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THE LEFT HAND OF GOD

>>10859645
a 2006 German study showed that women's sexual attraction/libido decreases significantly once they feel they are in a secure relationship.

Cmon I know you’re not all sexless NEETs

>>10860185
>tfw all I want is a woman that I can love and be fully honest with
>want to share experiences and open up, be lovey and all that other mushy stuff
>am completely aware of their true nature and realize how bad this is to do for a man
>have a gf right now who I am head over heels in love with but I have to constantly put on a hard exterior
>am cold and distant, give her rough sex
>she loves all this but every once in a while tries to talk to me and wishes I would open up more
>tfw I know the second I let my guard down and do this she would instantly view me as unattractive and leave
>tfw I will never be able to experience love, or a relationship, or women the way I want to because it's actually impossible
>tfw my entire life is fake and my wants, hopes, and dreams don't line up with the facts of reality so I need to keep this up until the day I die if I want to be with women
I'm going to break soon.

>>10859645
Show them your small dick.

>>10860351
Correct, but we also don't need to manipulate insecurities in order to get laid

>>10860609
It's okay fren, things will work out somehow

>>10860185
That doesnt mean theyll still have sex with you if they dont feel secure

>>10860609
It doesnt even work that way.
I did that to my wife of 2 years and she cheated on me

>>10860609
retarded strategy dawgg. You're taking it too seriously.

open up to her now and then. Do some romantic shit now and then. she will love it, and as long as it's a rare sort of thing she's not going to just get used to it and lose respect and interest in you lol.

Girls want a guy who is more mature, emotionally stable and in charge, but they also fucking love romantic shit for 3 reasons:
1: it taps into that hollywood programming they get as a child
2: it makes them feel special/beautiful/loved/whatever
3: they get to show it off to their friends, wether it be in a conversation or an instagram post of the flowers and cute shoes you got her or whatever

i could go into detail but i'm not going to. Look, relax a bit. Don't tell your girlfriend you wanna start wearing her panties or something but if you wanna snuggle up and talk about your dreams and shit once a month or so it will be good for your relationship. Don't take the memes so fuckin seriously

>mfw broke but 6'3 and good-looking
>mfw you can't buy my looks

They say money but happiness... I say a 10/10 girlfriend that doesn't love you for your money truely buys happiness

>>10860915
Don't post yourself on 4chan, it's embarrassing.

>>10860915
>woman loves you for your money
>woman loves you for your looks
You'll never know what its like to be unattractive + poor and wind up with a 10/10 with rich parents who are fine with you for your personality and creative side.

>>10860915
> mfw no total bottom bf like this (no homo)

You'll find someone who makes you happy. Just got to be patient man.

>>10860915
there is a evolutionary reason a girl will marry a guy that is average in looks but above average in income, net worth, status compared to a good looking broke man.

>>10860915
If you are indeed the guy on this picture, what the hell are you doing in 4chan?
This site isn't for people like you. Please go back to Instagram/Facebook/whatever it is you normal people do.

>>10860609
Imagine being so afraid of being hurt because of online misogyny by virgin autism that you’re going to ruin one of the most beautiful things to happen to you. Pity.

>>10860915
why the fuck are you on 4chins. probably one of those vechain faggots arent you..

>>10860915
You realize most of us are unironically early to mid 20s virgins, right? Why the fuck are you hanging out with us on this shithole website? Most of us are here to cope and get the bare minimum socialization required to not go insane. Please leave us to our own devices.

>>10861274
Not true. While we may all be spergy there's a huge cross over between biz and fit. Lots of attractive and ripped autists here

>>10860609
this guy knows shit

>>10860915
yep, this is kind of sadness only intelligent people can experience.
I could suggest you to dive into MBTI topic, if you'll put enough effort it will change everything in your life

>>10860915
>He shaves his body hair
Faggot

>>10860957
>woman loves you for your money
>woman loves your for your looks
>woman loves you for your personality and creative side

You'll never know what its like to unattractive + poor + have a shit personality + be uncreative and still wind up with a 10/10 with rich parents who are in mad love with the way you smell like

>>10860609
Be careful opening up, anon. For there be dragons. Pretty soon she's going to want more and more and then wonder where the magic went. The moment you really show vulnerability, you will lose. It's shitty, I know, but it's the truth.

