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54970778 No.54970778 [Reply] [Original]

How do you financially deal with your wifes/gf expenses??

>gf keeps watching Instagram/Youtube influencers going to romantic vacations to santorini
>she keeps nagging me about this until I finally accept
>book flight tickets: $800 for fucking economy
>book airbnb: $400/night for 10 days
>transportation from/to airport: $200
>food: $100/night
>clothes: $1000
>3-day island tour: $200
>souvenirs for her family: $300
>emergency cash: $500

>total costs each: $8000
>total combined costs: $16000

>inb4 get a non-normie gf

Like I haven't already tried faggots and every time it ends up with the non-normie gf being a fucking psycho.

>> No.54970797

tell her to pay up lmao

>> No.54970802

How to get a gf?

>> No.54970804
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54970804

Owners of companies (other people) found a way to your wallet via instagram through your gf, give them some credit

>> No.54970805

>>54970797
She is already paying her half ($8000), but she just blew all her savings from the last 5 Months from her Big4 job on this single vacation.

>> No.54970813

>>54970802
go find one equally as autistic and intelligent as you, or be prepared to be a baggie simp like op

>> No.54970820

>>54970805
next time, tell her to pay up 100% and you'll cover the romantic cabin camping trip you have planned

>> No.54970825
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>>54970778
have you considered getting a bit tipsy and flirting with the local women? Maybe have some fun and relax? Then you can humblebrag on 4chan about how much you hate traveling to quaint coastal towns in warm Mediterranean climes and spending more money in a week than most here make in a year?

I mean that's what I do. Every year. Year after year. And I have 2 kids, so I spend about double what you do. Also I like to go for 2 week vacations, because airfare is the biggest expense and I like to make the most of it. Also I like to buy timeshares sometimes, and I love eating out at $100 a plate restaurants 2 times a day. Also helicopter tours. Rented yachts. You get the picture.

it sucks, I hate spending all that money and time with my girl. Fuck that. She's so crazy.

>> No.54970832

>>54970778
stop being poor

>> No.54970842

>>54970804
this
women are eternally children. since we already banned ads target at children maybe we should ban ad targeting women as well

>> No.54970845

I don't have one, I'm very lonely. Sometimes I feel like crying at night

>> No.54970858

>>54970804
This is so fucking true. I just got a windfall of $10k. Put it straight into the savings account. Wife sees. Two days later "sweetie are we going to Greece the pictures look so great this time of year on insta....".
Im fucking financially butt-blasted now.
>>54970842
>femoid advertising ban
Now this is a policy I would vote for.

>> No.54970861

>>54970842
Women are children because they actually want to enjoy life instead of perpetually do the rat race... Right

>> No.54970864
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>>54970778
Get a trans autist gf. We're better than real women.

>> No.54970870

>>54970861
You just described childish behavior and impulsivity. What did you mean by this?

>> No.54970875

>>54970858
meanwhile I bought these sweet looking Merlin gold coins to add to my treasure chest

https://www.jmbullion.com/2023-1-oz-british-gold-merlin-coin/

told my gf I bought a spare for her in case she wants to save up and buy one from me

>> No.54970910

>>54970861
>instead of perpetually do the rat race
that's a short term time preference AKA
>nooooo I want it NOW I want it I want it I want it
Yes. That is childish. Especially considering with proper planning anyone can retire at 45.

>> No.54970939

>>54970778
I don't have a gf and never will. Is it sad? Sure, but I rolled bad. Can't have it all.

>> No.54970949

>>54970778
Santorini is trash lmao, definition of a tourist trap, or better to say a "instagram trap"

Could have had a better time for fourth of that on any other greek island

>> No.54970958

>>54970778
Its either worth it or not worth it.
If you know she is worth it and you can use her to be a vessel to give birth and take care of your children.
And often these travel memes comes because young women get invited to travel with someone.
That someone can be a man your rival. Promising her good time and expensive exotic trips.
That may never happen but she falls for it and gets fucked anyways.
Or even worse she dont get it from you and then gets it form that other man.
So you are at home doing work and grinding and wanking it and she is with her "girls" on the trip to Jamaica.

