/biz/ - Business & Finance

>>56618714
be glad you can coom in her hole you bsterd

she has bpd, and you are doomed.

>>56618714
Give examples. I'm curious if mine is the same. The hot water is out at my house and she seems to care more and be less resourceful about it but yet is not involved in getting it fixed

>>56618714
Have you ever seen what happens when a female dog(heretofor referred to as bitch) is put in a position where they are the guardian of a family? It's one thing to allow a dog to take the alpha role in a family(pack), but it is a step further to allow a bitch to take that role. Do you see what I'm saying OP? Calm that bitch down.

https://youtube.com/watch?v=hSdP9J-AwaE

>>56618714
tell her to stop reacting to everything. Not everything needs a reaction. Most things do not. Sounds awful anon, fix your shit.

>>56618714
Does she literally gets angry at you if you don't plan anything to do with her? You can't fucking win, kek

>>56618739
Just an hour ago, she was brushing the cat. It's one of those ones that has the retractable head to get the fur out. She lightly pinched herself on it and started loudly sucking in pain. I just watched and didn't say anything because I knew she was over reacting. She then started getting pissy about how I don't care, how she could get an infection and die, etc etc. I offer to get her the first aid kit, and she just refuses and says I don't care about her. I'm so tired bros.

>>56618775
Alright that's a little much. My gf has her own issues but she tends to keep pain related things to herself. Mine just has money problems

>>56618775
Is she Tony Sopranos mother?

>>56618775
b p d

STFU you insufferable normal fag
I hope the stupid batch kills herself

I'm going to be a father for the first time, my girlfriend of 9 months is 9 weeks pregnant. Beyond happy to find my partner, will there be a point where I'm miserable like all the other parents and like OP?

>ypipo families in literal shambles
Good

>>56618797
Yes

>>56618786
No point in money if you don't have a life anon. You are only focused on one side of the equation

>>56618797
Do you have savings and a bearible job?

why none of you are listening? your bitch has BPD and you are simply being abused.

>>56618714
Dump her, find someone agreeable who knows exactly what you expect from them. As soon as the rental contract is up (don't need to rent anymore), I'm dumping mine and she knows it.

>>56618817
Yeah 70k in savings and work as a lab tech at Exxon Mobil. She enjoys working as a lash technician. Plan on living together next year and have no hesitation on that part. Know that there will be some growing pains

>>56618714
Enjoy your ban. I posted a "rent them don't buy them" bread a while back, outlining why a waifu is a bad idea. If I get the wrath of Janny, surely this will too

>>56618884
You two not yet living together will be the biggest obstacle, you really only know someone after living together

>>56618917
this. and you need to do it for like 6 months to see how they are when they let their guard down

>>56618714
>>56618721
>>56618733
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>>56618740
Why are normalfags with girlfriends on /biz/?
Is it time to dump already?

>>56618721
Extreme slave mentality btw, OP aswell
You make it worse for everyone and you should live in the woods

>>56618971
/biz/ is not a board for no lifes like tv or pol. we are actually trying to have a future that involves offspring and retirement

>>56618971
>he doesn't know

>>56618998
say nigger

>>56618836
I think you have bpd, calm the fuck down

>>56618998
Im no nolifer, but like 5 people talking about thier gf s is suspicious. Im up a lot this week, really a lot and this confirms its maybe time to derisk a bit
>>56619001
What?

>>56618714
>>56618775
there is a possibility that impregnating her will cure some of these issues. however it will be a bumpy road from a - z.
I strongly suggest finding "strong silent" type of girl....marriage and kids are going to be enough work without dealing with a whiny bitch. having said that you yourself need to do your part (provide money) and if you cant do that then you must settle for a whiny bitch.

>>56618971
>>56619031
anon dont forget this angle of attack: they want you to feel bad about not having a gf (LOL), so that you sell and go buy a new shiny car to impress the ladies because surely that attract the best possible mate
>tldr: they want you to sell

>>56618714
This is kind of similar to my wife. Feels like every week there's something I do that makes her so upset and act like it's the end of the world.

