/biz/ - Business & Finance

>>53884232
late 20s

>>53884232
when he can support one.

Got married at 26, you’ll never be “financially ready” thats a fucking meme. If you mean “wealth/assets accumulated” you wont be “ready” until your mid-late 30’s which is too fucking late. Stop being a money grubbing jew and have kids.

>>53884232
If it's with a rich woman, yesterday. If she is poor, never.

>>53884232
Unironically early 20's and even late teens. Don't fall for the degenerate Boomer advice of playing the field.

>>53884467
NGMI

>>53884488
Whatever you say mosche,

Had my first real gf at age 19. We met from the shitty college we were going to and when it was time to transfer out we decided to go live with each other instead of breaking up. 4 years later we're happily married with a child.

I had a ton of retarded Gen X fags and Boomers tell me to break up with her too when we got to that crossroad.

>>53884588
>I had a ton of retarded Gen X fags and Boomers tell me to break up with her too when we got to that crossroad.

kek, you think you're safe when you're not. this is just the beginning of your marriage story. Hopefully for you it ends well.

>have a place
>have a wife
>have a job
There you go, you're ready for kids

Don't listen to anyone who says you need to be steady in your career first, that's a fucking boomer lie

>t. have 4 kids between 1 and 13 yo at 36, make 210k, started working at 18 on literal minimum wage

>>53884232
>eight-teen
>kids ain't 'spensive, that's just a lie by the jews

>>53884629
We both don't have social media and allow each other to use each other phone's all the time. We both have an understanding and yes I do notice my old friends and even our separate parents secretly envy us. It's actually interesting seeing how ugly human nature can be. Her friends even shit talk about me even though I've never had an actual conversation with them. No wonder why many marriages fail

>>53884659
I fell for the boomer lie. I didn't have my first child until I was 33. I regret waiting, i want more children.

I am 28 years old and I never even kissed a girl

>>53884878
How?

>>53884483
uh yeah let me just raise a kid while in college

>>53886257
>beliving more boomer lies
College is a waste

>>53886276
uh yeah let me just be a welder for $22.50 an hour while raising a kid with a $2000/mo mortgage

But I jerk off to anime guys crossdressing and being feminized

>>53884669
haunted post

>>53884232
27

>>53884690
keep up the good work anon. people around you will try to make you break up cause they are npcs and jelous 2 souls found eachother. the matrix will give it their all to ruin your nice relationship. keep going son. make some more baberinos.

>>53884467
This. The "don't start anything until you're {{{ready}}}" meme is how people never do anything in their lives at all.

What does it even mean? No one ever says. It's just meant to make you doubt that path, hesitate, focus on other shit, until it's either too late or you otherwise end up having one kid instead of three, and so on.

Unfortunately, le no kids fags think they're geniuses and so aren't even interested in considering that they've been scammed, which is all part of the psy-op in the first place.

Remember, goy, having children is too expensive, are you sure you're ready? It's a big responsibility, maybe wait a few more years. You could spend that money on weed and vidya instead.

>>53884690
Based, anon. The world will hate you and do everything they can to pull you apart. I once had a similar situation and everyone worked very hard to destroy it. Every woman wanted to see it fail, every man wanted to see it fail. It's hard to have any real friends in that situation - people will actually coordinate and work together to engineer situations to rek you guys.

Unfortunately in my case their efforts were eventually successful. Protect her from even hearing people's opinions, don't rely on hearing but "ignoring" them. Don't be exposed to it in the first place.

>>53884232
18~21

Tell me niggers, will you take a 41% chance to go through a divorce? You really want to bet your whole life away in a game of coin toss? Divorce fucks you, not just your bank account but also your soul. You might love each other for the first few years but then routine sets in, boredom sets in and there is a 41% chance it ends in divorce. It's not worth it. I have really big seperation anxiety and if that would happen to me i would literally fucking kill myself.

I will not gamble my life away for a 41% chance of having a happy marriage.

>>53889788
59% chance*

>>53889092
You sound just like my parents fuck you :(
I've been financially ready since 26 and I'm 34 now.

>>53889092
Based. My mom told me I needed to be well into a career before settling down. I've been working since I was 22, I bought the boomer meme and here I am with no wife/family at 38.

>>53884232
if you at all can, early 20s. Compromise late 20s. 30s are Ideal financially, but late for children, or an unused wife

>>53889851
Have you been dating though? Any plans on starting a family now or in your 40s?

>>53886134
Pic related illustrates most of my problems.
I've been told to be nice my whole life, from my mother especially. Be nice, be polite, be nice, treat everyone equally. And I was nice, so much so that I even got the quite embarrassing "Most Polite" award back in school, twice.
Being "nice" was just ingrained in my being and I can't help it, so much so of that I became incapable of flirting/showing sexual interest towards women without feeling as if I'm being extremely rude to them.