>> No.54970962

>>54970842
We are children too.

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>>54970805
Lol thats the problem. Big4 pays peanuts.

>> No.54971267

>>54970858
Make a new savings account and keep it secret from the woman should this occur again

>> No.54971275

>not opening a slew of credit cards for infinity free travel especially when you have a gf so you have 2 credit scores and SSNs
ngmi

>> No.54971335

>>54970778
Go to Southern France in the Var/Nice region instead, much cheaper and better than this tourist trap

>> No.54971460

>>54971335
>Southern France
>france

don't want to go to africa

>> No.54971599

Spending that sort of money on a chick that’s not even your wife, so you can take her to a tourist trap for some instagram content? Bud you’re a retard if I’ve ever seen one

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>>54971599
>Spending that sort of money on a chick that’s not even your wife, so you can take her to a tourist trap for some instagram content? Bud you’re a retard if I’ve ever seen one

>> No.54971640

I am 29 years old and I never even kissed a girl

>> No.54971678

if your gf make you spend more than you can afford then she is just using you, she doesn't project herself on a long term relationship with you

just tell her you prefer to put these 8,000$ in a down payment or even a car

we all know you both can't afford to go santorini like 95% of people flying there, you are just brainless consumers

>> No.54971683

We take little weekend trips that are cheap. Travel is so expensive now it doesnt make much sense to do even if you make really good money.

>> No.54971707

>>54971640
I am your future.
Wizard in the same situation.
Congratulations!

>> No.54971721

>>54971640
I just turned 30 yesterday. Neither have I.

>> No.54971722

>>54970778
Santorini is great but way to touristic and full of amerifats. Go to another island, Milos, Kefalonia, Paros.

>> No.54971725

>>54970778
Get rid of the dumb bitch

>> No.54971732

>>54971721
happy birthday

>> No.54971747

My girlfriend isn't allowed to make financial decisions.

>> No.54971750

didn't read
stop making fake and gay threads and instead deal with your shit
just remember, no matter what happens next is exactly what you chose

>> No.54971874

>>54970778
>Divorce rate is like 60%
>Women get the house, kids, and most of your money when she divorces
>Typically treat their man like a weird fusion between a dog and and their dad (see OP)
>Will leave you the instant you show any form of weakness
Unironically glad I'm a giga-autist who never got corrupted by succubi. Modern men literally endure a week of non-stop nagging for 10 minutes of penis in vagina.

>> No.54971951

>>54971721
Happy Birthday!

Congratulations on becoming a Wizard!
How will you use your new acquired power?

>> No.54971968

Tell her she's the women in your relationship which means she's supposed to go on onlyfans to earn some money so that you can live a good life on that simp money otherwise she can go find someone else

>> No.54971988

>>54970861
That’s why career women aren’t a thing.

>> No.54972018
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>>54970778
greekfag here, old enough to have experienced Santorini without the hordes of amerifats and nordcucks ruining it. The only solace I find is that you faggots pay out of the ass for this little meme island which, together with Mykonos, are like 20% of Greece's GDP lmao. Thanks I guess.

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>>54971640
I am 35 years old and I creampie women's assholes for a living.

>> No.54973530

>>54972244
Name?

>> No.54973590

>>54971599
Yes agreed. And the second he stops wasting all his money on her dumb instagram traps she will break up with him because they're "incompatible" or she "lost feelings". Woman are just a black hole of money and without babies are just an entertainment cost.

>> No.54973625

>>54970778
Stop being such a cheapskate.

You're making unforgettable memories with a girl you'll likely marry (assuming you're not a degenerate who just dates without purpose). You'll remember this vacation together when you're old and won't give a shit about the money you spent.

