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15866274 No.15866274 [Reply] [Original]

How do I get a job if every where I apply they reject me? I have no money whatsoever and my parents feel like kicking me out soon. I'm 33 years old and have no savings and no place else to go.

Or is there something else I can do online that can make me money?

>> No.15866283
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15866283

Do you live under a rock?

>> No.15866294

>>15866283
No, my sadness gets in the way of me thinking correctly

>> No.15866315

>>15866294

Do you have a college degree?

Do you have a technical degree?

Or are you just another useless idiot?

>> No.15866329

lie, you get rejected because you have no work experience, lie lie kepp lying and lie more

>> No.15866348

>>15866315
No
No
I'm not an idiot, I'm still trying
>>15866329
It's a never ending curse. My huge gap in work history scares employers off.

>> No.15866536

1 word: Construction

>> No.15866591

>>15866536
I get fired from construction jobs because I'm too slow.

>> No.15866592

>>15866348
So fucking lie. Say you started a business and it failed. Or say you were in Africa doing charity work with poor black kids. Make shit up. As long as your story is straight they won't catch you.

>> No.15866595

33 no job living with parents. Holy fucking shit. Is this real life?
>>15866329
I work in HR, if you lie you go on blacklist never to be hired by anyone

>> No.15866610

Go work construction you worthless human being

>> No.15866623

>>15866610
Already did. in different construction sectors too. I always get fired. See >>15866591

>>15866592
Won't they find out?

>> No.15866629

>>15866592
I deal with people telling me insane fairy tales everyday. Muh started a failed business is so cringy, I always pretend to believe and ask retarded details just to drive them nuts

>> No.15866650

>>15866595
and this blacklist is shared by all companies?show me proof

>> No.15866664

>>15866595
>33 no job living with parents. Holy fucking shit. Is this real life?
I thought most people my age were also financially struggling like I am?

>> No.15866738

>>15866274
hey bro same here, i dont know what to do either lol, who wants to hire someone with no experience and no life whatsoever, so i just send out my applications and get turned down and contemplate my suicide lol :) Doomer life

>> No.15866764

>>15866738
not gonna lie it's demoralizing getting rejected so many times and fired so many times. I don't even care about a gf, I just want to keep a job. right now I'm just thinking of doing online work or something.

>> No.15866766

>>15866650
how possibly could it be shared by "all companies"? Use your brain, please. Its shared inside a specific environment. For example once you made a complete clown out of yourself in a car dealership, you are done in this area.

>> No.15866774

>>15866629
Im honestly convinced that its better to be unemployed, than to work as an HR or real estate agent. Both absolutely useless and leechy "professions"

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>that feel when branded as socially awkward on secret underground car dealer dark web

>> No.15866792

>>15866738
>>15866764
I think the main problem here is the fact that you actually dont have any work experience in your 30s. I dont know how is it possible (except being in prison) but in your situation aim for very... very low requirement job. Or better yet an entry level job. You will be really silly but well deserved.

>> No.15866799

>>15866785
Not gonna lie it's kinda weird. Like most of 4chan prides itself in being some type of outcasts but even here people brand others like me as losers who should kill ourselves.

>> No.15866821

>>15866774
because being on welfare is not a "leechy profession" kek. The level... the LEVEL in here stinks

>> No.15866833

>>15866799
The more vulnerability you show the more of a target you are for normies and unhappy failures. Don't assume everyone attacking you has their shit together, being an asshole is therapeutic to losers.

>> No.15866841

>>15866664
well yeah, but we're struggling with things like mortgages and car payments on a salary that's lower than it should be, not struggling to come up from zero

>> No.15866852

im not working in car dealership you absolute brainlets I only used that area as an example with clear"for example" because its mainstream entry level low requirement profession

>> No.15866866

>>15866833
>Don't assume everyone attacking you has their shit together
You're probably right, but I know at least some people here are in better positions than I am right now. Fuck this shit is complicated.
>>15866841
At least you went to college right anon?
>>15866852
I think that was just a meme from that anon.

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I'm 29 and never had a job in my life lol, didn't even graduate high school and I own Link haha. Just take neet bux from your government bro

>> No.15866912

>>15866891
I don't qualify for any assistance right now, not that I'd want it. I just want a job so I can move out. I feel like shit right now.

