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It's been over 2 years since I had a chance and I just blew it. I'm never gonna have anyone to hold at night except my dog unless I make it.

>>19374861
nice dude good for you. all you have to do now is go back up there with some silly question in mind and ask to see her again. exposure is your friend

this board is so shit now

>>19374861
Stop watching porn
Stop jerking off
Work out
Simple as

>>19375183
>>19375213
>>19375215

>>19374861
>After seeing the doc he told me to go to the front desk and make an appointment in 3 weeks but I just walked out because I was so nervous.

>>19375762
It's true, now I have to call and hope it's someone else shift because I need doctor.

>>19375910
c'mon bro. what's the worse thing that could happen?

>>19374861
normal people would just rape her right there.
and you don't even smell her?

>>19374861
LOL fucking retard

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>>19375215
this btw

Maybe stop posting frogs on a Taiwanese vase auction community forum. First step.

>>19376863
so cut off all human contact?

>>19376896
Just go talk to the girl you absolute autist.

Lol anon who gives a fuck. Opportunity comes and goes.
The fact you recognize it is better than being completely clueless.
You’re on the wrong side of nihilism amigo.

>>19376863
frog posting is one thing he's doing right

>>19376896
Allright Bro, trader CHAD here, just listen to me.
Make an appointment as soon as possible, pray that that girl is working there that day, and have a funny joke ready. If you genuinely think she might be interested in you, shoot your shot and ask her for her Name and number. Man the worst thing that could happen is that she says she's not interested. So go for it ya little lovebird.

>>19376905
>hey stacy did that patient book his next appointment with you
>no doc he powerwalked through the lobby and went straight out the door
I can never show my face there again.

Listen, ace. There two things that don't do you no good, and that's runway behind you and latitude above you.

>>19374861
dont worry fren next time just make a small step in the right direction such as asking her what her name is or how is she doing during this whole coronavirus shebang?
you can learn to make it through social interaction it just takes practice. Its really not hard, just start off with something basic. right now coronavirus is an easy topic that is on everyones mind one question is all you need to signal that you are open to talking then she will do the rest

>>19376983
Alright then. Keep posting frogs and die alone.

>>19375213
oh yeah it's shit because of the rare frenpost and not the hundreds of BUY DE DVR CVC ABC XYZ COIN SIR VERY MOON 100X EASY SOON BUYING IT NOW BIG PARTNERSHIPS SOON threads

yeah it's the sadfrogs ruining /biz/

>>19376062
he could get arrested for rape claims. And then he will get raped in the shower.

>>19376983
when I do autistic stuff like this where a girl seems to show interest I just remind myself of how much of an ugly faggot loser I am and how I wouldn't want to burden a girl like that even if she was interested in me

thanks for your interest but it's for your own good if you just stay away from me. Go find one of the millions of handsome well adjusted guys with normal jobs and good familial relationships

>>19377024
I don't want to but that is the way it will be. I missed my chance and just made this thread to cope.
I appreciate the advice you give and hope I can put it into practice in the future but this bridge is burnt, what I do know about a woman is when you fuck up like this they think you rejected their advance and turn you into an ugly mysoginist in their had to save their own self image.
I has happened for me before sometime there is not a chance to go back and try again.

>>19377083
This is exactly how I feel. I don't beleive the girl could like me until I have time to think logically once the encounter is over. Are we keeping our inferior genes from replicating? Is this an evolutionary instinct to stay alone and never replicate?

>>19377101
kek no, you didn't miss shit
you talk yourself into having missed it so you don't have to take the plunge
and you will do it again
and again
and again

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>>19377119
I think it a lack of self confidence
Just think about what gigachad would do he would have fucked her right there in the waiting room
So asking her name should be within your reach

>>19374861
Listen, OP. Stop jerking off. I'm on Day 8 of #nofap. A month ago I broke down after having a dream on day seven. Like clockwork, I had a similar dream on day seven but I was able to just go back to bed. It was as if I were being attacked in my dreams to break the chain.

The next day I made a joke with a nurse the other day about how the follow-up appointment I had just scheduled about how we are in "these most trying of times". I saw her eyes light up and told her she had beautiful eyes. Maybe it's because the seasons are changing and flowers are blooming and that I'm a fucking hermit and barely go out, but the women looked significantly more attractive to me that day.

>>19377237
I only feel the urge to jerk off once a week so maybe I will give this a shot.

the only thing worse than an autist is a cowardly autist

I've had this happen to me several times before, and I don't realize that I was being hit on until an hour or two later. Having strangers, especially women, bother me in public is super annoying and awkward. The last thing that I want when I'm out is for some ovulating baby factory to try and trick me into giving her half of my shit.

>>19376983
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>>19377119
Jesus Christ youre so autistic. How do you even function?

