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> had the first girlfriend at 23 and only lasted one week
> just turned 29, no girlfriend since
> for the past 12 months I have been working on a startup/app with no salary, about to launch beta
> net worth about 80k (but I come from a low-income country)
> 1.8m, big dick but not huge, somewhat fit, no game


How do you even recover from having no experience with women, even if you become a millionaire at 32? Real social dynamics bootcamp?

>> No.20637085

>>20637051
if you really desperate, be like everyone else. get one from south east asia. they're literally throwing themselves at you.

>> No.20637096

Just get tinder and start fucking some big gals, over time you'll gain more confidence and experience and move up to the houseleagues and then higher leagues

>> No.20637108

>>20637051
I want to nut inside of her while she rides me full POV cowgirl

imagine those curves moving upright

>> No.20637111

It's like anything else. You have to practice at it. It's not binary, where you can just be good with women. Experience will make you more comfortable around them.

On the theory side however I can tell you this:
Women want to be entertained. Above all else. You don't have to be rich. You don't have to treat them nicely. You don't have to do anything but keep them entertained. It sounds simple, but it's an art.

>> No.20637131

>>20637051
those tits are so fake bro
assuming you're trying to find something serious and not just trying to play the field, you sound like you're in a pretty good spot
it doesn't seem like it on the internet but there are a lot of nice girls out there looking for a relatively successful guy to start a serious relationship with
do you have any hobbies or interests besides work?
they can be a good way to meet people

>> No.20637207

>Took brothers exhookup to prom and tried to fuck her with virgin limp 3x daily fap dick at 18
> Kisses but no fucks in college until high school classmate texts out of the blue. Ugly whore tho.
> Asian GF at 20, averaging a fuck once a week for the last few years
> Plan to marry her at 30 and have 4 babies by 40

No advice I just wanted to make myself feel cool in comparison to your sad, sad story sir.

>> No.20637208

>>20637051
Been married twice, and haven't had sex since I was 30. Women are not worth it anon. Focus your energy on your success.

>> No.20637230

>>20637207
but your story is way more sad

>> No.20637248

>>20637085
not sure I am interested in a 1.4m midget, don't find those women very attractive

>>20637096
Have tinder gold, no matches unless I pay for boosts...

>>20637131
can't afford to at this time. Need to put all my energy into the startup

>> No.20637252

>>20637051
uniroincally start smoking weed and find a stoner qt who you can smoke up and your in

>> No.20637277

>>20637051
$80k?

>Real social dynamics bootcamp?

thats all shit, you gonna learn to be a weirdo with these mongos

>> No.20637285

his nipples looks like a retard's eyes

>> No.20637292

>>20637230
this

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>>20637285

>> No.20637347

same situation as OP, advice and knowledge is appreciated from experienced people with game.

>> No.20637355

>>20637051
There are two things necessary for getting women: bros and children that love and trust you.

If you have a cool hobby that guys are into and you're accepted into that group you will have women look at you like a man. If you are good with children and are a loved by children in a healthy way then women will look at you as a husband and father to your children. WOmen are the most delusional creatures in the world. They'll see you with a child and imagine what it would be like to have your child. They'll see you dating a girl and wonder what it would be like to be your woman, ect. Just go get a dope masculin hobby like martial arts, and also do something nurturing like look after your neices and nephews or volunteer at an orphanage.

>> No.20637374

>>20637347
Same

>> No.20637466

>>20637207
I hope she's younger than you by a decade. That's a lot of kids to pump out after 30.

>> No.20637500

>>20637111
I'm an entertainer and I get stuck in that mode, entertaining is not enough

>> No.20637504

>>20637248
Then pay for boosts dude. Take what you can get when you start. It might take 500 matches to find 1 and go from there. Easy money

>> No.20637641

Gotta burn out until you feel relaxed. Women are so relaxed because they have 1000 guys in their dm on back burner.

>> No.20637659

>>20637051
>>20637347
Also very similar situation. Help us pls

>> No.20637695

>>20637051
Know some people who are like 3/10.
One married for the second time, other has a longterm relationship.