So nothing ever happened in that department

>>53889946

>>53884232
>stop jerking to anime
this faggot jerks off to tranny fucking men
have kids asap it puts fire under your feet

>>53884232
when they receive 10k btc as a gift

>>53884232
Married at 27 (wife 25). Kids at 30. Owned our own house when I was 30. 35 now I own 65% of it. All depends on your circumstances though, but I'd absolutely not be having kids with a woman over 35. No chance. Would like to enjoy my time with my kids before I start turning grey and wearing pants up to my armpits.

>>53889919
Yeah, been dating around. Haven't found the right person yet, plans of having a family hinges on that.

I figure its easier if you start earlier instead of living the boomer meme. Women over 30 are generally mindfucked.

>>53890309
I waited too long too. Currently dating someone that's waiting for me to propose but I don't think she's the one. I fucked up by waiting too long.

>>53884232
We he feels like it, lmao, getting married.
How gay are you? Fucking man Gina.

>>53884467
>Stop being a money grubbing jew and have kids.
>Dude just be legally attached to a women and kid regardless of income level.
Pure nigger logic.

>>53884496
Nah, I think you're the Jew.
You faggots are probably poor living pay check to pay check collecting food stamps while crying about niggers and spics doing the same.
Sorry, I'll have kids when I'm rich, thanks.
You dumb fuck.

>>53884659
>Implying I'm going to shoot up the place because I'm not married with kids.
Nah, that's just mutts who do shootings.
What's with your laten homosexuality? The fuck do you care so much about other men?

I got married at 25 and I'm 31 and still don't have kids because I fell for the "just enjoy life bro" meme for too long in my early 20s so I've spent a long time trying to unfuck my finances and priorities. Things are going well now so I think it's basically just time for no birth control sexo

>>53886257
Yes, be a man

>>53890369
You're probably fine desu, but maybe its best to let her go?

Even worse than waiting too long is settling down with the practice gf and having to start over later.
I was engaged to the wrong one at some point too, so just being patient for someone a bit younger. I think most women our age have way more baggage than we do, which is why guys tend to prefer younger women.

>>53890437
I should ASAP. She knows it's coming too but I'm holding off on having that difficult conversation.

>>53890309
try to find a younger girl my gf is 23 and both of her friends who are same age are dating guys 36 and 38

>>53890506
You'll both be better off in the long run, lots of times we stay in these things out of fear/guilt. It does suck letting them go though.
>>53890557
fucking based, that's what I tend to look for but I need to go out more vs being on apps -- I live in a relatively small town.

>>53884232
yes. in order to join most sects of the freemasons you must be married first. same thing with mormons, you only get the bennies if married

>>53890604
yeah a lot of girls dont like dating with an age gap like mine, but there are just as many girls dating older guys, apps can work if you're good looking because the apps are only about looks, but you can just cold approach legit anywhere and still have success, remember that you miss 100% of the shots you dont take

>>53889788
Don't let the doomed stats fool you guys. The 41 or 59 whatever percent divorce rates are from the trainwrecks who have married and divorced like 3-5 times we've all met them

>>53890404
>narrator: he never had children

>>53884467
Based rural retard creating a new generation of low information voters

>>53890658
Based, thanks anon.

>>53884690
Good for you fag. Keep it up.

>>53884467
some people should 100% not have kids anon. I'd even go to say alot.

>Financially speaking
never
LAWL

>>53889092
>they were scammed cause theyre doing what they wouldve done anyway
k

>>53884467
Fucking based and manpilled. Had my first kid with Medicaid, second with shitty work insurance and went to collections for unpaid deductible, and the third for $500 out of pocket with badass Bennies I had at my new job. It’s a process and a man just finds a way. I’m just hitting mid 30s and couldn’t imagine barely starting out having kids, I’m way too old to be dealing with diapers and sick babies fuck that.
>inb4 I need a paid off house, $10million in assets, and a wife that makes $200k before even thinking of having children

>>53890404
Nope, we’re doing just fine because I went to a trade school and work my ass off. Even got some savings. Money isnt everything you Jew faggot.
Have some kids or at the very least fuck a female. Nigger.

>>53890309
>>53890369
You guys are scrapping the bottom of the barrel. By 30 women usually have kids, prior serious partners, and gone through some shit. Also they tend to mature and grow feisty, but no longer have the beauty to back it so it’s a hag demanding the privilege of a 22 year old which is not gonna fucking happen lmao Go young , it’s the only way. Dealing with some immaturity early on is a trivial price to pay for your fuckups

>>53892411
bless anon

>>53892324
Had several friends have kids in the 90s right out of high school. I'd much rather be 40 with a 20 year old son then 60 with a 20 year old son. If you think you want kids --then creampie them right out of high school...in their parents bed if you must.