>>19374861
>she commented about how tall I was and she had to be on her tiptoes and I just laughed
women are whore they make these comments everytime
You missed nothing you soi boi

>>19377510
Strict routine and practice with the limited social interactions I am forced to have. Most of the time I talk to people i am following a script that I have thought about previously.

>>19377578
Nice English Harpinder

>>19377599
So why do you even want a woman then
Because all the cool boys said women are desirable?

>>19376983
DUDE HEAR ME OUT.

all stars alligned for me to write back to you absolute fuckin moron.

it wasn't a missed opportunity, you just created a better one.

go back there tomorrow/day after tomorrow with this shit prepared :
A- shes at the desk the day you walk in - you say simple shit
>"hey, reason why i walked out so fast yesterday is you. i couldnt stop thinking about how cute/beautiful/charming you are. do you want to grab a coffee today ? "
dont overanalyze this, dont even think if somebody is there to listen to this, dont think about rejection. if you dont know people by name, they just dont exist and you dont even know her name YET.

option B- shes not at work that day. ask whoever is at the fuckin desk about the girl, and when is her next shift because you had to leave in a rush,and want to talk to her.

dude, i hate to break it to you - women are actually people. i know, sounds crazy.

there's like 99% chance that she came back home, and started to look in the mirror questioning her looks, bangs, nails, shirt or whatever. she might even post on /fit/ or whatever else gay board there is to talk about her feelings.

if she rejects with "i have a boyfriend" or something, just say "alright, have a nice day".

its that simple.

It's practice.
You can't expect girls to initiate conversations like that, it's very rare. It's not how the dynamic works. This is so important to acknowledge.

You have to start practicing. Start small. Just have one extra thing to say to someone next time you see someone. If they reply, don't even respond, go full autist.

Keep doing this, you'll find that sparking up conversations will become less and less of a big deal. Keeping conversations going will become easier and easier. Don't expect overnight results, this will take months, more likely years.

The more you do this the more you'll become jaded to conversations/flirting. It won't be a big deal anymore. You might even miss the butterflies in your stomach. But you have to force yourself to try. If you don't try then how will you get any better? It's not a skill that just comes to you magically. It's just like anything else.

>>19377678
>>19377683
I love both of you, anons that actually care.

>>19377783
dude i gave you literally movie script comeback from ashy to classy, go to the fuckin mirror right now, and ask yourself if you are a bitch.

if the answer is no, pull up on her, and see if you are in the right movie son.

and if you end up marring her and having kids, your son must be names Oscar. that's the pact here

>>19377851
I wish I could tell you that I will march into that office and leave with her number and a date locked in, but I don't have it in me to lie to you.
I don't think I have it in me. All I can do is draw on the energy of this thread next time I have an interaction with a girl.
I have let you down and all the other frens who wasted time to give this autist advice.

>>19377237
>women
women? wut is a women? never heard such a term in my life

>>19377986
come in fort where safe fren

>>19377980
Yeah the advice that anon gave while noble is not realistic. I don't want to sound mean, but it's a bit cringy, needy and she'll pick up on the fact that you haven't done this much. By not being able to grow a relationship organically, off the cuff and resorting to this is something she'll pick up on. She'll know you are going to be inexperienced and quiet and she'll know she'll have to put work in, a lot of uncomfortable silences. Women typically want the opposite of that.

If she were receptive to that type of behavior well then she's a rare breed and stars aligned. I do know girls that are into virgins - they're not the norm though and typically have issues.

Take it slow but don't get lazy.

>>19377980
im going to bed, you are just overanalyzing this shit and putting it on some fuckin out of reach pedestal. if you chicken, just go here tomorrow and schedule appointment. if shes there with a spark just fuckin ask her about the name and compliment.

bitches aint shit but hoes and tricks.

going off, dont (you) me im out. stop being a bitch

>>19377851
I used to be more like this when I was younger. A bleeding heart romantic idealist. Reading something my younger self would write is a conflicting emotion. It’s cringey as fuck but so is courtship.

>>19377678
>>"hey, reason why i walked out so fast yesterday is you. i couldnt stop thinking about how cute/beautiful/charming you are. do you want to grab a coffee today ? "
Does this really work? Sounds kind of creepy. She might think he's some sick weirdo, maybe a stalker even. It only seems to work if the man is very good looking. Then it's charming. Women are like that.

>>19377678
Don't do this. Cringey af and a huge turn off, you'll leave her snatch drier than the Mojave desert.

What you do, instead, is go back next week at the same day and time so you know she'll be working, and tell her "you forgot to make an appointment," and schedule a new one. During that exchange, you make some small talk to gauge interest, and if she seems to like you, you say, verbatim, "hey... would you want to get coffee sometime?" If she says yes, you simply hand her your phone and ask her to put her number in it. Then you say bye and slink away.