/biz/ - Business & Finance

>>49380162
>Does making it bring happiness, bros?
Yes

Cheer up Tiger!

It's hard to believe but none of us are really "making it"

I've had sex. I'm 6 feet tall, got a gf and blah blah blah...I'm still not 10/10 happy. Maybe 6/10

Whatever you need to be happy...you've already got it inside of you. It can't be found out there, anon

>>49380181
>>49380184

both these posts actually did cheer me up a little bit lol
but I'm also slighly drunk rn

>>49380162
You will still be the same pathetic emotionally stunted person no matter how much money you have. Seriously, what your describing is what angst-ridden teens/young adults go through, not 32-year-old fucking men.

>>49380162
I‘m 32yo khv too but I‘m 6‘2 and have a 7 inch dick

>>49380227

That's what I'm trying to say. I don't see how money will fix this.
You can't change the past and give yourself those experiences

>>49380162
friends dont last forever, people move, change, get married, not even worth trying to hold onto in the end, just go get drunk at bars and festies and find ways to smile with others, go to another country have some laughs with strangers and bond over the fragility of life

>>49380162
Making it will only lead to suicide, once you realize you have nothing to strive for in life. That's why houses are so expensive, to keep you entertained a couple of decades working and aiming for a goal (house). Once you have all the free time in the world and huge amounts of money, you'll see you don't really want anything . You could be happy with what you have right now, that's the lesson here. Stop thinking stuff like "my life will start once I make it in crypto" "I'll get a girlfriend when i have a house and tons of money" , don't put artificial obstacles like these to avoid getting out of your comfort zone. I'm a dicklet 5' 6" manlet, 37, autistic, never had girlfriend. But fucked tons of prostitutes, but still feel empty inside emotionally speaking and sexually frustrated because of my tiny dick. Nothing is gonna change that, same with you, with o without money you'll always be a manlet fag, it was your choice is just the way it is. Accept it and lose your virginity to some masseuse, anon. Pay her do you a hj or bj, and when you feel ready have real sex. Understand no woman will feel sexual desire for you like they would feel for other men, but they may still like you, or have pity sex with you if you play your cards right. That's all you'll get and it should be enough to fill a manlet heart

>>49380387
*Wasn't your choice

>>49380387

damn bro
I really needed to hear that. Thank you.
We can't change the hand we've been dealt.

You're more alpha than me though. I can't see myself going to a masseuse and asking for a bj/hj. I'm too autistic and would proably have severe anxiety where I probably wouldn't be able to get hard. aren't they all old asian women too

>>49380204
it is cope but it's true. happiness is a baseline and returns to equilibrium.
still i'd rather be rich and happy than poor and happy.

just because you can be satisfied and content it doesn't mean you should stop grinding and trying to achieve more

>>49380387
You're putting too much importance on your dick. Girls are just as insecure about their predator looking pussies that smell like a chinese fish market.
Both you and OP have more worth than any roastie could offer you. You are kings but you don't realize it.
As for the question "does money buy happiness?" -- well if you were flat broke right now you'd be even more miserable, so yes, relative to being poor it's easy to see that money does in fact buy happiness.

>>49380446
they aren't all old. find a place in a nicer town and they'll be mid 20s-mid 30s. i maybe got one that was 40 but was still fair looking.
>>49380387
the autism is the problem. your height and dick size make some women inaccessible but you can still find love
watch the documentary my penis and i

>>49380446
he's talking about massage parlors with happy endings.
escorts.
you go in for a shower, girl gives you a back massage. maybe if she likes you she puts her boobs on you. then either you or her ask for the "flip" where you lie on your back

>>49380495

I've heard of those but how do you avoid a sting operation
with my luck i'd the one to get fucking arrested.

also same issue, the anxiety alone wouldn't allow me to get hard. the fact that they're usually ugly old women won't help either.

maybe if I find a parlor with girls that look like japanese pornstars it'll help lol

>>49380550
Ok just take a sex vacation to Thailand. They're attracted to anybody that's willing to spend Baht and their little pussies will fit well with your small dick. The bar girls there had a joke about why they prefer Asian guys. "444"; They pay 4k Baht ($120), have 4 inch dicks, and only last 4 minutes before cumming. I can't relate, I was banging cervixes with my 7 incher and only paid 2k Baht max. But anyway... If your "anxiety" won't allow you to do the deed, at least you'll have plenty of other stuff to do. Thailand is a wonderful country.

