/biz/ - Business & Finance

>>19260571
sorry, but i think it might be too late

how deep in the hole are you?

>>19260571
Is pic related?

>>19260587
>age in OP
>33k in cash
>about 16k in shitcoins
>awful job that pays 60-70k
>still got some debt from a degree that i never used and now its too late i graduated over 5 years ago and have no experience in that field
>minimal friends
>no gf

>>19260571
Haha most of these describe my sophomore year college roommate. He made it to class only like 3 times.
>>19260718
Work your way up to a job that pay twice that. And travel more.

>>19260571
are you me or am i you?

>>19260756
>travel more

for what purpose?

>>19260571
in all honesty it doesnt matter when you start caring or how far you go, it's all about making progress, you need goals, whether it be losing a certain amount of weight or having a certain amount of money, you need concrete goals. failure is only failure if you refuse to keep trying.

>>19260822
To gain new experiences and fuck women.

30 years here, 20kusd, 75% in crypto, owning half apartment, the other half belonging to GF, living with her, minimal friends, no debts at all

>>19260875
>To gain new experiences
meme answer
>and fuck women
not happening bud

>>19260921
traveling is blue pilled as FUCK, i hate people who go on and on about where theyve visited like i give 1 fuck. go suck a dick.

>>19260571

OP age here
just got back from the worst tinder date in my life. Most embarrassing shit ever. It took me way too long to even get aware I was bothersome.
she hinted several times for me to get the fuck out but here i was wasting time and space with inanities. I'm literally feeling like op's pic.

4k in the bank 4k in crypto, living in the shittiest part of Paris. The one with crackhead.
Every live voice exchanges and actions was an embarrassment. I feel obligated to apologies to her for being such a trash but it then would be even worse. At last it makes me realise how miserable my life truly is and that I am purchasing the wrong things.

ngmi if i keep going thru this pass

>>19260571
Well anon, I'm 28, moving in with my mom, quitting my job and doing a year long coding bootcamp.

>>19260718
>awful job that pays 60-70k

Go fuck yourself

>>19261341
its all about breaking the cycle bro

not if you get a hefty inheritance, use every cent buying the next big btc dip and selling after 3x.

>>19261341
at least you got a match and went on a date. i've been on tinder for a week and i've yet to get a single match. i was hoping just to do it for the ego boost since no woman could be retarded enough to actually like me in person but yeah...not even getting a match.

>>19261341
Keep trying bro. At least you got the date lmao.

>>19260718
Nigger I'm 31 and I'm unemployed because of covid and I have 5k to my name

>>19261418
If he lives in a big city he might as well make minimum wage.

>>19260571
ah fuck this is literally me bros. how the fuck do I recover from this mess

>>19261418
its horrid i wouldnt wish it on my worst enemy desu

>>19261341
sorry to hear about that fellow JUSTanon

>>19261495
Email me at charleschadchadley@gmail.com. I run a service fixing tinders.

>>19261594
lol

>>19261594
you're a meme, congrats, you've made it

>>19261517
There's no intersection of even 3 of those for me

>>19261648
>>19261620
what book should i read.

>>19261594
Anon, I have someone here you should meet

>>19261594
Aren't you worried your cans will leak on your desk thus making it sticky?

>>19261594
Crush press, to start.

>>19261420

actually working on this but truly, as I have never taken anything seriously I m not even trying at this point. getting there one step at time. Maybe I should retry therapy. Or accept help.

>>19261495

I do get matches, all chimeras and life energy sucking demons.
I can't even blame them for I am the problem to begin with.

really feel childish to even vent here with you guys.

better alone than in bad company as it is often said

I suggest you tryout Charles Chad chadley helpful service if you don't have male friend who can help you out or mentor you indeed. Stop cooming for a bit also. Hinge is cool also.

