/biz/ - Business & Finance

>>15987757
Nice

>>15987757
Same but I bought Chainlink

>>15987757
I've lived a decent life and I feel the same. Everybody does but maybe the low IQ.

f you would have lyfted since you were 13 you would have been swimN n pussy

>>15987757
just get a hooker to get over your complex bro. I had a pretty decent teens / early 20s but I've been a wizard for about 6 years now. I know from my previous experience that sex isn't really a big deal but got obsessed with "finding the right girl" who doesn't exist. now it's hooker time. I'll get back on the horse then.

>>15987757
>not just getting a sex doll

>>15987909

>tfw I did just that and all my hard work paid off in college, would have been a virgin autist otherwise

>>15987757
>It’s over.
It's not over...
Girls in their 20's will fuck guys into their 50's an beyond.

Why haven't you kissed a girl? You get nervous?
There are non obvious solutions to fix this.

You want my advice?
If so, what is the specific problem you are facing now?

>>15987757
The best time to start was 10 years ago. The second best time to start is now.

>>15988011
Im too scared to leave my room or talk to others, even as simple as sending emails. Cut my own hair, use self checkout line etc.

>>15988023
>Im too scared to leave my room or talk to others

So the girl thing is a symptom and not the actual issue.

TLDR
get effective therapy.
therapy will fix the involuntary nervous system responses that cause you to behave like this.
the problem is that most therapy has been shown to have almost no effect.

you want my effective therapy copy pasta?

>>15987757

It's overrated and if I could trade the amount of hours I've wasted with women for something actually productive I'd do it in a heartbeat.

>>15987909
Literally this

>>15988069
Yes I’ll read it

>>15988023
No one judges you anon. You're suffering from spotlight effect. I luvz u! Now go get therapy and learn exposure therapy and watch jordan peterson vids

>>15988084
>Yes I’ll read it
TLDR
Memories/nervous system responses get locked for life.
You need to update the nervous system responses in order to change the way you feel and behave

Below is my copy pasta.
Learning this stuff some of which is barely 6 months old, has been the best time investment I've had.

TLDR
You want to apply therapy techniques to yourself or with a therapist that trigger a type of neuro plasticity called memory reconsolidation.
The therapy techniques I recommend are:
EMDR
Internal Family Systems
Coherence therapy

Memory Reconsolidation in a Nutshell
https://youtu.be/cJrfsjT35UE

Bruce Ecker, MA, LMFT: Memory Reconsolidation
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vpqyvm0fM3Q

http://www.iaan.com.au/wp-content/uploads/2019/02/IJNPT_Vol6_issue1.pdf

Internal Family Systems (IFS): A guided meditation
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ew2w561Ge80

Reflections on The Cutting Edge of Trauma Therapy with Dr. Ricky Greenwald
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DCv7Ed7ETMM

Stress and How to Short-Circuit It with Amy Serin PhD
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gIsFxG6oydM

Why and How Consciousness Arises Mark Solms PhD
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F7WF5gzPG1k

Mark Solms, PhD: The Animal Within Us
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JfqVIG9bejU

Feel free to ask any questions you have.
PS. Watch all the videos on Youtube that contain Bruce Ecker he explains this topic the best.

>>15987757
>>15988023
>High school, college, all gone. All those prime, single women and I’ve never kissed a girl.
It's not your anxiety, you were just ugly all along.

>>15988069
>>15988120
Wait a second, if any of that bullshit actually works, why are you still on 4chan?

>>15987757
anons..I could potentially be in a similar predicament. Heres my current situation:

>25years old as of August
>Long Haul Trucker since July 2018
>no bills
>saved over $700 a week since Dec 2018
>I'm worth roughly 7k in precious metals and 30k in crypto.
In 5 years (not including my current investment portfolio)I'll have enough money to buy a home in cash. then I can quit my trucker job and do what I'm truly passionate about. Problem is I'll be 30 years old.

Part of me wants to go back home, get a local part time trucking job and go to community college. There I can learn a couple cool skills that i want to get into, but more importantly I have a chance on finding a potential wife before i hit 30. I feel as if after I hit 30 it will be too late for all that. Maybe kek will finally bless us with the golden bull eoy and problem will be solved. Anyways, any old regrettable boomers have some serious advice as to what I should do?

>>15988200
>Anyways, any old regrettable boomers have some serious advice as to what I should do?
Use your crypto gains to stop being ugly and get facial structure surgery.

>>15988152
>>15988162
sigh...
If your the next Elliot Rodger or Canadian Van Faggot please just KYS.

OP can't leave his house because of looks...?
Fucking brainlet

You are mentally I'll!

Shrink Rap Radio #644 – Childhood Abuse, Shame, Addictive Plastic Surgery with Mark Constantian MD by Shrink Rap Radio
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TsxYVll9gyM

>>15988200
>I have a chance on finding a potential wife before i hit 30.
sperm starts to degrade after 40. So just freeze some to hedge that.

Also getting married if you look at the odds aint great. It's 50%+ divorce rate but most of that is concentrated in the lower economic levels of society.

What are you really passionate about?

>>15988251
>no responses
Stay on 4chan you ugly faggot.

>>15988120
Thanks anon. I'm not in as bad of a funk as OP seems to he but i'll check this out eventually too

>>15988120
Cool thanks for this m8

>business and finance

>>15988299
>Stay on 4chan you ugly faggot.

This video is about you...
The Psychology of an Incel
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cWgc_4WyYew&t=0s

Please KYS before you hurt somebody...