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>>15866866
anon, you new around here? you're showing your cards way too much. you sound like you need help-- this shit hole is the last place you're gonna find it

>> No.15866961

>>15866866
I guess so....I did online classes for 2 years. I don't have a degree or anything but at this point I've been writing code for long enough that it doesn't matter.
Not sure what you're expecting to hear. just start from where you are. the sooner you start, the sooner you'll get to where you want to go. pick a fucking direction and commit to it. a shit job is step one, but come on....that's just where your gonna start. it's not the end of the road for you. dream big and move towards it everyday.

>> No.15866966

>>15866912
so what did you do during all that time? just neet? are you autistic or something?
anyway it sucks but you have to apply for entry level jobs. try finding temporary jobs.. do you know how to present yourself, how to write a proper resume?

>> No.15866971

>>15866274
Buy link you dumb useless zoomer

>> No.15866987

>>15866953
>>15866961
>>15866966
sorry guys, I'm sorry. I just had no one to talk to about this. I'll continue looking for work now. Thanks for your time

>> No.15867012

>>15866987
careful anon....if you walk around telling everyone you're sorry all the time, they might just think your a sorry person.

>> No.15867018

>>15866966
>so what did you do during all that time? just neet? are you autistic or something?
I help my dad out at his work but he always berates me for the smallest things. it's inconsistent work too, so I'll work 1 week then have no work for a month.

>> No.15867040

>>15866987
it's ok i wasnt sarcastic.. legit asking what's your issue is... you have to suffer from some kind of mental illness.. depression, schizoid or avoidant personality disorder or I dont know what.

>> No.15867073

I feel for you anon, so let me help you out. Go to therapy. You are stuck in a self inflicted rut. You seem to have issues with anxiety and depression, get that shit solved first and everything else will start to fall into place. Focus on your internal well being and your soul before you worry about how you're going to make it in this fucked up world. You are not a loser and you are worth fighting for. You are just the only one who can fight for you. This world is backwards, but if you want to live in it you gotta make some changes and adapt, brother. Start taking pride in the fact that you are a man, society hates men and since we were born society has forced men to basically be women. Be a man, lift weights, do body weight exercises at home, whatever it takes. Get in touch with your masculine power. Go subscribe to this youtube channel, and read Wild at heart by John Eldredge. Here's the youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCuf5XsjvLduPMyPnw6WQ8Uw Godspeed, sir. You deserve better for yourself

>> No.15867076

>>15867018
seems like you live in a dysfunctional family which is the source of your problems... well you can put this in your resume at least, since it's work.

>> No.15867077

>>15866799
That's because people are retarded. Without going full hippie, just focus on yourself and whats right for you. Funny enough thats where most hippies and neets fail too, they have some misleading notions that what must be right for you is natural and good, what it actually means is more along crowleys line of thinking of do what thou wilt, if you need money and the most obvious way you can think of to get money you need is working then go get a job, its clearly what you want. If you don't want a job but want money and are ok with earning less for a bit then find ways to make money without being a wageslave. Do as thou wilt.

With that being said most people who pride themselves as being weird use it as an identity thing. they actively try to be weird, when really being weird is just a label you will recieve if your actions are in line with what you really want instead of in line with what everyone else wants.

Lots of rambling but really just look into Gnosticism and some of the thinking behind luciferianism. If your going to take "the path less traveled" you need to be ready, since its not the same path as everyone else there will not be braindead platitudes and braindead explinations for overcoming your problems, you will need to do the thinking yourself.

>> No.15867120

Thanks anons, not gonna lie I'm tearing up right now but I appreciate your words. Gotta start making some progress somehow right? Thanks again, I'll check out John Eldredge too

>> No.15867148

>>15867120
Don't forget all books and course material you want can be gotten for free from mega, libgen, torrent trackers etc.

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>>15867120
good luck op. keep your chin up. we're all gonna make it

>> No.15867167

>>15866891
me3
30 yo living with parents and has never had a job, litterally never seen a paycheck in my life.

>> No.15867180

>>15866274
Do you have a car? Restaurants are always hiring for delivery places. Go get a gig and then use use your money to go all in on Chainlink faggot

>> No.15867190

>>15866274
Security guard. They hire with no experience if you get a guard card.

