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no its not a good idea, you need to get married so your kids dont grow up fucked up.

but its risky as shit and all women are whores.

so yeah i wont be an easy task.

>>20476719
There's a 25 percent chance you'll find a "good" woman and most men end up gambling for that chance anyways to get JUSTed 50 percent at some point. Its a sham

>>20476760
yeah im aware. but you need children to truly make it.

everyone will say that you are gay behind your back

I didn't even really find out who my wife was until after we got married, despite 5 years of dating prior. I'm neither a full-blown autist, nor an Intel but was truly duped into thinking I had snagged the perfect girl. I asked for a divorce three years ago and was threatened with financial and the desecration of my name as a father to my kid. I sit here as a biological computer just reading /biz/ and holding link, praying for freedom. I have so much money from this board, yet I have nothing.

Unless marriage laws are changed, absolutely - then men are simply to able to be informed of the malfeasance of marriage and how there is zero net benefit to them, while risking everything. You'd honestly have to be blinded at this point.

>>20476914
Just monero up, fake your death and move to the Bahamas become the sudokuchad bangin exotic whores until your cock falls off.

>>20476684
I don’t have any money for you roastie
I am sorry

>marriage in 2020
that's a bigger scam than any chink coin out there.

just live with your girl without marriage

>>20476914
women are psychotic, usury, vindictive, spiteful, insipid and evil

my wife was a dream come true for me,..
until exactly two minutes after we were married
literally Jekyll and Hyde change before my eyes into a raging illogical ignorant cunt
i tolerated her abuse and her using me for a gravy train and a whipping post for a few years
till one day i said no fuck this i will not live this way. it was sick, unfair and unhealthy
i walked away with nothing but a garbage sack with my personal clothing, a small tool box with some tools. and a couple small boxes of various small personal tems, nothing of any particular interest or value to anyone but me. nothing more than would fill up the trunk of your car
except i didn't even have a car by the time it was over she kept that too.

but god damn did it feel good to walk away from that

>>20476719
>>20476760
you can only get married nowadays if you make so much money that you can still "make it" even after a divorce. Think Jeff bezos or elon musk cares about getting (((divorce raped?)))

>>20476684
An ugly man in a nice suit, a nice car, and a nice house with no debt or kids isn't ugly.

>>20476684
Um this is something Ive been thinking about. Society is telling me to get married or else Im a pariah. However, I am actually happy having my own investments and assets and never having to answer to some female who is holding me hostage being divorce raped. Anon, if you have ever been in a semi-long term relationship you know how good it starts and then how dark it gets. women will cut your heart out and feed it to you given the chance. Times have changed. Women are incentivized to leave you and hop from cock to cock. The dating world is extremely fucked up. You just can't trust anyone. She can leave if she gets bored for one second. Me personally I don't want to take that risk knowing how hard Ive worked for what I have. I see people married for 20-30 years and they are splitting up in their 50's...Again times are changing, being single will be the new norm in the coming decades. The only reason im considering it is to please my aging parents. But their marriage was hell so my dad will understand if I don't take the dive

>>20476684
Just got date 100 people you will find the one that’s how it works

>>20477348
this. cash rules everything

>>20476684
listen to scott galloway

i was lucky enough to be fucked over and wiped out by women early in life, so i'll never get married.

i can't imagine building myself up just to be knocked down by a fucking whore.

It's not worth it anymore.

>>20476760
50% get divorced.
Imagine what precentage of men are misserable and want to get divorced but can't because of kids, money family ETC.

Do you want to live a miserable life attached to an aging nagging bag?

>>20476684
slide thread

>>20477396
Yea the number 1 obstacle to success and financial freedom is who you marry. So by that logic, not getting married almost guarantees that you will be better off financially. Unless your spouse is making 500k or something crazy

What if you marry some jungle gook that needs a green card so you have the leverage?

this is why roasties want to outlaw silicone gynoids. lol. they're losing there grip

Hey, I was wondering if you could post more asian trannys, the ones you post now arent cute at all.

>>20477503
Not a bad plan as long as the sex is good and she is 100% loyal

>>20477584
>woman
>100% loyal

>>20476684
It's a good idea if you can also fend off the litany of other incursions that you will have to face at the hands of your social milieu. Marriage exists in a balance of other rituals that constrain and harness your creative energies for the collective; if you don't indulge in one, then you will be strongly "encouraged" to indulge in the others.
Imagine a rock-paper-scissors flowchart, but with something like marriage, extreme wagecuckery, and ostracism keeping eachother in balance. If you don't marry, then by process of elimination, you are intuitively sorted into the other two (in reality there are more) and treated accordingly until you appear to fill a role that makes sense to the other players in your local social game.

>>20477503
just promis them marriage, let them visit on a visa do your chores and when the visa expires tell them it's not working out

Not at all, you still can live with your girl without getting married, wtf, it isn't something strange.

>>20477751
What if you make it and you now have a tremendous influence regarding your social "milieu?" I mean if you truly make it you can go anywhere and live any lifestyle where the social dynamics can be suited to your desires.

>>20477206
>except i didn't even have a car by the time it was over she kept that too.
how did you rebuild anon?

>>20476684
just take the vasectomy pill and you won't even have to get married. Imagine the relief of not having the pressure to get anchored by a cunt, work constantly for her lazy ass and her/your unborn kids who are doomed to fail because of increasing propaganda thanks to tech. Families are designed to slave.

>>20479269
lived like a destitute refugee for years
lived alone in a cheap apt with almost zero furniture, lived off cheap top ramen on good days. went hungry other days. went without most things people take for granted.
worked and worked for years to get on my feet. after a few years everything was fine. but it was hard hungry times starting from scratch as an adult, with nothing.
doin great now but never forgot my lessons

>>20477408
This. Embarrassing.

>>20476719
>no its not a good idea, you need to get married so your kids dont grow up fucked up.
i have friends who have been together for 15 years, have children and are not married. mariage is for retards.

I approach women like I would any investment. Basically, diversify. Keep them all as side pieces, and when one starts to show an uptrend, slowly put more into that one. Who knows, that one might start paying out sweet dividends like cooking and cleaning. Be sure to check their five year chart. What events could have lead to a sudden crash? Better to dump early than be left being a bagholder.

>>20476684
Christianity is about endurance not about happiness
the very idea behind it is rooted in the master and slave dialectic which contradicts a happy ending
people didn't marry to be happy and they also didn't divorce when they were unhappy

THAT'S A MAN.

>>20476784
This. It fucking sucks. My doctors thinks I am gay and had me do a colonoscopy when I just had hemmroids from shitting.

>>20479893
Based

>>20476684
Being an ugly man already make you creepy anon.
As you get older it get worse
Doesn’t matter if you are married or not
There are tons of rich handsome divorced men, but no one ever view them as creepy

I am currently debating getting married.
I have 3 times more savings and assets as her and I'll have a wicked good pension later in life. Think Ill do the "gene simmions" move. just be an unmarried couple forever. I heard pre-nubs dont work really if they hire a good lawyer.

they always say I wont do that, but it do

>>20482245
Just be careful of common law marriage fren. Some countries/states you only have to live with her for a bit and she can still fuck you up.

>>20481024
Kek'd good job.

>>20476684
Only get married if it's on your terms, whatever those may be

>>20476760
>There's a 25 percent chance you'll find a "good" woman

jesus christ, the incels have brainwashed you

>>20482245
pensions will be looted soon. cash it out