/biz/ - Business & Finance

>>10792342
If you have to ask, just leave your gf, she's not worth losing your career.

Career anon. Is this a trick question?

If you love her, make her move too

>>10792355
I'm trying, but she always finds an excuse. The main excuse for now is
>le no job possibilities in that city
I went as far as to say that i will look for a job for her, but i dunno lads.

>>10792342
>I'm all in ETH.
not gonna make it anyway

>>10792342

Some people are to afraid to be alone, bring her or go solo you dont want to regret it.

>>10792342
If she isn't willing to go with out now, she'll leave you eventually. She should be making babies and helping you build a family together, not her bullshit """""career""""".

If you dump career for gf. You're putting her on the highest pedestal and portrait yourself as pussy unable to seize an opportunity.
You stay with gf, you will loose her.
Not that career doesn't suck, but
You fucked up the moment you asked her for opinion. Wtf Anon.
Should've been your decisive statement. She only has to follow.

>>10792342
Career, retard.

>>10792342
Women are temporary. Trust me man, I was working for $10 an hour being held down by a woman. Her leaving me was the best think that ever happened to me, I took an offer overseas and now make 180k a year.

Don't let a woman ever stand in the way of your finances. A better woman will worm her way in with that check coming in.

>>10792342
it's a shit test
which you are miserably failing

>>10792404
How is it a shit test if I consider taking the job? I just don't want to lose somebody that was with me for a long time over a simple "career talk".
Although i argue that her tantrum is all bullshit, since there's only a small distance separating us and it's not going to be that way forever.

>>10792430
she's trying to control you
you are pure onions

Real man follow his path.
If your girlfriend loves you she will follow 100% eyes blind.
Tell her what you deeply want, you're a grown man if you can handle a good job / good career so act accordingly.

it is only 100 km that shouldn't be a big deal. If this is truely your girl, i don't see a reason why she wouldn't support you.

Do a cost-benefit analysis and then discard it and do this >>10792455

>>10792468
He obviously doesn't really care about her, otherwise he wouldn't ask advice on his relationship to a bunch of anonymous strangers.

>>10792473
You know what's really weird and what doesn't let me sleep at night these days?
I think you're right.
I mean, it's not like I hate her or I don't care about her at all, but I used to care a lot more. Now all i want is more money and success. Fuck me, I think I turned into an animal. This system is killing us.

if your new employer finds out you left your gf for this job you will probably be fire for being a psycopath. so unless you're willing to keep up this lie for the rest of your time at this new job, do not do this.

>>10792342
In 10 years will you more regret not taking the job or losing the gf?

>>10792342
John is that you?
Also take the career, dont be a cuck. Get her pregant and get her to move with you.

>>10792367
Drop her she sounds like an unambitious basic bitch

Man 100km is fucking nothing. Tell your bitch to be less of a cunt and be proud and happy for you.

You are going to take this fucking job anon. This is a once in a life time opportunity and your are ONLY 100km away from each other.

That's nothing if in case she doesn't want to move. You guys can see each other easily in the weekends.


Bitches come and go. Anon she's not the one if she's not willing to make any sacrifices. She could at least be supportive and you guys can try it out.


Seems like she's just a selfish cunt anon. Any of my girlfriends would of 100% supported me or at least would of been fine with giving it a try.


You will hate yourself for the rest of your life if you don't do this once you guys split. Don't let her hold you back. You are better than this anon.

>>10792342
How is the other city ? Is it a shithole ?

>>10792342
I have the same decision to make, except for me it is choosing between 200k and my gf.

For a job or muh career, fuck no!!! Your gf is way more important than some stupid job anon. I'm even strongly considering giving up 200k to stay with my gf

>>10792526
>Now all i want is more money and success. Fuck me, I think I turned into an animal. This system is killing us.
Money will not make you happy, the most important things in life are family,friends and gf. Don't let the autist virgins here tell you otherwise

>>10792468
this. a relationship that can't survive 100km is no relationship. like nigga just skype on evenings and make the trip on the weekend. pick the job, you're going to break up within 2 years anyway

>>10792838
There is no difference between 100km and 1000km, in both cases you can only see each other on the weekends

>>10792804

>>10792858
>t. brainwashed american who think life is only about money money money

Go fuck yourself, at least I have the option of choosing between 200k and a gf. You have neither

>>10792869
>>10792804

t. huge retard

>>10792872
t. loser who never had a good gf

>>10792342
Career. Men don't hit their high point until mid 30s. The type of women you will get later is much better.

