/biz/ - Business & Finance

I think >>>/pol/ or >>>/r9k/ are the right boards for you not /biz/.

>>51097932
>any bros here who made it? are you happy now?
I made it and lifes still the same bro, money didnt change much besides serve as an additional comfy factor. I'm a lot more confident though and all the self hatred and doomerism I had is no longer there. Still the same guy, no friends, no gf, no social life. I'm just like you except a lot younger.

I haven't left my house in 3 months and the police keep banging on my windows and taping court paperwork to my door saying I have been going around following around this woman I have not seen or spoken to in over 11 years. Be careful what you wish for. odds are the woman will be psycho and ruin your life

>>51097932
No, I'm not. I workout and browse the internet all day, sometimes I manage to study/do programming shit if I pull myself away from 4chan/youtube/etc. I've gone to a bunch of meetups but it's awkward as fuck and never leads to friendships.

>>51097947

I was a pol user back in 2016 but havent been there for 2-3 years

biz is my home now, and trust me I usually dont make posts like this. just feeling down rn

crypto port is roughly 500k. But I don't think money is going to fix my problems anymore

>>51097984
>I was a pol user back in 2016 but havent been there for 2-3 years
uho a honest post, was't ready for this. Ok keep going everyone with a brain left /pol/ in 2016.

imagine having 4chan at your fingertips and still being a useless, depressed cunt
I literally started on /b/ and /fit/ and have moved through the boards acquiring more skills, making me more confident and attractive, making it easier and easier to choose who I associate myself with
money will not solve that, thats why this is my last meaningful board on my 11 year journey, money isn't necessary for a happy life, just a means to do the things that make you happy

Money doesn't buy happiness, figure out what makes u happy and earn money doing that

>>51097932
No such things like friends exist in modern society. Its myth and copium, when you see people as "friends" they are people of more or less same status, tall don't hang with short, rich don't hang out with poor and beautiful won't hang out with ugly, so you have no "friends" because you are low status - ugly and poor. If you would make money you will not have any friends just co-status people or lower status people trying to get your money. And female will never ever be your "friend", she is your bitch or your enemy. So called "friends" are usually just talking heads, they will blurt some bullshit both of you will nod and that's it, don't count on them, they will throw you under bus. Concept of friendship require a "stake" which is non existent in modern society, read Three Muskeeters, they are friends because they throw "stake". What you want people to be your nanny and take care of you and it wont happen.

>>51097932
Money should make those goals of yours easier to achieve if you make it.
1.no need to work anymore freeing up a bunch of valuable time you could use to improve yourself.
2. Want a social life? Just like crypto it’s an investment. You need to put the time in and effort to go out and meet people.
3.with your freed up time do some self reflection and find the things you love or liked to do.
4. Those hobbies should connect you with other like minded individuals.
If your into fitness take a martial arts class bro it’s really a life changer with how much confidence it gives you.
5. Wanna meet women? Find activities that you might like that women might also have interests in. Like Cooking, Fitness activities like yoga, arts stuff photography painting you get the idea.
End of the day it’s a mindset you can work on even if you didn’t make it it’s still doable just a little more difficult do to a regular work life.

>>51097932
I made it and I feel great
I have a nice home, nice car, amazing wife and 2 kids.my bank account looks great and I keep investing in stocks and crypto.
Don't lesson to those fucking losers that say money doesn't bring happiness. It absolutely dose.i was fucking miserable when I was poor.

>>51097932
You must be happy on your own first. Achieve that and everything falls into place

>>51097984
for the low price of $1000 per month i can fix your problems anon, what do you say?
>t. professional friend and confidant

>>51097932
I made it when I was 29.
and now some years later:
>never had a female friend in my entire life
>khv with no friends
>no social life
>do everything completely alone
nothing changed.

>>51097932
you will still be the same insecure little bitch, but you will have the money and time to seek professional help. some people do that and go on to live fulfilling lives while others dont and rot away alone, often coping with alcohol, drugs and paying escorts to talk to them

>>51097984
First you have to get your life in balance.
Focus on what you know and what you’re good at.
Build your life on principles in balance with nature.
When you are proud of what you do and confident in what you’re good at the confidence will just click.
If you don’t know what you’re worth it’s hard to talk to a woman without looking desperate.
Don’t lust for women it can bring you problems like you don’t imagine.
And if you really wish to see how it looks like in a sandbox just get a hooker.
You can die tomorrow and none of this will even matter.

>>51097932

>>51098829

this is what I fear..
I'm going to be 35 one day, still alone. still no friend group, no girl who loves me, rich but jaded and bored

>>51098970
also I see women around my age and they're disgusting. so it's extremely depressing knowing I'm too old to get a young gf who I'm actually attracted too.

I think I just have issues. Maybe I should see an escort because a lot of my uncertainty and doubt probably comes from lack of experience. I'm 32 and have never seen a woman naked irl, let alone had sex

i made it
im happy

>>51099221
You definitely do have issues, I'd say mostly stemming from self confidence issues.

You're right to worry about the future and that's a good thing. It means you want to change and be a better person.

You will have to get comfortable being uncomfortable. I'd recommend helping other people as a way to bridge the gap between who you are and who you want to be. Can start off as small things. Try to bring positivity to other people's lives. Making other people happy makes you happy. Just try it.

