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Vanilla anon here
Father, kids, wife all good people
Kids love me
Try to keep the wife happy and most often she is, but she's like all women and understands that the easiest way she can get ahead is through me

I'm planning an experiment over the next few months. Going to act as selfishly as possible so long as there is plausible deniability.

When I travel for my business first class and top hotels instead of main cabin extra and airBNB. When I cash out equity all spent on my financial goals and none allocated to her house decorating or semi-luxury goods.

I want to be clear with my goals. Everyone gets used to what is around them and starts taking it for granted. I think if I can get her to start thanking me every time she buys something non-essential (like she did in the past) I'll take that as a signal that I've regained hand in the relationship.

Any advice from anons who have done this kind of thing appreciated.

>> No.17378482
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>>17378427
You're gonna get cucked.

>> No.17378506

Imagine legally binding yourself to a depreciating asset

>> No.17378521

>>17378482
Based Frenchbro will fuck OP's wife and teach him a valuable lesson.

>>17378427
Investing in your wife = investing in your kids. Why would would you throw away money on first-class trips when you can invest in your kids? What kind of nu male are you?

>> No.17378543

>>17378427
You'll be walking on thin ice if you do this. Do you still make love often? If you still have the flame of love, just tell her how you feel. The reason I dont think this is a good idea is that It could permanently change your relationship for worse.

>> No.17378575
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>>17378482
why is he so small?

>> No.17378580
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How far did she run?
Any souvenir left or ate all?

>> No.17378606

>>17378427
This will backfire

>> No.17378610

>>17378482
Thanks
>>17378521
This is incorrect. My kids 529's are fully funded and they go to good schools. There is a large difference between investing time and energy into your kids and allowing your wife to spend on home decor.
>>17378543
You have to be kidding if you think this is walking on ice. If this strikes you as something that is dangerous with your wife then you need to reconsider how you view marriage.
Of course we still have sex. Literally whenever I want. You understand that women are most sexually active in committed relationships right? If you're doing a marriage right as a man you should be the limiting factor in sex.
Describe to me in detail how you think readjusting consumer spending for three months could permanently change my relationship.

>> No.17378627

>>17378575
French men are generally smaller than American men
>>17378580
Not sure what you mean by this. She's run nowhere.
>>17378606
Explain exactly why/how. That's the whole point of this thread.

>> No.17378647

>>17378610
>There is a large difference between investing time and energy into your kids and allowing your wife to spend on home decor.
You need to get her pregnant again. Women are only satisfied if they're breeding. If you don't do it, she will either go shopping or fuck Frenchbro.

>> No.17378651

>>17378627
hes arab though
like calling a chinese man norwegian

>> No.17378653

>>17378427
Just take them camping, you dumb faggot.

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>>17378647
She is at current
>>17378651
Have you been to Paris recently?
There's a reason the country is now irrelevant

>> No.17378677

>>17378427
sounds like a bad idea anon. try talking to her instead of pulling this kind of passive aggressive shit. frenchbro is right, you will eventually get cucked doing this.

>> No.17378681

>>17378653
Wife is pregnant and kids are not yet in kindergarten
Camping is not an option for now

>> No.17378685

>>17378673
nationality isnt ethnicity.
hes an arab look at his eyebrows they are disgusting

>> No.17378689

>>17378482
You'd know from experience of getting cucked huh?

>> No.17378694

>>17378681
look at this fucking boomer retard. fucking cucked to the core.
that is why you dont get married ever, no exceptions not even with kids.
he is bringing more to the table but cant do shit because he is fucked cucked and will get divorce raped. hes absolutely fucked.

>> No.17378704

>>17378627
She's gonna detect what you're doing immediately. Games lead to more games being played. Karma

>> No.17378707

>>17378677
I have
When I bring it up she tells me how much she appreciates all I do for the family
But if I don't bring it up she does not
Because she does not currently believe she has to

>> No.17378722

>>17378707
money problems are solved by more money
women problems are solved by more women
you are broke that is your problem, make more money retard

>> No.17378726

>>17378685
I think you missed the picture
>>17378689
Tripfags deserve the rope
Please kys
>>17378694
Honestly my life is far better as a married man than it was single
The ratio of joy/work is much lower with a new dumb slut than with an intelligent beautiful wife
>>17378704
That's exactly what I'm hoping for. Did you read the above?

