/biz/ - Business & Finance

I started drinking HEAVILY outta nowhere

>>17552412
Only if you grow mentally.

>>17552412
34 year old boomer here
life has been going steadily downhill since 2012

>>17552412
If you made money in your 20s then yeah it's great

>>17552469
This

your dick stops working

>>17552478
hair falls out
gut gets bigger
less and less tolerance of dealing with peoples bullshit
bank account gets fat but money is litearlly a meme because theres nothing worthwhile buying anymore (RIP vidya, movies, music)
pop culture becoming more and more deranged
random aches and pains start creeping up
low energy
feel more retarded by the day, less capable of learning new things
I honestly dread what it will be like in my 50s and 60s getting older sucks in every regard

>>17552412
No

Yes, unless you're spiritually destitute.
It only gets worse for those lost people who value nothing more than bodily youth and immediate pleasure.

Its better than being a 20 year old and feeling like youre missing out i guess.

>>17552412
Disregard the retards.
30s is pretty gud. After ten years of acting on your hedonistic whims during your 20s it's an exciting step to take up responsibilities for yourself and others. It's time to give your life more purpose and etch out a path of your own. Also, if you played your cards right, you actually have some wealth and life experience to take on the world in a manner that suits you.

t. 31yo boomer feeling bretty gud

>>17552412
31 yo boomer here, so far my 30's have been better than my 20's. But that's not saying much. Most of that comes from being more comfortable and confident in myself.

>>17552569
>After ten years of acting on your hedonistic whims during your 20s it's an exciting step to take up responsibilities for yourself and others
aka funtime is over and youre looking forward to a life of wageslaving, bills and responsibilities
I would give my left nut to be a 16 year old retard again

OP, there is some real knowledge being dropped here. Ignore any replies that give you a definite yes or no. Instead ponder the anons that give an answer predicated on individual action like these:

>>17552420
>>17552469
>>17552522

Life will get better in your 30's if that is the purposeful journey you take. Some areas of your life will certainly be different, possibly worse, but you can outweigh though by improving yourself in other areas.

>>17552497
Damn bro sucks to be you

I am 33 and having a blast. Best time of my life. Got money, travel around in my RV, relatively fit (178cm 70kg) massive dreadlocks, no hair loss in sight. Not fat. And most importantly not a single fucking obligation.

My 20s sucked ass mainly due to thinking a "girl would save me" jesus christ... ugh.

its pretty fun reading these threads as a 21 y/o.
cheers guys

>>17552654
>massive dreadlocks
tell me you're joking
I hope you realize that dreadlocks make you look like a massive faggot, hippie and are generally a turnoff for most women (for white guys, black guys look good with dreadlocks)

>>17552412
It does. I have more money. I can buy thousands of dollars in random shitcoins like Suterusu and not even sweat it. Travel more. Feels good.

>>17552654
>33
>dreadlocks
thats a yikes from me dawg

>>17552693

>>17552654
>massive dreadlocks

>>17552625
saved your pic fren
good stuff

>>17552693
Dont care unironically lol
Also i bet i fuck more girls than you for some reason

>>17552744
must be the dreadlocks

I’m gonna be 30 in like a year and spent my 20’s grinding hard, making money and gaining knowledge. Now I’m a NEET and will be straight up retired after this coming Bullrun. Exercise, eat healthy, read philosophy, make money, meditate and get your spirituality in check as well as get your vices in check and your 30’s can be glorious. Probably not if you’re just a boring wagie though.

>>17552744
whatever you say, it's not like I don't know fashion and shit at 20
within our social circle we always laugh at retards with dreadlocks, it's always some 30 year old boomer who thinks it makes him look young and hip again

some things get better, some things get worse. it depends on what you value and what you worked towards. if you worked hard in your 20's, you're probably going to have a good job, lots of money, savings, social status, whatever you worked for. if you wife up a girl you could have kids, a comfy house in the suburbs, nice family life. if you're smart, you can do both.

I fucked up and went too hard on work shit in my youth. I never settled down, or really even dated all that much. dating in your 30's is an absolute fucking nightmare. the women your age are fat and gross with 5 kids from 3 dads. you can go after younger girls, but the majority of them just want to be your sugar baby or sell you their premium snap.

I'm tall, /fit/, no receding hairline, just paid off my house, fat savings, high-status job, 11k link, probably going to retire in a few years - and I haven't been on a real date in almost a decade. I'm not even ugly, I'm just not a turbochad. And that's what it takes now to get the attention of any girl who's not complete trash.

what I'm trying to say is, if you think you might want marriage and kids, solve that while you're young. you probably won't get a chance to deal with that as you get older.

t. 36 year old boomer

>>17552744
Hater Wagies gonna wage my man don’t listen to them, little hippy/yoga girls are probably the most fun group of women to mess around with on the planet. Steer clear of festival sluts and you can find some really cool women in some of those circles. Losers on here just like to bring down anyone happier than them. Coincidentally your happiness and state of mind is worth more than money 90% of the time, but poor fags will never understand that and rich fags egos typically don’t let them admit it.

