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Show tits so that I can give you an informed opinion

>>53019035
You're a man and this is /biz/.

Why can’t this type of bullshit happen to me

This isn't biz related. But it sounds like maybe he has issues that need to be resolved in therapy. Probably issues involving parents as 90% of therapy shit is.

>>53019058
>Why can’t this type of bullshit happen to me

what do you mean?

>>53019035
sounds like a normal dude with mad anxiety. likely has a small cock or resents an ex of yours. nothing you can do, probably leave him desu.

if hes asian you already lost

>>53019062

i know it's biz. sometimes there are interesting moral threads here, so I posted this one.

>>53019064
That someone pampers and marries some sperg, and then bears with his neuroses.

sounds like typical haircomber

comb his bald head sis

>marries an autist
>surprised when he acts like one
you only have yourself to blame.

>>53019081
On the one hand I want to help him and on the other I am tired of this situation.

>maybe someone had a similar situation

we met 3.5 years ago. Now he is 36 and I am 28.

>>53019081
So it's normal autistic behavior and there's nothing you can do?

>>53019035
you have to understand that without showing us your tits, no advice can be given. it's the law here

>>53019163
No, it's neurotic behavior, but nobody here could possibly have the background knowledge to recommend a feasible course of action. He might have childhood trauma, or anger issues, or his brain might be constantly firing, force-feeding him retarded thoughts like in that situation with the kissing. He might not understand that ue's doing anything wrong. Etc.

>>53019163
Hes just an autist. Nothing you can do. Remember rules; show tits and state your business or GTFO

>>53019035
Trannies have husbands now, lol.

>>53019187
>No, it's neurotic behavior, but nobody here could possibly have the background knowledge to recommend a feasible course of action. He might have childhood trauma, or anger issues, or his brain might be constantly firing, force-feeding him retarded thoughts like in that situation with the kissing. He might not understand that ue's doing anything wrong. Etc.

i can show nicocado avocado ass :D

>>53019035
1. YWNBAW
2. >>/adv/
3. fuck off

>>53019187
i can show nicocado avocado ass

>>53019183
it's interesting. recently I managed to explain to him what it means to look him in the eye when he initiates sex so maybe something can be done. I remember that he was very pleased when he understood this, although he was reluctant to take up this study.

and how do you guys interpret a normal kiss under a significant place?

>>53019259
haircomb

>>53019035
Fuck. I decide to do shrooms tonight at a 50year old. Sound like the younger version of me in my 30s. Angry at my father and bi polar with a little bit of anxiety mixed in. Give him a chance you have changed him a lot. He might need meds or shrooms.

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>>53019163
yeah, this kind of behavior is almost impossible to change. I know this because my mom married an autist. She tried to change him for the better, but he kept reverting back to his abnormal behaviors.

>>53019281

started experimenting with microdosing mdma, says it helps

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>>53019199
We can all see Nico Avocado ass; thats not the point. The point is, if you come here posing or posting as a woman, you are seeking to capitalize on your status as such. That is unnaceptable to us, and we require the playing field levelled, and you to be humbled before addressing us as equals. If you post tits, you become our brother, even though you be a woman, and we can talk as equals. Now fuck off or post tits

>>53019287
he wants to change and I'm just helping him. I don't want to change it without his consent. the thing is, he's setting up all sorts of defenses during these change processes, and it's all very bad for me. I had to start taking xanax.

>>53019298
we can make blood brotherhood. I can take a picture of a drop of menstrual blood. Deal?

>>53019308
No deal. It is tits, or sharpie in the pooper. Why do you want to change the fucking rules? I dont make them neither do you.

you're dating someone with severe anxiety. This will only get worse as you get older. cut ties now

>>53019308
Wut?
Why in the fuck would anyone want to see that?

>>53019314
>No deal. It is tits, or sharpie in the pooper. Why do you want to change the fucking rules? I dont make them neither do you.

I'm not the type of girl to fraternize with guys. I'm not looking for brothers or fathers. simply a healthy psyche without traumas and distortions

>>53019035
>implying i’m going to read all these paragraphs
Yeah this time it’s an actual woman

>>53019329
Then you dont get to post here. Or you can do so without telling anyone you're a woman. So fuck off

>>53019318
he should deconstruct his existing beliefs and build all of them from scratch. like dropping an atomic bomb on everything he's ever thought about relationships and cleaning it up.

