/biz/ - Business & Finance

>>16112002
Just don't marry a dumbass money burner

>>16112002
I bet if you told this retarded cunt the truth that her husband should manage all of her finances her indoctrination would kick in and she'd call you all kinds of names.

Not worth it unless you want kids.

>>16112002
Bad money habits are hard to change. It's on him for not recognizing that she was shit with money before marrying her and giving her access to the family finances.
At least shes not a vapid cunt that expects her husband to allow her to be dumb with the money and is at least (so she says) putting an effort into doing better and gaining his trust back.

>>16112002
I read this in her stupid femoid english accent

>>16112002
>I'm not living an extravagant lifestyle

Wouldn't blame it on women though, my mother was always the the level headed one with money, almost stingy.
If it was for my father he would buy new shit all the fucking time.

Some people just are clueless about financial management or have lower impulse control when it comes to buying shits.

>>16112002
If my wife did this I would convert my net worth to Monero and leave in the night

>>16112002
>I certainly don't live an extravagant lifestyle but still run out of money
doubt

>>16112057
>it's on him
>it's his fault
>at least she's not a vapid cunt
>she's at least putting an effort even though clearly her main concern is getting his trust back debt be damned
>always defending a roastie
You gotta go back, beta white knight

>>16112002
My wife was making six figures for about five years before we had kids and hates spending money. She still makes about $50k/year doing freelance work from home and we don't have to put our kids in daycare. Not all women are terrible with money.

>>16112002
Marriage is the worst deal a man can make.
In modern marriage, you are literally locked into a "contract" with a woman who will devalue as well as lose sexual interest in you (scientifically proven btw) and if you want to break that contract then you will lose 50% of your stuff. The main problem is that the woman can also choose to break the contract anytime she wants (what usually happens because women initiate most of the divorces) and get half of your stuff.
Even if the woman seems "different" from the other ones, it's just safer to not marry at all.

>>16112002
From a purely financial standpoint marriage makes no sense unless the girl is richer than you or has really wealthy parents.

Honestly everyone makes mistakes. The fact that she's trying to make amends and figure out how to not get in debt makes me believe she's worth it. There are dime a dozen of women out there who couldn't do either the former or the latter

>>16112399
The dude paid off her debt once and then she got into debt AGAIN. He should dump her ass immediately

>>16112421
>helped me sort it out
is a far from paying off her debt though, but in this case it's likely.

>>16112163
>Its not a man's responsibility to vet the financial competence and emotional stability of a woman before he marries her.

>>16112049
Yeah it's basically pointless with no kids.
A lovely gesture or whatever, but not much meat behind it. Taxes and insurance I guess

>>16112002
>good woman
worth it

>bad women
you are better off being alone on an island with no water

>>16112551
>but not much meat behind it
gave me a good chuckle anon

>>16112333
>marrying american women
yikes

>>16112049
Yay then you can get divorced and the parents get joint custody so the kids have no concept of a real home or safety so they are mentally fucked with depression for life! Yaaaayyy!

>>16112002
Going through a divorce right now, anon.
1) Make sure she has friends. Other female friends that she's had for a while. And, also, because this is important, make sure those friends aren't crazy.
2) Make sure immediate family members aren't crazy. Mom or older sister are immediate ejection buttons.
Don't let yourself fall for any woman that doesn't clear points 1 adn 2. Also avoid ambition and jealousy in a woman. Stay away from career women.
Try to marry a school teacher. I should've married a school teacher.

>>16112030
Traditionally women actually run the finances in real traditional marriages. What else is the bitch going to do

how many chocolates did this woman buy?

>>16112399
Not everyone makes 20,000 pound mistakes. Especially after making the mistake once.

>>16112333
>lose sexual interest in you

idk i hear some people married for a while still fuck like rabbits, and others have dead bedrooms.

medium term relationships seem like the way to go, or escorts, but i dont want stds.

>>16112002
Not in western nations where women marry the government at 18.

If you and your partner are not co-dependent for survival then it is not actual marriage.

>>16112002
>Marriage...worth it or nah

>>16112002
If the person in op's pic was a man gambling with their shared funds and repeatedly getting them into debt, but is repentant now and looking to turn things around for good, /biz/ would give him some hard knocks and then offer good advice on how to do it. Lesson learned.

But since it's a woman everyone's quick to call her a dumb whore and an irredeemable retarded roastie. Really makes you think.

>>16114134
what's up shill
can you move out of /biz/?

>>16112002
Problem with marriage is that you cannot leave. A woman will not value you and will take you for granted. As a man, you will take your woman for granted. Without a marriage you know that if you start getting sloppy and gaining weight, she might leave you two weeks later by the time she notices.