>>17552412
Short answer: no

>>17552497
this too

>>17552821
>little hippy/yoga girls are probably the most fun group of women to mess around with on the planet
you mean SJW whores who smoke weed and will suck the first black cock they can find and berate you for your use of incorrect gender pronouns?

>>17552497
All too familiar.
>33
>Grimace when I look in the mirror
>I have a few bucks, but there's nothing worth spending it on
>Meanwhile, don't have enough bucks for a new <car | roof | new life expense>
It's just a more and more exhausting hamster wheel mixed with sitting on the sidelines for nothing to happen

>>17552693
your right about dreadlocks making you look like a fag, but black people are generally just disgusting niggers by default so nothing looks good on them besides a noose.

>>17552876
Some of them yes, guess what some of your trad wife Asian waifus May have fucked niggers too because the Jews have made it trendy. It sucks but it’s easy to tell who would do something like that and who wouldn’t unless you are completely autistic(which you sound like since you literally base entire groups of people off internet memes). If someone spurts off about pronouns I simply log it in the mental filing cabinet in the section: “never hang out with this person again” and move along to someone who’s not a mouth breathing retard that’s more into stuff like art, cooking, yoga or martial arts. Don’t let 4chan shape your entire reality little guy.

>>17552412
>Does life get better in your 30s?
At 30s, you wonder if you can die before reaching 60s.

>>17552412
only if your rich. if you dont make it by age 30 your 30's will be just like your 20s except you look older and all the women your age are single moms.

>>17552821
Amen

>>17552412
life only get better with the trifecta

>>17552793
Been growing those since mid 20s, natural neglect ones not the faggot tier fake shit

You'd be amazed how many girls want to just touch them for no reason

>>17552497
Start walking more to get the ball rolling on not being you anymore.
>feel more retarded by the day, less capable of learning new things
I can relate but it really comes down to finding things you are genuinely interested in

>>17552412
Only if you were an incel in your 20's

>>17552412
Naw, it's pretty much a downhill spiral fueled by nostalgia and regret.

But you get to try out fun new hobbies like "too tired to do anything today", "work anxiety", "my body can't do that anymore", and "friends are too busy to hang out anymore"

So find a liquor or beer you won't mind drinking for the rest of your life, and watch as your general interests wane, health deteriorate, and trust in people burn away.

>>17552412
Nope. It's all downhill from 20s. Enjoy.

>>17552412
Not really but you stop giving a fuck. Days start to go by really fast.

>>17552497
exercise and eat right

I turn 36 next week. Closer to 40 than 30 now. Life in my 30's has been a lot harder since I avoided work throughout my 20's, but I've achieved a lot in a short amount of time. I am optimistic going into the remaining years of my 30's. My mind works a little slower and it's harder to keep the weight off, but I'm also emotionally stronger.

>>17553300
This. I'm kind of identifying with the good and bad of this thread, but in the end none of it is that bad because every day I give less and less of a fuck. I could watch my life burn down around me with detached curiosity and then say "fuck it, whatever" and have a good day

>>17553321
yeah it has mainly become apparent to me that I will have to put in a great deal more effort to keep my body in shape. the rest has been debatably better, but I think your 20s are probably a highlight of most people's lives, there's nothing wrong with that. it's special to be young.

>>17552412

I'm 32 and I was never more happy, fit, relaxed and motivated in my life. Also get to fuck a lot of 25+ yo girls now, which is the best age in my view.
Spent my 20s studying and working hard, missed out on some things due to work, but it culminated into a great personal situation where I am today. Self employed now and have my own startup and do crypto stuff on the side.

I'd never go back to relive my 20s.

Also, having financial independence is a bliss, I hope you all reach it too some day.

>>17553236
>Start walking more
I walk 3 miles every day and eat semi-decent.
but it doesnt matter dude when I was young I could eat whatever I want and was still a skinny fuck. now even with somewhat watching my diet I have a little gut. it would be easy to fully blow up if I just didnt give a fuck. Im not even fat but its like my body is just waiting to blow up and become a fatass, its just what happens when you age and your metabolism slows down.
>But you get to try out fun new hobbies like "too tired to do anything today", "work anxiety", "my body can't do that anymore", and "friends are too busy to hang out anymore"
this sums up 30s in a nutshell. I used to not give a fuck and have millions of friends to hang out with. now that I have a *good* job I dont wanna lose it anymore so Im constantly stressed out and in a state of fear. back in my youth, who gives a fuck I can just get another job if I lose my shitjob. and instead of hanging out with a pack of retards literally every day now I see them maybe 1-2 a month. people get married, move away, etc. etc.

>>17552412
I'm 31 now. Life is better because I invested a lot of time and money into school during most of my 20s. Now I make more money that I ever anticipated, I can invest $60k+ per year, travel internationally at least twice a year, and it's easier to have sex (dating or paid).

>>17552973
don't bother. he's likely an incel who's never even kissed a girl.