>>49380387
The Station - by Robert Hastings

Tucked away in our subconscious minds is an idyllic vision. We see ourselves on a long, long trip that almost spans the continent. We're traveling by passenger train, and out the windows we drink in the passing scene of cars on nearby highways, of children waving at a crossing, of cattle grazing on a distant hillside, of smoke pouring from a power plant, of row upon row of corn and wheat, of flatlands and valleys, of mountains and rolling hills, of biting winter and blazing summer and cavorting spring and docile fall.

But uppermost in our minds is the final destination. On a certain day at a certain hour we will pull into the station. There will be bands playing, and flags waving. And once we get there so many wonderful dreams will come true. So many wishes will be fulfilled and so many pieces of our lives finally will be neatly fitted together like a completed jigsaw puzzle. How restlessly we pace the aisles, damning the minutes for loitering ... waiting, waiting, waiting, for the station.

However, sooner or later we must realize there is no one station, no one place to arrive at once and for all. The true joy of life is the trip. The station is only a dream. It constantly outdistances us.

"When we reach the station, that will be it !" we cry. Translated it means, "When I'm 18, that will be it ! When I buy a new 450 SL Mercedes Benz, that will be it ! When I put the last kid through college, that will be it ! When I have paid off the mortgage, that will be it ! When I win a promotion, that will be it ! When I reach the age of retirement, that will be it ! I shall live happily ever after !"

Unfortunately, once we get it, then it disappears. The station somehow hides itself at the end of an endless track.

>>49380674
"Relish the moment" is a good motto, especially when coupled with Psalm 118:24: "This is the day which the Lord hath made; we will rejoice and be glad in it." It isn't the burdens of today that drive men mad. Rather, it is regret over yesterday or fear of tomorrow. Regret and fear are twin thieves who would rob us of today.
So, stop pacing the aisles and counting the miles. Instead, climb more mountains, eat more ice cream, go barefoot oftener, swim more rivers, watch more sunsets, laugh more and cry less. Life must be lived as we go along. The station will come soon enough.

>>49380324
based

>>49380674
Profound. Guess the real station were the friends we made along the way.

>>49380261
true, but you can figure out what makes you happy and pursue it if you have money. in your case that seens to be hedonism, so if you were wealthy you could travel the world a bit and slut it up along the way. sow thr wild oats a bit, get some partying done. visit asia, manlets are accepted there, get laid with the local jungle bunnies.

money can't buy happiness, but it can buy the things that lead towards it.

Does meditation help remove the feeling of regret?

>>49380162
I rather be rich than continue wasting my youth struggling.

>>49380446
Some anon said something about a massage parlor, that's what i meant, tell to yourself mentally "I'm going for a massage only", if you're too shy or insecure to ask directly for a hj. Nothing wrong with that. Maybe the girl will take the initiative and offer you a "happy ending" for a few bucks extra. If you're too anxious and your dick doesn't get hard, well so be it, the girl would still estimulate you and try to get you hard, at least you would feel the touch of a woman's hand down there. Doesn't matter if the girl is too ugly or old or fat for your taste, you've got to start somewhere. I hope you solve your issues, other than being a manlet most things are in your head you can work around that, some anon said women are insecure as well, and he's right. If it makes you feel better by the time you're over 35 you'll see how everything in life is really so easy, is not the end of the world asking a girl for a date, asking people for favors from time to time, giving a hug to your friends and loved ones, doing things, helping others, being a little more confident in general especially when talking to strangers.

>>49380162

This has to be a LARP.

How the fuck do you make it to age 32 without having sex? lol

>>49380162
it's a pretty nice rush, but then I'm not unattractive, stupid, and mean.

>>49381011

what do I do if they send a man? like what if they think I'm just a "normal" customer?