>>10792367
>if she loved you, she'd be happy you got said "once in a lifetime offer."
>if she loved you she'd want you to purse your dreams and aspire for more.
>if she loved you, she'd be willing to relocate.
>if she loved you, she would be looking for jobs in new city.
>if she loved you, she'd be willing to follow you in hopes of starting a family.

See where I'm going with this OP. You're going to have more hatred for yourself if you don't take this opportunity, then if you stay where you are to appease someone who clearly isn't interested in your and hers best interest. Drop the deadweight, listen to >>10792779.

>>10792882
Bullshit lmao, the best time to get a woman is as young as possible, before you have any money or career

>>10792890
Fuck off kike shill. You don't know shit.
When you are in your low 30s you can pull a high quality early mid 20s WHITE woman.

>>10792879
Says the guy who act like like a cringy virgin....
I mean read your own posts they're cringy as fuck. I seriously doubt you ever had a girlfriend, or even had sex.

>>10792903
Go get married to your career fucking stupid american

>>10792913
In what way do I act like a cringy virgin? I just said OP should not pick some stupid job if that means he might lose his gf

I have fucked more girls than you, been in 2 long term relationships

>>10792924
It's because everything you said is dead obvious to anyone who has been in a relationship and you make it sound like you have some kind of special knowledge, which is a typical marker of someone who never experienced the thing.

>>10792342
You can always find a new gf. Huge opportunities to make a lot of money are rare, take it!

>>10792342
Your GF might fear that if you take the job, you will be out of her league.

>>10792941
I never claimed to have any special knowledge

What I do have, is experience. Almost as soon as I made money(1MM+) I realized that my relationships are more important than money.

>>10792342
How self-limiting women can be LMAO.

>>10792342
Women are a dime a dozen. Most are assholes/bitches who just want your money. If she doesnt want you to move its probably because she wants to control you op. Just take the opputunity.

>>10792342
big career
Best of Luck OP

Your GF is literally holding you back...doesn't seam like a relationship...you can do better

>>10792367
Never let a woman hold you back from success. I guarantee you won't still be with her in ten years no matter how much you think you love her now.

>>10792879
>t.some cuck trying to convince himself that any major city isn't full of nice, attractive, good quality women that would make a great girlfriend

How does it feel knowing you have to look over your girlfriend's son while she's getting dicked down by Lamar on your bed? >>10792879

>>10792342
I've lived 200km away from my gf for the last two years. It's tough, but if your relationship is strong enough then you'll manage. Almost every weekend either I'll drive there or she'll catch the train here.

I think it's important to have a partner who supports your career. It's not an either-or choice.

My gf moved across country and I refused because wagecuck. At the time, I though the same memes that are posted in this thread. Another girl never came along though and I have never felt that love again.

>>10792869
I have to sacrifice 8 hours a day to make money to live. Yeah, money is important, mr einstein.

>>10793009
>How does it feel knowing you have to look over your girlfriend's son while she's getting dicked down by Lamar on your bed
My gf hates niggers even more than me


And no every city is definitely not full of good women. What I want
>cooks, cleans and does all household chores
>capable of being a good mother
>loving and caring
>sex at least once daily, must do exactly what I want anytime (deepthroat/swallow/anal etc)
>no social media
>had max 1 previous partner
>no one night stands
>stays thin and takes care of herself
>attractive
>does not care about money/status at all
>plays vidya with me
>high intelligence
>no bars, or other normie shit
>doesn't drink or smoke
>would do pretty much anything for me

These types of girls are rare as fuck, and I have one. Would you really choose some fucking job over that? She even makes me handmade pepe cards for birthdays etc

>>10792973
that's because you're a normie
normies don't have internal depth so your satisfaction is necessarily derived from external motivators

>inb4 "i've been on 4chin since 1994"
quality, not quantity. normiedom is a state of mind, symptoms include excessive use of first-person pronoun and overemotional involvement in arguments

>>10793021
Has there ever been times you thought it wouldn't work out? How much longer will you be long-distance?

>>10793024
That's the point I'm arguing but they all call me a cuck virgin

>>10793055
Of course it is important, but is it so important to make MORE of it that you would sacrifice all other relationships for it.

>>10793090
I'm really not a normie, I don't understand what "internal depth" has to do with the topic

>>10793105

4chan cant answer the question. As you get older you always look back at the roads you didn't take and wonder.

>>10793105
If you already know what the right answer is for you, then you don't need strangers to validate it.
I just happen to think that love dies eventually anyway, but the stock market goes up in the long run. haha.
I hope your love doesn't die. Good luck. Time to sleep!

>>10792342
If you don't do this you'll regret it and probably end up resenting her for it. Follow your dreams senpai.