I'd say most of the time she acts very sweet and loving, but especially around her period she will start holding multiple-day long grudges just for me doing something silly like accidentally ignoring her

Women are insane. They either have something to keep their mind occupied or they're occupied with you. This is why I will never let mine be a stay at home mom.

>>56619192
>This is why I will never let mine be a stay at home mom.
good luck once she gets "occupied" with boss at office
there is a reason why almost all cultures had a "no women outside the home without male supervision" and it wasnt because men are le bad. they are like children and their focus and alignments shifts easily.

>>56619229

If you aren't a onions cuck and make good money yourself you don't have much to fear. Women only move up, that's a small list for me.

>>56619192
>This is why I will never let mine be a stay at home mom

Explain? Isn't the point that she's going to be preoccupied with the kids/house/cooking/etc.? God now I'm worrying, having my wife be a stay-at-home mom is the goal.

>>56619265

Mine is a mom and works part time. When it's just stay at home it isn't enough for her and she goes crazy. So she's at her job 24 hours a week.

Depends on your wife though, some have more self control than others. She does not lmao.

>>56618775
Sounds to me like she wants more attention. When was the last time you went on a date? You need to take her out and I mean not just ask to go out, literally take her by the hand. If she is going to bitch even about this, then I its over and you should act accordingly.

Women are quite simple but you need to understand that they dont think like us and their logic is gay and flawed.

>>56619249
>Women only move up, that's a small list for me.
this is what males typically tell themselves but its cope.
women actually care far less about money than men think, its about "status" and thats as subjective as it sounds.
wymen are so childish that they will often seek "status" inside some stupid random bullshit corporate office even tho its obectively worse financial choice than their husband.

>>56618714
Give her progesterone. Google Ray Peat progesterone.

>>56618714
This can only get worse. DTMFA

>>56618775
Lol, is she blonde? This sounds like blonde behavior. She also most likely learned it from her mother and either had a neglectful father or no father at all. And if she's so concerned about you caring and isn't afraid to verbalize it, then you're also likely her first body ever. Women with whore pasts become very jaded and masculine with how well they can deal with their emotions and not dump it on you. Multiple heartbreaks can permanently alter a woman

Gotta try meeting her in the middle at the very least. A simple "you ok?" can suffice. You don't even have to put emotion in it. Just saying it will at least give you evidence in defending yourself

She simply just wants more attention and vulnerability from you. A part of her is doing it on purpose and she may not even know it because women tend to do things without knowing why. Its also a strong sign her parents didn't love her enough growing up so she's seeking it from you

You need to communicate to her how you feel, but make sure to also assure her you do care, even if you don't. Just lie and stick with it. Eventually you'll both change just enough that things will go better. If you're her first body, it'll always be worth fighting for. Always.

Unironically, medication. I grew up believing nobody actually needed medication until I met my GF. She acted like this and would have adult fits once a week, got her on SSRI’s and boom she’s pleasant to be around most of the time and only has crying fits once a month now. It’s actually a world of difference.

>>56619419
why not just impregnate her?
kids alters womens brainchemstiry for the better.

>>56618733
this, get out while you can

>>56619443
Because having a kid in an already poor relationship is the easiest way to fuck up your life. Every idiot with a penis thinks that anon.

>>56618733

I used to think this was real until I started dating more women and realized they all have """"bpd"""" (it's just women being women, they're nuts)

>more people with Gf s arrive
Also you wont listen to me anyway, but these "unpleasant" things are not natural, and are ultimately caused by unnatural foods, like grains, seeds (bread, pasta, etc), vegetables, or too much fiber and a deficiency in vital nutrients like animal fat, cholesterole, gelatin, other proteins.
https://rumble.com/v1ngve4-youre-mentally-ill-if-you-dont-eat-raw-meat.html
They dont even have to eat most meat raw, just more and fat

>>56618775
>She then started getting pissy about how I don't care, how she could get an infection and die, etc etc. I offer to get her the first aid kit, and she just refuses and says I don't care about her. I'm so tired bros.
BPD. cut all contacts.