>>49381144
ask him for a happy ending

>>49380674
This is why I still lurk these boards. Thank you anon

>>49381083
33 here

>>49380324
This. Even if you make the effort, sometimes people just drift away.
In the end, there is only family and even that doesn't last forever.

>>49381083
If you never made the effort, you will never have sex.
There are also the prudes who think premarital sex is sinful as taught by their parents.

Right now I am 29 and I never went bareback.

To an extent. To crave more is only human

Here are the steps to happiness.

Start working out.
Work out.
Work out some more. (This will at one point give you confidence.)

Don't go around thinking who has it better or who is more happier than you. Just fucking live life and try to enojy the ride.

Stop eating huge amounts of sugar and shitty food.
Ask a friend to slap you every single day if you don't approach at least one woman. Small goals make for big ends.

>>49381708

I already work out. Been working out for years and have a decent physique.

It doesn't matter when you're 5'3". It's just cope.
I still lift though out of habit. I can't drop it now and I enjoy the process of packing on more muscle.

it absolutely does not help for happiness. it is fairly good for stress relief though.
as to your last statement, I have no friends irl

>>49380162
>Demoralization thread #694,201,337
I want you to know that you are the one choosing to be this way, that I have known many men your height or shorter that had plenty of success with women, that it is entirely possible to make your dick bigger with vacuum pumps and light jelqing if you have any sort of discipline or regiment and frankly doesn't really matter anyways for getting someone off of either gender, and that you do in fact have the inner strength to foster friendships and relationships. You have no excuse, at all, and are the product of millions of years of struggle to even exist to begin with and should honor that by not giving up. The very first thing you should do assuming this isn't a larp or a glowing fifth-column-esque pile of shit of a thread is go see a counselor or therapist and talk about your issues so they can help you break the fucked up thought patterns you are trapped in. It is not impossible, and you CAN do it.

>>49382638
5’3 is not even that bad bro, I know a 5’3 guy and he gets more girls than anyone else I know. Main thing that sets him apart? He’s confident as hell.
Meanwhile I’m 6’1 and am lucky to get laid once a month after being a giga normie and making all the effort every time

>>49382690

you say its a demoralization thread and try and discount my struggles, but the reality is, :I'm not trying to demoralize anyone.
I think it's you who's trying to demoralize me and other supermanlets.

you have NO IDEA how hard life is as a man at 5'3".
and despite being 5'3" I'm sucessful in every aspect of my life other than the social aspect.
I'm financially sucessful.
I workout and have a decent phsyique.
I'm healthy.

The only think I truly suffer from is crippling loneliness and depression from missing out. and my height is 100% the reason I was held back in that regard

>>49381708
Honestly, this ^
Work out, eat healthy, get a dope haircut, get a cool style, and have a non incel attitude. You’ll be fine. But if you have any semblance of /pol/ tier misogyny you will be shot down and excluded from the mating process. You don’t have to be a feminist but you absolutely do need to acknowledge that women are not objects and are equal to you, thus treat them as such. If you don’t understand that, at least pretend that you do. Women will reciprocate your kindness with their own. Don’t be an asshole to them, that never works out

>>49382738
I sincerely hope you stop finding things to blame and instead make the active choice to live your best life before it is too late and you are consumed by regret. Stop getting high off the smell of your own farts and being mad about not being as tall as you think you should be, and play the hand you were dealt as best you are able. Any other decision is heretical, and I bid you good day.

>>49382809

sometimes, there ARE things to blame.
denying that is just delusional.

but noone ever said life was fair and you're right I need to learn to live with it.

>>49382862
5’3 isn’t even that short honestly, it’s not like you’re a full on dwarven. It’s got nothing to do with your lack of success with women. Your failure to get sex is genuinely die to your bad attitude and outlook, which manifests in a lack of confidence. You need to be autistically confident. Stop making excuses.

>>49380674
>>49380681
STOP THE FEELS!!

