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You guys are the smartest board so please for once, allow this. I want to get over the fear of approaching beautiful women, especially but not limited to real life. I want to be able to message any girl online as well.

I want to try to describe what happens to me, and then maybe perhaps someone can assist me or can relate. When I see a beautiful woman, I get nervous. It's not even that I'm thinking any thoughts when this happens.

I just feel paralyzed. It's like a sweeping feeling of paralysis that enters my body and I literally just can't make the move. I don't know what to say. I feel very uncomfortable. It feels very unnatural to even think of approaching someone. I'm also not white or black and I feel insecure about my race sometimes.

How do I get rid of this? I've listened to advice over and over year after year, watched many videos, even read a book, with the same end result. Keep in mind that at this point, I don't even care about rejection (or maybe it's just a lie I tell myself). Just being able to do this will make me infinitely happier even if I get rejected over and over.

Thank you. If you have any other questions, feel free to ask.