/biz/ - Business & Finance

>>24845853
Kek you are literally being groomed
Sell while it's high

>>24845853
She hasn't made it, she is below you anon.
You will find many other women better than her also
>28 / 42
You wont have kids with your sugar momma sorry.

>>24845853
Based granny shagger

>>24845930

Dont want kids. Thats part of the reason i continue to be with her. Kinda think it’ll be difficult finding a young chick who accepts me not wanting kids and staying.

And lol yeah it seems like sugar mommy but the fact is i am wealthier and i never use her

>>24845977
Well fuck it then if you're not having kids you'll live a meaningless life anyway.

Go on a prostitute rampage then rope.

larp

>>24845853

>>24846097

Honest answer please. Why do you think this is a larp?

>>24846083

Why in your mind is there no inbetween? Life is not like that. Just because i dont want kids doesnt mean there is no meaning to life. Maybe for you? I could say you are just a perfect “husband” kinda guy, good for raising kids, doing dishes and making his wife dinner, and overall a good provider with balls in her purse. But i’m not immature and i know there are shades of grey.

Yeah, i am selfish and probably wouldnt make a great dad. Doesnt make my life meaningless.

>>24846144

Im already familiar with his material. What exactly are you pushing? Shes post wall obviously, and i know it gives me insane leverage.

>42 yo "gf"
shes your mom, isn't she?

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>>24846170
>>24846170
cope.
you don't 'want' kids cos you've been brainwashed by the media into believing that a life of hedonistic self indulgence is desirable, and gone on to rationalize it as meaningful. it's not. you do you bro, just know that if you persist with this delusion you've been gamed into becoming an evolutionary dead-end. sooner or later it will become clear. its not to late though, since you are here asking for advice. somewhere deep down you know im right. good luck brother

>>24846428
if your motivation for having kids has anything remotely to do with evolution, genetics or lineage you are going to end up retarded and dying on the street within 20 years. at which point i'll run by and curb stomp your head into mush on the pavement

>>24846428
Sounds like you are the one coping with knocking up your ugly ass GF before having the chance to explore what life has to offer beyond being a glorified cashcow

>>24846428

Nah. I’d make a shit dad. Im too selfish. And the thought of my own kids makes me wince at the loss of freedom. All my independence gone.

Not everything is a plot by the jews. Evolutionarily speaking it even makes sense. Obviously i still like to fuck, but just dont want the kids. In days past this was known as pumping and dumping. Never heard of it? Maybe 10000 years ago that was impregnating hundreds of women and then fucking off and letting someone else raise them.

Its part of our DNA to have some people who want to raise kids and some who just want to pass their genes. You can call
It hedonism if you like. Obviously we live in a time where sex can actually be separated from conception, but our primitive brains dont know that.

>>24846428
lmao. who the fuck cares about evolution anymore when the next stop is literally machines and robots. we will soon be able to upload and transfer our minds.
fuck off, christ cuck

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>>24846541
>>24846540
>>24846476
jesus i didn't realise /biz/ slurped this much bill gates smoothie. yes, keep living out your dionysian hedonistic wet dreams and see where it gets you. you cannot escape the fact that the teleological purpose of his is having kids. travel to asia and treat your body as disposible for 2 decades if you want. you can't escape reality. wherever you go, there you are. and remember that whatever opinions you think "you" have, are very often formulated in that manner due to the cultural milieu you grew up in. there's a good chance one of you or all of you are being conned down the "life is bad", "kids bad cuz muh global warming" tropes being perpetuated by the oligarchy. but yes, you do you lads, and keep mocking the anon telling you how it is

>>24846428
Seems you have miss clicked on the board selection, I'll help you find your way fren
>>>/pol/

>>24846541
Your gf sure would be happy to know you see her as a pump and dump.

Based mommyfucker.

>>24846541
You dont have to be a dad. Just pump as many babies into as many women as possible, fight the jew propaganda

>>24846645


>you all have no independent thought
>i have independent thought

Fuck off.

And like k said. My motivation is selfish. Not because of the meme that muh i dont wana raise a kid in this fucked up world or the meme muh i dont want to contribute to global warming by having kids

>>24846541
> we live in a time where sex can actually be separated from conception, but our primitive brains dont know that
we never knew that sex=procreation, that link was only made when our science increased. take the tributes of peru for example, they had no idea about that link in the 20th century when they were discovered and their social strata completely changed when they were told

>>24846678

Nah i dont. I wanna be with her obviously this is the reason i made a thread. Just dont know if its smart and gonna end up hurting her later

>>24846645
>teleological purpose
you read too many retarded post-fordist materalist positivist books and podcasts. jordern peterson tier shit
achieving your 'teleological purpose' won't magically make you fulfilled. if you think it will you're in a bad spot, a bad bad spot, worse than any of the people you quoted apart from me, even if one or more of them is a rick and morty tier nihilist or some shit, they are better off than you. you have literal candyfloss in your brain and you will end up raped by existence.

