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Did u stick ur dik in crazy, opie?

Block her so she has to unblock you elsewhere to scream at you.

>>50717738
>she's threatening to block me on the last place too, and left my last messages on read.
Why would you ever put yourself in this position? Your self image and emotions are completely hinging on some unstable broad (probably a whore too). You need to find meaning in your life and realize your potential. Otherwise you're doomed in searching for validation and entertainment from others.

>>50717738
>on/off girlfriend
you're wasting your time on a worthless whore

what happened, friend?

p.s. ignore anyone insulting women. they are nazis, they are liars, they deserve to be tortured to death in front of a crowd, and they aren't going to be helpful in navigating this delicate situation.

what did you do to make her upset?

>>50717738
the fact that you care enough to make this post proves to me you lost the power in the relationship and its finished.. time to T up OP.. take the blackpill..

>on/off girlfriend

You're a fag op

>>50717738
Leave her and move on
Period
There is no other option
You can never let a woman have this kind of control over you. She will never respect you. And she will turn her next 10 bfs into cucks too. Pray for them. But trust me. Leave and don't look back.

>>50717861
she wanted some time to herself. and i was going through a tough week where all i wanted was to see her. and i was okay for a few days but she bailed on our weekend plans and i fucking lost it. we started arguing, then it got worst on saturday when i drove up to her place and said all this shit i didnt mean about her never seeing me again, that i was done. i was just so fucking pissed off. all i had to do was say "okay cool ill see you saturday" instead i lost my fucking mind and now she wants nothing to do with me anymore. she said shes tired of giving me chances, she doesnt want to talk or meet, shes threatening to block me on the only place left where she hasn't blocked me and she left my last message on read this morning. i genuinely can not lose this one. and i feel so fucking awful about what happened, what was said, how i handled it, everything-- its just fucking gnawing at me. i cant sleep, eat, focus, anything.

>>50717993
This. Nothing worse than to let her or even make it so that she has legitimate control over your behavior and emotions. Women geniuenly desire the opposite. Sure they want to tame the beast so to speak, but not control it. This bitch is obviously deranged and the more OP feeds into this cycle of abuse she will keep feeling validated.

>>50718026
how old are you man?
this kinda shit used to happen to me all the time from 16-24 with my korean gf
dumped her ass and got me a sweet philipina gf and now my life has been eternal bliss with 0 arguments

>>50718026
you know "time to herself" actually means time bouncing on chad's dick
no exceptions

>>50717738
>on/off girlfriend
Why the fuck do you have an on/off girlfriend? Either there's something wrong with her in which case you need to drop her, or there's something wrong with you and you need to get your shit together and stop being a cuckold.

>>50718026
>she bailed on our weekend plans and i fucking lost it.

Your only option at this point is to just not care. Realistically, she's already interested in some other guy and is stringing you along because she doesn't have the decency to tell you the truth. She's attempting to place all the blame on you, so that you go along with it more easily. Stop caring, immediately, and throw all her shit onto her lawn. You'll retain your self respect at least. You don't want this girl, anon, believe me. The woman you want to be with doesn't behave this way.

>>50718062
Based bro. Found me a nice xxxxxna and loving the dream. You should delete your thread. We don’t want nazis finding out our life hack and fucking shit up for our 20 offspring.

>>50718095
He's going through the interview process and he just failed

Time to learn and move on

Do better next time

>>50717861
>>50718026
Fucking kek dude this is great, imagine being a male and requiring female attention. This is Chris Chan level autistic you fucking sperg

>>50718165
we've been together/off for almost 2 years

>>50718195
>she’s been fucking other dudes including me for 2 years

>>50718195
You're a cuck beta
Better get your shit together
I'm telling you it's too late with this one

>>50717738
Just let her calm down, OP. Invest in yourself (and Algorand) in the meantime, so you feel good when she comes around.

>>50718210
Gg, anon.

>>50718026
You sound like a piece of shit, have you ever thought about not being one?

>>50718319
i really try to act with the best of intentions. its just my fucking mind and my emotions that seize hold and just fucking ruin me and make me do this stupid off the wall shit. i have anxiety that just consumes me. and my mind will start to just choke the fuck out of me with these persistent thoughts that just never fucking end.

>>50718357
dump her

>>50717845
this

>>50718357
Have you tried cannabis? Or just stay busy. Get a job, even if it’s flipping boogers.