>> No.54973639

>>54971630
No, he's right. Control your woman

>> No.54973668

>>54972018
Amerifat bro here any good tips on spots that are better? I really want to enjoy some Greek grandma food. I promise not to be as bad as my fellow cuntrymen. How is Albania?

>> No.54974726

>>54972018
Turknigga here, you are doing great work my greekfag, much love across the border, fuck these consumercuck tourists who can't think past two IG posts

>> No.54974778

>>54970813
Absolutely the most correct post in this thread. Problem is there's a pretty hard ceiling on the attractiveness of intelligent/autistic hoes. It is what it is.

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>>54970778

greekfag here

just want to thank you all uscucks and northeurocucks that send your gfs for holidays in greece and we get to fuck them. Greek girls are all acting up hard to get and nobody gives a shit about them anymore..toursit girls are our only options

>> No.54974863

>>54970778
>book airbnb: $400/night for 10 days
LMAO
Aside from that, if you can't afford this kind of trips 2 or 3 times a year you should go find a real job faggot.
What do you do? clean toilets and wash dishes?

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>>54970864
Get your pus filled festering axe wound out of here

>> No.54974866

>>54974726

I love you bro..but pls give constantinopole back ;...;

>> No.54974874

How did even common men of old control their women but no one in modern times can (not even the wealthy, not even the popular chads, not even the athletes)?

>> No.54974885

>>54970864
Thanks Joey I mean Zoey

>> No.54974888

>>54974874
They kicked their enablers out of their countries 109 times.

>> No.54974893

>>54970861
What are you fucking 4? A man's responsibility isent to have fun every day unless they earn it.

>> No.54974897

>>54974874
I know a few drug dealers that are very good at this

>> No.54974911

>>54970778
Simply don’t have a wife or gf
I have a rotation of fuck buddies I go through, usually they fall for me so I gaslight them about maybe one day we’ll be a thing but I can’t right now I’m in therapy I need a bit of time space blah blah and it bugs me six more months until they make an ultimatum and I shrug and cross their name off my rotation and find a replacement.
My ex wife left me and divorced raped me so I’m entirely disillusioned with relationships with women. I’ve got my kid though, that’s all I care about in this life
Wow I typed out a blogpost, I’m a fag, please ignore

>> No.54974930

>>54974874
There wasn't anything to do back then but stay home or make clothes.
Now there is everything to do, being a with a man and vice versa is retarded.
>but you will die alone
I have my 4chan frens.

>> No.54974958

>>54974911
For a faggot you make a lot of sense

>> No.54974960

I spent 3 months in europe, including a week in santorini, and didnt spend close to that. you are the retard nigger

>> No.54974966

>>54971721
Welcome to the school of Wizardry

>> No.54975016

>>54974874

back then there was no feminism, social media, etc...Modern society gave unlimited options to women, and increased their value by 10000%, while decreased the value of the common man (aka the not wealthy, or famous) by 10000%

You can thank feminism, leftism and social media for this

>> No.54975021

>>54974911
Least faggot post ITT

>> No.54975044

>>54975016
>and increased their value by 10000%
Their PERCEIVED value, my dear anon. Not their real value. It is your job to remind them of their real market value (on the street).

>> No.54975056

>>54974911
Inside job checked
I rotate too, but the sidewhores are even more expensive.
You have to bullshit them when they are starting to get the idea when you're not picking uip the phone and pounding the other pussy. I'm not even Chad , just a gigantic pussy faggot who cannot say "no" and it costs a ton of money
Sticking with 1 girl is the sane course of action

>> No.54975073

>>54975016
i'd say it's primarily social media + smartphones that's responsible for rampant pussy inflation. leftism and feminism have been around for a long time. Hyperpussyinflation didn't really ramp up until after the iPhone came out

>> No.54975082

>>54974874
physical violence. i've come close to doing this, but never followed through. a heavy backhand is quick to snap a bitch back into reality, but the downstream consequences (a domestic abuse charge) can be life-altering.

