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>>13394166
Been married 7 years next month. 2 kids. I met my wife when we were both 18 and virgins. I married her because she wasn't a degenerate and she had aspirations to have kids and be a mother. Its what I was looking for, and it has worked out incredibly well. We have many similar opinions and tastes on things, there is very little conflict or argument between us. Only thing I can report is somehow I've developed an attraction to her as she's gotten chunkier with kids. She's around pic_related and I can't explain why, but I like it.

Its not for everyone though. It all depends on what you want out of life. I've always known since I was young that I wanted to raise a family like the one I grew up in, and so I'm doing it. Many intentionally stay away from it for a couple of reasons - either they don't want kids and families out of life, or they absolutely don't trust women. I don't really judge them for the 1st thing, and I certainly can't blame them for the 2nd. Vulnerability is guaranteed with a woman, and even good judges of character can be deceived by women.

It's a risk some people are willing to take and which some aren't. Really the only people I have a problem with are people who don't really want to get married, or shouldn't get married, who do anyway. They're the vast majority of people who talk about how unpleasant and unhappy marriage is, and the cause of most divorces, remarriages, and 2nd, 3rd, 4th onward divorces as well. They're like someone who doesn't like seafood, but they agree anyway to go to dinner with everyone at Red Lobster and willingly order seafood. Then they spend the rest of the dinner complaining that seafood doesn't taste good and asking why you didn't go somewhere else for dinner.

Oh, also it's a myth that you stop having sex. My wife and I fuck about 4 days per week on average when she's not on the rag.