>> No.17378736

>>17378681
What! What did you say???!!! Lmao, I took my wife camping when she was 9 months pregnant. She start delivery. You know what I as an alpha Scott did? I delivered in the woods, and my other 9 alpha children helped me! Tough en up, buttercup. You zoomers are pathetic!

>> No.17378740

>>17378722
I have a seven figure net worth and in a couple of years it will be eight
If you're a billionaire you can call me broke
But I don't think you are

>> No.17378742

>>17378427
Imagine getting married

You’re an idiot

>> No.17378746

I think this sounds fine.
She doesn't need house decorations. Everyone should splurge now and then. If you are trying to make them mad, they will get mad though.

>> No.17378749
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>>17378726
Ahh, it's you. Your wife will get full custody of your kids after the divorce, she will end up some dead beat that she will soley support with her income/child support, and he will molest your children.

>> No.17378758

>>17378740
i have an 8 figure and not dumb enough to get cucked by some stupid whore and cant even wear the pants enough to put her in place without asking for advice on an anonymous nigerian glassblowing forum.
fuck off you beta faggot.
you got and are cucked as shit and a passive aggressive basedbitch numale

>> No.17378773

>>17378427
real Chad here. This will work of course. Will also make her more attracted to you. However my one caveat is that you should still randomly do something nice for her every so often. Nothing big just a small thoughtful act, literally holding the door suffices. But make sure you do these things very infrequently. Just enough to keep her working for more.

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>>17378610
>going to act as selfishly as possible
All Im saying is that you don't have to be sneaky.

>> No.17378787

>>17378758
I have a 9 figure net worth and 12 inch cock and I fuck three different 10/10 bitches every day.

Get on my level plebs.

>> No.17378794

>>17378736
The sarcasm of this post doesn't make sense.
If you'd pretended to be me and were sarcastic.
But the joke doesn't work because the post linked is me saying I won't take my non 9 month pregnant wife camping.
Apparently you're an idiot.
>>17378742
For me marrying has been a +EV experience and I'm already trading on the house's money
I have enough money that if she takes half I'll just go back to living the life I had before her: as a bachelor with plenty of options.
The marginal utility of money goes way down after your debt it paid and you have six figures of passive income.
>>17378746
This is exactly what I'm hoping will happen.
>>17378749
Thank you for being special. Again, the world would collectively benefit, every man woman and child, if you killed yourself.
Do it.

>> No.17378797

>>17378787
yes but you are a manlet

>> No.17378834

>>17378797
6 foot 5, 6% body fat, try again faggot

>> No.17378839

>>17378834
yes but you are a pussy

>> No.17378842

>>17378758
You realize that the grammar in that sentence implies you're either drunk or unable to speak English? You've completely invalidated yourself.
>>17378773
This is high quality advice. Thank you for this.
>>17378776
Perhaps I worded it wrong. I would tell her everything and make sure she understood the monetary decisions completely.
Does that change the collective viewpoint of the idea?
>>17378787
I congratulate you on your actual real world success.

>> No.17378856

>>17378773
Also don’t fucking explain any of this to her. Just do it and if she brings it up just brush it off. Don’t explain to her you want her to appreciate what you do for her more, that comes off as dangerously beta. Don’t be passive aggressive about it either. Be loose and playful.

All of the faggots here telling you to talk it out with her are wrong. That’s not how women work.

>> No.17378872

>>17378842
weird since im a native english speaker.
desu these responses and your passive aggressivenss are so fucking cringe no wonder you came here for advice on how to deal with your whore
you are a fucking beta bitch male and you know it.
hows that for semantics

>> No.17378876

>>17378689
Lmao you know this queer typed this out then thought to himself "nailed it."

>> No.17378902

>>17378787
> 400lbs, cant see benis, too scared talk to woman

>> No.17378934

>>17378776
Also great pic
Based Lao
>>17378856
Absolutely a chad- it's funny how clear it all becomes once you understand women
>>17378872
Sounds pathetic and low IQ
>>17378876
Let's be nice to him this may be the best moment of his day

>> No.17378946

>>17378934
seething cope

>> No.17378954
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>>17378856
Women are, like all humans and animals, doers. They need something to do, a game to play, ideally a way to feel improvement and excitement.
If you are starting her off back at zero, make sure you give her a clear path back up. Maybe a sticker chart, if she gives you enough cosplay BJs she can decorate in the most expensive way possible.