>lack of land on which to build a solid structure

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Tits, or gtfo.

>>53019329
fuck you and sage is a cool plant

>>53019350
I don't want to lie to you, I also count on honesty

>>53019299
>wants to change
>sets up defenses
yeah, I doubt he wants to change. Anyway, you shouldn't sacrifice your own health for someone else, especially if they're not treating you as well as you want and they're not willing to compromise for the sake of the relationship.

>>53019308
Ew that's fukin disgusting roastie. No wonder your husband went ape sht on you good riddance lmao.

>>53019035
tell him to lift weights. He sounds like someone suffering from low testosterone levels

>>53019035
alright OP i'll bite and pretend for a moment that you are a womanoid
your hubby seems to be either autistic or very insecure and selfconscious
whether that is due to bad experiences with girls (you being his one and only partner only enhances this problem) or due to physical conditions like small dick syndrome, small height etc. is up to you to decide
i am a very self conscious guy and got a bunch of insecurities which causes me to view sex and intimate moments with my girl more as a struggle rather than enjoyment
at some points i even needed to take viagra just to get it up through the anxiety
just recently we were just cuddling on the sofa half naked, i was in a cuddly mood but did not attempt anything further
hours later when she goes home (we dont live together) she complains how i wouldnt initiate sex even though she showed zero signs of wanting it, actually even pushing back attempts at more intimate cuddles
that brings us to your kissing part
men with insecurities have no idea what the fuck you bitches want
one day it's just a kiss
next day you are butthurt we dont bend you over the kitchen counter to slamfuck you into a quivering orgasm
BE MORE DIRECT
and be consistent about it
we are men
why do you think army is a man thing?
because we execute orders without questions
give him orders and he'll be happy to know for once what YOU want
i'm not saying to go full autismo mode and be like "i want sex scheduled at 11pm this friday"
no
just be a bit playfull
speak, say you are feeling horny, that's something guys like to hear but women seem to think it's to straight forward
it's not, it's your fucking partner for fucks sake
gl faggot

>>53019386
>>wants to change
>>sets up defenses
>yeah, I doubt he wants to change. Anyway, you shouldn't sacrifice your own health for someone else, especially if they're not treating you as well as you want and they're not willing to compromise for the sake of the relationship.

It's hard to give the whole context. he asks questions and asks for advice on issues that are bothering him. I know these changes are hard for him, especially as a man who isn't sure if he's acting manly. However, he really should think about the relationship.

>>53019397

he has been taking testosterone injections for 2 years all the time. he also lifts weights.

>>53019418
testosterone injections at 36???
is this a covert burgerican topic?

>>53019413
>alright OP i'll bite and pretend for a moment that you are a womanoid
>your hubby seems to be either autistic or very insecure and selfconscious
>whether that is due to bad experiences with girls (you being his one and only partner only enhances this problem) or due to physical conditions like small dick syndrome, small height etc. is up to you to decide
>i am a very self conscious guy and got a bunch of insecurities which causes me to view sex and intimate moments with my girl more as a struggle rather than enjoyment
>at some points i even needed to take viagra just to get it up through the anxiety
>just recently we were just cuddling on the sofa half naked, i was in a cuddly mood but did not attempt anything further
>hours later when she goes home (we dont live together) she complains how i wouldnt initiate sex even though she showed zero signs of wanting it, actually even pushing back attempts at more intimate cuddles
>that brings us to your kissing part
>men with insecurities have no idea what the fuck you bitches want
>one day it's just a kiss
>next day you are butthurt we dont bend you over the kitchen counter to slamfuck you into a quivering orgasm
>BE MORE DIRECT
>and be consistent about it
>we are men
>why do you think army is a man thing?
>because we execute orders without questions
>give him orders and he'll be happy to know for once what YOU want
>i'm not saying to go full autismo mode and be like "i want sex scheduled at 11pm this friday"
>no
>just be a bit playfull
>speak, say you are feeling horny, that's something guys like to hear but women seem to think it's to straight forward
>it's not, it's your fucking partner for fucks sake
>gl faggot


it's very interesting and helpful. I am direct in my expectations. we generally have a lot of sex. usually 2 times a day, sometimes 3.

sometimes he just goes into these weird states, like he's suddenly thinking back to the past.