>and remember that whatever opinions you think "you" have, are very often formulated in that manner due to the cultural milieu you grew up in. there's a good chance one of you or all of you are being conned down the "life is bad", "kids bad cuz muh global warming" tropes being perpetuated by the oligarchy. but yes, you do you lads, and keep mocking the anon telling you how it is
extremely fucking ironic. 'how it is' happens to be the facile counterculture of refurnished materialism which will be the dominant mode of thought in no more than 15 years time. fucking fully 50% of men under the age of 30 think exactly like you do. kek

I hope this is a larp and if not, you should dump this old hag asap. Don’t waste your good years on damaged goods. Get a 20 to 22 old girlfriend. And never ever tell about any assets you own. Be it stocks, crypto or real estate.

>>24846170

You have a single evolutionary imperative.

You are the culmination of generations of your ancestry and you chose to fail your bloodline because you want to play video games and bang replacement figures for your mother.

> not immature

>>24846170
>Life is not like that. Just because i dont want kids doesnt mean there is no meaning to life
Another retard brainwashed by jewish propaganda

The literal point of life is reproduction

>>24846728
then why does so much religious ordination for the abrahamic religions center around abstinence from sexual practices?

>>24846428
>>24846645
extremely based

>>24846768
>>24846476

Tell us briefly how you made it from crypto. Be specific. Net worth, etc.

How did you meet her

>>24845853
>14 years older
LMAO

holy shit so many normies here thinking you need kids and a white picked fence, this board really has been infested lmao

>>24846842

Link

>>24846853


Work

>>24845977
You're not going to raise kids. Okay.

Instead you're going to nurse a way older woman, and your workload will increase and become more obvious as time goes by.

>>24846927
>that pic

>>24846926
Does she femdom you

>>24846787
he primary reason for marriage (and abstinence etc) is to ensure a woman is loyal to one man and ensure correct paternity

>>24846743
>a bad bad spot, worse than any of the people you quoted apart from me
lmao, you in just a bad a spot as me then, fren? well look, obviously it won't make you happy, there's studies indicating that after having children people are more stressed and unhappy on a day to day basis, but in the long run they tend to be more fulfilled, and i don't see how it could be otherwise when your teleological purpose is fulfilled and you can sit back and think it out, knowing you've done what the universe and your very being has compelled you to do (and hopefully made the best of it by raising your family properly etc.) what could possibly be the alternatives? happiness must be standing up straight and carrying out the will of a rational social creature, because that's uniquely what we are, and raising a family is a part of that

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>>24846919
*failed normies experiencing ego backlash

>>24845853
Mate she passed the boner test coz you don't know any better. Probably she was the first pussy u ever got and you clinged to her because dunno, mommy issues. You are doing a good job with the cognitive disonance. Is she menopausing yet ? Start buy lube son. You are 28 you could be fucking 20 yo with tender flesh and tight pussy but you're shagging a corpse. You fucking her great personality too ? Ofc you don't want kids is your brain telling you that your mate is too old to make it. That what happens your preference changes because of our dumb brain. I only seen one mofo with an old hag as a gf, but he's a soldier so I thought he has some horror stories to tell and cry about every time he gets home . Jesus Christ buddy I felt bad about me being poor and gfless but hearing your story made me feel better lol. What a tool !

>>24846927

Ok finally a good post. Thanks. Gives me food for thought.
Its just so painful to think about ending it brah... idk what anons say. I know it’ll destroy her for good.

>>24846919
you shouldn't be allowed to make that post without stating your age. you're in your 20s it's guaranteed, and if you're any significant age older than that then you're in some sort of cognitive dissonance

>>24846985

I did not want kids before i met her.
And she isnt even close to my first. But i get you

>>24846919
> white picked fence

Actual brainlet.

Nothing more normie than being a hedonistic nihilistic consoooomer man child.

You are literally l'eddit.

>>24846993
I too was in a very similar situation. Only difference was that she was 12 years older than me. She is a 10/10 woman, but she waited too long to settle down and age was just starting to creep up (and she knew it). I could feel that her attempts to attract me and make me stay with her was getting more stronger and desperate; she knew I was her last chance.

It hurts, sure. But it was her fault for putting her in that situation. We all made choices we thought was best for ourselves, and the best for YOU is to just let go. Older-woman relationships NEVER LAST. They never do. Never. All relationships like that failed in my experience.

>>24847071
yeah you make a good point honestly, how the fuck is wanting a family being a normie in 2020? being an atheist solipsistic travelling worshipping tinder browsing debt ridden depressed consoomer myopic dopamine addicted piece of shit is the 2020 normie lifestyle

>>24846926
Thank you for taking the time from your busy and successful life to explain to us how you made it. Please get back to enjoying your luxuries. Thanks again so much and enjoy your old bag lady, fag.

>>24845853
>I’m retired from crypto now, 28 years old
And yet you are with some 14 years older than you.
You are not very aware of the downsides of this, are you?

>>24847073

I am too weak to end it... i’ll be honest. I kinda kno what unsay is true in my mind but its like it will eventually come to an end anyway sort of thing... kinda hoping that is how it ends...

