/biz/ - Business & Finance

>>56584583
Fuck his holes. Thats the normie thing to do

>>56584583

He's not a good friend. Drop him.

that's not very nice of him. my friends and I just text ads for motorcycles and old cars back and forth. I would put some distance between you guys, anon.

>>56584583
lol I would NEVER loan a friend money without a contract. If it's not worth writing up a contract for, consider it a donation.

>>56584583
im afraight the guy aint a normie, OP, what made you think he is? normies dont gamble their money away, and apparently he also cant get laid just like you

>>56585910
He does get laid and get gfs but they just always break up so since he does get grills I assume he normie

>>56585868
Don't lend a fucking dime. Your contract isn't worth shit if you can't collect. Even if you get a judgement, good luck collecting.

OP consider the money a tax for being retarded.

>>56584583
>giving $800 to a degenerate

>>56585930
you said in your OP he finally got a match after months of tinder, thats the standard existence for someone not getting laid
1 month later she already broke up
or are his girls that he gets good looking? if yes i take it back

>>56585930
Sometimes normies getting women is a meme. I'm a prime example of that, a complete weirdo that does everything wrong and I still get laid because of looks alone. Tho it might be that crazies and normie women just mix nicely

>>56585930
You must collect in anal agonies and penile contortions. That's what the real normies do

>>56585984
all women are normie women

>>56585984
how often and how do you get laid? age

>>56585976
sometimes they are good looking other times they are just average

>>56586058
you made it seem like he only gets a gf once in blue moon or something if ot i take it back

>>56586013
35 with kids now, so different priorities or that's what I tell myself. I get laid around once a week without really trying anything, I don't have tinder or social media stuff etc. the connection just kinda happens. Younger women from gyms aged around 20-25, older women aged 27-30 etc. from friend circles. I never went into milf territory yet, they seem crazier than me

>>56586082
he tends to be without a girl for 6-12 months inbetween them

>>56586106
huh you are divorced or what?
i dont buy that you get laid once a month withot trying with different girls at 35
complete bullshit, would take way to much time, and even then seems very unrealistic even for megachad

>>56584583
>I’m not fluent in Normie relations so I am not sure what to do here do normies do this to other normies during friendships?
Yes if they have low empathy and low conscientiousness, which I think is most of them and particularly this retard since he doesn't seem to care about losing money he owes you.
>>56585910
>>56585976
>>56585984
Only good looking normies get laid, especially these days. This guy must be average or worse. By the way he acts, he's also clearly a beta soicuck (also very common for normies) which is why he gets dumped.
t. good looking autist who gets laid and loves to shit on betacuck normgroid NPC subhumans

>>56586120
if they break up in month and he gambles all his shit away he has def a screw loose

>>56586138
Never got married in the first place, I just pumped cum into women then the babies came out. I have no idea what to tell you, I'm a complete spazz loser, it is what it is

>>56586187
stop being a degenerate whore and dead beat dad

>>56586007
i beg to differ

>>56586187
press x to doubt, you probably fuck a fat landwhale once a month if lucky and humble brag on the internet

>>56586143
body count age? how?

>>56586225
That would have been good advice years earlier, but I'm too jaded and cynical now. I'm never going to work again in my fucking life, and have been pretty upfront about it to everyone

>>56584583
>lending money to a friend
sounds like you are the normie
just because you are a virgin doesn’t make you part of some special club

>>56585984

I'm a 30 year old Chadcel.

>>56586304
Welcome to the old chad twilight club m8

>>56584583
The guy probably can't stand being alone and has to be in contact with someone 24h. You're probably just one stooge among his portfolio. He doesn't care one bit about you.

>>56586276
>body count
Lost count but over 20. I'm not a slayer or anything, mostly because I'm busy and prefer short or long term relationships.
>age?
Early 30s.
>how?
Be white, 6 ft, 7-8/10 face, nice haircut, have money + career, get /fit/, and don't act like a bitch. The last part is where both normies and autists tend to fail unless they're chads. Girls love dicks (predictably) and hate "nice" guys, financially speaking.

>>56586458
how in how do you meet so many girls to fuck. i dont even meet attractive girls this often
otherwise humble brag larp bc story dont add up
you can be as hot as but it takes logistically in general lots of time for girls to open legs especially if they arent fat and dont look like shit

>>56586304
I'm 30 and got laid a few times, I was always super low self esteem and nervous. Recently I found an old Iphone video I took when I was like 24 and thought "wtf I was gorgeous" and still never got laid. Fun times.

>>56586489
>but it takes logistically in general lots of time for girls to open legs
Oh boy you are wrong about that...

