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I like living in a minimalist way and cluttered home just makes me feel depressed... but my wife is a horder. What do?

>> No.13913568

>>13913553
>wife
Cuck

>> No.13913572

>getting married in the 21st century
Yikes!

>> No.13913573
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>>13913553
communicate

>> No.13913581

>>13913553
All women are hoarders

>> No.13913597

My parents were the same

Got a bigger place and she got her own woman cave which was able to contain the clutter

>> No.13913602

>>13913553
Yeah you should just talk with her about it.You will sutely find some things which you can throw/give away.
Or maybe some rooms which are to be kept minimalist and some rooms where she can put her stuff

>> No.13913612

Cuck

>> No.13913957

Beat some sense into her. Use a net of oranges for minimal bruising.

>> No.13914073

I realized a home matches someone's brain. Mine used to be slightly messy so I still had inner work to do. Maybe your wife holds on to lots of past events that she needs to let go of. Speak to professionals or meditate together.

Clutter will affect your depression I believe.

>> No.13914435

>>13913553
Grow some balls.

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>>13913581
>>13913581

>> No.13914476

>>13913957
Unironically this doesn't always work.

>> No.13914483

>>13913553
take her to goodwill and leave her in a corner, then quickly move house, just in case she gets returend. You'll both be happier

>> No.13914498

>>13914459
Hey, that's me!

>> No.13914978

>>13913553
Just smack her around a bit. She'll get the idea, eventually.

>> No.13915024

>>13913553 (OP)
>wife
Cuck

>> No.13915073

>>13913553

Make her hoard loads in her mouth lol

>> No.13915097

>>13913581
all women are hoars

also why dont you get a house with your own 'study' that you can chill in away form the clutter or convert your basement or something

>> No.13915106

>>13913553
Sell or throw away her shit when she’s not home. Deny knowing what happened to it if asked. Thats what I do to my girlfriend. In reality if they haven’t used it in 6 months, they’re not going to miss it.

>> No.13915236

>>13913553
Tell her what she is doing is making you sad

Watch as she tells you it's homely and sentimental and useful, yup even that pile of plastic chinese take away tubs

Getting married is the biggest mistake anyone can make next to shared bank accounts

>> No.13915292

>>13915236

It's even worse in states with community property (California is one of them). Even if you try to squirrel away money in separate accounts, that is construed by the court as seeking an "unfair advantage" over the other partner. No matter who the breadwinner is, half is assumed to be split. And then alimony on top...

>> No.13915318

>>13913553
find a middle-ground