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I've been dating a girl for 2 years and I just bought a house with all my own money (she's not on the title and she didn't contribute to mortgage). I move in in August.

I'm worried that this girl is going to try to get half my property because we will be common law married soon. She got fired during coronavirus and all of a sudden she doesn't care about looking for work now that I'm getting all the bills and just bought a house.

Is this a massive red flag? I have 1 month to dump her if need be.

I do love her, I just don't see her as "the one" yet. Any help would be appreciated.

>> No.20184669
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>>20184654

>> No.20184686

>>20184654
>all of a sudden she doesn't care about looking for work now that I'm getting all the bills
impregnate her immediately

>> No.20184688

>>20184654
Isn’t it 10yrs?

>> No.20184726

>>20184654
put your house in an irrevocable trust with your favorite family members as trustees on a living will

>> No.20184728

>>20184654
common law marriage is 5 years, not 2.

secondly, she will have no legal right to properties you buy before marriage occurs.

>> No.20184747

>>20184654
also, buy the house in the name of a holding company, she can literally do nothing to you then kek

>>20184726
no need, just create a holding company and buy the house in its name, takes 20 minutes

>> No.20184798

>>20184726
>>20184728
>>20184747
Do you think I should seek legal help for this?

>> No.20184813

Honestly.

If you have doubts that she is contributing and "worth her 60%" then break up with her now. Start the process. Get it over with as soon as you can.

I was in that position. I had a "nice girl", she was great. But it became more obvious over time that a huge part of her motivation to care for me was that she got to move out of her parents place, transpiration, etc.

"the one" is a rare thing, but a huge qualifier for me is that she actually contribute and help me. I've seen what a "good woman" can really do. My uncle is a madman who owns his own islands. But a HUGE part of him succeeding where is he is today is because his wife was there to support him.

She was willing to live off of PB&J for a week because they had the hotdog buns but no hogdogs. Stories like that. Just the jam.

So yeah. Don't give a girl who doesn't earn it a free ride...And if you're having the doubts already then the kicker is Anything you contribute to her takes away from your (real) goal. Your missions are now at odds. One is a AT RISK, and the other is the risk.

Drop her

>> No.20184823

>>20184654
nice larpy /pol/ thread, incel. go back to your shit chamber >>>/pol/

>> No.20184849

>>20184798
Yes. It's worthwhile.

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>>20184798
yes, talk to a lawyer about how to set it up, it should cost you maybe 100 bucks max with all the paperwork etc and you are good to go. tell him you want to protect your assets (house in this case)

even when married, since it is not in your name, she will not be able to do anything to get the house.

also, if you are ever sued, nobody can get your house from you. it's called asset protection.

nobody wealthy buys their house in their own name, all use holding companies.

watch this video:

>https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oSjZM8UZx5c

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>>20184873
Not him, but big thanks to you for this post and the information anon.

>> No.20184907

>>20184895
you are welcome bro! knowledge is power

>> No.20184911

>>20184813
Man, if my girl ate PB&J for a week I'd feel like the luckiest man in the world. This girl starts complaining after 2-3 days of not going out and doing something "fun", or after 10 mins if there's an immediate discomfort. Your uncle is a lucky man.

>> No.20184920

>>20184654
HAHAHAHAHAHAH YOU JUST LOST HALF YOUR WEALTH
IMAGINE FALLING FOR MARRIAGE

>> No.20184923

>>20184873
Since I already bought the house, do you know if I can still transfer it to a holding company?

>> No.20184939

>>20184813
I would not agree with this comment to be honest. If the woman you love is housewife material, she should not work. She should be at home, raise kids, clean the house etc, my wife does this, I provide all the money, food, protection, etc.

I would hate if my wife got a "normal" job. I guess it depends on the person and if they are a housewife or just using you.

>> No.20184951

>>20184923
yes, you can transfer ownership to a holding company, talk to a lawyer, he will sort it out for you. (not worth doing it by yourself, too much time and effort learning all the shit)

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the time is now

MKR dip is flattening out

DeFi high potential coin..fill up the bags or else get bogged

>> No.20184968

>>20184654
I'm sorry for your loss, OP. You already know what you have to do.

>> No.20184975

>>20184654
How’d you lose 1/2 your stuff overnight anon?

>> No.20184992

>>20184813
>transpiration
WHAT, kek
>transportation

>> No.20184996

>>20184813 Redpill reply
>>20184939 Bluepill reply
OP you must choose wisely.

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>>20184654
>marriage
>paying women bills
>buying a whole fucking house and moving her in

You're both things retarded and a cuck, you're a retarded cuck. Enjoy your half of the house... Yeah that one with your name on the title

>> No.20185018

>>20184798
Yes, and hurry by the sounds of things you don't have a lot of time.

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>>20184996
My reply does not work on weak spined s o y boys that do not control their women. If you let a woman run rampant, she will rape your house, your finances etc. You have to take control, the fact that you responded in the way you did, shows me everything about you as a person. You cannot control women, who by their own nature, want to be submissive to men, even if modern women do not know it consciously.

>> No.20185118

>>20184798
Yes. Some states do recognize prenups for common law marriages. Don't enter into a common law marriage if you have no asset protection.