>>51097932
Yes.
I was a 30 year old KHHV.
Then I made it in 2017.
I just did escorts for a while.
But that instilled a different confidence in me, that I can get sex whenever I want.
So I started talking to real non-escort girls, and I realized it's extremely easy to get into a relationship if you're not ugly and dirty and smelly.
I'm a fat manlet and I managed to get a gf myself. But I do miss the days when I would do escorts daily sometimes.

>>51100291

I'm too much of a pussy to even see an escort
I could go try it out soon if I wanted, but just too scared.
scared they'll laugh at my dicklet status
scared I won't be able to get hard

just scared in general..

>>51100325
Fuck off you faggot. Redpill yourself. Learn to fucking be a man. Stop crying in the internet. Stop posting this shit on /biz/. You're a fucking loser.

>>51097932
My bro, find happiness within. Just find something you love and don't stop. Enjoy it, try drugs, try social eith no expectation and look forward to coming home to something you love that is not dependent on someone else giving you validation.

I'm everything your not, and its lonely. I can still get cheated on or treated a fool. There are no exceptions when relying on someone else for validation. Believe me, just don't be or mitigate being a scumbag, help others, find something you love to fill in time even if its gaming, whatever. You will be happy for 50% of the time, but in order to be happy you kust also understand misery. Lifes a rollercoaster so it comes with the package.

Just remember, other people when they go home, you're the last thing they think or care about. They only ever internally worry about themselves.

>>51097932
yup only good looking people can truly live happy lives, sad sad world.

>>51097932
i made it last year at age 35
im still depressed. life is suffering. life is just a series of problems to overcome. it never ends.

>>51100291
can i ask what its like seeing an escort
i am also thinking about it everyday but still too scared to pull trigger and the prettyones are too expensive also and i want BBFS..

>>51097974
>>51097932

Listen you two, money doesn’t magically make a qt appear as your gf. What money does it gives you the time and energy and some confidence to improve yourself and to go out and meet women. It’s the MEANS to get into a relationship. And if you think vitamins gf loves him for his looks….

>>51097932
If I made it I could go to church every day and volunteer and church and donate to church and I could maybe actually find real authentic happiness. If that didn’t work if I was rich I could at least still numb my pain with top quality thc oil all day everyday

>>51100325
Don't worry they've seen it all
They're all usually friendly anyway, since you can leave a bad review on the sites they are on if they misbehave
>>51100566
Just read reviews first
Find the good rated ones with GFE
They are usually really friendly and have seen it all

>>51100516

well said anon. OP listen to this guy.

>>51097932
Hi there!

You seem to have made a bit of a mistake in your post. Luckily, the users of 4channel are always willing to help you clear this problem right up! You appear to have posted a picture of a green cartoon frog when posting, but the frog has nothing to do with the content of your post! Whoops! You should always remember to only post frogs when they are relevant to your post. Posting frogs randomly, when they are not relevant, is poor form. And you should always use a name in the Name field. Otherwise your post shows up as "Anonymous".

Now, there's no need to thank me - I'm just doing my bit to help you get used to the 4channel culture!

>>51101257

this post is fucking cringe. fucking hate you faggots and your cringe attempts at "humor"

GO BACK.

>>51100325
Ease yourself into it. First session just tell the whore you want to play with and suck on her tits and rub her pussy. If you get hard from this, ask for a hand job. Keep seeing different whores and keep escalating what you do with them. Eventually you can build up your experience to put your peepee inside them without sperging.

>>51097932
My net worth was over $400k atthe peak and I barely thought about it. The good thing was I was able to buy a used car and put a down payment on a condo with it without putting financial strain on myself, but otherwise I haven't done much different, especially after it crashed and my net worth is a lot less.

>>51099221
At that age you're probably better off just finding a caring, understanding escort and going for it. Either that or creating a Tinder profile and just being honest about your virginity and saying you want someone to take it. Some women have a fetish for that, believe it or not.

I think it's pretty important the woman is caring though. You don't want to have cold, impersonal sex; that will probably just warp your perspective even more.

>>51097932
Many of us here are just so damaged having a normal life will never be possible. No amount of therapy, no amount of medication, no amount of “just hit the gym and lift bro!” Is ever gonna change that. In my 40s, I have made peace with that. I will never have a wife or kids. I will never have a normal life. I am just trying to drop out of society as much as possible and find a few hobbies I can enjoy on my own sometimes.

>>51102313

> escort
> NOT having cold, impersonal sex

pick one.

also sex with an escort isn't real sex, because eveything including the bjs would be with a condom on.

OP would be fucking rubber

>>51097974
Focus on securing a high earning potential now/ a high salary. That's the second step to truly making it. Good luck, anon.

>>51098154
Bad advice, will just make you a depressed "non-binary" moron

pursue science instead

>>51097932
Get your test levels checked

>>51102420
The actual sex matters a lot less than kissing, hugging, foreplay, human touch. That's what OP needs to be eased into so he can feel like a part of the human race.

>>51102549

kissing, hugging, foreplay etc with an escort just sounds like a 1 way ticket to STDs

are you trying to ruin OP's life?

>>51098822
more like professional leech. nice dubs tho

>>51097932
>demoralisation thread
You glowie fags never change.
For anyone not falling for the trap: YES, you can become happier if you make it but if you weren't happy before, no money will ever make you "happy". You need to be happy with yourself first and then it compounds. Stop being doomers. It's not fun.