>> No.15867215

>>15866591
Then start with losing the weight anon. It'll take like 90 days guaranteed. Then go apply for a manufacturing job, we take no experience guys.
Fatties that aren't bankers or lawyers are fucked out here. We fire fat people in under 6 months constantly because fat people just aren't worth paying
T. Manufacturingfag

>> No.15867226

being unemployed and being rejected from interviews is hard..especially if you already have low self esteem because of your parents. try to check unqualified temporary jobs. maybe try nursing assistant or some tasks that people dont want like working with old people (cleaning them etc).
once you got that job make sure you are very good at it.

>> No.15867236

>>15866664
No. We're struggling to get enough for a down payment on our first homes and keeping our credit above 750 in our mid 20's. You were supposed to start working at 16 dude

>> No.15867287

>>15867148
Also Khan academy is free app that offers a wide range of college course material.

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>>15867077
>Gnosticism and some of the thinking behind luciferianism

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>>15867379
That being said.
Get /fit/, read Meditations by Marcus Aurelius or basically anything by Seneca.
I don't recommend psychologists as they are often kiked.
Do you have a catholic (SSPX, FSSP or other traditionalist) or orthodox parish near you?
Their priests are trained in counseling (though they call it offering care for your soul) and do it for free.
Even if you are an atheist they will not reject you. Just be open and honest about yourself.
Should you become religious and join the parish you might develop a sense of community and belonging. This will also help you with your anxiety.
You can also watch stuff by Bishop J Fulton Sheen on YouTube. https://youtu.be/RRKgV6Li6mI

Regarding jobs, do what the other anons recommended. Write that you helped your father and start with basic entry level stuff. Work yourself up from there.

Try to improve yourself a tiny bit every day, no matter how miniscule, and you will start to develop content and confidence.

Remember, we are all going to make it.

>> No.15867501

>>15867379
Both are really the basis of Christianity. Lucifer as a concept existed in Judaism long before jesus christ came around. The gnostic gospels in particular are very interesting, the one thing I think they lack that traditional christianity has is more calls to serve your fellow men. Yes do what you want, but only through each man giving as much as he can will we reach peace.

>> No.15867550

>>15866348
protip: lie. everyone else does. you were "freelancing"

>> No.15867601

>>15867501
>Both are really the basis of Christianity. Lucifer as a concept existed in Judaism long before jesus christ came around. The gnostic gospels in particular are very interesting
I am aware of that but I would not recommend sending OP, who is currently in a dark place in his life, down this rabbit hole.
This is stuff you research when you have a strong moral basis and confidence in order to expand your knowledge.

>> No.15867660

>>15867601
That is where we disagree. I think if you inheritely believe in a spiritual side and a duality both, then it only makes sense you will gravitate towards the teachings that put you where you belong. Personally researching into Gnosticism has created that moral base in my life, the moral base that my thoughts and actions are timeless and can truly effect the world around me in much bigger ways then one would think, thus I treat my fellow men and myself with the reverence deserved of such sacred beings as ourselves.
Im just saying it could help OP. Your right it is a catch 22 in a sense, a strong moral base will help you think through information presented without falling prey, but at the same time religious knowledge is knowledge that will help you build that moral base in the first place. If it were not for strong men showing me how much more information and experience life holds through gnosticism then I saw, then I would probably be in the same place as OP with the same kind of thoughts.
Either way I think we can agree OP is someone who would benefit from a moral base in his life.

>> No.15868204

A lot of the jobs seems boring and unfulfilling but i see smiles in people faces who does them. Like coffee shop attendants. For me it's hard to imagine being happy doing it. I'm severely unqualified for good jobs and bad to middle range seems severely boring, and i can't be happy doing it. How do i change my mindset ? My face developed sad eyes through long years of cynicism seeing everything as shit. How do i change my mindset towards more positive one myself ?

>> No.15868401

>>15868204
depend on your age, im the same but 30. i just cant change, past a certain point its too hard. not everybody is suit for this rat race where you have to be a winner.

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>>15866274
Embrace the earn to code meme

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>> No.15868774

>>15868767
stop making it harder for those of us already doing it

>> No.15868802

>>15868204
A book called learning optimism helped me.

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>>15868774
>stop making it harder for those of us already doing it
relax anon you'll be fine.
The amount of coders is doubling every 5 years...

If your worried aim to learn to code quantum computers.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dGDlDH5CAPE

>> No.15868844

>>15867190
>guard card

>> No.15868850

Prince's trust in UK
Supermarkets.

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>>15867494
im not surprised biz suggesting anything between 'meditation', priests and exorcists for ap :))