>>56619443
>kids alters womens brainchemstiry for the better.
You've never studied medicine.

>>56619465
i actually agree 100% with you.
but you need to break up with her. i'm an oldfag (45) and i know you dont want to hear this but they only possible use of a relationship is to have kids.
being in a 30 yr relationship with an old hag and no kids is the worst of all possible worlds
being a 50 yr man trying to have the energy to start a family with 28yr old is not great either....

>>56618775
If you know this and still make a kid with her expecting all to go well, you are the crazy one in this story.

>>56619486

Women are meant to be occupied with kids though. All of these things that they do that we find annoying: act controlling, scrutinize our little behaviors, overly emotional, are literal child-raising programming. If you hand them 3 kids suddenly all that energy is directed towards the kids and indeed they are controlling them to keep them from hurting themselves or each other, scrutinizing them constantly to make sure nothing is wrong with them, and operating more closely to their emotional level than we do which gives them more patience for their needs.

I'm not suggesting using kids as a band aid for a bad dynamic but really yes a lot of the things men hate about women are just behaviors designed to make them optimal child caretakers.

>>56619493
I didn’t say I would never have kids. We’re still young, 25M 21F. I’m working on career and relationship right now, the relationship is better than it was at the start of living together, and I think once I start bringing in more money and have better savings we’ll be ready to have kids.

Shits just complicated because I want to play the eclectic rich guy role, so I didn’t go to college and have to spend longer working on my career.

>>56619514
you're the kind of retard who thinks children would cure mentally ill and cluster B women. you're an absolute moron.

>>56619531

I have been watching it happen in real time dipshit

>>56619514
You are correct, but you're looking at it the wrong way. Not having kids will drive rational women towards neuroticism as they age, but having kids will not reverse a longstanding mental health disorder, it will almost certainly make it worse. Postpartum psychosis is scary.

Best to GTFO.

>>56619531
incel cope.
>>56619538
yes, its known. 80% of fucking married guys know this shit is true.

>>56619531
Yup…this guy needs to learn what these are…and trauma bonds…get out now while you can

>>56618714
how long have you been with her? not to jump a head, but consider ending things with her. I'm 32 and been through plenty of relationships where I stayed way longer than I should have . if you aren't feeling it and if you aren't in love with her, get out. if you are in love with her, well it's complicated..

>>56618775
Sounds like she broke up with you already, she just wants you to pull the trigger.
>source: cruising through reddit degen threads at 3am

>>56618714
my gf is currently having a meltdown over sms because her nigger coworker doesnt like her.

>>56619594
She’s looking for the BBC and isn’t getting it

>>56619443
good morning virgin retard

>>56618775
If you stick with her, make her a child and expect all to go well, sorry to say you are the insane one in this example. She gave you her colors, deal with it or stop complaining.

>>56618884
You seem level-headed. Don't expect everything to be rosy, it ain't always sunny when two humans decide to live together, but that's the fun part. Create your "mini-society" and enjoy the small moments. Also, slap her ass almost every time you see her if you don't by now. This is the fun part.

>>56619149
Go straight with her. She wants you to step up. Tell her firmly that you don't like how things are and expect them to change, or leave. And mean it. If you don't, then stop complaining, because you made your choice.

>>56619192
Don't look for a woman who wants to stay at home anyway. Most interesting women are intellectually looking for an intellectual challenge in my opinion. They want to use their brain for other things that "baby talk" and cleaning the house. It's too boring. Even part time is enough.

>>56619419
>I like my girl when her brain is off !
>So cool now to date a zombie !
Whatever.

>>56619514
Meh. You'll have dumb kids but do you even care about that ?

