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My mother comes to me for every single decision she has to make in her life, its like she thinks she can replace her frontal cortex with mine, I can't spend 5 minutes with her without being bombarded with a battery of questions, ranging from economical decisions to the way she should cook or serve food.
Its exhausting, and obnoxious. Its like she can't think for herself at all, and defaults all perceptions of the world to be filtered through my eyes.

Whats wrong with her? What do I do? Are all women this fucking stupid? There is literally no way I can live with a woman if they all do this, fuck that. I'd rather be alone

>> No.51508088
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51508088

>>51508066
>Are all women this fucking stupid?
yes
>There is literally no way I can live with a woman if they all do this
all woman are like that, some are worse than others.

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>>51508066
How old is your mother? I may have some bad news

>> No.51508133

>>51508088
Yeah, then fuck that. I'd rather burn in hell. Who the fuck wants to spend time with a creature so dependable, what a fucking time parasite for fucks sake.

>> No.51508146

>>51508127
47
But my friend complains his wife (25) is the same way.. this shit worries me, I think I might check out of society for real

>> No.51508159

>>51508066
They're not all like that. At least not as bad as your loony mother. When you like a girl it's kind of a pleasure to answer her dumb questions, for me anyway. Women are meant to be molded into who you want them to be. If you don't teach them what's up, some other guy will.

>> No.51508178

>>51508159
>When you like a girl it's kind of a pleasure to answer her dumb questions, for me anyway.
>>Take pleasure in being bombarded with questions 24/7 about menial and mundane shit
Why the fuck, are you that starved for power over others? Why would you ever want to be in that position

>> No.51508202

>>51508178
Like I said your frame of reference is your batty single mother. Most are not as bad.

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>>51508146
If she was not raised to be dependent on men, which is surprisingly common. She may be experiencing the onset of dementia. Retarded or not, be patient and treasure these moments, she won't be around some day, and you do not want to remember being a dick to her over mundane shit

>> No.51508223

>>51508202
Am I the issue here? Is it normal to enjoy being alone?

>> No.51508261

>>51508218
I don't think she was, she was driving stolen exotic cars from Germany to Morocco when she was 19. I don't know whats wrong with her now

Ins't 47 too young for dementia?

>> No.51508346

>>51508261
She was probably doing a power of shit in her day as well, by the sounds. If you don't mind my saying. That tends not to help with brains aging gracefully. Just tell her you've no idea, she's maybe just being conversational.

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>>51508261
>she was driving stolen exotic cars from Germany to Morocco when she was 19
That is some wild shit.
Early symptoms can start in the 30's, although that's very uncommon

>> No.51508437

>>51508369
>>51508346
I am going to make her go to the doctor about it. Just in case. Thanks for the input.

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>ITT: Anon finds out from a Cambodian tax evasion board that his mom may have early onset dementia
What a fucking world we live in.

>> No.51508716

>>51508223
You’re fucking retarded and you should love your mother more you piece of shit

>> No.51508888

>>51508066
Possibly she thinks you have no self confidence which is why you live at home and do nothing. So she may want you to believe your decisions matter, that you are a worthy and capable person.
I could be wrong but.

>> No.51508929

>>51508888
checked
it's either crippling dementia or your mom has lost all hope in you, there is no in between
good luck OP

>> No.51508952

>>51508066
maybe she is just lonely. is your mom a single mom?

>> No.51509015

>>51508066
the question isn't what's wrong with her but why do you feel responsible to liver her life for her? why do you validate her insecurities all the time by making decisions for her? and to think you're actually the victim here kek.

you're in a co-dependence that only exists so you can both reaffirm your own insecurities and until you can learn to say no to your mother and establish proper boundaries it'll just be bad for both of you.

>> No.51509079

Take a week off and go stay in a cabin or go camping without turning on your phone. If she unironically cannot function without you then you either need to make clear boundaries or get ready for the dementia village

>> No.51509262

>>51508066
>What do I do?
Block her

>> No.51509356

>>51508223
It is normal to enjoy some degree of privacy. It is not normal to dislike your mother or women in general, unless they're abusive or you are a homosexual.

>> No.51509409

>>51509015
>actual good advice on biz

>> No.51510768

>>51508066
the truth my dear anon is that you and i both have mother´s with a 2digit IQ.
Wanna know what mine does? When theres something on tv she literally comments everything theyre doing
>look he just hit that man
>haha that guy just fell down
>oh no now he´s bleeding, dont worry its just fake blood though

When she´s watching a new episode of some gay telenovela (which i´ve never ever seen before) she asks ME whats going on rn in the show. Bitch i dont even have those chanells, how would i know

She thinks she´s the smartest person alive but doesnt realize she´s probably the dumbest out of her 11 siblings. She´s more interested in what others buy and do instead of looking at herself. She´s overweight and her hygiene is nonexistent. She rubs her deostick OVER her shirt, not on the skin, doesnt brush her teeth in the morning.

Their place is a mess, i cant stay at their place longer than 2 nights or i´ll go mad and actually kms.

We´ve been cursed dear anonbro.

>> No.51511118

>>51508066
>>>/adv/
also she's your mother OP, go fuck yourself

>> No.51511123

>>51508066
1. Be happy your mom is alive.
2. Your mom is proud of you and trusts your judgement.
3. You're young, she's old - be more kind, she raised you.
4. Many women are stupid, even if your mom is stupid, be kind she is your mother.
5. Collect the questions and see what they fall under, is it general daily tasks, finance, cooking, tech, etc. It could be that she isn't good in one thing and she doesn't know how to learn.

My mom isn't good at tech, iphone but she's good at smart tv's, not a big difference, but immediate reward and lock in help - also old age so bigger surface to see is easier. ironic,I bought my mom an iphone 13 max pro, just because the screen is bigger for her to use meanwhile tons of simps and whores can't even afford one and focus their whole life on a cheap android one.

Basically that anon, be happy she comes to you and respect you. Tone down the snarkness and such. You may seem cool in your head or to internet strangers but when you're older you'll see how wrong you were.

>> No.51511148

>>51508261
>Ins't 47 too young for dementia?
My granma started to develop dementia early 50