>> No.54975099

>>54970778
Why do you let her boss you around on where to go? You can go on a nice vacation for 1/4 of that. There's beach resort towns all across the gulf of Mexico and they are cheap as fuck because no one goes there.

I'm planning to go to Biloxi, Mississippi as soon as I can go on a vacation and it would be less than $3000 leaf bux and that's being spendy.

>> No.54975110

>>54970778
>How do you financially deal with your wifes/gf expenses??
You tell the bitch to shut the fuck up.
If you weren't such a pussy faggot you would've done that already.

>> No.54975166

>>54970861
They "enjoy life" to expose themselves to as many chads/potential partners as possible. "Traveling" for women means upping their probability to get picked up by hot interesting guys, as an unconcious survival strategy. Coupled with the fact they can upp their value by posting travel pics on ig, so they are seem more appealing to high value males.

>> No.54975192

>>54970805
your girlfriend is low IQ, break up with her.

>> No.54975201

>>54974874
The state wasn't designed to wreck your shit if you did.

>> No.54975213

>>54970805
life is for living. what's wrong with splurging a bit? what do you want to do with the money just stuff it under your mattress?

>> No.54975238

>>54975213
"Living" can be defined in many ways, faggot

>> No.54975241

>>54971640
Weren’t you 28 like a month ago?

>> No.54975319
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>>54975099
Holy fuck, biloxi is a dogshit garbage hole. Literally anywhere in Mexico on the gulf is cheaper and higher quality. Most Caribbean islands are cheaper

>> No.54975328

>>54971640
gets me every time anon kek
keep it up

>> No.54975373

>>54975319
I don't want to go to Mexico or the Caribbean though. I want to meet english speaking southerners.

>> No.54975390

My conclusion is that people travel just to brag in their social media. I am from a tropical country with top tier forests and beaches, yet you see local normies adquiring tons of debt just to visit NYC or Paris or whatever gay city is most popular in IG at the moment for 3 days. As an anecdote at the beginning of this year one coworker was trying to brag how he maxed two CC's just to visit Cancun.

>> No.54975399

>>54970778
Tell your basic bitch gf to stop melting her brain with social media. I mean at this point you're basically dating an NPC and you might as well just plug in a fleshlight into your USB and fuck ChatGPT instead.

>> No.54975425

>>54970778
>airbnb: $400/night
tf. how is airbnb even a thing. i checked it out when it first came out and it’s peoples shitty houses for considerably more than nice hotels charge. i don’t get it. somebody please explain

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>>54975425
retards bought a vacation home that they couldn't afford without supplemental income derived from airbnb offerings. $400/night isn't the going rate for a room in (vacation destination), it's the going rate for an over-leveraged retard on the brink of financial ruin. this is why more people are going back to hotels, which are cheaper and offer a more consistent or standardized experience.

>> No.54975577

>>54975099
I'm about to hook you up with some free alpha
>Orange Beach, AL
>Siesta Key FL
>Shell Island FL
>Pensacola FL

>> No.54975601

>>54975552
This guy gets it. The thing I appreciate about hotels is that the experience is so standardized. I know exactly what to expect, and what is expected of me.

>> No.54975617

>>54975319
Bro fuck Mexico, I hate it there
>Texican

>> No.54975688

>>54975552
yeah i get that people think they can charge a bunch for their vacant house. i don’t get why people buy it. you don’t have to have a copy/paste sterile corporate hotel experience but i would choose that every time over some randoms house
>>54975601
>what is expected of me
imagine thinking like this

>> No.54976065

>>54971640
Based and happy birthday

>> No.54976097

>>54971874
>"sucks one for OP" ID
Hah.

>> No.54976168

>>54976097
kek good catch

>> No.54976213
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>>54974865
I am keeping my girldick and girlballs forever thank you very much.
>>54974885
I look like a girl, act like a girl, and think like a boy. I am literally superior in every way. Butt is superior to pussy btw.
>inb4 b-b-but poop
Certified virgin never heard of a clean diet. I literally never have issues.

