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What's it like to be in 40s and 50s with no wife or children?

>> No.23915153

>>23915136
Ask a liberal woman

>> No.23915167

>>23915136
you'll get used to it

>> No.23915179

fpbp

>> No.23915216

>>23915136
The same as being in your 20s or 30s with no children except you have more money.

>> No.23915249

>>23915136
listen incels. i know you think its great but its not stop trying to act like retards in the 50s

>parents have kids
>absolutely miserable after this
>they have no fucking idea what theyre doing
>end up poor as fuck, shitty broken down house, miserable
>i end up a failure because of this
>now everything is garbage i accomplish nothing with my life
>my uncle had a normal family in florida
>one kid kills himself at 30 and they all get addicted to crack and drop out

meanwhile my dad was telling me about a relative

>he has no kids
>he lives in a beachtown in california
>has a nice house and no problems
>he drinks beer peacefully by the beach
>house is quiet nice doesnt have to waste his money
>has a nicer car
>happy

>> No.23915263

>>23915136
i'll find out in a year...

>> No.23915273

>>23915216
people in their 20s-30s at least have their parents. What happens when you're alone and then your parents die? What happens when you yourself are old and there's nobody to care for you?

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>>23915136
I'll let you know in 20 years

>> No.23915282

sorry I thought this was the haircomb thread

>> No.23915286

>>23915136
>39
>doesnt already have 3 kids and a beautiful house
ngmi

>> No.23915301

I WILL find an unretarded maiden and we WILL have a dozen kids

>> No.23915317

I really feel bad for zoomers and milennialls they are mentally and emotionally weaker and don't know what's awaiting for them .

>> No.23915319

>>23915136
Liberating
I'm chilling at a 5 star hotel right now just had 4 wagyu sliders for dinner and am chilling in the bed right now
Got a massage booked for later tonight

What are you doing with your children at the dinner table right now op?

>> No.23915332

>>23915273
How many of your friends are sticking around to take care of their parents?

Once 90% of kids hit 18 they fuck off to an out of state college and only call their parents when they need money. You really think the modern generation is going to be changing their parents diapers and giving them a roof over their head?

>> No.23915339

>>23915249
Sounds pretty anecdotal.

>> No.23915345

More importantly what's the cutoff for having them? I'm 33 and it doesn't look like it's happening for me any time soon

>> No.23915346

>>23915339
dont have kids if you browse here.

>> No.23915360

>>23915345

For a woman, 35. For a man, no later than 50. Don't be that guy dying when your kid turns 16.

>> No.23915371

>>23915346
Lol you're probably right.

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>>23915153
underrated

>> No.23915404

>>23915346
Not everyone who uses biz is straight evil
We just want the bare basic minimums of what was taken from us.

>> No.23915409

>>23915339
Sounds about right, you know much kids cost? A fuckton.

>> No.23915413

>>23915249
This is unironically true
The only thing, and I mean only thing, is that the single man will have no children to be connected to him once he passes.

For better or for worse
Plenty of reasons to not have children and this reason alone to have them doesn't suffice. What good does a miserable life and 3 miserable children remembering you do if you could do more without having children?

>> No.23915436

>>23915136
liberating & autistic

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23915586

Best decision of my life. Banging eighteen year old hotties and new fresh pussy every week. Just ask leonardo

>> No.23915617

>>23915273
>>23915332
nope. they're getting taken care of in a nursing home by their brown pets that they decided needed to live in this country with us.

>> No.23915633

>>23915136
>29
>dont already have 3 kids a beautiful wife and home and $3 million in the bank
ngmi

>> No.23915657

>>23915332
If you're a white westerner that is. Other cultures still have basic decency.

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>>23915136
why would someone do that? ur supposed to settle down at 30, unless u wanna have downie kids

>> No.23915671

everyone will hate you, your friends with wives will avoid you, you will be excluded from social gatherings as much as possible

>> No.23915677

My fiancee is giving birth to our first daughter and child in April.

What am in for?

Also, is 40 ETH, 2000 LINK and 1.5 BTC enough to pay off my house in two years?

>> No.23915809

>>23915671
So the same as now?

>> No.23915815

>>23915273
fuck my parents

>> No.23915834

>>23915809
based

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>>23915136

>> No.23915867

>>23915273
>What happens when you yourself are old and there's nobody to care for you?
I sell my heavy BTC bags out and go full flexin mode

>> No.23915872

>>23915153
Ahahahahahahahahahahah fpbp

>> No.23915915

>>23915249
>>23915413
>>23915319
>>23915586
>>23915409
Based and anti-natalistpilled.

>> No.23915943

>>23915136

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Any other Femanons planning on doing this?

>> No.23916053

>>23915677
What are you in for? A covid vaccine soon. Imagine bringing a kid into this world.

>> No.23916165

>>23916053
Theyre not giving my kid a vaccine.

I also i have an escape plan to live in a rural area and small town.