>>53019442
>testosterone injections at 36???
>is this a covert burgerican topic?
yes he takes these injections because he had low testosterone naturally

>>53019413
there's no way we can hug each other. he can never stop himself and always initiates sex.

If it came to a situation like your naked on the couch, he would accuse me of bad intentions and playing him and he would be cruelly offended by me.

>>53019035
don't go in relationships with men expecting them to change for you
find a person that's already well-adjusted, it's that simple

>>53019477
sounds like hes a turbo autist then
have fun with that
maybe try slap him in the face if he acts up and you are sure he wont beat you, lmao

>>53019492
I liked him from the beginning. for me, he can stay like this all the time. he himself asks me for help and show me the way how he can change. I accept it 100%

>>53019500
>sounds like hes a turbo autist then
>have fun with that
>maybe try slap him in the face if he acts up and you are sure he wont beat you, lmao


It's funny. sometimes she spanks his ass. she doesn't treat him like an autistic guy. treats him like an ordinary normal man. the problem is these situations of misinterpretation. this whole thread made me laugh. you're great.

>>53019035
This thread was entirely designed for the autistic husband to read. My wife did same thing one about exact same topic on a different board like 10 years ago lmao. If this one factor is determining the profitability of marriage she's probs a fucked one mate. I DID have sex at my office.

>>53019364
it's not possible. people cannot be truly changed. from one girl to another: GET OUT NOW. I did the same with a cute guy tallish and average dick, u don't even realize how bad it gets until you're out one night and feel like you're looking at an alien. new boyf is the same but bigger dick charming and very charismatic. sex life literally more than doubled knowing I don't have to baby some manchild always questioning and guessing

>>53019539
>sometimes she spanks his ass
are you talking about yourself as "she"? wtf is this just abot thread

>>53019554
>it's not possible. people cannot be truly changed. from one girl to another: GET OUT NOW. I did the same with a cute guy tallish and average dick, u don't even realize how bad it gets until you're out one night and feel like you're looking at an alien. new boyf is the same but bigger dick charming and very charismatic. sex life literally more than doubled knowing I don't have to baby some manchild always questioning and guessing
now it's hard for me because he's my husband and I love him. Thanks for the advice. I can imagine what the change looks like. This is exactly how I feel he questions everything and when I try to guide him to the right interpretation he accuses me of ill will. I think you and I have similar experiences.

>>53019577

sorry, i use a translator. I am from Poland and i don't speak english very well.

>>53019577
thought this too AI having a brainfart lel

>>53019590
life's too short to be spending time around someone who never reached their full potential. doesn't matter if ur married you'll be getting paid out I'm guessing. Take the money and find someone who u deserve lol (evil but true)

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it would probably take a long time for me to mentally get out of this relationship because I was heavily involved in it.

when I met him he looked homeless. he hardly talked to anyone and acted like an alien who doesn't know what other people around him are doing. he is a completely different person now.

there aren't even good therapists in this country! just ignorant people projecting their own problems onto patients.

>>53019597
tits and timestamp or gtfo, this OG knows >>53019366
looks like someone is running his r9k ai bot on biz.
>>53019035
he's obviously autistic and you wanted to marry an awkward guy, now you deal with it. btw, if you were attracted by this awkward guy it means you have issues yourself, you were more interested in saving a loser than having a well-adjusted partner

>>53019035
why is it that men have to change to fit women's needs? All women do is play games. Why do you just act like a normal human being?

>>53019687

he is>>53019687

he's not a loser. he is much more interesting than most men. that's why I'm with him. He has interesting views and an interesting vision of the world. since she's been going to the gym, she looks very good. if it wasn't for these missinterpretation that accuse me of ill will, this relationship would be ok

>>53019694
>why is it that men have to change to fit women's needs? All women do is play games. Why do you just act like a normal human being?


the will to change comes from him. he complains about himself and he wants to change. I am not the originator of this change. for me he is curious and interesting. However, when I see that someone close to me has a problem, I try to help. sometimes my mental resources run out