>>56619553
Yup, this guy knows.

>>56619594
I'm sorry OP. But ask her "Why should she care about him when she has you ?"
The most important question monetary-wise is who you'll choose to spend time for life. It can be daunting, but when you understand that the focus should be on finding someone you need more than someone you want, things will get more rewarding.

Godpseed anons, they don't want you making a family because that's the best way to beat the brainwashing of the establishment. Have as many children as you can safely afford and talk to them, you'll be alright.

>we're on /biz/ sir.
Also buy Hbar.

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>>56619594
hahaha.... a literal cuck.

>>56619632
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>>56619705
a nigger woman you BBC obsessed faggot retards.

>>56619594
>>56619651
g8b8m8

>>56619538
foster care is filled with children of said mothers.

>>56619493
You're right to a degree but young me who could reasonably start a family should never take advice from old dogs who couldn't hold down a woman and make her a mother.

>>56618714
>>56619472
fucking this. Has anyone else noticed women always try to change you and when you do change for them then they stop being attracted to you?

>>56619300
solid advice. when dealing in a relationship with a women you have to make concerted actions and evaluate the outcome. based on this outcome you can determine a lot about this person and your future with them.
>if take out to dinner
>then becomes less of a spaz and is nice
>OR becomes expecting of it and tries to milk you more

>>56619472
>>56620024
retards who say all women have bpd have no experience with women or are too mentally ill themselves to attract normal girls. there is around 1.2% of women suffering from bpd, it's a very specific disorder, it's not just being bitchy.

>>56620199
what the fuck are nromal girls for you? All grils I've met either have had a poor father presence, an abusive dad, cheat on their current bfs, go to parties, seek attraction from other men etc etc. Where the fuck are the normal women?

I love my mom but I just figured out yesterday that she apparently cheated on my dad with a bunch of dudes before divorcing him and getting with a woman. I have never met a "normal" woman in my entire life

>>56620420
if you are over 30 they are gone.
like parking spaces, all the good ones are taken or handicapped

>>56620420
They don't exist.

>>56620420
Imagine still loving your mom after finding out she was a whore. Cuck

>>56619300
>Just take her on a date bro
>That'll be $200 plus tip

>>56618714
Right there with you brother. My wife has no idea how good she has it. She's always boohooing about our finances even though we make 200k per year and have like 100k saved

>>56618714
when my girlfriend would do that id just fuck her till she shut up. unless she wouldnt let me. in which case i went a fucked a different girl LOL

>>56618733
This

>>56618775
Leave it and never return bro
Best thing you can do

I could use some candid opinions, I've been dating a girl for almost a year now who's got some of the worst luck and decision making I've ever seen in my life. Since I've known her she's gone from one catastrophe to the next, car stolen, huge drama at work, totaled two cars, medical issues, it's crazy how much drama this bitch goes through. I am staying with her because I'm autistic and we get along really well, but is this woman going to ruin my life with her bad mojo?

>>56618797
You got her preggers after 7 months? Enjoy the custody battles son.

>>56618797
The first hurdle is the baby matching your skin color. Still a dice roll on keeping a relationship if you clear that though.

>>56619474
Only real advice ITT.

>>56620840
>but is this woman going to ruin my life with her bad mojo?
unless you can train her to not act like a retard, she will ruin your life. probably 90% of this is her own fault because it's typical woman behavior.
>car stolen
a few years ago my dumb bitch gf would routinely leave her car unlocked or the windows rolled down. common dumb bitch thing. it stopped when she found her car doors wide open one morning and tried to blame it on me "teaching her a lesson." i yelled in her face until she fucking cried that it was PROBABLY one of the nigger crackheads from the ghetto city next door. now she's much better about locking her doors and rolling up her windows, and we now live in a nicer place.
>huge drama at work
see >>56619594
>totaled two cars
i yelled at her last week to stop driving like a FUCKING retard, taking corners way too tight or too wide and not maintaining her lane. apparently she's been listening, at least according to her dumb ass.
>medical issues
last year mine went through this phase of thinking something was wrong with her shoulder until she saw how quickly the medical bills came out. suddenly the "persistent shoulder pain" stopped bothering her all the time. truly a miraculous recovery.