>>17552412
it really depends. some people peak in high school. then there is trump and buffet peaked at 70. there's peak age for everyone. in the grand scheme life will get better until you hit it and worse afterwards.

but most people peak before 30.

>>17553300
Days will only seem to go fast if you dont give the brain exciting new experiences

Try to see as many people as possible and do as many different spontaneous things each day and you will be blown away

1 day can feel like 3

I know it is harder as the older you get, the more obligations you get so it will help to not give a fuck about stuff. Guess it also helped that i got into crypto early, but still, you should quit anything that is routine. Routine kills brain cells more than weed lol

unironically the best times of my life when I was a retarded pothead teenager. not a worry in the world except where can I score some weed and will some girl ever touch my peepee. video games were fucking amazing in the late 90s early 2000s. lan parties and hanging out at the local computer shop playing Quake 3 Arena with other nerds. rolling with a pack of other retards every day. crashing house parties on the weekends. not a worry in the world, my shitty job gave me a couple of hunnid bucks a month which was more than I could ever spend . no bills, no responsiblities, every day home cooked food from mommy. I would give everything to go back to those carefree days. now life has just become a grind, responsibilities, bills, taxes, this that.

If there was one bit of advice I could go back and give to my 25 year old self, this would be it

>>17552522
learned this late in my 30's unfortunately, but true.

>>17552420
and financially

I'm 47. In my 30s I got married, had 2 kids, and had a business take off. It was pretty cool. Now I travel the world and bang whores.

>>17552412
I sure hope so.

>t. 25 year old

Yes, but only if you figure out the way you want to live and take care of yourself

>>17553764
you pay for the women you bang?

>>17553695
I spent the last 8 years building a careeer and being responsible. I have enough moeny to take years off but to do... what exactly? I barely see my friends as it is, because they work all the time. too old to go after young hot bitches God I remember banging my 19 year old. chinese gfs pussy she could squeeze her pussy muscles and jerk me off while I was inside her and brought me homecooked mooncakes. those days are gone like tears in the rain. do some retarded hobbies that I just get bored off 2-3 months in? I already travelled to every shithole country I wanted to see and theyre all the same anyway. at some point in your 30s you wake up and realize youve been groomed to be a slave and there is just no way out. if you faggots listen to me (you wont) you enjoy your youth as it is, those glorious days will never come back.

>>17553865
When it comes to being with women, any woman, you pay one way or another.

>>17552522
not a high iq post desu.
delayed gratification is a meme, it will not get you anywhere good. i say it as someone who was all about it in his early youth. obviously if you want to be truly successful you can't jump on everything just for pleasure, but just delaying gratification should NEVER be a reason for doing/not doing something. it's dumb.


and bodily youth lasts well into your 30s these days if you treat your body right. Federer is still ranked #4 tennis player at 38 and won australia open, wimbledon in 2017-18

>>17552412
It's different for some people. If you are the extroverted normie Chad who takes pleasure in going out then probably not. If you're a shut in autist nerd then it does get better for the most part. I hated my 20s, I was awkward and felt lost. The hedonistic shit did nothing for me and I didn't fit in with the normies, early 20s felt like I was still in high school but without the innocence. I also became more confident with my physical appearance, baby faced in early 20s isn't attractive to girls, only became attractive in my mid to late 20s with the maturing combined with working out, went from very shy to very confident, other factors like accumulating resources and being smarter when making choices etc. Words like mature, wisdom and experience may seem like cope but in my case I really do appreciate the more boring state of the 30s and I finally found my place in the world and feel in control.

>>17552419

Fpbp

i'm 28 bros
it's all over for me soon

>>17553865
one way or another, you're gonna pay.

>>17552412
30 yo boomer here.

I'm hoping to get my license to do fee appraising for residential real estate this year with the ultimate goal of going into commercial where I can make serious money. Ever since I bought my townhouse, I've become a shut in and can't be assed to get out other than taking my dog out to the walks or the park. Thankfully I'm tall, relatively fit, and attractive enough where I can still get dates off tinder, Bumble, etc. which is the only time I'll ever go out socially. Otherwise, I stay inside, watch some footy, hang out with my dog, and get shit faced watching redbar. I've come to the conclusion no matter what happens, I'm stuck in my ways and have no interest in changing any time soon. Even when LINK truly moons and I'm able to quit wagecucking, I'm still going to do the same shit. The only real luxury item I'd buy would a power rack, free weights and dumbells so I wouldn't have to leave the house to go to the gym n making me even more recluse.

>>17553980
25 here and feel the same way unless I do something about it, but what is the real answer here?
Cool gif btw

>>17552793
See normally I'd agree. I'd imagine 95% of roasties are turned off by it, but that other 5% is super into it. And that's the 5% that eats ass

>>17553921
>>17553998

low iq way to view it.

the point is that if you pay for the sex directly, all you get is some time with a literal sex doll/sex robot with the additional perks of potential STDs

if you don't pay for the sex directly, you ALWAYS gain something more. in some circumstances not that much more, in some, invaluably much more.

