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19703757 No.19703757 [Reply] [Original]

>be my dad
>whole life tells me everything's my fault whenever anything goes wrong
>ANYTHING. Could be the weather, sickness, someone else fucks up
>"you should've had better judgement"
>Graduate high school, one month after tells me I need to leave his house or pay rent
>homeless, stealing from grocery store, rejected no matter where i apply from 18-23
>Few times we're on phone he snickers during convo whenever i talk about any recent struggles
>"Ever consider you should stop looking for a scapegoat? Look at me I plan for everything"
>24 get a job. Finally making money. Invest that money in a business. Get a windfall.
>mfw i can finally eat
>Corona hits this year.
>We get on phone in march
>"Y-y-you alright?"
>Yeah. You?
>"These are crazy times. I lost about half a million in the markets....what's do you think's gonna happen?..."
>On phone today
>Things open up again and his company is now doing shit
>"I-I-I don't know what I'm gonna do..."

>> No.19703979

>>19703757
Be the bigger man anon

>> No.19703989

>>19703757
Fuck his wife

>> No.19704004

fuck the boomer, anon
Let him rot

>> No.19704005

Seriouspost: Cut him off. No contact until he pleads for forgiveness.

>> No.19704016

>>19703757
Sounds like we're only hearing one side of the story. you're probably a complete piece of shit.

>> No.19704018

>>19703757
revenge is the highest law and only pleasure you can get
let the revenge and revanchism lead your life - it is only fair

>> No.19704054

>>19703757
I'm sure you're pretty smug right now

>> No.19704084

>>19704016
This.

>> No.19704085

>>19703757
Tell him to stop being a faggot trying to search an excuse for his situation.

>> No.19704161

>>19703757

"You'll manage, you do plan for everything don't you?"

>> No.19704181

>>19704016
Nah sounds like typical narcissistic

>> No.19704196

>>19703757

Imagine being so ungrateful and petty that you'd spite your dad for teaching you how to be a fucking man. The absolute STATE of millennials. I am fucking ashamed to be one of you. Thank God my father taught me not to be a dishonorable faggot.

>> No.19704198

>can’t get a job at fast food

Lmao

>> No.19704221

>>19704016
you don't know my dad unfortunately. His brothers and sisters are exactly like this too

they're all in their 60s btw

>> No.19704228

>>19704016
his dad is a boomer, it's absolutely believable

>> No.19704233

>>19704198
>assumes i'm in the US

>> No.19704239

>>19704198
>makes fun out of being unable to work in a fast food joint

have you even worked in one, anon?

>> No.19704252

>>19703757
live the best life you can anon, even if it means forgiving your asshole dad

>> No.19704269

Probably a larp but don't give him shit. You know he wouldn't do same for you. Maybe loan him cash on really exploitative terms? Don't know how feasible for /biz/ poster to loan shark his own dad but the idea is fun.

>> No.19704272

>>19704016
I'd believe him if he's an american.

>> No.19704285

>>19703757
Do you want to better than your father? Then do not rejoice in his suffering. Do you want to break the cycle of abuse? Then you should continue to distance yourself from him.

>> No.19704300

Nothing says boomer like kneecapping your child's progress by punting them out at 18 because it was possible back in your day

>> No.19704303

>>19704239
I haven't and never understood why anyone ever would. Grocery stores are the far superior starting/shitty job. Most have pretty solid tuition reimbursement programs too.

>> No.19704311

>>19704272
my mate had a similar situation, not even in the US. single mother kicked him out and forced him to ''learn the adult life''. ended up taking a shitton of loans that hes unable to pay back just because of the only job he could get was an underpaying one that barely got him food on his table.

>> No.19704319

>>19703757
your dad gave you life. respect that

>> No.19704324

If you respect yourself, show him respect. Just don't give him money

>> No.19704331

>"son don't ever blame anyone else for your circumstances. Never be a victim."
seems like good advice. Shame it was wasted on a nancy little faggot who couldn't get a job in highschool.

>> No.19704347

Don't listen to these faggots op, there's absolutely no reason to forgive or be grateful to your father, he did the absolute minimum that was legally required of him and just wasn't as big as a piece of shit as he possibly could be and these people want you to fucking forgive or try to be the better man, just forget it him

>> No.19704359

>>19704233
They don’t have fast food in shitistovakia? Nigga please

>> No.19704369

>>19704303

not everyone is privliged to have parent/-s with actual parenting skills. anyone can pop out a kid, just look at MTV 16 and pregnant. Life can play you a shit hand and you have to work with what you got.

>> No.19704386

>>19703757
my dad was like that until my parents divorced, best thing to ever happen.