>>56618714
>she expects me to act accordingly.
No, she expects you to act like a man and put her in her place.
You're supposed to fuck her in the pussy, not act like a pussy.

>>56620420
like attracts like. you must live in a shithole where everybody is dumb and abusive or something.

>>56619472
Lol this

i'm pretty fortunate to live among relatively educated people where women grew up in stable homes. i've met plenty of normal and nice girls in uni. i would say the majority of them are.

>>56619472
Fucking virgins... it's because they're on birth control

>>56619300
The woman's appetite for attention is insatiable. What causes this?

>>56620199

No it's just that most of the bpd symptoms are just general feminity. I think I was confused because I grew up in a very stoic, regular household where there wasn't much chaos or emotion and a high amount of masculine influence.

So finally getting to experience women was a bit of a shock because they are all much more emotional, hysterical, neurotic, and controlling than I was prepared for. Your definition of what sounds like bpd will vary significantly depending on your standards and idea of normalcy.

It's the exact opposite. To me, the guy that grew up in a very NON BPD household, most women I dated seemed on the spectrum. Because bpd itself is just aggressive feminity.

>>56622643

Attention means support. Women crave support because they are naturally reliant.

>>56622305

This is something men have been writing about since writing was invented, fucknuts

>>56622695
I literally spend 90% of my social time with the woman and it's not enough

>>56622305
>look at that junky. he´s so skinny and toothless
>urr durr urrr. you fucking retard. it´s because he´s on heroin

you are a moron

>>56618714

OP let me share some sage advice with you I once received.

>"When people show you who they are, believe them."

>>56622674
>No it's just that most of the bpd symptoms are just general feminity.
it's a debilitating disorder that makes them act like sociopaths, 10% of them end up killing themselves. it's not "general feminity". it's not "aggressive feminity" either because it doesn't mean anything. there are guys who suffer from BPD too. you probably believe that men are less emotional than women. topkek. you confuse "being emotional" with "expressing emotions". women express their emotions more but they aren't more emotional. emotional instability is not a feminine trait, it's a disorder that also affect men.

>>56618739
My ex wife would demand I book her a hotel Everytime issue with power or water in house. $300 every time

>>56618714
had same thing man. year and a half. did NOT work out. we are on good terms thankfully but dude it sounds eerily like my ex it's not even funny.

>>56623703
Why would you ever go along with something like that? Why not just say no?

>>56623828
Only cucks get married of course he rolled over for his wife

>my female is doing female things
>commiserations, my female is also doing female things
Oh my God you guys
Dump the 3dpd thots and get a waifu already
Fuck hookers every now and again if you absolutely must

>>56623698
I always fantasized about dating a Bpd girl. Finally did one day.

She was planning to get a gun and shoot her ex bf who hit her . She was midplot when we met and she would always take about and I would tell her no don't do it.

I knew I would hurt her so I thought about her crosshair being redirected to me. When we broke up she went batshir

>>56619493
I'm 36 trying to breed with a 20-26 yo but my dick doesn't work anymore.

>>56624161
lmfao

>>56620024
that's called a shit test, retard, that's literally them testing your strength to see if you can maintain it, sounds like you lost it. Happens to the best of us.

>>56618714
Fuck other women behind her back and you'll stop caring as much.

>>56618714
dump her sorry ass and turn the money that you would spend on her on some alts like xmr, sol or even kava which are pumping now lmao.

>>56618797
Yeah, that's going to be a yikes from me.

>>56618714
She ain’t it senpai. Help me train em that this is not acceptable behavior. Dump her like they dumped the WTC. Of course tell her how you feel first if you have not.