Funniest thing is that I'm a mutt with clear eyes, met a blonde blue eyed conservative unspoiled country girl in highschool while I was in my 22's like the best thing every racist poltard would dream of. wanted to break-up then unplanned pregnancy so I stayed around a bit more, led to a blue blonde eyed white baby and I left for petty things.

now I'm miserable living a frugal life and getting ass blasted by literal unworthy thots 'i love to travel' roasties from tinder

>>19261341
I give everyone the same advice, professional, personal, relationship, shop giving a shit. Do work, do seek to improve, and NEVER seek approval. Seriously, that is all confidence is really.

>>19260571
the bad news is that life is gonna get worse
good news is yours might end sooner rather than later bc you'll an hero

>>19260571
Not many people dramatically change their taste from the teens
Seems fake desu

>>19260718
Are you me?

>28
>36k in cash
>22k in BTC & ETH
>work at my family business
>have a "computer information systems" degree
>I fucked up getting that degree
>only work experience is at family business
>3k debt from degree left
>no gf
>2 friends

Bros.... the future.... it's looking.....bleak.

>>19260955
This. No travelling. Stay where you are and focus on IMPROOVment. Create daily rituals and routines that you execute like clockwork that give you physical and mental gains.

>>19261495
swipe right on everyone and only converse with what’s actually interesting to you

>>19260571
>Cant talk to human females without thinking about sex
Dont all men?

I'm 29, make about 60-70k, have 120k in savings, 10k in cash, 30k in crypto. I fucking hate my job though and I think I'm either going back to school (I could get a compsci degree in about a year) which is gay or just dropping out from society and living in a van. Leaning towards the latter

>>19262994
I've been doing this for almost 10 years now. It's gotten me far in terms of financial, career, education, skills, family, and so on. At the same time I feel like I've wasted every minute of my life doing this while simultaneously unable or unwillingly to admit regret or any will or wish to change. I'm up well past normal bed time tonight because I had a sudden memory pop up of when I spoke with a cute police officer for about 5 minutes, in Greece, on a business trip, 4 years ago, whom I will never see again and had no impact on my life in any other way what so ever. It drove me to get extremely sweaty anxious. Seeing more places and talking to more people and overall being less afraid of getting out of routine is one thing I would never suggest to hold back on.

>>19261377
>coding bootcamp
ngmi

>>19263751
Ok I'll amend my statment. Machine-like routine life style. Control as many variables as possible, improov continuously. Then once every quarter plan a trip to refresh the mind.

I'm just against this "bro traaaaavel" "live in the moooment" nomad thing that my friend started doing. "Dude you're so rich why don't you just traaaavel, just hire a manager for your business."

He's in his late 20's built nothing of tangible value. It's hard enough to focus for uninterrupted periods of time as it is, but add a lifestyle of random travelling (basicaly meandering and consuming).. game over. Memories are nice but an overly travel focused life style without having built the skills, routines, the body, the relationship probably just keeps you at square one.

> low iq prevents him from learning to code

been there, done that.
In the end: 34 year old male, can't even get a warehouse job now. wtf world? why are you doing this to me ?

>awful job that pays 60-70k
wtf man, 60-70 thats decent shit.

p.s.
should i buy this bike for 170 euros ?
https://www.skelbiu.lt/skelbimai/parduodamas-rockmachine-dviratis-48097295.html

>>19264918
thats a mans bike

>>19262666
>>19260718
you guys have enough money to start flipping houses in most states in the US so wtf are you on about? what because your life will never be like Ross and Rachel where you have a mid-high end New York apartment on a struggling actor or caterer's salary, your life is a failure?

get real, none of those people live remotely similar lives, they exist in pools of their own incestuous work culture shit and fall into mountains of debt the first time anything bad happens.

move to a decent place with a reasonable cost of living, start a local business that services the drooling population there, and shut the fuck up.

this is approximately the age of make-or-break. you either don't grow up and you join the '27 club', or your maturity is such that you no longer give a fuck about anyone's opinion, are freed of irrational anxiety and damaging behaviour, and you're capable of things you weren't before.

>>19260571
>naked most of the time
that's me

>>19260571
Is there a female version of this? Sounds like my ex and always down to verbally abuse her

>>19264918
it's turbo ugly