>> No.23916272

>>23915136
Depends, if you are a lonely person it can be hell on earth. If you are are okay being alone, then it will be a very quiet existence, but liveable. Humans are still social creatures though, so you need to find other reliable relationships with humans, whether its friends or work, etc.
>>23915990
kek, they try so hard to strong independent women, but the cool wine aunt is a meme. They always end up being sad, desperate cat ladies that smell funny.

>> No.23916500

>>23915990
possibly. my standards are pretty high, so it's a high quality man or singlehood forever. if the latter, i think i'm gonna join some occult mystery school

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23916554

>>23915136
My cousin reads a ton of books. There's also the travel meme. I think knowledge and adventure get old at some point though.
Humans are the greatest source of entropy on the planet, and tiny humans that are fragments of you add more value than anything you can buy or make.

>> No.23916710

>>23915136
Its whatever you make of it. People getting wrapped up in this idea that having kids and getting married will bring you happiness and joy when often people will feel miserable in marriage and their kids will be shitheads.

As long as you respect and love yourself, you'll always be happy.

>> No.23916787

>>23915332
My dad stuck my grandpa in a nursing home when he had his second stroke and needed 24/7 assistance so now jogger nurses are his aides. My dad visits him several times a week but at the end of the day he’s still senile
And in a nursing home.

>> No.23916822

>>23915990
Being a traveling alcohol doesn't sound viable for the long term, and the older you get it'll probably be really hard on your body along with some added stress of always being on the move and not being stable.

>> No.23916863

>>23915249
Whats the point of living without kids?

Imagine getting 1000 bitcoin and havening nobody to give it to.

>> No.23916890

>>23916863
my parents are the shittiest people on earth, trust me I'm doing everyone a favor by not reproducing

>> No.23916948

>>23916554
based opinion

>> No.23916968

>>23916890
But whats the point? Like? Why work if you arent building a home for your kids? Why work if not doing it to secure decent living for your kids? If goal of life is happiness, just do coke dail long and raise that dopamine. Like, why do anything beside coke, sex and andrenalin rush?

>> No.23917004

>>23916500
>i think i'm gonna join some occult mystery school
kys

>> No.23917048

>>23915136
Since no ones going to answer, there was a man I worked with at a factory doing machining work. It was incredibly depressing. Me being in my 20's and him being in his early 60's we got along really well. He was highly intelligent, not a normie, but not quite one of us. Got along with other people well but you could just tell something was kind of off. It was as if he spent his entire life living for his job and that's all he knew, I don't think he ever had a girlfriend before. The sad part is I imagine he'd easily be able to have gotten one in his youth given his build and looks but he never tried, he once told me about a single girl at an old job he wanted to date but when I asked what happened he just shook his head in silence, he didn't even take the risk to try. On our weekends and days off he said he would look at the lake in his backyard from his patio, or do some house repair work. I'm sure he's a deep millionaire given his ethic and age, but you have to wonder what kind of life you really have if you just live for your company. Forever wondering "what if" I just went for it

>> No.23917106

>>23916968
revenge is going to make me happy enough to die.

>> No.23917212

>>23916863
My sisters children will inherit everything I own when they turn 65.

With compound interest the fund will likely be worth at least a few million.

>> No.23917438

>>23915677
Anon I dont know you or your wife but I do know all women are the same. Be a father first and a husband second.

>> No.23917466

>>23915153
Kek

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>>23915136
The problem with this discussion is that it is usually framed as a dichotomy between lonely dude and happy family. The reality is more like single or
>10% chance of happy marriage and quality kids
>10% chance of happy marriage and totally shitty, fucked up kids who are retarded, drug addicts or just regular stupid
>30% chance of unhappy marriage where your wife doesn't fuck you anymore and you spend all your time at work to avoid her
>50% chance of divorce and paying for the house that your wife fucks other dudes in while she brainwashes your children to hate you. Meanwhile you make 120k but live in a 1-bedroom cuckshed cause all your money is gone before you earn it.
Sure, maybe my life would be better with a wife and kids, but the chances of it being utterly ruined are just too high to risk.
t. single and retired in my 30s

>> No.23917483

>>23916500
And people still think letting women vote was a good idea.

>> No.23917527

>>23915136
Dunno, I'm not having children but I don't expect to live to my 50s

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>> No.23917561

I sleep in a racing car!

>> No.23917640

>>23916863
thats why i spend all my money you fucking retard why the fuck do i care about money when im 65? god you people are fucking stupid

>> No.23917643

>>23917212
Now imagine you didnt have a sister. Why get that compound income?

>> No.23917653

>>23917556
Imagine the sort of person that made this lmao, pathetic.

>> No.23917673

>>23916968
I wonder this too. Literally everything productive or healthy I do; whether it be consciously or subconsciously; direct or indirect; is geared towards making me my best possible self for nurturing my future family. If I was infertile? Fuck it life would be the easiest shit ever. Too easy. Life as a single man with no responsibilities is EZPZ unless you're a total sperg. But it ain't healthy. It's decadent and degenerate. Maybe I'm defective for needing external influences to live a good life.