>>50717738
remain no contact. if a woman can warp your day this hard over nothing, it means you shouldn't be together

>>50717861
>what did you do to make her upset?
assumption that it his fault

>>50718357
If you could squat with two plates on the bar you’d probably stop being such a little emotion ridden bitch. Do some cardio if you’re the spindly little cunt that i imagine you look like

>>50717738
Oldfag here.
Damn, in a way I miss being young experiencing young love and break ups.
It's just dopamine.
That's all that first loves are.
You'll get over it, but you will keep chasing it.
Eventually the dopamine runs thin and pussy is just pussy, like any other depreciating asset.
Women are fun, don't take them so seriously.
Put your passion towards work, creating something.
Keep your empathy and emotions in check.
Be stoic and go with God.
Learn how to put women in check.
A woman unchecked will only lead you away from God, money and time.

>>50718026
>i genuinely can not lose this one. and i feel so fucking awful about what happened, what was said, how i handled it, everything-- its just fucking gnawing at me. i cant sleep, eat, focus, anything.
Copy paste this to her. Be ready to crawl. Tell her you want to spend the rest of your life trying to make her happy and the frustration was with yourself, too. Tell her you'll do just about anything to grow old with her. Mean it. Otherwise, these guys might have a point.

>>50717738
yeah she's testing you, ignore her. just tell her how you feel and then put that shit on ice. distract yourself or whatever you have to do to not simp like a little bitch.

>>50718646
Me again. I can get behind these guys in sentiment, but as I close in on being an oldfag and my fruit begins to wither on the vine, I can't help noticing that being with HER is the prime directive. Scrounge in the dirt for her if you have to. There is no greater indignity than to be middle aged alone. My words are worth the whole thread.

>>50718698
have you considered that you are alone as an old man because you act like a pussy?

>>50718751
this. women are expert shit testers. They are constantly evaluating the fitness of their mate. It's hard wired into them because their survival depends on it. Being a whiny little bitch makes the pussy dry. Being stoic and firm in your convictions is what most women are more receptive to.

>>50718516
>two plate squat
wow big boy

>>50717738
>on/off girlfriend

Who has the patience for this type of situation. Either it works or it doesn't. I have shit to do, if you're causing me problems(like OP is skipping work over this??) you're gone.
You deserve better OP, don't put up with that shit. Value your time and have some self-respect.

>>50718847
This is the absolute bare minimum I agree, but OP is obviously a huge faggot so we must be realistic

>>50717738
kys larper

>>50717738
The more you give your attention to her during the ese trying times the more she will be subconsciously trained to behave this way. Don’t ever apologize for shit you don’t need to apologize. She will subconsciously think of you as beta and rationalize leaving you-which honestly if you don’t have a kid who gives a fuck. The fact is she wouldn’t act like this if she wasn’t already with Tyrone behind your back. Don’t give these bitches your attention when they misbehave. Apologize if you genuinely fucked up, but just know that if she even slightly wanted someone else or saw you as beta…you playing her game will make her respect you less-which is her ultimate goal because she wanted to leave you from the beginning. If she’s being a cunt she’s basically forcing you to be an asshole to her if you stand up for yourself or be a beta by succumbing to her. Regardless she’s basically unhappy with you and wants to control the situation and make it to where she won’t feel guilty for leaving you for whore reasons.

By this point you’ve probably already been such a beta to her whatever you did is 10x worse than it is in her mind…and she’s probably already running to another man or her whore friends and they’re laughing at you. Don’t let these dumb bitches control the situation. As a man you are the head and her opinions are worthless.

>>50718453
cannabis and tripping 5-10 years ago are probably the two reasons my mind is the way it is.

>>50718646
i cant tell if you're being serious or not.

>>50718676
yeah trying to do that without getting blocked on the last place... i want to meet with her though, or at least have a conversation on the phone.

>>50718896
i know anon, it does work though-- for just as great as it gets, it gets equally this bad... and skipping work was bad, ive only been at this place a few months... but i honestly just don't give a shit either. probably shouldnt have done it though but fuck i can focus on that shit when my mind is doing this.

>>50717738
She needs to know you can leave her. Talk reasonably but don't forget your value

>>50718847
99% of men on earth can't squat 2pl8 ass to grass. Yeah you can take every plate in the gym and do 1500lb leg presses with 1inch rom. That doesn't mean you can squat like Indians street shit.

>>50718589
cringiest shit ive ever read. What are the mental gymnastics for you christ cucks putting money and work before family

>>50719026
You sound fucking retarded and I guarantee you’re a manlet beta. The guy you’re replying to is 100% correct.

Depends, what do you mean by on/off girlfriend?

>>50719026
My mom ruined my family because my dad didn't keep her in check. 10 years later she apologized to me saying she lost it and shouldn't have divorced my dad.
The guy is right. The advice in the Bible will always be relevant because human behavior never changes.