>> No.19704391

>>19704303
This. Started wage slaving at Wal-Mart at the age of 16 because it paid (at the time) $9 an hour instead of $7.25-$7.50 like the fast food places were offering

>> No.19704456

>>19703757
look at it this way OP, at least you werent born in a crackhead family with addictions. you got through one of the hardest points of your life because you worked for all of your shit. take the best out of each situation, if you'd have a kid in the future you know that retarded decisions like your dads will only fuck up the kids future, so better not to do it.

>> No.19704479

>>19704285
This.

>> No.19704512

>>19703989
That would be all the proof we need to confirm that OP is jewish.

>> No.19704536

>>19703757
boomers sold their children out for cheap landscaping
they deserve nothing

>> No.19704581

>>19704359
My father is from sweden, and married my mom from the US (likely for the greencard, never seen them in love) When I was 18 they said "we dont have any money to send you to college". So i realized my only chance of going to school was to go to Sweden since it's "free" there (or so i thought). Further realized i wouldn't be able to save up for college in the US if i had to pay rent under his roof, so i asked him for a ticket there, he paid it, and that was the and of any support.

I thought I could find work in Sweden as a young person and start low. Boy was I wrong. And when you look at the stats it makes sense: it takes on average 7 years for immigrants to land a job as of the last decade. It was almost impossible to survive in this country, despite how the news would have you believe otherwise. MANY immigrants share this experience. And through winters and all I had to survive by my teeth. Gotten sent to court for stealing as well as other illegal hustles i did just to have chump change

>> No.19704594

>>19703979
This, go over to your dad and beat him up and spit in his face

>> No.19704629

>>19704581
So why didn't you move back to the US once you had the education?

>> No.19704658

>>19704016
Hello uncle ji

>> No.19704697

>>19704629
decided to stick it out like 4 more months once i had my degree to see if i could get something. I did. I didn't pay much, but at least i was working in my field. Used that money to invest in a business of a former contact in the US and work on it as well. So at least we weren't paying 33% (or more) tax on it.
I could always move back ot the US and maybe do well, though it seems hard if you have no working history there. But at this point i'm like I survived this, I could probably survive anywhere. Why not try some other country that i actually like

>> No.19704775

>>19704697
anon you got fucking balls my friend. Was in the same position as you, shitty parents ended up homeless lived by three rules (never steal, never sell drugs, never begged for money) I'd use your cash and invest in crypto(btc/link/eth) then either move to S.E.A and work online if thats relatable in your field.

If planning to move back to the states, make sure you can get taxes or what not. That's going to kill you down the road..trust me. The key right now is to think about how to turn $1.00 into $10.00 then you'll be on your way towards riches.

Saving money will never make you rich. Its all about revenue generation.

>> No.19704830

>>19703757
HAHAHA tell him its his fault and destroy his brain. Only based thing you can do. "Be the bigger man" ->>>19703979
is probably your cuck dad. Fuck him up.

>> No.19704843

>>19704016
you're op's dad, arent you? Fucking loser

>>19704018
based

>> No.19704856

>>19704161
This, op. Say this with a smug smile

>> No.19704874

>>19704285
cuck. boomers need the rope

>> No.19704893

>>19704830
>this ID: onions ALL WHITE IS NIGGERS

>> No.19704903

>>19704874
>>19704856
>>19704843
>>19704830
okay lmao. It is fucking ironic and hilarious how my username says "so.y". What were the chances?

>> No.19704934

>>19703757

tell him he should have had better judgement

>> No.19704972

>>19704903
>username
im so sorry, god. Im sorry. So sorry. Please forgive me

>> No.19704974

>>19704319
He did, he made something of himself.
His dad’s responsibility ended at 18, he made it painfully obvious to OP.
Now his responsibility is his family.
The condition is that he has to CHOOSE to accept it.
Do you break the cycle?
I would. It’d be hard to look at such a pathetic wretch, but we all return to dust in our own way.
If Op has kids, and his dad needs help, you show the IDEAL and set the STANDARD.
We live in cyclical environs.

>> No.19704978

>>19703989
The best thing about fatherhood is saying to your son “Yeah? Well, I fucked your mum”

>> No.19704989

>>19704974
youre a boomer, arent you? His dad doesnt deserve shit

>> No.19705013

>>19704989
I’m 29.
I just realize the Golden Mean, not Revanchism is how civilizations progresses.
Build the world you want, not the world you were given.

>> No.19705022

>>19703757

If you really want to fuck with him, offer him a small loan. Nothing that would financially hurt you, just enough to make sure he can never talk shit again.