>>24846083
This

kids = karma
kids = more reincarnation cycles
avoid kids = avoid karma

but kids can be fulfilling
depends on your personality and what you value in this life

>>24846972
you won't beleive this. i wrote a massive fuckign post responding to your points and pressed some hotkey and my browser went back a page and it was lost. i want to smash my computer screen.

i'll give you the key notes summary:
- consider the fact evolution is a continual process that won't end because you choose not to reproduce. it is a spontaneous process which has no end goal, making the idea of a teleological purpose in relation to evolution paradoxical.
- i guarantee most of the people in that study weren't relying on having children to fulfill them by some strange and obscure evolutionary mechanism. they had children because (hopefully) they loved somebody and wanted children. evolution or their evolutionary purpose never entered their mind
- all lineages eventually die out, making arguments about 'carrying on a lineage' pointless
- if you "fail" to reproduce, who suffers and why?

>what could possibly be the alternatives?
i like this quote from kubrick as a loose starting point which doesn't need materialist conditions to be true.

>>24847073

How did it come to end for you?
I know everything is fine as it is, and she passes for much younger etc. We get on well etc. Just very hard for me to end it as it is, obviously it would be anticipating future. After all her kindness i’d feel like a cunt breaking her heart right now.

>>24847154
Look bud, if you're not sure than simply be with her for more time. Maybe move in and live with her. Being together longer always shows the nuances of the person and maybe expose her real strengths or flaws.

Just be with her and learn about her more. No need for crystal ball predictions; time reveals all.

>>24846170
Breed you literal sodomite

>>24847255
How long did you have this relationship? Chances are you don't know her long enough to really know her true self. Don't forget that a typical older single women tend to have colder and more self-centered personalities (hence why they couldn't get married yet). She could just be playing nice to settle down.

Or maybe she's really a poor old girl with bad relationship luck. I don't want you to be cynical but be very cautious. Keep probing her.

Want to know how you really feel about her? One advice is to masturbate thinking about her and then think really hard about her during the post-nut clarity. If she still has a warm aura around you, and you really feel a future together outside the bedroom, it means you really care for her and her personality is genuine. If you don't feel anything about her after nutting then it's time to pack up.

>How did it come to end for you?
We was only together for a few months so it wasn't too painful. I just called it off. I was cold. Maybe.

>>24846428
anons will reject this but it's cold hard truth.
you are descended from millions of ancestors as far back as time immortal, and you have the audacity to WILLINGLY end the line?
if I had already made it my gf would be pregnant right now, with more on the way

>>24847214
the AI overlords are already trying to thwart our efforts towards pursuit of meaning. I like the quote and it reminded me a bit of one of my favourite essays, russel's "a free man's worship" which makes a similar point about travelling through the treacherous waters of the darkness that is life illuminating the short hours of our perilous lives with friendships/comradery etc.

although i can see the absurdness of attempting to gain some sort of victory/eternal life by way of offspring etc that couldn't possibly be achieved and must end at some point, the point of it's ending presumably being meaningless and arbitrary, I simply can't think my way out of a biological requirement, I can't allow a logical argument to trump the vessel of my existence, I think philosophy and logic must begin with the human condition and deal with that first and primarily. I don't see the value of objective truth and reality if it is contrary to my existence and in any way thwarts it, how can truth lead to cessation of existence and death? Life is a requirement for truth and if truth creates nothingness then it couldn't be truth for it ceases to exist along with myself. So I won't accept any philosophical outlook or conjecture that ostensibly negate teleological purpose. I don't want to cuck myself into death by being a wee bit smarter than the average bloke, anon, i'm not willing to end my lineage for my conjectures, because I may very well be wrong

>>24847412
I have to go so no more questions for a while sorry.

>>24846170
just kys you degenerate jew

>>24847744

Ty for advice

>>24845853
u will def cheat but she will probably even let you if you are young and rich

have you talked to her about it? I have legit had girls 10 years older that would let me fool around with other girls

>>24845853
Your asking a bunch of degens, schzios, and autists for advice? Just enjoy being with her. If you do like her then who cares? Guys cheat all the time nothing new.
>Dated milf's for 7yrs

>>24845853
ara ara

>>24846476
LMAOOOOO SAYS THE FAGGOT WITH A 42 yo gf. Go jerk off to niggers.

>>24846476
lmao, nigger tier reaction

>>24846645
>muhteleological purpose
kill yourself nigtard. everybody dies. you’re going to die alone and screaming whether you have kids or not. And if you think it’s some kind of “achievement” when niggers in africa are the ones constantly doing it, that’s probably because you never did anything actually worthwhile in life. Having kids is oftentimes retard cope for people who do nothing and have no value, since it’s something anyone can do

>>24846645
I don't know how anyone can argue against this.
"You" are a life support system for your genitals. Everything you think, everything you say, all your actions are the result of a billion years of evolution pushing life in one direction.
Ironically, despite this being one of the few things that both science and (most) religions agree on, modern fags whose brains have been poisoned by feminism would rather plunge into full-blown nihelism rather than accepting that their life does have a purpose, and that it's to reproduce and guide the next generation.