>>50719007
I meant parallel desu. No way OP has the dexterity/ hip flexor mobility to get even 135 ass to grass.

>>50717738
Don't ask relationship advice from handholdless kissingless manlet virgins. They want you to be as reviled as they are. Fights happen and eventually fights don't = going to break up so you take the time to cool doen and come back to it.
Get her into conversation about something benign so at least your talking then if you can talk about the fight own the parts you own and let her vent. Work to distract yourself is better then calling off to mentally obsess.

>>50718589
Based oldfag

>>50718026
>i drove up to her place and said all this shit i didnt mean about her never seeing me again, that i was done
You drove to her place to yell at her and break up with her. Then got mad she broke contact with you? You sound mentally unstable. Seek help.

>>50719107
she's practically my gf without the title. we hang out all the time, talk every day, cook dinner for each other, spend the night a bunch with each other, she gave me a bunch of surprises the weekend before all this happened. but she is having a difficult time coming around to me, due to this behavior. where she wants time to herself and i think it has something to do with me, which leads to these explosive fights but for the last 3 months things have been fucking golden. the weekend she surprised me with some gifts, we were working on something together and she said something about working a project is true test of a relationship. and this whole thing happened in the last 5 days and its just been absolutely fucking hell, i can't believe i responded the way that i did and i have no fucking idea how to fix this since she refuses to talk to me on the phone, she's blocked my number, snap, practically everything but one more app, which she just threatened to do again last night and she didnt respond to me this morning. im going otu of my mind

>>50717738
What does this have to do with buisness kill yourself and get of this board

>>50717738
>>50718989
Listen here Dr. Faggot. Here’s something I heard around the time the mother of my child was cheating on me:
“the person who is more invested in the relationship is the one who has less control in it.”

I was absolutely a mess when my ex & I broke up, knew my child was gonna be in for a life of single parent households etc but I realized afterwards that my mistake wasn’t in trying hard enough but rather only trying TOO hard.

If you let a girl walk all over you like that, and it results in you getting back together (what you want right now, it seems) then all you’re doing is prolonging & intensifying the inevitable conclusion further down the road. Like a small hit of heroin to avoid the full unpleasantness of withdrawal. It really doesn’t help you at all. Women are biologically evolved to give shit tests in order to check the strength/mental fortitude of their man. YOU MUST show her that you can live without her if need be. And if that’s not the case, then honestly you shouldn’t be in a relationship with a girl in the first place. Men are the strong loners, the bacon-bringer-homers, the ones who strike out on their own & do things by virtue of their own wherewithal; and women are the ones who are supposed to support them and cling to them, bear their children & then help take care of them, and enable them to do even more magnificent things.

N O T ! the other way around! By reacting to her shit tests & emotional about it you’re demonstrating you’re a weak man. Period. That’s all there is to it. When she blocks you you have to start a virtual game of chicken, where she will eventually be the one to unblock + get back in contact with you, and show initiative to make things right. Rather than you breaking, giving her what she wants and cucking. that’s the way things are, don’t make the mistakes I did. I bet if I wasn’t such a little bitch my ex would have run back to me instead of leaving, but I was, lol.

Sadly the best advice is wait and see. Maybe she was planning on taking everything further until what happened happened.. maybe things need to reset abit before she feels like talking to you again.. only in Denmark right? xD

holy fuck is this reddit?
/biz/ is about asian women and making money, get your faggot ass off here nigger

KYS yourself OP kek

>>50719216
tell her you want to be officially bf or gf and that she has to choose.
by putting it off you are making her choose no and go with chad
stop wasting time and make her choose, have some dignity

>>50718026
Friend, she’s not attracted to you anymore and doesn’t know how to say it. I’m sorry. I don’t say that to be mean. She just doesn’t like you. Doesn’t want to see you. Doesn’t want to have sex with you anymore. She may even have her eye on some other guy. Whatever it is, she’s not attracted to you anymore and she this is how she’s expressing it. Move on. It’s 100% over.

>>50719026
Men over women, deal with it cuck.
The only thing that matters from the relationship is her bearing some sons and doing housework.
After that she can die for all I care.

>>50719328
i might if i ever get a chance to speak with her again...i dont know what to do at this point

Were you having sex off and on too or was it strictly friendship? Because if that changed fast, maybe she just needs to think it out, been there

>>50719959
nah the sex/hooking up was always consistent

I'm guesing it was getting serious then, best bet sadly is let it rest for a few days and the next proper time you get to talk with her, just say it as it is. I wish you luck