>> No.54976282

>>54974834
holy smokes look at those bazoongas

>> No.54976365

>>54974874
No divorce, culturally enforced financial dependence on the husband, strong masculinity, lower female literacy , vs. no fault divorce, free alimony, institutionalized feminism and female higher learning.
Gee I wonder how that influences behavior. The institutional basis for control is gone, that is why TRP is about dumb power games, it's all you have left

Also interesting fact, women were really only put inside the home when men became rich enough to do so (so it was very 19th century) which seems to imply that for a time men had MORE control and not less, in this period.

>> No.54976669

>>54970778
I was looking at staying at this exact hotel the other day

>> No.54977098

>>54970778
I had a friend who wanted to go to santorini with me. Literally stopped talking to him entirely

>> No.54977129

>>54970778
>he fell for the female meme

>> No.54977142

>>54970778
Make the cunt pay.

>> No.54977146

>>54970778
by not having a wife/gf

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>>54974778
All women eventually become unattractive, but no stupid woman eventually becomes smart.

>> No.54977244

>>54970864
>>54976213
cute

>> No.54977250

>>54976213
Good luck with male pattern baldness in about 4 to 5 years.

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>>54977244
Thanks uwu
>>54977250
LOOOOOL I was literally starting to get to norwood whatever, then I hopped on E and boom, MPB reversed. *shrug* Estrogen really is magic huh?

>> No.54977274

>>54974874
They were more limited in what they could do, by both law and raw circumstance, unless they were nobility and even then. More reliant on men for security.

>> No.54977295

>>54977273
Post bussy already you slut

>> No.54977304

>>54970861
If anything it's women who care more about that, or rather, they make you run the rat race to satisfy their bullshit wants and desires.
I dread to think how I will have to find a gf that is a homebody and frugal enough.

>> No.54977344

I should be more grateful to have a gf from a rich family that pays for everything

>> No.54977353

>>54971722
why do you have to go to expensive island why cant you go to a real island and not witness the blight that is the american tourist

>> No.54977387

>>54977304
>I dread to think how I will have to find a gf that is a homebody and frugal enough.

I have one but shes Colombian. Should I marry?

>> No.54977643

>>54970778
>$400/night for 10 days
didnt read the whole thread but you are overpaying badly
for greece top tier would be 100 a night, reasonable comfort tier 50
you got ripped off, remember its greece a third world country, not beachfront miami

>> No.54977665

>>54975241
yup
>>54976065
thanks

>> No.54977673

>>54970864
>better than real women
Yeah that’s because you’re men

>> No.54977709

>>54970864
nice photoshoped jawline. really shows your insecurities

>> No.54977747

>>54977273
you have big manly hands
I'm jelly 2bh

>> No.54977782

>>54970778
>clothes: $1000
>Each
You fucking faggot

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>>54970778
>He gives his GF money
AHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
My gf has her own money and if she dared try to touch my shit i would make sure she never sees the light of day again. I do try to teach her how to invest and she got into PEEPO bc of the low ROI and made some money. Caring for your partner is good op but don't be a faggot

>> No.54978146

>>54977344

Life on easy mode.

The last two years my fiance has roughly made 900K (after currency conversion). At first it was like nothing had changed, now I'm starting to see the benefits of the money...

>> No.54978470

>>54970870
>>54970910
>>54974893
>>54975166
Back to your wagecagies incels, gotta earn more money for the boss! Your real life will begin when you're 60 kek

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>Dating American women
>Dating normie American women
>Didn't date a shutin
>Didn't date a euro/asian
You deserve to lose every penny

>> No.54979100

>>54970802
>>54970813
>>54974778
Groom an 18 year old to be your perfect girlfriend

>> No.54979126

>>54970778
This level of spending is worth it maybe if she’s a 9-10/10 but if she’s like a 6 definitely not