>> No.19705034

>>19704974

Wow you sure are a jewish piece of shit if you don't help your kids get started

>> No.19705077
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19705077

>>19703757
Remind him that he's gonna die bankrupt and you'll make money by buying the dip cuz stonks only go up

>> No.19705086

>>19704016

Na. Sounds typical of a boomer.

>> No.19705095

>>19705034
You’re right. That’s the point I’m making.
Help your fucking kids.
My parents never helped me, but I LOVE my family and won’t exact the cycle of revenge that my family gave me monetarily.

>> No.19705111

>>19704974
It's so hard :'( he destroyed my self esteem and broke my brain. I don't know how i'd ever dig myself out of the mental hole/cage, even if i do become financially successful.

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19705112

>>19703757
Jokes on you, it's your inheritance money

>> No.19705122

My parents would let me live at their house indefinitely (if I wanted to).

I seethe watching boomer parents kick out their kids. The actual overhead of having an additional person living in your house is mostly emotional/social, not financial. My brother lived with me rent-free while he was working poverty art jobs and it didn't cost me any actual money, he's not a bitch so there weren't any problems. Parents who own a house and kick their children out (and don't rent out the rooms to strangers) essentially say "I don't like being around you, despite raising you for 18 years I couldn't create a good relationship with you". They are failures.

>> No.19705132
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19705132

>Be boomer with 4 bedroom house
>Punt your kid out at 18 with no warning, leave the room empty
>Current min wages/underemployment mean kid will need to work multiple jobs to stay above water, severely limiting options for further education or training
>Kid ends up either a complete dropkick or eventually gets their shit together, albeit years behind his peers
>Kid now resents you and never wants to visit
>Sell the family home and blow inheritance on a caravan and cruises
>Fuck I'm getting old now, I hope my son takes care of me!

Intergenerational wealth is built by making sure your kids can do better than you, and in turn their kids can do better than them. This may mean that you have to make some "sacrifices" like letting your kid live at home until they are like 22 (oh no!) while they study and intern/apprentice etc... so they can get into the workforce faster and make real money. Boomers cant comprehend that the game has changed since their day so they just assume their kids are lazy

>> No.19705146

>>19704319
ah yes the minimum

>> No.19705333

DEVILISH

>> No.19705369

>>19705111
read some philosophy/spirituality/some holy book, it really can free your mind, and thats why these things still exist, but have to go thru them yourself

>> No.19705449

>>19704775
>never steal, never sell drugs, never begged for money
ha i definitely did all three and more. Respect from one survivor of these times/whatever era we're in to another

>> No.19705513

>>19705111
I know man.
I’m sorry he was such a shithead.
What hurts the most is you know you don’t deserve it.
Don’t offer him help unless he asks and work as hard as you did to survive, to make sure that you don’t turn into him.
You absolutely have this, because you made it here.

>> No.19705516

>>19703979
BASEDBOYYYYY

>> No.19705559

>>19703757
i know this feel op but its not worth it to spend any energy being angry at your parents for being oblivious to how fucked shit is today. it eats away at you big time and can only serve to get you further in the hole in my experience. they grew up in a gilded age and cant see it's coming to an end.

>> No.19705645

>>19704347
This

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19706555

>>19705013
I want a world where boomers are lynched

>> No.19706564

>>19706555
Aww. Im home now so I lost my "so.y" ID. Sad. Also, trips of truth

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19706845

>>19705132
>Boomers cant comprehend that the game has changed since their day so they just assume their kids are lazy

The best part is the game NEVER changed at all! Parents, grand parents, and children all acting in concert with each other so that the grand children and great grand children are given ever better starts in life with ever more options is how you turn a family into an institution. This is how everyone who wasn't a yeoman trying not to starve operated since Greece. The fact that the masses don't get this anymore is a product of the drop in human intelligence that the industrial revolution allowed. Most of the people you hate for being 'normie boomers' would have rightfully been killed via starvation or exposure prior to the 19th century.

>> No.19707002

>>19706845
Fitting for a retard to post craig lmfao. Dumb bitch cant even understand the state of an economy and compare LMFAO

Imagine being THIS retarded. Compare buying power and barrier to entries, bitch. Oh wait. Retards cant do math lool

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19707014

>>19706845

I was more referring to the whole "firm handshake" deal where you could walk in to most places without a degree and have a solid stable job and could buy a house without too much effort. You are correct though.

>> No.19707030

>>19703757
Quote him back to himself.
>"you should've had better judgement"
>"Ever consider you should stop looking for a scapegoat? Look at me I plan for everything"
Then never talk to him again.