>>17553921
>>17553998
Yes that is a good argument that you pay emotionally, with your time or money, even worse with all three. Though lets agree that bitches that lust after you look at you in a different way than whores you literally pay. There is a difference there. Though I do agree you have to pay in some way

>>17554068
not true at all

>>17554062
Imagine their shock when they find the second set of dreds back there

>>17553865
>>>17553764 (You)
>you pay for the women you bang?
I don't pay to bang them, I pay to leave with no strings attached. I could probably bang a few of the 20somethings that work for me, but that could be REALLY expensive.

>>17554039
Based-dude from ex-machina movie

>>17554086
Nice

>>17552412
Absolutely not. In fact, every decade of my life has been worst than the last one. The peak of happiness for me was at 8 years old and it literally has been all downhill every year since then.

>>17554048
real answer is to do your best, and realize that good things can happen to you if you let them, but shitty things happen perhaps a lot more

>>17554068
do you really believe that you are less likely to get an STD from a "normal" woman?
whores: always use condoms, most often refuse to take black customers, and will not fuck a man with no money. and they NEVER kiss.
normal women: literally fuck niggers and dogs unprotected, then kiss you on the mouth when you get home from work.

>>17554191
Thanks for the boost anon

>>17552412
If you worked hard in your 20s

lads, i never lived the bachelor life, have had 4 long term GFs.. recent on for years, and she wants to marry and have kids, and shes lovely, but low sex drive. I have a high sex drive and its hurtin me.
I got about 80k saved up, good looking, in shape, 31.
Dont know what to do.

>>17552776
By the way, can someone like this become a men tor for me to help me make a milli and retire.
I have to buy my parents a house and get them out of their shit hole, need all the help i can get.

>>17554286
>Dont know what to do.
hookers are always an option if wifey doesnt want fuckey. i would found a new gf though

>>17554286
whores, massage parlours...win/win

>>17554250
you, me, and many other /biz/tards on this board are unironically going to make it

>>17554286
Grass is always greener
Fucking shloots is nice but think of the negatives like STDs, drama and mental drain. Then again your gf might have low sex drive but will be less likely to cheat on you. Plus creating a family is the ultimate purpose. We men (and wahmen) keep waiting for the perfect mate, for the next better prospect etc, thinking that the next lay will always be better but thats just not the truth. The best match will pass you by while you're looking for the next hit.
With all of that said, if you do get married make a super tight pre-nup, just to be on the safe side

>>17554228
>do you really believe that you are less likely to get an STD from a "normal" woman?
didn't say that. just that live sex dolls have that additional perk over plastic sex dolls.

>>17554228
>Fuckin' scumbag thinks the pros he fucks aren't ridden with herpes
NGMI

>>17552497
>feel more retarded by the day, less capable of learning new things
can confirm. worst part is you can feel it happening but you don't care enough anymore to make an effort otherwise

>>17554442
At what age did it start for you? And what kind of retarded are we talking about here?

>>17554442
not for me, my brain is wired to constantly learn new things

>>17554496
Noice

>>17554496
how old are you?
I used to be like that when I was young
now Im old, washed up and all out of fucks to give

>>17554403
>fuckin' beta provider thinks his trad gf isn't filthy with dog and nigger semen
it's okay, anon. i used to believe in Disney fairytales of love too.

>>17554533
35

If you came from a poorer family, got wealthy yourself, then yes 30s is better.

If you came from a rich family, doesn't matter and it's slightly worse in your 30s

If you came from a poor family and still poor, your 30s are worse.

>>17554228
baste

>>17554549
give it a couple more years and you will be retarded and miserable too its just how life works

>>17554442
late 30s, I hit 40 a few months ago & keep feeling like my cognitive powers are not as strong as they used to be. its like anything you have to exercise it, strengthen it. reading is the key but in this day and age what with smartphone addiction & destroyed attention spans, that in itself isn't straightforward

>>17554581
im 20 now and i hope my life will be the first one

>>17552497
40 year old oldfag here. Let's compare notes.
>hair falls out
Haven't lost a hair. Mom's dad (where the balding gene comes from) died at 82 with a full head of hair.
>gut gets bigger
Best shape of my life, honestly.
>less and less tolerance of dealing with peoples bullshit
Yeah definitely have less time for bullshit.
>bank account gets fat but money is litearlly a meme because theres nothing worthwhile buying anymore (RIP vidya, movies, music)
Agreed, but now I spend on car restoration and vacations, stuff like that.
>random aches and pains start creeping up
My knees and lower back hurt for no reason. Also yeah just weird aches. Sucks.
>low energy
Energy is about half what it used to be. I'm always down for a nap.
>feel more retarded by the day, less capable of learning new things
100% agreement, unfortunately. I have a technical job and I used to be able to learn new technologies just by fucking around with them, now I need weeks of repetition to get to the same level of understanding.
>I honestly dread what it will be like in my 50s and 60s getting older sucks in every regard
Same. It's gonna fucking blow.

