHT NOW.