>ugly
I've done modelling work...kek!

>>15988281
I understand marriage is a meme. But I really would want to find a long term relationship or at least find love while im still young. I'm gonna buy a 3 or 4 bedroom house with 2 baths rooms on at least 1acre of land. My passion is gardening. I want to grow shit. specifically weed, but I'm gonna have a big outdoor garden as well. Another reason I want to go to community college is because mine has a welding and wood working course. I would love to learn that skill and just create shit as a hobby. On top of that just a bunch of self sustaining living, raising chickens, worm farms, shit like that.

>>15988330
>ID is literally sJW

>>15988312
>>15988320
Glad to help

>>15988023
You should also read this.
The reason why you are afraid to go out is because you give value to other peoples opinion.
A child values his parents like a god, but an adult realizes that every adult is just a grown up child who often never became an adult and just tries to keep up appearances.
The truth is you should only care about yourself and your own happiness, and you will never get anything from outside.
You are the only one who can make yourself happy and nobody else outside can.

>>15988338
>I understand marriage is a meme
>But I really would want to find a long term relationship or at least find love while im still young
Just use asset protection and you'll be fine, llc to hold your assets etc.
If you can handle potentially losing everything then it's no big deal.

The biggest reason for divorce is money but even money is no guarantee it'll work.
This guy make $1mil per year and his wife left him.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fssFXlNk6vw

Sounds a like pretty chill life, do you live in the USA?
If so stay away from democratic run states and cities cause your property taxes will explode to pay the government workers pensions.

>>15988419
Southwest and I'm staying here. I live in Phoenix probably will move to the northern part of the state. The boomers here are wasting all the water on their golf courses. I fear a massive water crisis in the future and poorfags from cali keep moving here and raising the housing costs

>>15988312
>>15988320
Why are you thanking this retard? If the bullshit he's peddling actually worked he wouldn't be here.

>>15988486
>I fear a massive water crisis in the future and poorfags from cali keep moving here and raising the housing costs
The poorfag's from cali are escaping a coming hell on earth.
If you ever want to feel better listen to this guy talk about what is happening in cali

Victor Davis Hanson
https://www.hoover.org/publications/classicist

It's so bad it becomes absurd.

I hope you find a beautiful bride with a banging body and a kind soul.

>>15988544
Thanks anon. I'll check that out. I'm actually working in cali right now. The Bay area specifically, 30 miles south of Oakland. One of the dudes told me that he and his wife pay $2800 a month in rent for a 1 bedroom apartment. This guy is a simple factory worker, it blows my mind. If I eat at a fast food restaurant I'm paying a minimum of $11 for my meal. A large pizza and 8 piece wing from Domino's is $30 if I have it delivered. Two weeks ago PG&E shut power down on nearly a million people in the bay area to prevent potential wildfires. Some cities were out of power for several days, I got lucky and my hotel was unaffected (which is costing my company $3500 for the month). The next week we ended up getting a few wild fires and earthquakes. I dont understand why people love it here

>>15988640
I guess your experiencing the insanity for yourself and 95% of it is just bad government policies. NY city almost went bankrupt in the 1970's the same fate awaits CA I think.
>I dont understand why people love it here
It used to be a good place...
Well it's a good thing you have your escape plan in action.

same, anon. I'm turning 22 in 5 months and I'm trying to change myself as hard as I can before that.

>>15988371
Stop worrying what others think seems to be the key to getting what you want. And that only happens when you hit rock bottom. When you've lost everything, you realize that you only have yourself. And at that point you magically stop giving a shit.

>>15988844
Basically

>>15988844
finding confidence has a much more positive effect.

Holy shit imagine never getting laid in college. I was some basedboy retard on college and I managed to fuck some hot girls just because I have a decent jawline and I talked about Bernie Sanders. Nigger if you couldn’t get laid on college you don’t deserve to have sex as an adult.

>>15988640
We dont. Anyone white is moving out. spurned by tech companies who sold out Americans to import asians and indians.

I want old America back.

>>15987757
What does this have to do with /biz/ apart from having a wojak as pic

>>15988866
nice gets

My biggest problem right now as sort of a brad type is that I commute to school, so I can't invite chicks over and just let things happen. I do ok though.

>>15988120
Can I use this to go from average mental to chad mental?

maybe if chainlink moons it will be finally my turn to have sex

>>15988866
Wrong.

>>15988965
>average mental to chad mental?
Yes,
TLDR
It's about reducing the prediction error your internal models of the world have.

There is an important distinction between learning new skills and updating old models they are not done by the same physical processes in the brain.
https://youtu.be/vk8i_vYcLyo

>>15988866
show jawline

>tfw tall somewhat fit and decent looking
>tfw fapped too much as a teen and became avoidant

the destiny of a eternal coomer

>>15989062
So stop fapping then
god you guys are pathetic

>>15988965
>Can I use this to go from average mental to chad mental?
If you can find a chad who actually did it, then sure. Problem is, you won't.

>>15988120
That sounds like the cultiest Scientology tier bunch of words I've ever heard.

>>15988023
Healing the shame that binds you will be the book that heals you if you have the guts to read it. Its so brutal and deep cut that you might find yourself blocking out most of it. But force feed it to your mind. Its by John Bradshaw. You can find a pdf on google

If all you care about pussy there is nothing between you and a bonobo. We exist to do great things. God willing, you will accomplish something these degenerate monkeys can appreciate.