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that's a man

>>21000259
That man has herpes

>>21000259
Females only make sense if they think you are out of their league. The net result of this is that it doesn't matter what you do, she will always interpret it into your favor. However because women don't have realistic standards for rating men (women rate 80% as below average) you really need to be out of her league for it to work. I'd say in practice this might mean something like you being above-average looking, making 6 figures, owning a property or two, running a business or two and/or pulling in some serious dough from crypto as well as being popular on social media and/or the social network of your city. If you are that type of guy and she's a 7/10 some journalism or art BS degree graduate with modest job prospects and not quite hot enough to have extremely wealthy CEOs/celebs look at her, then you would probably see a good ROI on her as your girlfriend (ie minimal/normal investment on your part and her trying to perform and being happy because you're out of her league).

>>21000259
Lol imagine looking at girls as “an investment”. Not everything in life is a fucking investment. LIVE A LITTLE.

Because you just want to bang. Anon, it is not rocket science
Just get a sugar baby from seekingarrangements that you can bang once a week for $250-350 for an evening

>>21000259
Find a female who is not needy, someone who has her own shit going on, so she wont bother you all the time with her shit. Also, she needs to bring something to the table, not just looks, but hard assets and/or income producing ability. This way, if there is a divorce, you don't get screwed.

>>21000259
MAN

>>21000259
>but if its clearly full of such disadvantages, why am I still thinking about & trying to find a woman to have a relationship with?

because your priorities are all wrong and part of you is trying to stop you from making it

>>21000259
Caution Advised- This is a High Risk Investment. I have been married twice. I was not a very desirable person at the time for multiple reasons. Both relationships ended in divorce. One in agonizing fashion as she cheated on me repeatedly. I think if you found the right woman it might be worth it. However this is like knowing about link at .25 AND having the money to buy 100,000. I am sure you have seen this video before, but if not listen closely.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R_USJCTIgs4

>>21000259
>opportunity cost
part of this is also the cost of missing out on being in a relationship even hotter/nicer woman

There is no free lunch anon

>>21001026

Imagine believing the 'she loves me for me' meme. She sees you as an investment - why not the converse?

>>21000259
1. have money
2. hire hooker, fuck, she leaves, you browse biz
3. problem solved

>>21001003
I would say based on what I see it comes mainly downs to this:

8.5 women -> happy only if you are the extreme top in looks/wealth/status
6-7.5 women -> happy only if you are performing within top 10% of your peers, meaning presentable looks, above average income, above average net worth, above average social network, can afford somewhat lavish lifestyle
4-5.5/10 women -> happy if you are performing as good as your peers without showing any clear signs of issues (ie not having subpar social skills, mental illness, poor body, ugly face, manlet etc.)
sub 4 women -> happy if you are mostly performing according to the average of your peers but will allow one or two significant issues (ie you could be an autist software guy but you make decent salary, or you could be poor but have great social skills and are the life of the party)

then there is the category of hacks. temporarily falling into a specific subdomain of men can give you easy access to even the highest levels of women who have mental issues or a particular taste for this exact subdomain of men, examples: you're a drug dealer, a criminal, an "artist", a hippy "spiritual guide", etc.

>>21001177
this. he is delusional as fuck lol

>>21000677
checked
OP is a faggot
/thread

>>21000677
:)))))

>>21000259
Because you gotta make your procreation gains and just impregnating a bunch of random bitches you never see again is unlikely to result in progeny who will have the upbringing and resources to survive the upheavals of the 21st century

You will reach a point in your life where you likely will want some form of fulfillment beyond the gaining of more wealth. We are communal creatures and you are likely to want someone to share your life with and to pass on what you have gained. There is a chance you won't, given the high rate of autism here there even is a good chance. But for everyone else you do need to realize that you have to balance aspects of your life. Find the person who understands your love of your work, which for some here is investment. Don't be in a position where you reach fifty and realize you are alone, you might be able to buy someone but that only works as long as you can be the highest bidder. At least attempt to find someone who might share your interests, if not in investing then in other hobbies you may have. Another way of thinking of things is this...why accrue wealth if you don't intend to eventually buy the Lambo? If it never reaches the point where you use your wealth to reach a level of comfort or experience the benefits of your gains then why did you do it? All of life works in a similar fashion, get in working order why you are doing this and what the next step will be once you do achieve your goals.

>>21000259
that woman looks like she's a total status climber cunt. she'd be good to fuck but i wouldnt want her around

>>21000677

>>21001473
this. its super ridiculous when i hear people say stuff like drive a used hyundai because cars are deppreciating assets. AS IF im going to enjoy life by watching numbers increase on a screen indefinitely until im dead.

