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I am a 23 yo virgin hermit.
Spend age 13-22 in total reclusion.
I missed a lot of experiences and lived in my head, spending all my time on the internet.

I thought if I leave my parents home and get a grip, my life will change.
I moved out of there, lived in some dorm for some time, now live with other roommates.
If you lived alone your whole life and now sharing your place with strangers and manage to deal with them, I forced myself to it
I never had a job, and now got one. After sleeping in for years I now have to be reliable


The thing to all of this is I am still functionally depressed. I never made friends with my roommates or can relate with them. I can work with my coworkers but that’s it. I guess I have a lot of stress all through the day because I have untreated social anxiety and I always good except the worst outcome, always look at the negative first.

Regardless of my all of my progress I can’t still make friends, or enjoy working, or be able to meet girls or find the first girlfriend for me. I have 0 game and have no experience with girls. I paid for premium services on all dating apps but got no matches. I don’t convey social status or genuine social standing
There is no point in working if I can’t get any of that. I am thinking to just move back to my parents and start my on my business or trade again. Now with proper motivation. Instead of being defiant, knowing I won’t proceed at my job
But knowing that I am thankful for the experience and being proud of myself for doing the move and at least try

Or should I get into therapy and take meds to try to get more functional?
There is no one who will possibly would put me under the wings and teach me shit.
Just won’t happen there is no point in working and living with room mates if I still no progresssing anyways