>> No.17378976

>>17378946
You seem like an angry person. How is your life going?
>>17378954
This is good. The childishness is a perfect touch. Thanks anon

>> No.17379050

>>17378976
fine way to turn the tables and make something up to make yourself feel better. hell of a lot better than yours it seems
good luck with the divorce or the eternal cuckholdry

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>>17378773
>>17378856
This is incredibly based advice. Had to learn these lessons the hard way.

>> No.17380277

>>17378954
This is nuts. Just how low IQ are the women you're dating

>> No.17380581

>>17378427
Read couple of your posts.

You're an absolute idiot or larp. There are no succesfull people on /biz/.

Stop whinning and take care of your wife or someone will do, you stupid crying cunt

>> No.17380619 [DELETED] 

>>17378427
yep, Divorce
just kidding, Give it a try, that way you can bring it to 'feelings' & how you feel.
So make sure you get as many blowjobs as possible.

>> No.17381633

>>17378673
She doesn't come through as very bright

>> No.17381679

>>17378427
Yeah I got some advice. Get ready for the divorce lmao.

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>>17378740
>7 figures going into 8 figures net worth
>Still has to ask on an anonymous frog posting forum how to regain 'hand' in a relationship
?????????

>> No.17382083

>>17378427
This guy actually thinks he can get a woman to stop being an entitled, vapid parasite ahahahahahahahahahahahaha

>> No.17382203

OP wants to hurt someone because they're not constantly validating his existence

>> No.17382219

Genuine advice: look up rationalmale and heartiste plus dread.

>> No.17382286

>>17378427
I have never tried the financial aspect of this, post again OP and let us know the results. I will occasionally do the routine where I act less emotionally open, be seen liking thotties on whorestagram, let texts/ calls go a little while before answering you know the standard emotional "I'm open to cheating" signs. She gets all hurt but once you're over that she will make more of an effort in the relationship and put more effort fort into her appearance. It's a dastardly game but I play it.

>> No.17382335

>>17378856
>>17378773
Incredibly based, these Anons know how women work. To reiterate: do not explain anything, play dumb like nothing is wrong and make sure to include some emotional aspects because she cares more about that than money. Because she's a woman.

>> No.17382349

>>17378482
dd you get liquidated yet

>> No.17382385
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>>17378427
You should do it, put her in her fucking place. She's a woman and needs to be submissive to you. Simple as that, you provide, you pay the bills, you feed her. She should be grateful and never take that shit for granted.

>> No.17382415

>>17378482
How did you found out about my trip? Cuck faggot.

>> No.17382505

>>17378482
Whats the story behind pic?

>> No.17382591

>>17378427
maybe just talk to her about it? i dunno father to father, you sound kinda like a rat.

>> No.17382757

>>17380277
The typical women.
Seriously most women are sub 100iq and it's painfully obvious. Or maybe modern social construct just encourages them to never use their brain.
And before you womenz that read this get all angry, check yourself you emotional animals, don't make me right by doing whatever you "feel" is right.

>> No.17382875

>>17378521
>>17378610
>kids
Let me tell you about kids, they have never been a bigger meme than kids, so kids they're good, next generation, government encourage you to have kids so they can have their future wage slaves, what they don't tell you that those little cocksuckers, will ruin you wife vagina, your sex life, used to have loud rough sex with the wife, in the living room, in the shower.., now it's strictly bedroom, and keep it down kid Will hear you, shut the door, oh no the baby is awake better go to him, kids, they will fcking rape your financial, from before even their born and they're sucking money from you until their 18, some even after that, and you better hope that they don't get sick. OK they ruined your sex life, Lost you money, let's see what's left, ah yeah they suck every little bit of your energy and time, since day one your waking up in the middle in the night, then your taking them to school and whatnot, you can't even relax at home after wage slaving for their sake cuz their making up so much fight and noise. Sure I can understand kids in the middle age when you need free farm workers, but nowadays hell not. Don't even getting me started on poor people having kids, what their thoughts was like "so my life sucks, and I am tired and miserable, so let me bring some little fucker so they make me more miserable and suffer in their turn, hell maybe two or three". So kids take away your sex life,money, time, energy, for what so they can turn go start having sex and fun while you burned yourself with no fun, no trips, nothing for their sake.