>>21001003
Being out her league can be easy if they've had few relationships to compare you to (in other words, being their first or second relationship/sexual partner).
We tend to idolize those first few pair-bonds and then become jaded the more we date.

>>21001068
so don't find a female?

>>21001718
enjoy living above your means, comsoomer. Just remember it's a house of cards

Women are ultimately our goal, consciously or not. The power hungry wealth chasing guy who wants to attract and play women with it, or the guy who just wants the status to find an optimal mate and companion. They can be annoyingly expensive and/or time consuming but you can still manage that by picking the right ones.

>>21001770
it's super hard to be out of a girl's league after she's been pumped by a Chad a few times or had some affair or even just the potential for an affair. in her mind every guy that comes after will have to compare the possibility of a long term relationship with Chad. of course that posssibility was never there and Chad was just using her as a pump and dump but women's brains never quite pick up on that or rationalize it away. in her mind, the possibility that she could be with a man like that is still there. this is precisely what happens when as a guy that's out of her league you're just having this girl to nut into, a completely irrelevant sideshow in your life, but she takes it super seriously and is going to interpret it as if there was actually a real chance of it turning into a fully functional relationship. then every guy after that's actually in her league will have to compare to you.

>>21001819
lmao. if i made a few millions you're going to tell im gonna drive a 10k used car and torn clothes? this idea that you only have to SAVE SAVE SAVE or INCREASE INCREASE INCREASE your stack is precisely what CONSOOMING is about. there is no point in fictional numbers on your screen if you NEVER use them to enjoy life.

>>21000677
Good

Are non virgin women worth being with? I have a gf whos not a virgin. Thinking of dumping her to marry a virgin girl (assuming I could find one)

The idea of protecting and raising a family with a girl whos sucked other dudes dicks just does not sit well with me. Anyone else have this feel?

>>21000720
Not so good

>>21001927

It's not never, it's just waiting until it's a fraction of your monthly revenue not a large portion of it. Rarely do people do that.

>>21000720
kek

>>21001068
I recently got out of a relationship with a needy girlfriend, it's not worth it. She would stop hanging out with friends and family because she needed more validation from me, would dump her anxiety and depression on me, and would get extremely jealous of any other girls I talked to.
She'd blow up about me talking to other women (flirty or not), and then blame me for changing her too much when I'd tell her to fuck off and hang out with her friends and family to stop being so depressive. She takes responsibility for nothing.

>>21001982

95% of 21 year old girls aren't virgins, and the few who aren't tend to be religious psychos and/or ugly/autistic as fuck. It's just too easy for girls to come across sex for them to make it from age 15-21 without experimenting.

Gl mate. Modern dating is hard enough as is without this arbitrary criteria, and you'll probably end up with a liar anyway.

>>21001982
If you know you mog all her previous boyfriends and fucks (this last part is the hard part, difficult to know with any level of certainty), it works

>>21001891
>>21001003

Here are your answers, OP. The only way forward is to invest in YOURSELF and over time (years, not now) see multipliers in other aspects of your life including dating.

Don't find a gf, start a business or get a second job to invest with. Buy a house and fix it up, do something that will increase your affluence and influence

>>21001891
I'm just saying this is basically the cycle of why women have inflated expectations and the 20/80 rule and all that.

Men simply don't want to deal with all the drama and have someone to nut into. This usually means women who are 2-3 points below them. Meaning a multi millionaire or a pro athlete isn't going to spend time trying to bang a 10/10 hollywood actress (at least not most of the time), he's going to hook up with the 8/10 college girl.

but why would a 8/10 college girl hook up with a 8/10 college guy when she can hook up with dudes that play in NBA or can take to yacht parties in Monaco or whatever. she wouldn't.

an 8/10 college dude who has no money, no life smarts, no nothing yet except for being popular and good looking and hopefully intelligent enough to just begin making something out of his life will not spend countless hours hopelessly trying to hook up with the hottest chick at his college who is being banged by some powerful CEO or the city's most famous band. he's gonna hook up with that sweet 6-7 girl who is DTF after a few tinder messages.

and that's just how the cycle goes on.

>>21001927
number go up and number go down is a superior distillate of whatever boring consumer experience you want to have. i'm happy for you that you can still convince yourself otherwise, but don't forget you're just buying a story.

>>21002090
or be violent

>>21000259
Only get into a relationship once you have made it. Before then, it is a waste. Men don't reach prime till 30-40 so you still got lots of time for women as long as you have decent health/fitness and are not completely ugly

>>21000720
>>21000677
>>21001081
kek

>>21002061
>everything is shit so you should just be shit too bro

>>21001796
Based

>>21001927
My number go up every month, that's all I care about

>>21001026

relationships are literally business transations

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