>>56586506
>Recently I found an old Iphone video I took when I was like 24 and thought "wtf I was gorgeous"

>>56586489
>how in how do you meet so many girls to fuck. i dont even meet attractive girls this often
Travel and dating apps.
>otherwise humble brag larp bc story dont add up
20 lays over 10 years is not a lot lmao. Granted it would be much more if I hadn't been spending multiple months or years with some of them exclusively. Meanwhile chads on apps can fuck over 100 different girls a year.
>you can be as hot as but it takes logistically in general lots of time for girls to open legs especially if they arent fat and dont look like shit
That's where you're wrong, kiddo. Girls give it up easy if you meet their requirements (looks + game + logistics).

>>56586506
bro that's 6 years were you drinking a bottle of booze every week or something?

>>56584583
You got the roles mixed up chump. Your friend is the autist and you are the normie. Morrie doesn't mean talking to girls or have friends. It means you are a normal person. Which is incelish and no friends. True autist don't go to 4chins and blog.

>>56586563
how do you travel if you have a career?

>>56585868
You cannot loan money to friends or family. Once you bring money into the relationship, it just kills it entirely. Like you can't recover from them simply not paying you back, and forcing them to pay you back makes you no longer friends. Either simply gift the money or refuse outright. So basically if a friend approaches you asking for a loan of money, he already doesn't see you as a friend.

>>56586590
>he doesn't know about business trips
>he hasn't taken a couple weeks off after a week long conference to go hosteling and fuck Stacies in the hostel showers
Why even live

>>56586619
>to go hosteling
to go what lol
whats ur job?

>>56586489
The number one thing about picking up girls and not being a pussy. If you are a pussy, girls are automatically repelled by you from a genetic programming standpoint. If you are not a pussy, you ask girls out almost daily. Target, post office, sidewalk, coffee shop, school, wherever. It takes time to develop an approach that isn't awkward. Something like, hey, you mind telling me the time? And when they answer say you meant about meeting for coffee/beer/ice cream. Be non threatening, smile, fake laugh. Pretty much all of them say no / have boyfriend, but if you doing it everyday and your delivery is smooth you will get some numbers every 3 weeks or so. And then the dance begins. Most girls fuck me on the first date. But I have it pretty dialed. Taking them to comedy almost always gets them in the spirits to fuck. And they do want to fuck and not be committed so always make sure youbare extremely non commit able.

>>56586674
>Target, post office, sidewalk, coffee shop, school, wherever. It takes time to develop an approach that isn't awkward
if you this daily everywhere people will notice and you will soon be flagged.. unless you live in 1 million + city

>>56586674
You sound like a character in a movie. I can't imagine someone actually doing cheesy lines in the street or at the shop everyday, get rejected 95% of the time, just to get empty fucks once every 3 weeks.
lmao. you never heard of Tinder?

>>56586715
honestly his approach sounds better than tinder
my city is 250k and the bitches on tinder are 95% ugly roasties and 60% the same people
theres not much going on there unless you travel like that other anon

>>56584583
Anti social frogs in here, mostly right about the money though, unlikely you'll get that back. Tell him you want to help and make him ban himself from all of his betting sites while you're together. If he refuses tell him you're not going to help him financially and draw some distance there. Gambling addiction is no joke and it's already pretty bad if he's borrowing money from friends.

>>56584583
he's a piece of shit, dump him

>>56586619
Bro, sorry to break it on you. But the hostel life is over if you're over 30. You really wanna share bunk beds with 8 other sweaty niggers?

>>56586106
how the fuck do you talk to women at the gym? im a 7/10 and never had one conversation with a anyone at the gym

>>56586766
There's no way I act like Joey Tribbiani every single day of my fucking life lol.

>>56584583
I have neither a borrower nor a lender been.

>>56586903
They look and mire, then I look at them and smile a little then they smile back, then I just go and talk to them. It isn't that hard, if weirdo spazz like me can do it then so can you

>>56586659
>whats ur job?
Engineering on international projects. Travel required.
>>56586884
Not true, you just have to stay at different hostels and hit on sluts at the bars. That said I haven't hosteled in awhile because I did get tired of slumming it.

>>56584583
He's just an idiot, fuck him.

I had a friend who was just like this anon. EVERY time he got a new gf, he disappeared off the face of the planet, but as soon as he got dumped or cheated on, he came crawling back like nothing ever happened.

The best thing to do is to slow fade him. Gradually wind down how much you text him back, delay texts back, and eventually just stop talking to him altogether. The normies need to know what it feels like when they treat others that same exact way (I've been slow faded on numerous times before and it fucking hurts like hell - normies need to understand that to learn their lesson).

P.S.: As far as the money he "borrowed" from you, just pretend he's never going to pay you back because he NEVER will. Take this as a learning experience and stop hanging out with losers like him.

>>56586594
>>56585868
Dave Ramsey always says to never lend money to a friend or family member.

>>56587857
>dave ramsey always says
just sold everything, see u guys in the dump.