Kids are even a worse investment than kleros and if you're poor do yourself, the society, and your never to be kids a favor and use fcking condom.

>> No.17383204

>>17378749
Why are you using a trip? No one cares who you are you fucking loser

>> No.17383221

>>17378482
Fix your hairline. I keep telling you.

You’re not special, you’re nothing.

>> No.17383309

>>17383221
hey screw you dude. frenchbro is based. he is an inspiration to all neets.

>> No.17383456

>>17383309
Who is frenchbro? Like what did he do?

>> No.17383484

>>17383204
Lmao rent free.

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>>17383309
>>17383456
He is just some pathetic Romanian samefagging cuck. Not even french.

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>>17378427
Anything you do for a woman more than 3 times is no longer a favor, it is an obligation. So saith the prophet, Saint Dante Nero.

Get ya bitch under control, anon. That's not going to happen with you being a passive aggressive faggot. Go directly to her and let her know no more of this blowing money like a thotty teenager shit. Otherwise, she won't even learn the lesson, because she's a woman, she'll merely see you as a failure of a man who can't provide like he used to.

>> No.17383645

>>17378794

LARP/10

>> No.17383663

>>17378842
>does that change the collective viewpoint on the idea?
Yes very much so. I think transparency is key.

>> No.17383720

>>17382875
Nice blog faggot. Kids are a great investment for strong men

>> No.17383824

>>17382505
Mental illness

>> No.17383972

>>17382875
Hedonists get the rope

>> No.17384104

>>17378427
Don’t bother. I tried to be selfish for one day out of 5 years and the bitch left me!

>> No.17384200

>>17378427
Worst place to get advice on that matter, bro. But I'll try.

I'm married, wife loves me, both our kids loves me, and I have way more ability dealing with them than she does. Whenever it's time to bath, eat or sleep, she goes nuts because she isn't able to deal with them(5 and 2). I am currently jobless, but have a nonending stream of money coming in thanks to investment. She spends money like a retarded with addiction to cocaine.

Now comes the nice part: Whenever I want her to play nicer I talk about how I miss the time when I wasn't with her, that I had more money and sex was kinker. She goes full nazi wife(if you know what I mean). She wakes up earlier, cook, get everything done, and as soon as we leave kids at school, we get home and she jumps straight on top calling for sex.

She is not e very clever woman as most wemem, and I find it a very good activity to play with her intellect and emotions.

>> No.17384247

>>17384200
Based and checked

>> No.17384501

shit op
shit thread

>> No.17384776

>>17383720
What the ROI on kids

>> No.17384819

>>17384776
Seeing that you are taking care of when you are old and decrepit.

>> No.17384864

>>17384819
>implying I will live past 60-65

>> No.17384870

>>17378427

Just tell her you don't feel appreciated, you beta male bitch boy. All this passive aggressive nonsense.

>> No.17384911

>>17384819
Old generation maybe. Gen z and zoomers no. Most kids move seeking organizing their lifes, working....,hell some people only see their parents once a year, other put them in shitty foster home. Kids as a retirement plan is no more,better save money and get your self in good elder care facility when you're older.

Also you spend 100 of thousands on them, so they can come visit you from time to time, now imagine if you invested that money.

>> No.17384995

>>17378689
Yes.

>> No.17385431

>>17378482
What the hell is the old homeless looking guy on the couch in the back on the top floor doing?

>> No.17385803

>>17384819
I'll never get cucks like you.

"Let's force ourselves to live even when our bodies are totally failing us and waste money on physically good and healthy years by working more to pay for kids who are going to be good for dealing with our piss poor decision"

Great job, retard. Why do you want to live when your health is failing again, much less burden someone else with it? I hope you get cancer you faggot.

>> No.17385914

>>17378482
Based.

>> No.17385932

>>17382875
Soulless narcissist NPC

>> No.17385992

>>17385932
>can't answer a single point (out of which there are many to pick) so you respond with a half-sentence
NPC behaviour

>> No.17386723

>>17378427
What she learns from this 'experiment' will not be at all what you want to communicate.