>>10793153
Thanks anon

>>10792468
Bluepill per excellence
> he counts on female loyalty
It doesn't work that way. She will need dick and attention and time spent with "loved one"
As soon as she meets Chad it's over and OP being away will serve as an excuse.
I violated girls with their rich bfs away. These guys will never know.
Long distance for a secondary girl is ok, but if you plan a family with her it's foolish.

>>10793105
No, I guess I always knew it would work out (and still do). How much longer we're long distance will depend on work, but with a new opportunity that's come up it hopefully won't be longer than about another year or so.

>>10793218
Sounds good, what would you say are the most important things in making a ldr work?

>>10793193
it is only a 1 hour drive at best to refresh her needs. if she can't handle this then it wasn't ment to be.

>>10792342
lol dude, what will you do when she leaves you 2 months after you rejected the job offer?
can you still live with yourself then?

>>10793332
I honestly have no idea. We're not really long distance though, because we still see each other every weekend.

Just focus on having a good relationship, and then you'll find a way to work with any difficulties that arise.

>>10793406
Thanks, maybe I could choose both the girl and the money then

>long distance relationships
lmao, just dump her

As a younger guy I thought career was more important, but as I get older I realize you can't really buy a girl+love later with money. Now I even cancel some work days to see a girl, because puss is the best thing in the world and you don't have enough time on earth to enjoy it, srs

>>10792342
career
domp immediately if she interferes with your moneyz

>>10793577
this

>>10793079
you and your missus sound like some insufferable autistic faggots

>>10793846
Why? Would you not want a girl like that?

>>10793079
I have a girl like that too anon. Godspeed m8.

>supposed to be chasing money but you chasing bitches
It’s like you don’t even listen to young dolph

>>10793974
That's great anon
now tell me would you leave her for money? Am I just being a cuck for wanting to choose her over money?

>>10792342
Brah dump that stupid thot and advance ur career

>>10792825
Honestly OP this guy is right I have more money than anyone my age I know besides a few big time drug dealers and kids that ended up being professional athletes and I still feel miserably alone at times craving female companionship. I have friends but most have moved to other states, buying new cars and clothes can temporarily stifle the feelings but they come back and hit you hard at night when you are alone in your bed. The problem is knowing women’s true nature and that unless you find a unicorn she won’t love you the way you love her and want her to treat you. The human condition is never being satisfied I suppose the grass is always greener family is the only thing that’s usually constant.

>>10794103
With the divorce rate upwards of 70 percent? No, most women just want males to shell out some sperm and money then shell out money for life because of the sperm they shelled out on you. Dokt trust american women. Order a russian bride.

>>10794078
>now tell me would you leave her for money?
No, I wouldn't.
>Am I just being a cuck for wanting to choose her over money?
No, I wouldn't say so. The girl you described is extremely rare in the current year and isn't something you can just throw away. Regardless, she should follow you wherever you go in life if she really loved you. That includes taking a job that you've always been wanting. Explain this to her and how good accepting this offer will make you feel.

>>10792342
Discount your expected savings after taxes by the long term treasury rate. Multiply by .25 (50% divorice rate * half your savings during relationship). Now discount additional expenses due to having a gf/wife by the long term treasury rate. Add both values and thats how much having a long term relationship and getting married will cost you.

Now is that woman worth X amount to you?

If she doesn’t want you to succeed then dump her ass

>>10794145
I 100% agree with you our society used to be designed to keep their parasitic nature in check but we now enable it giving them all of the advantages with none of the downsides of “equality”. I swear I wish there was a pill or technique to kill the need for the meme known as “love” between a guy and a girl. The red pill on women is worse than the Jews its heartbreaking seeing their true nature and thinking that you will never find that special person when you already now how terrible of a place the world can be. It’s probably better to walk with these feels than get divorce raped though, maybe an older anon who’s been JUST’d by their ex wife can weigh in.

>>10794303
You forgot to factor in the cost of kids

>>10792342
>Making hundreds of thousands of more dollars so that you attract even higher quality partners that wouldn't even dare to tell you this bullshit your current gf is spewing


GEEEE, I DON'T KNOW OP, SOUNDS LIKE A HARD DECISION HMMMMMMMMMM

>>10792342
Ok, I will fall for the bait. Whats wrong with bersa? Great quality for low price and LIFE WARRANTY. If your gun breaks in 70 years, they will repair it for free. No question asked. And IF they fail, because they practically never do.

>but if you spend 20x times the money you can get something better
Sure, you will. Just like in everything.

>>10794169
Thanks for the perspective, unfortunately she would not be able to move with me in my case