>>17554878
how is your family affecting your life?

>>17552412
Only if you made it good in the 20's to plan your 30's
Of course if she runs off with all your money to fuck the personal trainer and catch aids it's moot

>>17554086
i chuckled

>>17552478
jokes on you my dick never worked thanks to 15 years of porn!

>>17552412

Only if you invested, bought a house, had kids and became a member of a real community.

Of course!!! If u are healthy, white male, educated without debt. Then 30 to 60 it's a hell of a ride.

>>17554878
Not if u are high on lsd, does not my nigga

Outlook not so good.

>>17552497
>hair falls out
>gut gets bigger
>less and less tolerance of dealing with peoples bullshit
>bank account gets fat but money is litearlly a meme because theres nothing worthwhile buying anymore (RIP vidya, movies, music)
>pop culture becoming more and more deranged
>random aches and pains start creeping up
>low energy
>feel more retarded by the day, less capable of learning new things
>I honestly dread what it will be like in my 50s and 60s getting older sucks in every regard

Pretty much.


Life only gets better in your 30s if your life was fucking shit in your 20s.

It's like saying that you can get fitter/healthier/stronger than ever in your 50's or whatever... yea, but only if you were a horrendously unfit piece of shit right up to then.

Everyone knows life is downhill in terms of potential from about 17.


There are countless mistakes we make in our 20s that totally fuck up our 30s. I have my own, but yours will be different. It's POSSIBLE that with great upbringing, a lot of luck, and GOOD GENETICS (crucial) you will age nicely and 30s are like a wealthier version of 20s. For the majority, it's the beginning of old age.

29yo Boomer here. I'm married, have a house, not at six figures yet but getting closer. No kids yet. Any advice for me?

>>17555458
I'm only 24 but I would say first concern is getting /fit/ and eating healthy, second concern is getting to six figures while simultaneously budgeting well and saving if you do have kids

>>17555458
Divorce, sell house, all in on BTC

>>17555458
>>17555458
Divorce, sell house, all in on BTC

And cocaine of course!!

Guys, I'm getting scared.
>28 now and spent most of my life being a fatass.
>Socially retarded bc of shitty upbringing
>Gave up alcohol after ending up an alcoholic in the past 3 years
>trying to cut weed after 10yrs
>coke too
>Lost my only chance of having a family with a literal 6.5/10 non-US trad a few years ago
>Already feel retarded
>Stuck in a dead end minimum wage job
>Want to start lifting again
>started meditation & mindfulness hoping to get some mental clarity
>started brushing up my skills in attemtp to get a better job
>read books in my spare time
I was coping by thinking I can reverse the damage. I gave up my vices and try to save up and invest whatever I can save up. Please, guys, tell me I'm not trying in vain.

>>17554286
>GO GET A 16 YO YOU FUCKING IDIOT

>>17555573
The only way is up from here. You can do it anon, just give it a go

>>17554878
>knees, lower back
hey big man, start going to the gym and doing hamstring curls, thank me in a few months.

>>17554286
Eh just marry her and just get hookers when traveling around. Your sex drive will probably go down as you start having kids. But if you don't want kids just forget it.

Lots of quality advice in this thread. Thanks anons

>>17555711

Nothing brings people together like telling others what they wished they did earlier in their lives

>>17555458
If you want kids, do it asap. 30 year old sleepless nights and diapers beat 40 year old sleepless nights and diapers

>>17552654
>My 20s sucked ass mainly due to thinking a "girl would save me" jesus christ... ugh.
What did you do?

>>17552744
Care enough to post

>>17555635
Thanks for the copium, bud. Many people will cry COPE but I've hit a pretty low point in my life and decided to turn it around at 28. I'm only a few weeks clean but my obsession with "making it" (thanks /biz/ and /fit/ for that) keep me away from my vices and gives me the strength to get out of bed. I'll give dating/paying whores a go once i fix myself due to years of porn and fapping. What scared me the most were the comments about lower back pains since I get them lately due to work (I''m 6'4 and have to crouch a lot at this shit job I have) and felt like shit bc I wanted to do stronglifts again. I'll try to do some hamstring curls and ask a doctor before jumping back in.

>>17555573

Honestly, you need to get a better job first. Try to learn a trade or skill that can at least get you to $15/hr. Your state might have a program to help people without college degrees to get free community college. Avoid a four year university unless you have a strong career plan, like STEM.

Also start walking and follow a meal plan and diet. If you can afford a cheap gym like planet fitness then go.

>>17552412
No it gets worse

>>17555758

Yeah my wife wanted to start when she was about 29 or so. I wanted to finish grad school before then as well but still haven't even applied yet.

>>17555758
it's all ok, you just need a young wife with passion for babies (or nannies)

>>17552818
So are all the boomers talking about dating getting better in your 30s just full of shit?

Anyone here bragging about money and banging women are secretly sad and will remain secretly sad. They’re one tragedy and setback away from falling apart. They fear death, and I’m sure they shutter when they turn on the news.