>> No.23917675

>>23915273
I hope my dad lives to 100 and I die before him cus I have no clue about how to be an adult man and I turn 26 soon

>> No.23917703

>>23917653
its true you fucking retard. ive had serious relationships and ive had times where i just had friends and drugs

the friends and drugs are iiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiinfinitely better. in every way.

i would easily easily take a 200k car, a big ass house in the hills, living somewhere sunny and happy with tons of cash then have some fucking kids in a shit small house with screaming yelling crying ugly kids worry about your wife cheating and she hits the wall.

only virgins fantasize about having a family. normies just do it on accident and cope.

>> No.23917716

Idk I accidentally had a kid at 21 best mistake of my life

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>>23915136
Back in the 40's and 50's, houses only cost a nickel.

>> No.23917726

>>23916863
There’s still philanthropy. You could give orphanages money and food banks and stuff.

>> No.23917743

>>23915136
Pretty fucking sweet. Been with my lady 25 years. Not interested in marriage. No kids. Life is sweet

>> No.23917752

>>23917212
Wow thanks uncle anon a million bucks in FIFTY FUCKING YEARS

>> No.23917786

>>23915153
3 replies......... biz is 100 iq

>> No.23917790

>>23915136
If you don't want a wife and kids, then it means that your parents abused you or didn't do right by you. I know that a lot of people don't want to accept that, but it's the truth. It's not your fault though. Don't blame yourself. Go out and live your life and be happy.

>> No.23917822

>>23915136
i dont want to know

>> No.23917871

>>23917556
It seems like cope to expect the men's side to be perfect, and the woman's side to be absolutely horrible. It's the same tier as that thought process of "Once they're 40 they'll all come crawling back!"

>> No.23917974

>>23917048
Tbh I wanna be like him, just with a couple friends. Marriage and kids just have too many downsides.

>> No.23918030

>>23917790
>If you don't want what i like, then you're BAD BAD BAD, LMAO.
2 digits speaking. Also, go back.
>>23917974
>Tbh I wanna be like him, just with a couple friends.
How old are you Carlitos, 16?
>It seems like cope to expect the men's side to be perfect.
Yeah, it could be cope, but the image is basically comparing the outcome of a nerd vs a roastie, not all men vs all women. Also, go back.

>> No.23918066

>>23915136
Having kids is a fool's errand. Preserving "muh race" or "muh bloodline" is retarded, the way the world is heading the future is going to be absolutely fucked. Eventually everyone will be mixed together and the elites will be treating us like livestock. I don't need to bring a child into that kind of world. I'm going to enjoy my life while there's still time to enjoy it.

>> No.23918070

>>23916787
your dad pays for your grandpa to be there, AND he visits him several times a week. what more could you ask of him? just putting your parent in a nursing home isnt bad, putting your parent in a nursing home and never visting them is whats bad. I can tell youre like 20 years old since you dont understand the difference

t. boomer

>> No.23918093

>>23915317
Lel we haven't had half the privilege of pathetic boomers. No doubt we will suffer more as the quality of life plunges due to the most selfish generation of people to have ever been on earth. You wonder why kids don't looks after their boomer parents? Because you make us sick.

>> No.23918098

>>23915136
Ask me in 14 years. I’ll never get married or have children. I plan on retiring early.

>> No.23918106

>>23918066
>having your son run up to you arms extended wanting a hug is something you don't want to enjoy
impressive

>> No.23918104

>>23916968
Do it for yourself you degenerate faggot
Imagine having a parent who lives only to feed you, doesn't leave you alone, literally you are what his life revolves around and he's miserable and so you become miserable too and this becomes a miserable existence

Make 1000 bitcoins, rent a room permanently at some high-end hotel have massages every night, shitpost on 4chan, drink whenever you want, eat great food every day, every night, banter with your friends

literally what the fuck is your problem?

>> No.23918111

>>23918030
What the fuck are you talking about ni*ger? Somebody that's raised and socialized properly is going to want a wife and kids, while someone that is fucked up won't. That's just basic logic. Nobody is saying you can't live your life and do what you want, but if you don't want that kind of life, then yeah you're probably fucked up to some point.

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You anons are weak.
It's not about being married or not. It's not about whether you have 1,000 shitcoins or not. It's not about:
>how much product you CONSOOM
>how much money you acquire
>how many women you fuck or don't fuck (as in the case of MGTOW faggots)
>how many people you call incel or commie or simp or cuck
It's about living life on your own terms. It's about living it with intent - being a free man.

If you are strong, then you will be able to mold your life into what you want. Of course, a more traditional existence is inherently more sustainable/healthy - for it is closer to nature and further from Industrial Society.
Still, no matter what you want from life, it's about whether you are free when you do it. It's about struggle and making the most with what you have.
Found a traditional wife? God bless.
Didn't end up finding one? Well, that's just fine too.

It's when you bend over for others that you become pathetic.
Liberate yourself. Self-improve and seize your existence. I don't live for others, I live for myself.

>> No.23918116

>>23915216
You can live to 90 and not need to have anyone take care of you. Just exercise and eat well and stay off your ass