>> No.20185122

>>20184654
simp

>> No.20185157

>>20184798
No, just take the advice of random /biz/jeets who dont know about your state's legal code. Yes you should get legal help dummy

>> No.20185165

>>20184654
dump it

>> No.20185169

Real estate guy here. The laws vary by state so I can only speak to Texas, but if you’re not married when you buy the house it’s 100% yours period. Common law marriage is not common and a judge would have to see that you checked a few boxes for it to even apply. Those checked boxes vary by state as well. It’s worth the 100-500 you’ll pay to talk to an attorney if you’re really that concerned. But if you’re this worried at this point in the relationship then why are you even dating her?

Also, don’t listen to anyone in this thread. None of them know what they are talking about. Call an attorney.

>> No.20185181

>>20185093
You cannot control what you have no leverage over. If we assume your wife doesn't work, has no income and would take away nothing from a divorce, then that's somewhat ideal. If she can walk away and have you foot the bill, then her not working is a simp move.

>> No.20185190

>>20185169
To add to my comment, if you marry her after you buy the house then she can get what is called a life state. That’s where she doesn’t own it but she can live in it until she dies. This applies if you die first.

>> No.20185197

>>20184813

This, having a girl that makes her own money and isn't stupid with it is a major indicator that she is mature enough for marriage/kids

>> No.20185216

>>20185181
That's why I got married according to the bible and not according to the government. I do not have a marriage license from the government, I am not a simp, nor does God require such a license.

So yes I agree, todays marriage and divorce laws favors the female in most cases. Glad I don't live in the US.

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>>20184654
OP

>> No.20185271

If a girl liked me enough to stick around for two years I would bust inside her pussy so hard we’d have 8 kids at once

>> No.20185287

>>20185271
Start becoming the type of guy a girl would want to be around for multiple years.

>> No.20185290

>>20184911
I had a gf like this once. She always was loking to go out and have "fun". Couldnt enjoy simple things etc. I dropped her bit took too long to pull the trigger. I didnt feel 100% me when i was with her, or if I wanted to do stuff alone or with friends she took it personal. Life is short, if you're not having a good time and can't be yourself around her, its not worth it.

>> No.20185311

>>20184654
If she can dispute the fact that she is financially dependent on you and has been for the whole relationship, common marriage law does not apply.
You are fucked.

>> No.20185355

>>20184654
the common denominator problem here is the marriage. makes absolutely no sense. it's a power move on her part, you're giving her power. if she loves you she won't need a fucking piece of paper. if she leaves you because you won't get married then you fucking saved yourself. if she doesn't then she's with you for love

period

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>>20185355
This. If the condition she needs is for the government to recognise your marriage then it's not so much about love or commitment then is it. You can still do a whole wedding but just not have it recognised by the gov. If that is a big deal for her then it's telling you something about her intentions isn't it

>> No.20186138

>>20184654
Do not move her in without a prenub

>> No.20186158

>>20184654
>I've been dating this woman for 2 years that I don't want to have a family with
What a waste of time and energy you could have had 5 houses by now if you didn't waste so much time banging something that you decree a whore not worth your precious seed.

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>>20184654
>we will be common law married soon
DUMP HER RIGHT NOW RETARD SHE'S NOT WORTH IT.

>> No.20186269

>>20184654
>I do love her, I just don't see her as "the one" yet.
Stop thinking with your cock, Anon.

>> No.20186338

>>20184813
>reddit spacing
Nice larp fag

>> No.20186636

>>20184654
>The One
No one's special. Not you, not your gf, not your parents, not your kids(that you won't have). It's all chasing to fill this void with an impossible standard, a "idea".

Time will ravage all Beauty, wear down all Mountains, and dry up all Oceans. Whatever your decision, stop wishing for magic, before the magic of life leaves your husk forever.

>> No.20186662

Talk to a lawyer if you are so concerned. But as far as I am aware, common law marriage is extremely rare and will need a couple conditions to be met. The first and most important is that you both hold yourselves out to be a marriage couple to the public. You essentially need to act married but never have an actual ceremony. Never call her your wife, spouse, partner. Never share bank accounts. Never share title to property - be it real estate, stocks/bonds, vehicles, boats, etc. Never buy insurance together.

It’s an archaic concept from a time when people only lived together if they actually were married, but were just to poor to afford a ceremony or just didn’t bother to do it because it was the Wild West. Today it very common for unmarried couples to live together and even have children out of wedlock. So the situations you hear of modern common law marriage are extremely unique set of circumstances.

>> No.20186734

>>20184654
Dump dumbass let link moon don’t be a cuck faggot

>> No.20186816

>>20184654
Dump her now

>> No.20186841

>>20184654
She will try to get you to impregnate her.
Don't.
If she has a kid, she gets the house.

Talk to her bout this, if she gets buttmad, she will dump you and problem solved.

>> No.20186870

> I do love her, I just don't see her as "the one" yet. Any help would be appreciated.

Report the marriage, use covid as an excuse (don't set a new date) if she's going crazy she's after the house.

>> No.20186932

>>20184654
Just knock her up and live life anon and fucking man up. You're pathetic.

>> No.20186950

>>20184654
Dump her you nigger