>> No.19707131

>>19707014
Huh? You misunderstood them. This:
>I was more referring to the whole "firm handshake" deal where you could walk in to most places without a degree and have a solid stable job and could buy a house without too much effort.
Was what they were arguing AGAINST. They are delusional and saying that we have it just as good as they did both financially wise and ease of gaining decent employment

>> No.19707141

>>19707030
THIIIIIIIIIS
Absolutely based

>> No.19707178

>>19703979
retard

>> No.19707190

>>19704319
get out of here with that shit. thats 100% a self interested decision until the little shit grows up and can evaluate if youre in any way decent at parenting

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19707204

>>19707002
>>19707131
I was implicitly agreeing with this >>19705132
post you absolute mongoloid. How the fuck are you reading anything in my post as supportive of the typical boomer mentality? Boomer mentality is a roadmap to ensuring no wealth is ever transferred down through the family line. Boomers voluntarily take part in a ritual sacrifice of their descendants' fortunes by destroying any wealth that would have outlived them and minimizing the ability of their children to move smoothly into the workforce by not providing housing or child care for the brand new households trying to develop under their purview.

This board would be better on the whole if the next time you wanted to post a reply, you carefully reread the post 10 times, then wrote your reply and reread that 5 times, before you clicked post.

>> No.19707341

>>19707204
Youre right. Not sure how I misread that.

>> No.19707431

>>19704581
So you're an entitled cunt that thinks they deserve college? You are literally a leech.

>> No.19707471

>>19707431
Youre retarded as fuck, arent you? This society benefits from its citizens going to college (college is retarded, but employers are to blame for maki them the new barrier to entry). So its not just a net gain to people, but society too. If anything, this government being jews = they are shooting themselves in the foot by not subsidizing most to all expenses (there are ways to fix this i.e. making bachelors available at a CC and that being pushed so people dont become debt slaves) since the more money people make, the more this jew government can tax you while you also have more buying power in general (despite the jew taxation. fyi im not against taxes. Im agains taxes on certain things and when they are implemented in a dumbass way that hurts citizens).

Long story short, youre a god damn brainlet

>> No.19707485

>>19707431
Not only that, bitch, but boomers didnt even need college for middle class jobs. That PLUS even IF they did for some fields, they had more buying power and college was waaay cheaper for them too when adjusting for inflation. Idiot

>> No.19707491

>>19703757
>Invest that money in a business. Get a windfall.
Sounds like you made it.
Normally, I'd say to just cut them off, but then
> I lost about half a million in the markets....
Sounds like you got a huge inheritance waiting for you.
I mean, unless he was trading with leverage and got liquidated, he most likely just lost a huge percentage from his portfolio (probably not even half).

If so, I'd just keep cordial enough that they don't cut you out of the will, while low-key refusing to provide any financial assistance (i.e. lies like "yeah I also got hit hard too, struggling financially rn"). Sounds like they don't really need help though, they're just panicking.

>> No.19707506

>people itt actually believing this gay story

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19707514

>>19707341
All good. I think we agree on what's important, which is to hasten the coming of The Day of the Pillow.

>> No.19707735

This is what I did to my Boomer parents:
They gave me nothing and pissed their enormous wealth away on nigger art, nigger charities, and Christian church shit. I was left with literally nothing.

I had them declared mentally unfit and then got control over the tiny amount of wealth and possessions they had left. I liquidated all their shit, got $25k for it, and used it to buy a new Subaru BRZ.

Then I stuck them in the worst state-run nursing home I could find in the nigger part of town. They begged me to move them literally three days after they got there. My response was as follows:

>Stop being racist! This is their culture. You spent your whole life supporting these people and bringing them into the country. You are staying there and you will learn to live among them!

I paid their coon caretaker $500 cash to ignore any of their requests that were """unreasonable""" and told that shitskin they were both racist and to do what you have to in order to keep them in line. They are both suffering a lot of abuse including not being properly cleaned.

It's the future they both chose. For you pussies who will cry about this, you can take your egalitarian faggot shit and shove it up your ass. Boomers deserve to be punished. The only way White people will ever learn anything is through their suffering. We need to ensure that the entire Boomer generation's final years are sadistic torture as a warning to future generations who might piss away their children's opportunities.

...Final note: my mom spent her entire life working with a Lutheran church to import Somalian nogs into America and she was very successful at it. I hope one of her caretakers gives her a fucking good smack or three.

>> No.19707814

I think OP should direct his dad over to /biz/, he will fit right in

>> No.19708873

>>19704285

This. He may be a shitty father, but he is still your father. If you can forgive him, do so. If not, cut him out of your life. There's no need for gloating.