>>49382931
>5’3 isn’t even that short honestly, it’s not like you’re a full on dwarven. It’s got nothing to do with your lack of success with women. Your failure to get sex is genuinely die to your bad attitude and outlook, which manifests in a lack of confidence. You need to be autistically confident. Stop making excuses.
bruh this is major cap, girls ive spoken to have literallly admitted they find short guys repulsive

>>49380181
2023 will be the year

>>49383053
Probably because you emitted insecurity and inceldom vibes. Take a shower, rock a funky hairstyle, dress well, lift and learn game. Girls will no longer care about your manletism

>>49383053
>Caring about what the opposite gender thinks of you, ever, for any reason
Men choose, women get chose. Caring about what anyone thinks of you of the opposite gender beyond the ones that like and accept you as you are (when you've put the work in) is the absolute peak of a cuckolds mindset. I legitimately do not care what any woman I am not actively fucking or raising a child with thinks of me. Ever. For any reason. I don't go out of my way to disrespect them openly or be an incel, I just simply don't give a fuck what they think of me. It is very simple to do this.
>>49382862
Attaboy. Not saying it doesn't make shit harder, but it isn't impossible unless you decide it is.

>>49380227
>never heard of a midlife crisis
angsty teen detected

>>49381144
This sounds like a seinfeld episode, kek. You're supposed to do a research about the parlor, and if they offer sexual services. Don't know how it works in America but don't expect to go to a full fledged spa-like place, or a reputable massage place which women and sportists frequent for actually having a massage, for starters. Search in the internet where you can have a happy ending in your area, that is, if you want to have sex in the first place, maybe deep down you don't want to lose your virginity to some stranger, do whatever you feel like, don't take advice from random strangers. I just suggest this because it's a bit easier having an hj or bj than calling a escort and knowing you have to introduce your benis in vagina and dealing with the anxiety of getting your dick hard and/or performing well

>>49383252

do I bring a condom if I only want a hj/bj?

what are the chances I'll catch an std from a bj? I'm guessing those asian masseuses' give tons of bjs/sex every day. isn't it risky?

No. It doesn't. It brings boredom. You need something to work on, something to strive for. I retired last year at 31 and am still looking for that. I started gardening and would like to take up painting but I don't know where to begin with that.
I will say that I enjoy my relaxing mornings, though.

>>49382738
> The only think I truly suffer from is crippling loneliness and depression from missing out. and my height is 100% the reason I was held back in that regard
Here is a black/white pill for you. No woman will ever love you. Not because you are a shorty (that too) but because women can’t love like we men do. Even if you were a 6’2 Chad, she’d forget about you the moment she’d meet a 6’4 rich Chad.
You should find a goal for your life. Something that interests (You)

>>49383288
Usually these places have condoms for you. So long as it’s not raw you have nothing to worry about.
I lost my virginity to a hooker and she was quite nice. It’s only a terrifying thing in your mind. So long as you are clean and normal looking they’ll be nice to you.

>>49380674
This. The journey is the destination anon. You have to remember to live in the present sometimes.

>>49380324
Also women are only hot when they are part of the "toxic" world. Once they gone from that they become naggers.

Strangers is the only way to live.

No, none of this self help shit does. But it does make it bare able when you get out of bed and your body is sculpted like a marble Greek god, you have 7 figures in your account, and the girl you were with last night asks you to stay in bed.

>>49385814
LARP harder incel; you don't even play DMC and if you did I'd fucking shit down your throat, newfag.

>>49381083
I actively have to go out of my way to not have sex. But if you don’t have your shit together it can happen.

>>49381083
I am nearing 30 and I never even kissed

>>49386017
>you don’t even play the vidya I love you incel newfag reeee

Go back to /r9k/ you zoomer faggot. You never made it because your hands are brown and you spent too much time in this shit hole. Use your gains to start a small business, diversify, crypto is only a starting point. Go lift, touch grass, touch a real woman. Then if you suffer long enough, you might WAGMI.