>>53884232
35 married to an 18 year old. That's what the ancient Romans and Greeks knew was the perfect ages for a married couple

>>53884467
>you wont be “ready” until your mid-late 30’s which is too fucking late.
OP isn't a women

>>53884442
This is the only answer.

But damn. Life really comes at you fast.
>22 year old college jerkoff, no pressure
>a few years later half the people from highschool are either married or divorced
Like what the fuck, people really move fast.

>>53889946
don't worry bro if you were attractive girls would pick you no matter how nice you were

>>53884232
Lmao I can barely feed myself.

anime girls owe me sex

>>53884232
Financially speaking, you aren't a man until you start a family and then lurk for two years

>>53884232
Children listen marriage is overrated I'm speaking from experience, I got married to this bitch 3 years ago, and everything was awesome for the first few months till I caught her cheating with my best friend, she also stole all my BTC and now they are both married, I was freaking depressed for months but later got a good job, started trading again and I'm back, last year I treated myself to a Vacation at Raiwasa resort for the first time since the incident happened, now I just trying to live and that's it, no love Just me. What I find entertaining now is an adventure, I wish to visit all crypto-friendly country

>>53890309
Any woman who is single post 30 is completely unhinged.

- almost always feminist and was ‘career first’
- has standards way too high because she wants a guy that’s a composite of all the best attributes of all the men she’s ever been with
- at this age that’s a lot of men
- with age, experience, money , etc her standards will only go up with time. A paradox given her dating value is only going down

Deep down they know all of the above and become even more bitter, jaded, judgemental. Really is a site to see

>>53895798
She never loved you from the scratch and she belongs to the street, I will suggest you visit Lugano first it is a big city here in Switzerland, and it allows residents to make payments in crypto

>>53895871

>>53895871

I have noticed that. Rather than becoming humble and realistic they just double and triple down and get even worse.

>>53893265
Based. Since I'm a law-abiding citizen, I'll myself go as low as law allows me (the age of consent in my country).

>>53892411
>Dealing with some immaturity early on is a trivial price to pay for your fuckups
People have it the wrong way - if you're going for a girl half your age, you're not supposed to find a soulmate. You're supposed to raise her into one. At that age, you can still teach her all of your morals and life wisdom. YOU are responsible to grow her into an amazing woman who you'd fall in love with if you met her later in life.

>>53890427
stick it in her

>>53886296
/thread

>>53884483
You cannot get a girl like her unless you are goodlooking so never.
or if you are rich but you will be an old repusilve man by then so no.

>>53889788
>I will not gamble my life away
The point of your life is to pass on your genes to the next generation. What exactly do you imagine by "life", if not having children? Playing video games and masturbating to chinese cartoons?

>>53884232

late 20's early 30s.

>>53889946
This is why I started acting like a sperg and schizo irl. It hasnt gotten me laid, but at least I have a ton of friends.
Actually, it has gotten me laid, my buddy bought a $300/hr escort for me.

40s and still never got married or had kids. Really think it’s too late for me know, too big of a culture gap with younger women and women my age are disgusting old hags just trying to leech off someone financially. I blew it guys. If you’re still young don’t make my mistake.

>>53901132
Why did you wait?

>>53901152
Cause I never could make enough money!!!!

As soon as you have enough to pay the mahr Allah will provide the rest. Please read the Quran if you never want the need to ask questions again and be the most upright member of society.

>>53884232
When he's old enough.

>>53893265
Based

>>53896942
>you're not supposed to find a soulmate. You're supposed to raise her into one
Indeed. After they graduate university women are usually corrupted by liberal ideology and years of sleeping around. Realistically a man should be the one to fill "half her cup" which becomes incredibly harder to accomplish once a woman's cup is already full with ridiculous lifestyle standards. If you don't start molding her before the age of 23 you are playing on hard difficulty.

>>53884232
>get married
this is an emotional decision
get wealthy but you don’t need a license from the govt entitling her to 50% of your shit. little girls want to get married because the church wants to keep records of everyones sex life and debeers wants everyone to think they need a diamond to prove love
don’t give into stupid societal norms that keep you enslaved

>>53884232
I'm trying Alex I really am

>>53890506
long-term practice gfs are arranged marriages by god

unless they're trash

>>53884232
22. It'll be much easier to raise kids than being in your 30s and all ready set in your ways.
>T.36yo man with a 3mo old baby.

>>53886257
It'll be a hell of a lot easier than doing it with a full time job nigger. You can cheat your way through college, you can't (usually) cheat your way through work.