Take the spiritual path, anon. You will not escape suffering. You will not escape death. But you can detach from the material world. Nothing wrong with trying to remain comfortable in the Earth matrix, but there is far more beyond this planet. You will realize simple, altruistic living is the best path to take. More money, more problems. To make that money you need to time to undesirable people in undesirable settings. There is a reason why it’s dominated by psychopaths.

Do what makes you happy. People who claim they got dumber and fatter live and eat like stupid animals. Take care of your body, mind and spirit. Marry a good woman, pussy chasing is fucking dumb, and I’m in all honesty a good looking guy.

Just be yourself and pursue your passions. Take time to learn about and nurture your spiritual nature.

>>17555878
>when she WAS about 29 or so
so ur wife is older? dude if you want to have babies w her fucking EVER then start right fucking now lol

>>17555947
My wife is 36. This graph puts me at ease honestly.

>>17555947

Oh fuck, typo there. I meant to say that she wants to start around the time she turns 29. She's younger than me and I'm 29 lol.

>>17555861
I've got a Masters in CS and a degree in Engineering but that was almost 2 years ago but had no clue what having a career plan was. I was applying for jobs but got a few rejections at best. I got this shit job bc NEETdom was not an option. I'm trying to brush up said skills in the hopes that I can gain some skills in a CS-related field, be it IT or something similar since being self-taught in this field is attainable compared to mechanical engineering. I'm working out at home atm focusing on muscle groups that I 've fucked over the years by sitting a lot or breaking my back at whatever job I had. I plan to go to a nearby gym as soon as I fill up my emergency fund. Diet is getting there. I only cook now and try to cut the fat I gained by drinking 750ml-1L of whiskey a day.

>>17555878
note that down syndrome is just an indicator. yeah it's not a huge chance, but it indicates those eggs ARE statistically damaged to the extent that it becomes extremely observable.
this means that even if you have a healthy kid, it will be less healthy than one she'd have shat out at 22

>>17555979

Oh shit didn't know you had all of that. Sadly I'm no expert with CS stuff but you definitely need to get some experience. Maybe see if a library nearby has a programming bootcamp or career fair. Maybe find an easy programming job like with business accounting or something for the government?

>>17555889
for actual boomers, I think it was true. for 30 year old boomers, it probably depends a lot on where you live. for my city, it's absolutely not possible to get a girl in her 20's without paying for it. there's tons of sugar babies. I think sex is in the cards if you just want to fuck a slut and get lucky (you're going to have to be fit and have expensive clothes, and ideally an expensive car. you can't just be a normal guy and expect to pull this off). but if you want a real relationship, your choices are fat used up roasties who want you to pay for their kids, or nothing at all.

>>17555496

Yeah my wife and I have been on a diet together, but she got her goal weight faster than I did, as she didn't have as much to lose. I was doing well right before the holidays but they fucked up my progress hard lol. I have a gym membership but I don't go enough because I'm lazy.

>>17556063

It's not all so bad if you're older. There are women out there in their 20s that want to marry an established man to settle down and start a family. These women are harder to find though because they have lives and standards so they're not going to clubs and bars all the time or thotting it up on IG or Snapchat.

>>17555966
your children will just be autistic

>>17556039
Well, techincally I got a PG diploma bc I dropped out for reasons. I'm trying to combine my former knowledge/skills with blockchain-related stuff as well as getting certs in azure or aws. Truth be told, I was lucky enough to get a decent education but I spent most of my life being a retard prioritizing others instead of me. this site unironically made me strive to be a better person.
> I have a gym membership but I don't go enough because I'm lazy.
FUck me laziness is the toughest one to overcome. As for children, most parents I have met in my life suffer from low energy and low sex drive. Children drain your energy. Also as someone who grew up with no father, I hope you raise your kids well, if/when you decide to make some. Don't let it drag too much though.

>>17552419
This, when I hit 30 I started drinking heavily
>>17552469
Also this. Having lots of money in your thirties while single is pretty fucking cool

>>17552419
Hehe, what'cha like to drink most of the time?

>>17552412
My life didn't really start until I turned 29. I was pretty fucked up with anxiety and social awkwardness. Something changed in my brain around that age and I just started doing what I wanted to do. Had a really fucking awesome 5 years. Still sort of autistic but it doesn't get in the way.

Still in great shape. Hairline is fucked but it doesn't really matter because I've got money and muscles. Steroids are wonderful.

>>17552522

>>17554496
same here, i feel like everything i have learned so far just compounds new learnings as i can draw principles from everything i learned already and use them in other disciplines to solve problems, learn faster etc. every year is somehow better than before. i am always learning a new sport, language and couple of skills at the same time, keeps the brain young. also sleeping properly and microdosing help. soon 33

>>17552412
>Does life get better in your 30s?

>>17556459
>be a slave to our gay church and we promise life won't suck after you die(lol!)

Nah. Christianity is a jewish hoax.

>>17556446
>Steroids are wonderful.