>t. /fit/izen Vergil Poster

>dude just improov go to the gym two times per day join 12 different book clubs become rich and extremely passionate harp player bro
all this empty normalhomo casual advice is useless considering that the vast majority of people that are in relationships are none of those things, probably even more boring and interest-less than a standard kissless virgin

just get with the terms that some people are simply meant to die alone

>>49381083
By disregarding women completely. You know, the opposite of what Chads do but claim to do. All these dudes care about is getting their dick wet and thus they use every trick in the book to obtain that. There's no bigger simp than a man whore.

>he thought he was gonna make it in the material world
>he thought he was gonna enjoy his new found wealth
>he thought he was gonna become the new elite
>he thought his real life was finally about to start

>>49381083
>How the fuck do you make it to age 32 without having sex? lol
Easily, just shows how much you lack the ability to control desire

>>49386107
lmfao holy shit seethe and cope more you autistic fat fucking incel virgin loser, you can't even play DMC and you larp as Virgil pft hahahahahah holy shit I'm so glad i'm not a pathetic fat fucking LARPing loser like you. Unironically kys you subhuman poorfag, not only could I destroy you but I also have a higher networth than you. You're laughably pathetic and to see you unironically think you're cool LARPing as Virgil is the peak of laughable beta incel behavior.

Screencapped, faggot. Thanks for the keks

>>49380162
Anon, I have a sekski 22 yo gf and it’s honestly annoying most of the time. She is sleeping right now at almost noon and I am dreading her waking up :(

Making it means you can spend money on pleasurable things until you burn your dopamine receptors and kill yourself like Chester Bennington, Avicii, Prince, Chris Cornell and so on and so on.
Pleasure is not the same thing as happiness.

thread theme: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hVDnN6WyLsI

>>49382738
>The only think I truly suffer from is crippling loneliness and depression from missing out. and my height is 100% the reason I was held back in that regard

That's hard, man. You can't control how others feel about you, but you can control how much it does affect you. It's not really your fault or choice to be born a short fag, or a short dick homo sapiens, always remember that. Hell you can even tell that to a girl if she mentions your dick is too tiny. "It wasn't my choice, baby" Look yourself in the mirror and learn to appreciate your small penis, shave it, take care of it, at least it could look aesthetically pleasing, think yourself as one of those classical or greek statues; you probably have a well built body like the David by Michaelangelo, pose like a statue in front of a mirror naked and laugh. Imagine a blind person or a cripple, they suffer a lot more than you, but once they accept their destinies, they begin to enjoy life with whatever they have. About the social aspect of your life, friend, I wish I could give advice most people here are introverted borderline autistic fags. Join a chess club, take a course on sth, go back to college, that's all I can think off but you will have to deal with a lot of anxiety and failure means you will get frustrated, and maybe feel even lonelier and hating yourself a lot more, so be careful

>>49380387
You can be a tall man in around 24 hours, as well as an average dick. All in 24 hours. But you need the least bit of creativity to do this.

>>49382735
>I know a 5’3 guy and he gets more girls than anyone else I know.
No you don't
>Main thing that sets him apart? He’s confident as hell.
Meanwhile I’m 6’1 and am lucky to get laid once a month after being a giga normie and making all the effort every time
Go back to plebit

>>49380387
I like how you used the word "you" instead of "I" to project your insecurities and problems on everyone but yourself

>>49382931
>Your failure to get sex is genuinely die to your bad attitude and outlook, which manifests in a lack of confidence. You need to be autistically confident. Stop making excuses.

>>49383171
>Probably because you emitted insecurity and inceldom vibes. Take a shower, rock a funky hairstyle, dress well, lift and learn game. Girls will no longer care about your manletism
Holy cope lmao

>>49384742

the condoms they provide will likely be too big for me. I have a 4 inch dick. Can I bring my own? or will they insist I use their condom?

>>49388309
I think I just need to be become slighly insane. Insane enough to not care at all what others think. I live in a clown world and i need to become a clown and just laugh at it all

>>49383095
KEK no no Anon 2024/2025 Bull Cycle. And yes making it makes me fucking Happy, I tasted it last year. And i want back in. Life is just more smoother that way.

>>49380227
Unsolved problems go on forever or toll you die. Doesnt matter how old a person is.

>>49381083

>>49380674
>>49381083
The duality of man.