Settle for less Anon. It's that simple.

>> No.20637709

>>20637347
>>20637374

Honesty. It sounds like a burden but will save your ass. This one is hard as you think you're shooting yourself in the foot but it gives you immense confidence and power.

Don't care. Another hard one. You can't get caught up with caring too much about any particular girl. If there's chemistry, there's chemistry. Neediness is a huge red flag to women and they are experts at sniffing it out. You can't pretend not to care, they can tell, they're that good. You have to really not care. There are a countless hoard of attractive women out there and it's a numbers game, so if you are leeching onto a woman, then they are going to see you as weak.

Be a man. Think about it from a woman's perspective. Do you want a manly woman? Of course not. They want a manly man. Of course there is a wide spectrum of what women want, and exceptions to every rule, but your best shot is being as manly as possible. What does that mean? It means taking the initiative. Women want you to choose what you're doing over the weekend. If you want to defer to them, they will have no trouble making the decisions, but it's not in their nature and it's not what they want. They want a decision maker. They are supporters and will support you with everything they have and can propel you into the stratosphere if you can harness that. This doesn't mean you have to be an asshole, you absolutely have to respect them, but you need to be the leader.

Be yourself. The paradox. By trying to be yourself you're not being yourself. A lot of youngsters get caught up in this however and pretend to be something they're not. If you're doing that, then you're insecure and need to come to terms with your own life before you bring another into it. You can't truly love someone if you don't love yourself, you can fuck, but you can't love, it's impossible

Easy ones are working out/eating right, these give you a huge leg up, are biologically proven to work.

All of these attributes feed into each other

>> No.20637782

>>20637051
Go to clubs talk to gals
Watch AMS or the33secrets
Never wife down any girl

>> No.20637834

Looks like my cousin in Florida who is now in jail. Was always curious was her titties looked like.. nothing more, so tyvm

>> No.20637878

Woah woah woah am I just NOW realizing that 4chan are a bunch of incels????

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20637905

>>20637051
I used to crush tinder girls, a new one or two every week. Have a decent paying job in a big city, be at least 5'10" with a decent face and you will slay. It's that easy. You don't need a bootcamp.

OC related. I've since settled down. Sometimes my dick misses the dating app sloots but my heart and brain don't.

>> No.20637908

>>20637051
Just go out, do a hobby you like and meet people through it, be it an art course, language class, sports, the gym, cinema club, book club. Be open, be laid back, laugh a lot and stop thinking about women so much. I was a kissless virgin until 21, the moment I said, I won’t care about a GF no more, I’ll just do my shit, girls started wanting to talk to me

>> No.20637910

>>20637051
To be honest with you man, you kind of just end up with a girlfriend if you're not a retard.
>take care of your skin
>take care of your body
>be clean
>people enjoy having you around
>you're either employed or in college
>you're not dependent on others to fulfill your needs
If you're just looking for sex, that's an entirely different matter.

>> No.20637914

>>20637207
at least OP is rich. your entire tale sounds like some kind of cope.

>> No.20637926

>>20637285
they look like retard eyes because your brain is too slow to realize that round objects throw off perceptions.. take a leveling device throw it across your screen, them nipples are even. Your brain has the retard eyes

>> No.20637948

>>20637207
You'll only get downy kids having them that late

>> No.20638004

For fuck's sakes STOP posting nudity. There are someone people here who browse /biz/ while at work. I almost got caught by my boss and was _ close in getting fire because of you motherfuckers.

>> No.20638033

>>20637709
What if I like to spent all my weekends shitposting on 4chan and playing games or watching youtube?
I have difficulty to tolerate people who are slower and with a lower IQ for a longer period of time.
I am probably not made for a relationship...

>> No.20638039

I'm so disgusted with white "women" i don't even want a gf anymore. I just travel abroad a few times per year and arrange a short term deal with a qt latina or asian.