Tell us about their effect on your mentality and psyche, did you become a slayer after you got on test?

>>17555915
the truth right here

>>17556439
Go Pats.

>>17556316
Well, the fruit dont fall far from the tree

Btw turning 30 is really interesting. You will just stop giving a fuck about little shit. It happens over the course of a year or so. You just stop caring about gay immature bullshit 20 somethings care about. Your number of fucks goes way down in regards to worrying about what other people think of you.

You know the fat gross Speedo boomers at the beach? That's the endgame. They don't care. You will enter that territory for the first time. What you do with that power is up to you.

>>17556517
Not that guy but I'm currently cruising on 150mg test. Starting my 2nd cycle of 400 test/50 anavar kickstart april 1st. I can get a little anxious and care about what other people think of me. Nothing too serious. Test completely gets rid of this. It puts me in a very chad state of mine. Pretty addictive.

>>17556606
state of mind*

>>17556517
I put on 20 lbs of muscle in 3 years and my libido is higher than when it was in my 20s. Mentally I became more aggressive and dismissive of feminized whining buts it's okay since I'm a military contractor and the onions level is low in the industry. It didn't impair my cognitive functions but I did give up some of my old hobbies like anime and board games since I couldn't stand them anymore.

>>17556606
I've thought about going on gear, but never made the leap. you buy from sketchy websites with bitcoin, or have a local source? I've thought about trying one of those "anti-aging" clinics.

>>17556606
>>17556620
Mind throwing out an online source or two?

Being on a cycle is a permanent mental state as that "Yes." image.

>>17556650
Go to fit cfg and dyor first.

>>17552419
What kind of beer do you like?

>>17556650
>>17556624
empire market
pic related is UK based for you eurofags
USA based do more research you faggots
also /r/steroids for tren-raged red pilled tranny fucking juicers and FAQ

one weird thing is i feel paternal instead of lust to 20something girls

does anyone have more of these?

>>17556677
I've ran one cycle 5 years ago and it was GOAT, but lost the forum I spent too much time posting to uncover.
Been lifting for a few months again and planning to continue for another year before using.
>>17556743
/fit/ and redit protect their sources to a fault to the point you don't know how to even find or validate anything. I was going to roll the dice on steroids-warehouse, but may get a fake UPS box somehow first

>>17552497
lazy fuck

>>17552419
I bought 20k link while still in my twenties

>>17556844
darkweb has vendors with 1k+ rated transactions. with solid prices (20 bucks for 1 vial of test e) don't buy from shady .coms

>>17556975
That's appreciated - the other guys are $55+

>>17552412

Yes and no.

>>17556063

find a virgin 18 yo girl that is just out of high school and wants to be a home stay wife/won't have to work a da in her life/is from trad upbringing

that's how it's supposed to be

>>17557209
Well, that answers it

>>17558312
pipe dream mate. No 18 yo in their right mind would marry at that age, those times are long gone

>>17558532

not necessarily true (look for traditional rich fathers that actually took care raising their daughter) but good luck anyway!

I have a 25 year old gf and I'm 32.

>>17552419
You're going to get liver damage.

>>17552412
no

>>17554157
this

>>17559979
>Doesn't break out men and women who live fundamentally existences

Almost a good chart anon.

>>17552419
based

>>17560087

>>17560196
>>17560087
Another

Only looking forward to my 30's because of my LINK stack. If I can find a waifu that looks like pic related, my life would be 10/10. Right now mid 20's.

You get better, stronger mentally but your body starts to noticeably degrade. I've gone through a few things and I've noticed that I'm not necessarily more courageous or powerful but I'm far more aware of my limitations and what I can do, what's possible. More importantly you identify what should or has to be done and because of your age you tend to fuck about less. By your 30's you've crossed enough thresholds and answered enough calls that mountains look like molehills.

>>17560304
women are shit

>>17560894
I agree, but not when they look like pic related.

I am 20,neet,depressed,no friends and have no interests. How do I find out what I like, literally have no Hobbies.

>>17561385
youre 20 in 2020. think about all the crazy shit youre going to witness in the years to come. I will probably die sooner than you and might escape some of the shit that will happen to you. how does it feel?

>>17561432
I feel numb

>>17558631
Where did you meet her?

>>17552412
im in my 30s right now and ive more money now than i ever did
so i think life does get better the older u get
u also look back and see how retarded u were in your 20s as well

according to carl jung "life begins at 40. up until then you are just doing research" - and im beginning to believe hes actually right.

also pick up some RSR PNK and PERL - thank me later fellas.

Yea, but life really starts in your 300s.

>>17561385
play ARK with me anon, i've already /madeit/ and its without question the best way to enjoy burning your time while you wait on crypto to moon again to sell into stables. discord: cthbVC

if u really wanted a hobby and have a decent computer, this is your chance.

>>17561472
dont worry man. just go out and play some football.

>>17561385
you do have those things but you haven't found them. Is your life comfortable?