>>10861494
I wish you were wrong but this just happened to me

>>10861494

You have to show jusssssst enough to convince them that they have their hooks in you and promptly shut all that shit off. If you're a perfect stone wall she'll think you'll easily toss her aside when convenient, but if you overdo a vulnerable emotional display at all you're on a one way fast track to faggot town in her eyes. Thing to remember I suppose is that she doesn't really care, she just needs to have that reassurance that you're emotionally invested in her on occasion. The pussy game is ridiculous.

>>10861430

Unironically would rather have a completely overwhelming and intoxicatingly good smell than good looks. I hugged this girl who I had zero romantic interest in the other day and she smelt so good I have a crush on her for the last 3 months.

>>10861274
you're projecting anon. Dont do that, it's uncouth.

>>10860609
You fell for a bunch of incel TRP memes anon. Putting up a bad boy facade is actually the biggest sign of weakness. A good woman (not some roastie with daddy issues) will actually love you even more if you open up, but only if your true self is a confident and virtuous man. No amount of though guy charade will be able to mask a pathetic manchild forever.

>>10860915
you're way overwhelmed with your own looks. for women it's 10% of the attraction. you will find a 1 in 250 maybe that settles you for a while, but even that will be a total whore and pass you up soon for another

looks won't put you in a good league as a male at all. and women who 'love' you because you spend 1 hour /day on your looks aren't anymore genuine than women who 'like' you because you spend money on them

>>10861801
it's actually courteous to make that assumption, because there's really no point in being here unless you're a social misfit
in a choice between "getting dealt a shit hand in life" and "being absolutely retarded with your choice of online communities", outing yourself as the latter is moronic

>>10862003
>For women it's 10% of the attraction

You've never made eye contact with a girl have you?

>>10861060
All my life wondering why girls dont like me, wondering why they dont like sex, wondering why they seem to always be alone, wondering why they dont come talk to People like me... well 15 years later after high School now I know why... AWALT, now my eyes are open

>>10861893
>a good woman
What is a good woman?
> A good woman (not some roastie with daddy issues) will actually love you even more if you open up
How are you so sure about this?

>>10860609
There must be women who truly love soft hearted guys. Even if it would not be a norm there are so much freaks and all that, so there must be. I bet you still need to have self respect, tho.

Look like brad pitt

>>10862043
4chan is actually an excellent community if you know how to differentiate between bullshit and quality information (a skill which you can hone on 4chan).

Remember that for 99% of the retarded posts here, there's that 1% that could be life changing quality information, and that you'll find here earlier than anywhere else.

I have an incredible bullshit detector now from 4chan, and if you listened to it about BTC and ETH you'd be a millionaire many times over.

Just ignore the autism and use the endless (mostly shitty) ideas here to train your brain.

>>10861373
>bodyhair isn't gay as fuck
imagine

>>10863704
the 1% of smart people that aren't shilling shitcoins all day and told you to buy bitcoin in 2011 are buried by the amount of shitposts anyway

and you dumb asses would have ignored the advice as you always do

hell you were on dennial just a year ago, you cannot be saved

>>10860609
just play it hot and cold

>>10863765
It takes time to develop the skill, but it happens.

>>10863765
Based. I’ve trained my skill

>>10860609

4chan has ruined you. just b urself bro.

>>10860915
you look like a self absorbed fag

>>10860609
Women cant love

You are welcome

>>10863704
>>10863765
Agreed there's major wisdom to be found on the 4chinz sometimes. Lol I remember the monero shills in summer 2016 too. Had wanted to get in on ETH and XMR back then but barely had any fiat to spare. Oh well.