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>>20638039
>>20638004

This had to be the most disgusting fat pair of tits I fucked in my heyday. This girl was like 6'1" tall, at the very least. Absolute behemoth. She was disgusting but her tits were literally bigger than my head. Claimed she had fucked Michael Phelps so I guess I'm eskimo brothers with an Olympian

>> No.20638120

>>20638090
>>20637905
PS these are not the same girls. There are an almost infinite amount of 6/10's and 5/10's with just insanely huge breasts that are desperate for cock.

If you can afford to buy a girl drinks/dinner, you can fuck a 5-7/10 with double D's.

>> No.20638128

>>20638039
How do you do that?
Do they throw themselves at you when you are going there alone?

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20638133

>>20637111
If you have to chase and "entertain" a woman to keep her interested, you are already simping and setting yourself up for long term disappoint, my fren.

>> No.20638155

>>20637709
Solid

>> No.20638161

>>20637709
how do you go around meeting new people? parties, tinder? what if you don't have any social outside hobby?

>> No.20638175

>>20638161
Create one... obviously

>> No.20638196

>>20638033
You wouldn't be in this thread then.

>> No.20638315

>>20637207

A fuck once a week? Man she's going to cheat on you with a high sex drive nigger lol. Last time I had a GF I couldn't stop boning her multiple times a day.

Like what's wrong with you?

>> No.20638372

>>20638315
A chick who wants to fuck all the time is stealing all your spiritual energy, srs.

>> No.20638378

>>20638120
I'm a decent looking guy, but I live in the bay area of California and still live with my parents. a HUGE part of my insecurity / laziness to actually try with women is because if things progress, I literally dont have a place to take them. I have over 100 tinder matches and girls on bumble have actually asked me out, I end up ghosting all of them unless they have their own place. I can afford to move out, but I always saw myself moving out with a partner, and housing is so crazy expensive here. ~$2k a month for a 1 bedroom apartment. houses starting at $700k for shitty neighborhoods, etc, over $1M for a nice house in a decent area. I can pull women but I feel like a loser for saying I still live with my parents. I'm 27 now so it is pretty pathetic, but it's very common in such a high cost of living area.

>> No.20638389

>>20637051
>about to launch beta
That sums it up. Also, that man has fake tits.

>> No.20638406

>>20638128
Yeah I'm average all the way around but the just be white meme is true abroad. Even if you're fat/ugly all it will take is pocket change and they'll stay all night/day. You end up paying a little more on meals/tourist things, but it's worth it having someone with you that you can have a good time with and knows the language/area.

You can have the experience abroad as a male than women have in the West. One girl I was with decided she wanted to stop giving BJs I kicked her out and had a replacement that afternoon.

>> No.20638531

>>20637051
talk to women and get rejected until you feel comfortable... ya fckin retard

>> No.20638560

>>20638378
move

>> No.20638632

>>20638372
lol cope

>> No.20638753

>>20638133
It's not about chasing and entertaining a woman in a literal sense. It's philosophical. You can do just about anything to a woman, but you can't bore them, girls just want to have fun. The more interesting your life is, the more attraction you'll bring to it. The faster you can make their heart beat the faster they'll fall for you. Spontaneity, excitement, good energy.

>>20638161
The best way is always through a social circle. Friends introducing you to their friends. If you don't have that dating apps work but there is a lot to understand when it comes to them; long story short, pretty girls will typically ignore anyone under a 7/10. They all vie for the 8+ guys. The 8+ guys play the entire field. You might think of this as unfair, but after they hit a certain age, their dating prospects dry up rapidly. To be successful on dating apps you have to have a great profile.

>>20638033
>What if I like to spent all my weekends shitposting on 4chan and playing games or watching youtube?
You sound a typical young guy. Typical young guys don't get a lot of pussy. You have to put work in. Playing games and YouTube won't get you laid, you won't win that way.
>I have difficulty to tolerate people who are slower and with a lower IQ for a longer period of time.
Intelligence isn't as formulaic as high IQ vs low IQ. Intelligence is a spectrum, there are all types of manners of intelligence out there. Distilled, intelligence is just a word that humans have created to express an idea to one another, as are all words, but intelligence in particular is much more subjective and abstract than people think. Also, most people think they're smarter than most - it's human nature. Relationships are good at pointing out your flaws.