>>17554048
The real answer is this: you’re either moving forward or backward in life. If you aren’t moving forward by say reading or taking initiative socially and professionally, learning, you are probably moving backwards. There is no ”neutral gear” and that’s the greatest untold key to success.

Analyze your path and where you are headed, look at the microdecisions you make and see how they impact your life.

This thread can be answered in brief by concluding that while there are externalities and variables at play which you can’t effect (genetics, certain events occurring at certain times), there is a lot you can do to make your life continuosly more fulfilling. Fulfilment is the key to welbeing. Success is a social construct ehile true fulfilment can only be felt from within.

T. 27 yo wiseboomer

>>17552412
Yes because for a lot of us the next crypto bull cycle will have already completed by the time we turn 30 so we will all be millionaires.

honestly, you have no idea guys. wating for the golden bull run. life is what happens between the bullruns. either you learn how to trade properly or you will forever be depressed waiting for the golden bull. you have only one life (as far as we know)

>>17561620
How do I find my interests

>>17561621
this. You can't control everything, but by taking responsibility for as much as you can, you find that in fact more things that you thought you had no effect over start going your way. it's a "make your own luck" type of sentiment.
Happiness is found in the journey, the continual improvement, the building & hard work of making it, rather than the actual destination.

>>17561724
try stuff! start with buttsex, on the receiving end preferably

OCD robbed so much potential out of me that me on the path to conquering it makes me hope that nothing could get worse than dealing with this debilitating illness at its peak.

>>17561724
That's a complicated question. i'm guessing you've got the basic hierarchy of needs but now need the rest. Usually you find your interests while fulfilling your basic needs. Probably be best to start again.

>>17555797
Well my 20s were basically just drugs. I made a lot of money from my web dev stuff, but i spent it on drugs. I was generally an insecure faggot and everyone took advantage of that. After almost a decade I decided to change. Still have a long way to go, but at least I know what's what now. Hear that a lot among 30 year olds, some weird enlightenment thing. That or you just realize everything is shit like a lot of ppl itt. I guess i am lucky...

>>17561724
Finding the good people is a numbers game - get a job or education - money gives you options to do things & school puts you in a situation with people with similar interests. (not im not suggesting getting a stupid sized loan for a psyc degree. be smart about it, consider trade school etc.)
Join a gym, go regularly. Especially late at night (assuming its 24 hours), you start to see the same people at the same time. ask someone for advice, or to spot you or whatever & make casual chit chat.
don't pick up gaming or watching netflix as an interest, theyre antisocial and fry your dopamine receptors.
work on yourself, build up confidence so you can just throw yourself out there

>>17561764
Can vouch for buttsex. It literally made me a more open person
>>>17561621
>>>17561758
Good, non-meme answers

>>17561724
Hit the gym or start a physical activity. Keep doing it despite your mind finding excuses. Your body can take a lot of damage at your age. If you are comfortable with it, start a physical activity that will allow you to meet people, like rock climbing or a team sport. You can do it anon

>>17552569
while i relate to most of this, and question how much wealth/experience/knowledge i actually have...because it feels like zero, i still have hedonistic whims

>>17552419
I stop drinking because it wasn’t fun anymore and the cycle of drinking was depressing.

>>17561851

balls deep in mouth has always been my interest. Need LINK to go to 40 for that though.

>>17560304
No woman will bring you happiness

>>17552419
bruh, me too. Just now broke through it now that im 31

>>17552412
I'm 24 & set to retire before 30. I'm sure it'll be great.

>>17556837
Imagine living the lifestyle of that man

>>17555827
Make your physical health your no. 1 priority anon. I really mean it.

t. Back pains @ 22, pain free & ten times happier @ 24

>>17562036
Niice, did you hit the gym or what?

>>17552497
Delet this

>>17562036
I'm working on ot bruh. As I said in another post I'm currently ding some baseic exercises at home and focus on stretching and woorking on specific muscle groups bc I want to start Stronglifts again and dont want to risk injury.

>>17555573
Obviously buy some LINK asap if you haven't. even 2000 would change your entire circumstance take a loan anything. You will make it

>>17552412
>>17552419
yes

>>17561860
did your asshole expand? is that why?

>>17552497
35. this is me except i still have all of my hair, thank god.

>>17562127
limber 11

>>17552412
37 boomer here, hangovers are 2 - 3 days(and thats a light drink sesh), gone are the days of bags of coke and finishing 3 bottles, you do that now, you will be in hospital.

>>17552419

holy shit this. alive long enough to finally come to the realization that "this is it" especially if you're wageslaving day in day out. don't know how to stop or if I even want to because stopping won't change the truth

>>17552412
it does IF you have discipline and aren't a depressed degenerate fatass IPA drinker
I almost made it 1/2 way through in that mode before turning shit around, and now I'm happier than I've ever been.

>>17554039
What if the girl you're dating says cbut anon where are your friends let's hang out with them! "

>>17554286
If you don't know what to do, the answer is no.

>>17563776
How did you change? what do you do now instead?

>>17563967
You rape her

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