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20638783

>>20638378
Dog go fuck them in your car on a scenic cliff

Jesus Christ or get a hotel room. It's not hard.

>> No.20638807

>>20637207
Enjoy your future supreme gentlemen babies

>> No.20638855

>>20638315
bitches have different sex drives

alternatively differing schedules, you can't bone someone everyday if you don't live with them

>> No.20638915

>>20637208
seems to me like you married the wrong woman, just like almost every guy does.

>> No.20639011

>>20638632
coomer
>>20638753
You are still trying to "prove" yourself, aka a simp. Girls are supposed to chase you. Make your life interesting for yourself, and the zombies will follow.

>> No.20639029

>>20637051
Thats a man

>> No.20639044

>>20638378
Holy shit are you me? 27 still living with my parents and with over 1000 tinder matches.Please someone help us. I feel the same as you

>> No.20639095

>>20639044
>>20638378
You two need to move together into a bachelor pad and fuck them Tinder girls in shifts. If it's too expensive still, just get a third roommate.

>> No.20639113

>>20637051
You say big dick...
How many inches or cm is it’s thickness? Obviously asking for a friend bri

>> No.20639191

>>20638753
I am probably too old anyway to change things and am not really young anymore.
It won't get me laid but this wasn't an issue until now and I could probably continue like this.
I lived like this until now without any issue, but improving my mental health thanks to /biz and /pol/ in the last years changed my perspective and made me question my true life goals.

IQ not making a difference is only true to an extent.
At work people find it disrespectful when I talk to them and continue my work at the same time, but I later found out I could keep listening to 3-4 conversations at the same time, and I fall asleep when I force myself to focus on only one "slow" discussion.
That's how I spent all my time sleeping at school.
That was truly like a prison and a good depiction of what hell would be.

I suspect some of the Link marines can also relate to this.
Being able to understand Link's potential in the early days is not something everyone can do.

>> No.20639196

>>20637248
I get like one or two likes per boost, but it's generally a 5/10...

>>20639113
Everyone lies about length. It's 16-17 cm but really thick, I think like 5cm thick. If I search, I can just get laid by mentioning it, but it needs to be a 10M+ city

>> No.20639212

>>20637355

How do you foster healthy masculine relationships that don't act like woman(insecure, hedonists, hobbies that don't build character, screech about social justice, boring, doesn't read about anything interesting tech, philosophy, etc the list goes on.) Every time I meet a guy who I think I can trust nowadays they end up gossiping like a fucking woman and I end the friendship. Men are almost worst than roasties now because woman follow the majority of men's behavior. Its getting to me bros.

>> No.20639245

>>20637926
Those titties are wonky

>> No.20639263

>>20639212
Get involved in a business that requires high IQ, focus, and planning. Then figure out why you *feel* you "need" relationships, belt down your emotional insecurities and move on. The right people will show up once you no longer "need" them.

>> No.20639564

>>20638560
Saving so much money monthly though. It's almost not worth it to move out unless I literally just do it to have sex. idk if that's even worth it desu
>>20638783
eh, I feel like doing that once would be enough for me. never fucked in a car. doesnt that shit get messy and smelly. I actually have a newer car after mine got stolen so idk if I wanna be doin all that
>>20639044
Hahahah that's funny. 1000 tinder matches is on a whole nother level son. You need to get laid bro. I'm sure you can find a chick with her own place. But ya it's terrible, I feel like I wouldve smashed so many bomb ass women if I had my own place. Mightve even had a solid relationship develop as well.
>>20639095
would be dope. but might get old after a while desu

>> No.20639569

>>20639263

This advice doesn't tell me anything. I don't need relationships I want them. All you did was assume a bunch without saying anyway for me to meet like minded people.

I trade futures for a living have a 6 figure net worth but I need more before I can safely venture into starting a business.

>> No.20639652

>>20637248
>Paying for Tinder
Just use an APK like everyone else you dolt

>> No.20639672

>>20637207
You’re 10x more pathetic than OP

>> No.20639676

>>20637905
kek. what'd you settle down with?